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By *ris Gray OP   Man
25 weeks ago

Dorchester

Your personality gets you everywhere or does it, your abbs get you everywhere or do they, your tatts get you everywhere or do they? No its a combination of all them things but mostly personality, what does it for you? I know a few would say a pretty penis is for them but truth be known what is it that gets you noticed?

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By *ansoffateMan
25 weeks ago

Sagittarius A

I'm just too cute Fred.

Instant punani cloud.

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By *edeWoman
25 weeks ago

the abyss

The stench. Or the hairy troll toes

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By *ris Gray OP   Man
25 weeks ago

Dorchester


"I'm just too cute Fred.

Instant punani cloud."

really long live punani

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
25 weeks ago

North West

I think my special red chariot does. Fortunately and also unfortunately.

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By *obilebottomMan
25 weeks ago

All over

A nice pic like Mr Wick's rainbow pic gets you to first page. Fab that pic if you haven't yet

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By *esthetic21Man
25 weeks ago

Birmingham/Bristol

A pretty face will always get you further than any of those things. Oh and shit loads of money

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By *ris Gray OP   Man
25 weeks ago

Dorchester

A pretty face really, women here want a personality

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
25 weeks ago

Wirral.


"A pretty face really, women here want a personality "

I want both. I'm greedy. Bit I don't give a toss about money

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By *ealMissShadyWoman
25 weeks ago

St Albans/ Welsh Borders

I like cake, if you have cake or kebab then hmu

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By *ris Gray OP   Man
25 weeks ago

Dorchester

Sorry don't eat either, the devils food

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
25 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

My body gets me noticed.

My personality soon gets them to fuck off though

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By *ris Gray OP   Man
25 weeks ago

Dorchester


"My body gets me noticed.

My personality soon gets them to fuck off though "

lol i have noticed this

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By *onnyBgoodXXXMan
25 weeks ago

NEWCASTLE UPON TYNE


"My body gets me noticed.

My personality soon gets them to fuck off though "

Hahaha

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By *ris Gray OP   Man
25 weeks ago

Dorchester


"My body gets me noticed.

My personality soon gets them to fuck off though

Hahaha"

nice try

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By (user no longer on site)
25 weeks ago

My body turns heads.

My mind, perplexes, confuses, and surprises the masses.

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By *ris Gray OP   Man
25 weeks ago

Dorchester

Some say the mind is a sexual organ can you play a tune on it?

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By *rHotNottsMan
25 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham


"My body gets me noticed.

My personality soon gets them to fuck off though "

Sure that’s not true!

But there is some truth that people with strong bright-side characteristics ( pretty, good body, overly optimistic, over confident ) often have higher numbers of de-trailers because the personality is under developed. This is my experience of hundreds of talent reviews and psychometric tests , very high correlation, at the top end at least

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By *EAT..85Woman
25 weeks ago

Nottingham

It helps to be pretty (not beautiful). I get hit on lots at work. But not necessarily by the people that I WANT to be hit on by. What was the question?

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
25 weeks ago

Carlisle usually


"My body gets me noticed.

My personality soon gets them to fuck off though

Sure that’s not true!

But there is some truth that people with strong bright-side characteristics ( pretty, good body, overly optimistic, over confident ) often have higher numbers of de-trailers because the personality is under developed. This is my experience of hundreds of talent reviews and psychometric tests , very high correlation, at the top end at least "

Not true because the body isn't that good or because I'm not sufficiently blatant in my misanthropy?

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod

25 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

My milkshake.

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By *parkle1974Woman
25 weeks ago

Leeds

Usually it's my hair or eyes x

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By *rsMistyPeaksWoman
25 weeks ago

Essex

Here - I’m going to say body, that’s all anyone can see.

In life - personality, which explains a lot.

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By *aseylee324Couple
25 weeks ago

Valley of Squinting Windows

I'd say my brains, my social class and white female privilege got me where I am

So grateful I didn't have to rely on my looks, that would have been a non-runner

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By *oodmessMan
25 weeks ago

yumsville

I can make a decent brew but I rarely walk around with my cup out, so I'll go with cock.

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By (user no longer on site)
25 weeks ago

The sheer volume of posts gets me noticed. That’s about it.

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By *aughtynottsCouple
25 weeks ago

Outside Nottingham

I'm funny but I also have great boobs

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By *ris Gray OP   Man
25 weeks ago

Dorchester


"I'm funny but I also have great boobs "
well that said do they jiggle?

