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"I think “genuine” is not exactly the word I’d use in such context." I sense a touch of re judgement perhaps? | |||
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"There are a lot of married people on fab whose partners don't know. In general women are treated better than men in that respect but not always" Would agree with you | |||
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"There are a lot of married people on fab whose partners don't know. In general women are treated better than men in that respect but not always" From my experience so fat I would have to agree.. men are treated as dogs and women as ‘having fun’ or ‘bored’. As a man I find the more forthright you are about your situation and what you’re looking for we tend to get more criticism for it.. However I have met a few married women who are more understanding and can relate, this is what makes it easier I’d say | |||
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"I think “genuine” is not exactly the word I’d use in such context. I sense a touch of re judgement perhaps?" Do you feel somehow judged? | |||
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"I think “genuine” is not exactly the word I’d use in such context. I sense a touch of re judgement perhaps? Do you feel somehow judged?" Not at all. But I do sense an element of criticism. | |||
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"I think “genuine” is not exactly the word I’d use in such context. I sense a touch of re judgement perhaps? Do you feel somehow judged? Not at all. But I do sense an element of criticism." Surely criticism entails an element of judging? I cheat at Wordle btw. | |||
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"I think “genuine” is not exactly the word I’d use in such context. I sense a touch of re judgement perhaps?" __ Not really. It's a fact. If you say that you are genuine by being here upfront that you are cheating but not genuine with your wife by hiding it from her, then you are only partially genuine, part-time genuine, selective genuine, so not fully genuine. No judgement here. It's simply that you are not genuine, only and maybe when it's convenient to you. | |||
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"There are a lot of married people on fab whose partners don't know. In general women are treated better than men in that respect but not always" How do you know they are cheating unless they tell you? | |||
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""Having an affair" and "swinging" are two very different things, OP. " ... quite agree! | |||
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"There are a lot of married people on fab whose partners don't know. In general women are treated better than men in that respect but not always · How do you know they are cheating unless they tell you? " • Because the women mention their marital statuses on their profiles without any compunction; because they will unwittingly mention it on threads and on rare occasions they will also create threads and shoehorn that fact or indirectly infer it. Either way, men are lambasted and women are fêted (comparatively speaking). Rightly or wrongly. | |||
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""Having an affair" and "swinging" are two very different things, OP. " So true, and important that's understood at the start. | |||
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"Some people seem to frown upon married people being on here who are playing away. I’m interested in knowing if there are any other married people on Fab who are here looking for a discreet affair. I find people who are married tend to have a better connection and greater understanding of each others situation.. Would love to connect with likeminded individuals and perhaps hear about your experiences on fab. Are you married and playing away? Do you find that you have to keep it a secret on here or like me do you prefer to be honest about it and hope to find someone likeminded? And please if you want to be rude and negative about someone seeking an discreet affair please dont respond lol genuine people only please "what am i thinking if we are like minded?  | |||
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""Having an affair" and "swinging" are two very different things, OP. " An affair is worse as it implies they is something from a connection / relationship. Some people may engage in swinging to add variety into their sex lives or due to their curiosity. | |||
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"The green arrow tells a much more honest story than some poster alluded too and the gulf between cheating and swinging at times can be enormous but you genuinely have fun either cheating or swinging which ever one sits better in your lifestyle. T" I've green arrowed and confused  is he married? Is he not? What didn't he feel was good enough in the multiple previous threads about married people? | |||
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"The green arrow tells a much more honest story than some poster alluded too and the gulf between cheating and swinging at times can be enormous but you genuinely have fun either cheating or swinging which ever one sits better in your lifestyle. T I've green arrowed and confused is he married? Is he not? What didn't he feel was good enough in the multiple previous threads about married people?"Sometimes you just need a peek at the green arrow to make sense of a thread.!!!!! T | |||
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"Some people seem to frown upon married people being on here who are playing away. I’m interested in knowing if there are any other married people on Fab who are here looking for a discreet affair. I find people who are married tend to have a better connection and greater understanding of each others situation.. Would love to connect with likeminded individuals and perhaps hear about your experiences on fab. Are you married and playing away? Do you find that you have to keep it a secret on here or like me do you prefer to be honest about it and hope to find someone likeminded? And please if you want to be rude and negative about someone seeking an discreet affair please dont respond lol genuine people only please "Genuine question - how do you plan to meet someone regularly and not end up standing them up sometimes or leave them hanging around if you're late? By the nature of the act, you can't guarantee that you will always be available when you say you will - if your unsuspecting partner's plans change that would have a knock on effect to the person you're meeting. You could then end up treating the other person like a cum dump if your time is limited, even if you don't mean to. This is the issue I now have with meeting married men, happened to me a few too many times and I won't be squeezed in between work and getting home for their tea. | |||
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"There's so many sites for married people to fuck about Mrs " Please provide details  | |||
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"There's so many sites for married people to fuck about Mrs Please provide details "Mumsnet | |||
