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By *Jcurious OP   Couple
25 weeks ago

Derby

Do you ever open a thread out of curiosity of the title and be like... NOPE that's enough Internet for today

Is there threads you actively avoid, whether that's because you don't like the subject or because you feel like your going to start falling out with folk with your opinion towards it?

And on the other hand is there threads you actively enjoy participating in more than others, whether that's non sexual related stuff, sex talk or games?

Miss S x

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By (user no longer on site)
25 weeks ago

Every single day

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By *ex HolesMan
25 weeks ago

Up North

#youknowwhoyouare

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By *Jcurious OP   Couple
25 weeks ago

Derby


"#youknowwhoyouare "

Why do I feel like this is a dig at someone

Miss S x

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By *eliWoman
25 weeks ago

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Politics

Racism. Especially when the faux ally brigade comes wading in.

Ones to do with kinks because I don't have the energy.

Threads where the usual suspects clash over paragraphs and paragraphs of quoted text that they've not yet discovered how to edit/there's so much rage to type they don't have time to delete.

I like thinky ones. Sexy ones as long as it's not by the "mmmm I'm wanking as I type this" sort of OP. Some silly ones. Easy ones.

I'm not going to be too much of a dick. I stay out of those that I'm not compatible with. It doesn't mean I don't think they have their place. It's great that different people are posting and there's a wealth of different styles of thread.

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By *lay 4 your plessureMan
25 weeks ago

Wigan

I stopped opening the forums for a while, never mind the threads... 1st day back on them and I've already seen a few things that reminded me why I stopped! There's way more wtf, I'm not going there threads than ones I want to join in with.

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By *ansoffateMan
25 weeks ago

Sagittarius A

I'd have to be in with folk before I could fall out with them.

I like to discuss all kinds of things, I was discussing the history of the Spanish political system, with someone I just met at a BBQ last night over ribs and Rioja. Also Thrush, fireman's hoses and cake surfaced as topics.

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By *adgerMan
25 weeks ago

york


"Politics

Racism. Especially when the faux ally brigade comes wading in.

Ones to do with kinks because I don't have the energy.

Threads where the usual suspects clash over paragraphs and paragraphs of quoted text that they've not yet discovered how to edit/there's so much rage to type they don't have time to delete.

I like thinky ones. Sexy ones as long as it's not by the "mmmm I'm wanking as I type this" sort of OP. Some silly ones. Easy ones.

I'm not going to be too much of a dick. I stay out of those that I'm not compatible with. It doesn't mean I don't think they have their place. It's great that different people are posting and there's a wealth of different styles of thread."

All of the above

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By *sacambsMan
25 weeks ago

Huntingdon


"Do you ever open a thread out of curiosity of the title and be like... NOPE that's enough Internet for today

Is there threads you actively avoid, whether that's because you don't like the subject or because you feel like your going to start falling out with folk with your opinion towards it?

And on the other hand is there threads you actively enjoy participating in more than others, whether that's non sexual related stuff, sex talk or games?

Miss S x

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I have nothing to say on this matter, you have covered it quite well

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By *parkle1974Woman
25 weeks ago

Leeds

Yeah, ones where people waffle on when a simple sentence would suffice!

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By *TG3Man
25 weeks ago

Dorchester


"Do you ever open a thread out of curiosity of the title and be like... NOPE that's enough Internet for today

Is there threads you actively avoid, whether that's because you don't like the subject or because you feel like your going to start falling out with folk with your opinion towards it?

And on the other hand is there threads you actively enjoy participating in more than others, whether that's non sexual related stuff, sex talk or games?

Miss S x

"
i try not to enter confrontational threads

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By *ainyDaySunshineMan
25 weeks ago

Ayrshire

It's only words...

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By *Jcurious OP   Couple
25 weeks ago

Derby


"Politics

Racism. Especially when the faux ally brigade comes wading in.

Ones to do with kinks because I don't have the energy.

Threads where the usual suspects clash over paragraphs and paragraphs of quoted text that they've not yet discovered how to edit/there's so much rage to type they don't have time to delete.

I like thinky ones. Sexy ones as long as it's not by the "mmmm I'm wanking as I type this" sort of OP. Some silly ones. Easy ones.

I'm not going to be too much of a dick. I stay out of those that I'm not compatible with. It doesn't mean I don't think they have their place. It's great that different people are posting and there's a wealth of different styles of thread."