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By *ris Gray OP   Man
25 weeks ago

Dorchester


"Usually it's my hair or eyes x"
yes i get that

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By *electableicecreamMan
25 weeks ago

The West

My hair gets a lot of attention.

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By *ris Gray OP   Man
25 weeks ago

Dorchester


"My hair gets a lot of attention."
from the hairdressers?

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By *glyBettyTV/TS
25 weeks ago

About 3 feet away from the fence

Apparently my legs & ass, but mostly legs as surprisingly I actually don't always walk around with my arse hanging out

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
25 weeks ago

North East Scotland, mostly

On here? Tits I reckon.

Mrs TMN x

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By (user no longer on site)
25 weeks ago

My miserable face brings all the girls to the yard!

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By *ris Gray OP   Man
25 weeks ago

Dorchester


"My miserable face brings all the girls to the yard! "
Isn't that my milkshake brings all the girls to the yard

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By *allandathleticMan
25 weeks ago

Asgard

The fact I can go from pronunciating like royalty, to road man in milliseconds.

I wouldn't like to say my look gets me anywhere.. unless you like limbless, headless, monochrome torsos...

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By *wiss Army KnifeMan
25 weeks ago

Second star to the right…

[Removed by poster at 04/06/24 14:30:35]

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By *wiss Army KnifeMan
25 weeks ago

Second star to the right…

Usually gets me stoned and chased out of the town by angry townspeople with flaming torches and pitchforks

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By *uriousscouserWoman
25 weeks ago

Wirral

My looks do get me noticed in a "'kinell, did you see the kip of that?" sort of way.

I get noticed like a car crash does.

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By *inosaur PantsMan
25 weeks ago

Stourbridge

I stand next to my wife

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

25 weeks ago

East Sussex

In general the way a person looks gets them a certain distance then personality comes on to play. Unless you're going for a job as a super model then it's looks all the way.

Do they advertise jobs for super models?

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By (user no longer on site)
25 weeks ago

In life of you want to get anywhere, be good looking.

People who say personality is most important on fab are full of shit.

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By *ris Gray OP   Man
25 weeks ago

Dorchester


"In general the way a person looks gets them a certain distance then personality comes on to play. Unless you're going for a job as a super model then it's looks all the way.

Do they advertise jobs for super models? "

why are you going to apply?

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By *lderflower_AppleWoman
25 weeks ago

Basingstoke

I have two things that get me noticed...

Yep my boobs, or my eyes. Either way there's still two or both.

But apparently neither are enough to keep them interested so I have to attempt stimulating conversation instead...

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

25 weeks ago

East Sussex


"In general the way a person looks gets them a certain distance then personality comes on to play. Unless you're going for a job as a super model then it's looks all the way.

Do they advertise jobs for super models? why are you going to apply? "

Only if they have a short geriatric department

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By *eliWoman
25 weeks ago

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I don't know. Sometimes it's my appearance. I'm more likely to get the look back/people staring when I talk so it might be my voice. My boobs. I don't think it's one particular thing but I know that I have a great personality, 100%.

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By *illy IdolMan
25 weeks ago

Midlands


"In life of you want to get anywhere, be good looking.

People who say personality is most important on fab are full of shit.

"

This may be true for women but money is probably top of the list for men. If men have looks and money, they're on to a winner

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By (user no longer on site)
25 weeks ago


"I stand next to my wife "

You are an incredibly attractive couple tbf

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By (user no longer on site)
25 weeks ago


"In life of you want to get anywhere, be good looking.

People who say personality is most important on fab are full of shit.

This may be true for women but money is probably top of the list for men. If men have looks and money, they're on to a winner"

Can't argue with that willy.

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By *illy IdolMan
25 weeks ago

Midlands


"In life of you want to get anywhere, be good looking.

People who say personality is most important on fab are full of shit.

This may be true for women but money is probably top of the list for men. If men have looks and money, they're on to a winner

Can't argue with that willy."

I need to start earning more money

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By (user no longer on site)
25 weeks ago


"In life of you want to get anywhere, be good looking.

People who say personality is most important on fab are full of shit.

This may be true for women but money is probably top of the list for men. If men have looks and money, they're on to a winner

Can't argue with that willy.

I need to start earning more money"

You do. Plastic surgery isn't cheap.