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"There's so many sites for married people to fuck about Mrs Please provide details
Mumsnet"I got lambasted by Mumsnet in Bristol. I may have got a 'Hooters' into one of their shopping centres, and all hell broke loose.  | |||
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"There's so many sites for married people to fuck about Mrs Please provide details
Mumsnet
I got lambasted by Mumsnet in Bristol. I may have got a 'Hooters' into one of their shopping centres, and all hell broke loose. "Moral of the story - don't cross Mumsnet, they are merciless (actually they managed to get it closed down!) | |||
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"What free cheat sites are out there? Maybe married people should be directed to them by admin if not swinging..." I'd like to know (asking for my married friend) | |||
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"What free cheat sites are out there? Maybe married people should be directed to them by admin if not swinging..." Behave There are a heck of a lot of people here who don't swing either | |||
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"What free cheat sites are out there? Maybe married people should be directed to them by admin if not swinging... Behave There are a heck of a lot of people here who don't swing either " I suppose it depends on the size of the breasts (and whether they are encased by a bra) and whether the dick is constrained by budgie smugglers or its owner has boxers or goes commando  | |||
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""Having an affair" and "swinging" are two very different things, OP. ... quite agree!" ^^^^^ This .... what people do outside of their marriages is their own business but if you are not going to be honest to your spouse at least please be honest with those you wish to meet with. Some people are not comfortable swinging with those seeking an affair. That needs to be respected. | |||
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"There's so many sites for married people to fuck about Mrs Please provide details
Mumsnet"Cheers, I'm on it. | |||
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"If a woman wants to secretly meet outside of her marriage that’s fine with me " Shocking | |||
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"If a woman wants to secretly meet outside of her marriage that’s fine with me " How about if she wants to meet inside of her marriage? You'll give her a pass? | |||
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"If a woman wants to secretly meet outside of her marriage that’s fine with me " Just goes to show that women have more morals than men  | |||
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"Some people seem to frown upon married people being on here who are playing away. ……… And please if you want to be rude and negative about someone seeking a discreet affair please dont respond lol …." You’ve posted this publicly, so everyone has s as free license to respond. …. LOL! ….. I don’t necessarily frown upon it, cheating has been going on since year dot. But there was a time where people keep that fucking quiet, as not to insult their partner. But it seems to be that because you’re online and you don’t think your partner is going to see it you can shout it from the rooftop of how sexy you must be to have somebody at home, trusting you, cooking for you probably, thinking that you are at work (probably) whilst you’re fucking around behind their back. But hey I guess they can’t, and won’t respond to a shitty thread like this aswell,… unless they do read it because they are on here too, because sometimes what goes around comes around. Or at least I fucking hope so. | |||
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"Some people seem to frown upon married people being on here who are playing away. ……… And please if you want to be rude and negative about someone seeking a discreet affair please dont respond lol …. You’ve posted this publicly, so everyone has s as free license to respond. …. LOL! ….. I don’t necessarily frown upon it, cheating has been going on since year dot. But there was a time where people keep that fucking quiet, as not to insult their partner. But it seems to be that because you’re online and you don’t think your partner is going to see it you can shout it from the rooftop of how sexy you must be to have somebody at home, trusting you, cooking for you probably, thinking that you are at work (probably) whilst you’re fucking around behind their back. But hey I guess they can’t, and won’t respond to a shitty thread like this aswell,… unless they do read it because they are on here too, because sometimes what goes around comes around. Or at least I fucking hope so. " Sorry. …^ lol. | |||
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"Majority of messages I get from men is they find meeting a married woman more of a turn on. There’s also a lot of men in swinging couples that state on their profiles they won’t meet separately or without their partners consent msg asking for a discreet meet. I’m not saying what is right or wrong but just putting it out there my experience on here. Please block away, I’m not here for hecklers "Love your photos x | |||
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" Just goes to show that women have more morals than men "I take offence at this blatant sexism. Plenty of cheating women here. | |||
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" Just goes to show that women have more morals than men
I take offence at this blatant sexism.
Plenty of cheating women here."She only said more morals, not that they were good morals or even that they abide by them. | |||
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" Just goes to show that women have more morals than men
I take offence at this blatant sexism.
Plenty of cheating women here."Women don't get slated nearly as much as men for cheating on fab. That said, I've yet to see a woman make a thread looking for sympathy about it. | |||
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" Just goes to show that women have more morals than men
I take offence at this blatant sexism.
Plenty of cheating women here."Yes there probably are though they don't tend to start threads about doing so | |||
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" Genuine question - how do you plan to meet someone regularly and not end up standing them up sometimes or leave them hanging around if you're late? By the nature of the act, you can't guarantee that you will always be available when you say you will - if your unsuspecting partner's plans change that would have a knock on effect to the person you're meeting. You could then end up treating the other person like a cum dump if your time is limited, even if you don't mean to. This is the issue I now have with meeting married men, happened to me a few too many times and I won't be squeezed in between work and getting home for their tea." Totally agree. I won't be treated like a sex worker squeezed in for a quick fuck a go, showering before leaving so wife won't smell the sex on them (yes had that one happen .... he was totally busted) ... I prefer genuinely single men who have flexibility to meet when I am free in evenings and weekends | |||
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