I think this is fair point tbh and good way of looking at it.

Miss S x

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
25 weeks ago

Reading

Many many times.

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By *rsKOTCTWoman
25 weeks ago

Leeds

Absolutely loads.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
25 weeks ago

Reading


"Politics

Racism. Especially when the faux ally brigade comes wading in.

Ones to do with kinks because I don't have the energy.

Threads where the usual suspects clash over paragraphs and paragraphs of quoted text that they've not yet discovered how to edit/there's so much rage to type they don't have time to delete.

I like thinky ones. Sexy ones as long as it's not by the "mmmm I'm wanking as I type this" sort of OP. Some silly ones. Easy ones.

I'm not going to be too much of a dick. I stay out of those that I'm not compatible with. It doesn't mean I don't think they have their place. It's great that different people are posting and there's a wealth of different styles of thread."

Out of interest I hate racism so will sometimes post on those. Is this welcome from a white person or is it better not to say anything?

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By (user no longer on site)
25 weeks ago

I quite like the horn dogs ones, always males me smile a little.

The influx of "be kind" ones just bore me.

And I don't like the ones discussing the serious matters of the world. I get it's an open forum you can talk about anything. But it's an open forum on a sex site, when you have penis/tit avatars trying to show off whose the most intelligent on such matters it all just feels a little ...crass.

I miss the fun threads with the fun people

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By *cottish guy 555Man
25 weeks ago

London


"Politics

Racism. Especially when the faux ally brigade comes wading in.

Ones to do with kinks because I don't have the energy.

Threads where the usual suspects clash over paragraphs and paragraphs of quoted text that they've not yet discovered how to edit/there's so much rage to type they don't have time to delete.

I like thinky ones. Sexy ones as long as it's not by the "mmmm I'm wanking as I type this" sort of OP. Some silly ones. Easy ones.

I'm not going to be too much of a dick. I stay out of those that I'm not compatible with. It doesn't mean I don't think they have their place. It's great that different people are posting and there's a wealth of different styles of thread.

Out of interest I hate racism so will sometimes post on those. Is this welcome from a white person or is it better not to say anything?"

Free speech.

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By *ambertMan
25 weeks ago

Cheltenham

Yup. Daily.

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By *eliWoman
25 weeks ago

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"Out of interest I hate racism so will sometimes post on those. Is this welcome from a white person or is it better not to say anything?"

Honestly? Post what you like, what matters to you. You're not going to please everyone so you might as well please yourself.

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By *eroLondonMan
25 weeks ago

Covent Garden

There are an inordinate amount of hackneyed topics that I stay clear of, in addition to avoiding the architects of those topics, who thrive by ejaculating their banality and smegma all over the fora every other hour on the hour.

Other than that I'm fine with most threads. If I need variety and diversity I tend to pop my head into the Welsh, Irish and Scottish forums.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
25 weeks ago

Reading


"Out of interest I hate racism so will sometimes post on those. Is this welcome from a white person or is it better not to say anything?

Honestly? Post what you like, what matters to you. You're not going to please everyone so you might as well please yourself. "

Good point I just hope I never come across badly but as you say I can't control that.

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By *lexm87Man
25 weeks ago

Various


"I'd have to be in with folk before I could fall out with them.

I like to discuss all kinds of things, I was discussing the history of the Spanish political system, with someone I just met at a BBQ last night over ribs and Rioja. Also Thrush, fireman's hoses and cake surfaced as topics."

What about cakes surfaced with topics?

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By *eliWoman
25 weeks ago

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"Out of interest I hate racism so will sometimes post on those. Is this welcome from a white person or is it better not to say anything?

Honestly? Post what you like, what matters to you. You're not going to please everyone so you might as well please yourself.

Good point I just hope I never come across badly but as you say I can't control that."

You don't. Not from where I'm standing (sitting and reading).

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By *ealitybitesMan
25 weeks ago

Belfast

There are many many threads I don't even open and of those I do open I might only comment in one or two.

Of the 35 threads on page one in the Lounge it shows that I have opened 6.

I think this is just the second one I have posted on today.

I often decide not to open one because of who the op is and I already know exactly where the thread is going.

Sometimes I'll open one and let it run for 100+ comments, many of which are just people echoing what everyone else is saying while at the same time ignoring the blatantly obvious fact that the emperor doesn't actually have new clothes.