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By *ris Gray OP   Man
25 weeks ago

Dorchester


"In general the way a person looks gets them a certain distance then personality comes on to play. Unless you're going for a job as a super model then it's looks all the way.

Do they advertise jobs for super models? why are you going to apply?

Only if they have a short geriatric department "

are you short then?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

25 weeks ago

East Sussex


"In general the way a person looks gets them a certain distance then personality comes on to play. Unless you're going for a job as a super model then it's looks all the way.

Do they advertise jobs for super models? why are you going to apply?

Only if they have a short geriatric department are you short then? "

On a good day I skim 5ft half an inch if I back comb my hair. Obviously there's no doubt that I'm geriatric

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By *ris Gray OP   Man
25 weeks ago

Dorchester


"In general the way a person looks gets them a certain distance then personality comes on to play. Unless you're going for a job as a super model then it's looks all the way.

Do they advertise jobs for super models? why are you going to apply?

Only if they have a short geriatric department are you short then?

On a good day I skim 5ft half an inch if I back comb my hair. Obviously there's no doubt that I'm geriatric "

well we could have a hall for Gerrys

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

25 weeks ago

East Sussex


"In general the way a person looks gets them a certain distance then personality comes on to play. Unless you're going for a job as a super model then it's looks all the way.

Do they advertise jobs for super models? why are you going to apply?

Only if they have a short geriatric department are you short then?

On a good day I skim 5ft half an inch if I back comb my hair. Obviously there's no doubt that I'm geriatric well we could have a hall for Gerrys "

Nicely done!

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By *igronnie89Man
25 weeks ago

near you

Most on here defo go for looks, if you dont look their type they dont even give you chance to chat, just because you dont look a certain way doesnt mean your not fun

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By *ris Gray OP   Man
25 weeks ago

Dorchester


"Most on here defo go for looks, if you dont look their type they dont even give you chance to chat, just because you dont look a certain way doesnt mean your not fun"
exactly

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By *ris Gray OP   Man
25 weeks ago

Dorchester


"I have two things that get me noticed...

Yep my boobs, or my eyes. Either way there's still two or both.

But apparently neither are enough to keep them interested so I have to attempt stimulating conversation instead..."

smile maybe?

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By (user no longer on site)
25 weeks ago


"Most on here defo go for looks, if you dont look their type they dont even give you chance to chat, just because you dont look a certain way doesnt mean your not fun"

Jeffrey was "fun"...

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By *wiss Army KnifeMan
25 weeks ago

Second star to the right…


"Most on here defo go for looks, if you dont look their type they dont even give you chance to chat, just because you dont look a certain way doesnt mean your not fun"

Well I am fucked then (not literally) as I am ugly and boring

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By (user no longer on site)
25 weeks ago


"Most on here defo go for looks, if you dont look their type they dont even give you chance to chat, just because you dont look a certain way doesnt mean your not fun

Well I am fucked then (not literally) as I am ugly and boring "

Can concur

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By *igronnie89Man
25 weeks ago

near you


"I have two things that get me noticed...

Yep my boobs, or my eyes. Either way there's still two or both.

But apparently neither are enough to keep them interested so I have to attempt stimulating conversation instead..."

Smile aswell, nice smile

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By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan
25 weeks ago

.

A good looking face or a hot body will always get you something in life but Money, Power, Fame will get you almost everything

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By *igronnie89Man
25 weeks ago

near you


"Most on here defo go for looks, if you dont look their type they dont even give you chance to chat, just because you dont look a certain way doesnt mean your not fun

Well I am fucked then (not literally) as I am ugly and boring "

Thing is i know there needs to be some attraction, this is a sex site afterall so surely if the banter flows, the flirting is on point then that should be enough for a good time?

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By *igronnie89Man
25 weeks ago

near you


"Most on here defo go for looks, if you dont look their type they dont even give you chance to chat, just because you dont look a certain way doesnt mean your not fun

Jeffrey was "fun"..."

Whose Jeffrey lol

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By *ris Gray OP   Man
25 weeks ago

Dorchester


"Most on here defo go for looks, if you dont look their type they dont even give you chance to chat, just because you dont look a certain way doesnt mean your not fun

Well I am fucked then (not literally) as I am ugly and boring

Thing is i know there needs to be some attraction, this is a sex site afterall so surely if the banter flows, the flirting is on point then that should be enough for a good time?"

