FabSwingers.com forum: Genuinely seeking advice! :)

By *omeoJayXx OP Man
25 weeks ago

Notts Loughborough

Hey, I'm relatively new to the scene and have tried navigating though over the past few months, trying to emgage here and there and I don't seem to be getting very far.

My profile is pretty self explanitary and I never send dick pics as an opening message. I'd say all my first messages as impressions go are quite friendly off the bat.

Where could I be going wrong ? Is it the profile or the approach?

Friendly advice welcome!

I'm J BTW, it's really nice to meet you All!!

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By *wendolineFoxWoman
25 weeks ago

Chester

Profile text looks ok, although I never know whether ‘like-minded’ is code for something, as there’s never enough information to properly judge!

You could do with more and better photos, and find a way to get the level of privacy you want without using emojis. Cropping or shadow placement are your friends. Good luck!

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By *omeoJayXx OP Man
25 weeks ago

Notts Loughborough

"Profile text looks ok, although I never know whether ‘like-minded’ is code for something, as there’s never enough information to properly judge!

You could do with more and better photos, and find a way to get the level of privacy you want without using emojis. Cropping or shadow placement are your friends. Good luck!"

Thank you! Appreciate the advice x

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By *oveToPlay.Couple
25 weeks ago

Yorkshire

Hey OP

Your profile bio isn't bad - maybe add a little more about what you can bring aswell as what you are looking for.

Treat fab as a secondary tool. Get yourself to socials, club event nights or normal nights. Meet people face to face.

Add a few more pics, don't have to all be naked or show your face.

Good luck

S xxx

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By *omeoJayXx OP Man
25 weeks ago

Notts Loughborough

"Hey OP

Your profile bio isn't bad - maybe add a little more about what you can bring aswell as what you are looking for.

Treat fab as a secondary tool. Get yourself to socials, club event nights or normal nights. Meet people face to face.

Add a few more pics, don't have to all be naked or show your face.

Good luck

S xxx "

That's great advice! Thank you for your time! X

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By *illy IdolMan
25 weeks ago

Midlands

First of all, welcome J

It's tough here as it's very competitive. Some of it's down to luck but it's worth doing as much as you can to stand out.

Your profile is okay but it's very bland and similar to many others and your pics could be better.

It really just depends how arsed you are to get a step ahead

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By *omeoJayXx OP Man
25 weeks ago

Notts Loughborough

"First of all, welcome J

It's tough here as it's very competitive. Some of it's down to luck but it's worth doing as much as you can to stand out.

Your profile is okay but it's very bland and similar to many others and your pics could be better.

It really just depends how arsed you are to get a step ahead "

That's fair, I appreciate that fella and totally makes sense, you're absolutely right. Thanks bud!

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By *eroLondonMan
25 weeks ago

Covent Garden

"First of all, welcome J

It's tough here as it's very competitive. Some of it's down to luck but it's worth doing as much as you can to stand out.

Your profile is okay but it's very bland and similar to many others and your pics could be better.

It really just depends how arsed you are to get a step ahead "

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I think this ^ pretty much sums it up. The men outnumber the women on here exponentially.

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By *omeoJayXx OP Man
25 weeks ago

Notts Loughborough

"First of all, welcome J

It's tough here as it's very competitive. Some of it's down to luck but it's worth doing as much as you can to stand out.

Your profile is okay but it's very bland and similar to many others and your pics could be better.

It really just depends how arsed you are to get a step ahead

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I think this ^ pretty much sums it up. The men outnumber the women on here exponentially."

Yea I twigged as the months went by, it's vastly populated with men and I can only imagine the sheer amount of messages women receive daily

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By *parkle1974Woman
25 weeks ago

Leeds

Your profile is quite basic, nothing in it that makes me think "oh I want to find out more".

Your pics don't show that you've much of an effort.

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By *omeoJayXx OP Man
25 weeks ago

Notts Loughborough

"Your profile is quite basic, nothing in it that makes me think "oh I want to find out more".

Your pics don't show that you've much of an effort."

Totally fair, thank you for the feedback! You're right, the pics could be far better

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