If it's a topic I have personal experience of I sometimes feel the need to enlighten those who read about it in a book or on social media, therefore it must of course be true.

Apart from that I don't give much thought to what threads I choose to comment on.

Some are just light hearted and I'll jump in and out if and when I feel like it.

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By *Jcurious OP   Couple
25 weeks ago

Derby


"There are an inordinate amount of hackneyed topics that I stay clear of, in addition to avoiding the architects of those topics, who thrive by ejaculating their banality and smegma all over the fora every other hour on the hour.

Other than that I'm fine with most threads. If I need variety and diversity I tend to pop my head into the Welsh, Irish and Scottish forums."

I know exactly those threads and I also avoid... Guess we all like our own stuff, I like variety too.

Miss S x

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By *hunky GentMan
25 weeks ago

Maldon and Peterborough

Oh crikey yes

Unless it mentions underwear or blue.

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By *Jcurious OP   Couple
25 weeks ago

Derby


"Oh crikey yes

Unless it mentions underwear or blue. "

You and your blue underwear

Miss S x

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By *idssissyTV/TS
25 weeks ago

Birmingham

It varies

Most of the say you are in or what would you do with profile ignore I avoid.

May comment on book, movie threads or the odd others, though usually expect comment to be ignored as not a forum regular

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By *hunky GentMan
25 weeks ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"Oh crikey yes

Unless it mentions underwear or blue.

You and your blue underwear

Miss S x"

There's worse things I could been known for.

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By *imi_RougeWoman
25 weeks ago

Portsmouth

Certain names I know to actively avoid after today.

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By *hunky GentMan
25 weeks ago

Maldon and Peterborough

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By *hunky GentMan
25 weeks ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"Certain names I know to actively avoid after today."

What have I missed?

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By *B69Woman
25 weeks ago

Wiltshire

Many times I just eye roll and close, not here for the heavy deep threads, I like the fun silly ones, when I have to google words used then I’m out.

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By *eroLondonMan
25 weeks ago

Covent Garden


"Many times I just eye roll and close, not here for the heavy deep threads, I like the fun silly ones, when I have to google words used then I’m out."

•

She's not a fan of a sesquipedalians.

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By *B69Woman
25 weeks ago

Wiltshire


"Many times I just eye roll and close, not here for the heavy deep threads, I like the fun silly ones, when I have to google words used then I’m out.

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She's not a fan of a sesquipedalians."

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By *B69Woman
25 weeks ago

Wiltshire


"Many times I just eye roll and close, not here for the heavy deep threads, I like the fun silly ones, when I have to google words used then I’m out.

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She's not a fan of a sesquipedalians.

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
25 weeks ago

chichester

I just think all forums posts are amusing banter and that’s it.

Everyone is full of shit generally so just kick back enjoy the lunacy and ramblings while doing stuff online at same tone generally

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By *ascaIMan
25 weeks ago

Cheshire Liverpool Manchester

If I click on a thread and see a shit load of text I usually can’t be arsed reading it and backup.

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By *ittlemiss Hal O weenCouple
25 weeks ago

Southampton


"If I click on a thread and see a shit load of text I usually can’t be arsed reading it and backup. "

Haha, same here... somethimes i see a thread title that tells me it's going to be shit but curiosity gets the better of me

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By (user no longer on site)
25 weeks ago

Can’t help but open some even if I know how they are going to go

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By *ubikslongswordMan
25 weeks ago

East Grinstead

The threads that always end up a popularity contest

Ask a question to the person above etc,

9/10 people ignore people they're less fond of and ask someone 2-5 posters above instead.

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By (user no longer on site)
25 weeks ago


"The threads that always end up a popularity contest

Ask a question to the person above etc,

9/10 people ignore people they're less fond of and ask someone 2-5 posters above instead."

That can be because by the time they've typed their question/comment others have got a response in.

I don't tend to not bother with the ones that you have to say "I'm in".

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By *Jcurious OP   Couple
25 weeks ago

Derby


"If I click on a thread and see a shit load of text I usually can’t be arsed reading it and backup. "

I'm also guilty of this

Miss S x

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
25 weeks ago

Glasgow / London

I avoid a lot of stuff. I guess I’m picky. Or a thread snob.

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By *edstockings2Couple
25 weeks ago

Ilfracombe

Ones that go on about relationships, finding the spark it's a swinging site after all.

Popularity "look at me" threads that are normal taking over by the click.

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