Too some you'll be good looking to others you are not and as you get older that applies more

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By *ris Gray OP   Man
25 weeks ago

Dorchester


"Most on here defo go for looks, if you dont look their type they dont even give you chance to chat, just because you dont look a certain way doesnt mean your not fun

Jeffrey was "fun"...

Whose Jeffrey lol"

Chaucer writes novels

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By *wiss Army KnifeMan
25 weeks ago

Second star to the right…


"Most on here defo go for looks, if you dont look their type they dont even give you chance to chat, just because you dont look a certain way doesnt mean your not fun

Well I am fucked then (not literally) as I am ugly and boring

Can concur"

Right back at you…I find myself falling asleep chatting with you and your face ahhh not even Wrong Turn would have you as an extra. Too scary

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By *ot to giggleWoman
25 weeks ago

Coventry

well i like to think im funny! - does it count that I laugh at my own jokes !

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By *wiss Army KnifeMan
25 weeks ago

Second star to the right…


" well i like to think im funny! - does it count that I laugh at my own jokes ! "

Nope, I was told that in no uncertain terms!!

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By *ris Gray OP   Man
25 weeks ago

Dorchester


" well i like to think im funny! - does it count that I laugh at my own jokes ! "
well I'd like to think so i laugh a lot at my posts

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By (user no longer on site)
25 weeks ago


"Most on here defo go for looks, if you dont look their type they dont even give you chance to chat, just because you dont look a certain way doesnt mean your not fun

Jeffrey was "fun"...

Whose Jeffrey lolChaucer writes novels "

Wrong Jeffrey

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By *ot to giggleWoman
25 weeks ago

Coventry


" well i like to think im funny! - does it count that I laugh at my own jokes ! well I'd like to think so i laugh a lot at my posts "

we're safe then Fred

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By *ex HolesMan
25 weeks ago

Up North

Tits and how available their hole is

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By *igronnie89Man
25 weeks ago

near you


"Most on here defo go for looks, if you dont look their type they dont even give you chance to chat, just because you dont look a certain way doesnt mean your not fun

Well I am fucked then (not literally) as I am ugly and boring

Thing is i know there needs to be some attraction, this is a sex site afterall so surely if the banter flows, the flirting is on point then that should be enough for a good time?Too some you'll be good looking to others you are not and as you get older that applies more "

Brilliant future looks bleak then

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By *igronnie89Man
25 weeks ago

near you


" well i like to think im funny! - does it count that I laugh at my own jokes ! "

Tbh we all have a little.giggle at our jokes

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By *ris Gray OP   Man
25 weeks ago

Dorchester


" well i like to think im funny! - does it count that I laugh at my own jokes ! well I'd like to think so i laugh a lot at my posts

we're safe then Fred "

exactly as long as we laugh what difference do the others laughing make

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By *ealitybitesMan
25 weeks ago

Belfast

For the vast majority of my life I considered myself invisible.

It's only been in the last 10 years that I've realised that I'm not and the last 4 or 5 that I've discovered I have the power to be as visible or invisible as I want to be.

I don't have money so that's a dead end but at the same time I'm uncomfortable with anyone approaching me based purely on my looks.

If they decide I'm a decent human being and as a bonus I'm not hard on the eyes then I'll accept that.

I take the same approach when dealing with others either professionally or socially.

How someone looks doesn't make them any more capable or approachable so it doesn't give them an advantage over others.

In saying that though I have witnessed people who are deemed to be physically attractive getting away with things where others wouldn't and that applies equally within the walls of fab.

It also applies to all genders and sexual orientations and at times may appear shallow but sometimes is extremely dangerous.

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By *ittlemiss Hal O weenCouple
25 weeks ago

Southampton


"My body gets me noticed.

My personality soon gets them to fuck off though "

I seem to have the opposite problem

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By *inxy777Woman
25 weeks ago

essex

Definitely not my looks, probably my personality x

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By (user no longer on site)
25 weeks ago

My BBC gets me noticed

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By *ris Gray OP   Man
25 weeks ago

Dorchester


"My BBC gets me noticed"
your television is it a 64" widescreen

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By *carlet SeductionWoman
25 weeks ago

Maidstone

There is literally nothing about me that gets me noticed when I'm out and about in the real world. I'm fairly quiet and one of those people that goes unnoticed. Which is fine up to a point... like when waiting to be served at a bar...I swear I become ultra invisible then. The rest of the time I'm happy to wear my cloak of invisibility.

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