FabSwingers.com forum: What would you do? Dilemma

By *rispyDuck OP Man
31 weeks ago

Chinese Takeaway near you

Saw this on LadBible.

Dying wife (for the sake of inclusivity let’s just say) dying partner asked their spouse if they could sleep with an Ex 1 last time?

If this was your dying partner asking you this, how would you feel about it & what would be your response?

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By (user no longer on site)
31 weeks ago

I'd be ok i think... They'll be dead soon enough??

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By *rispyDuck OP Man
31 weeks ago

Chinese Takeaway near you

"I'd be ok i think... They'll be dead soon enough?? "

Haha that did make me chuckle

Fair point go out with a bang

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By *alandNitaCouple
31 weeks ago

Scunthorpe

"Saw this on LadBible.

Dying wife (for the sake of inclusivity let’s just say) dying partner asked their spouse if they could sleep with an Ex 1 last time?

If this was your dying partner asking you this, how would you feel about it & what would be your response? "

I don't own my wife! If she wants to sleep with someone else, that's HER choice and not mine.

Simple really

Cal

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By *ouble gerraldMan
31 weeks ago

hull

From a monogamous point of view yes the dieing partner will die soon and will have had their wish of one last ex fuck. But its a shitty thing to ask of the current partner,they'll probably be left with a sense of betrayal, they weren't the ones to be cherished before death and wondering if they were good enough for they whole relationship

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By *8bobMan
31 weeks ago

biggleswade

I would definitely let her as long as I got to clean her up afterwards

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
31 weeks ago

Reading

Sure cheaper than an exotic holiday.

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By (user no longer on site)
31 weeks ago

If it was some random then of course - but an ex? Bit of a face slap

Put the shoe on the other foot and play it with a man saying the same thing - I guarantee you'd all be calling him a douche bag

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By *oodmessMan
31 weeks ago

yumsville

I'd say "poor ex"

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By *TG3Man
31 weeks ago

Dorchester

"Saw this on LadBible.

Dying wife (for the sake of inclusivity let’s just say) dying partner asked their spouse if they could sleep with an Ex 1 last time?

If this was your dying partner asking you this, how would you feel about it & what would be your response? "
of course its a dying wish.

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By *rsKOTCTWoman
31 weeks ago

Leeds

I'd tell him to pick anyone else, because she's a prick & I wouldn't want my last memories of him with someone who already caused a lot of strain on our relationship.

Anyone else I'd say go for it if I couldn't give it.

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By *TG3Man
31 weeks ago

Dorchester

"I'd tell him to pick anyone else, because she's a prick & I wouldn't want my last memories of him with someone who already caused a lot of strain on our relationship.

Anyone else I'd say go for it if I couldn't give it."
shes /he's dying any day now

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By *eroLondonMan
31 weeks ago

Mayfair

I would say go for it, probably because it's unlikely to happen: hospitals rarely given permission to have sex in the wards. And what would Matron think?!

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By (user no longer on site)
31 weeks ago

"From a monogamous point of view yes the dieing partner will die soon and will have had their wish of one last ex fuck. But its a shitty thing to ask of the current partner,they'll probably be left with a sense of betrayal, they weren't the ones to be cherished before death and wondering if they were good enough for they whole relationship"

This

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By *rsKOTCTWoman
31 weeks ago

Leeds

"I'd tell him to pick anyone else, because she's a prick & I wouldn't want my last memories of him with someone who already caused a lot of strain on our relationship.

Anyone else I'd say go for it if I couldn't give it.shes /he's dying any day now

Then fuck it have a wank instead

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
31 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

I wouldn't deny them it at all.

How I felt about it would depend on a variety of factors. But I'm non monogamous anyway.

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By *ellinever70Woman
31 weeks ago

Ayrshire

I'd be narked they thought it would be a good idea to even ask

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By *issmorganWoman
31 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

I'd let them go for it,

Why not.

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By * and R cple4Couple
31 weeks ago

swansea

I'd probably tell him to fuck off and pack his bags for her to look after him

Neither of us have a ex but I would be a little miffed as to why he wanted that to be his last wish.

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By *ullyMan
31 weeks ago

Near Clacton

Mmmm moot point, my late wife's dying thoughts were for me. I would have done anything for her, but there was no one before or with me/us, so of course I would agree.

That said over 9 years passed and I still feel terribly guilty about going out, or having fun even, I also feel guilty I could'nt save her.

We had a pretty unusual marriage inasmuch as she knew I was /Bi even before we met and was totally O.K with that all our time together. She knew it was an itch she could not scratch.

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By *ansoffateMan
31 weeks ago

Sagittarius A

I'd have loved to have had any conversation with her, even just a goodbye.

Whatever her heart desired.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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31 weeks ago

East Sussex

I'd feel very sad that when they were dying their thoughts turned to a relationship that was over. However I'd agree because once someone is dead it's all over.

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By *oodmessMan
31 weeks ago

yumsville

"I'd feel very sad that when they were dying their thoughts turned to a relationship that was over. However I'd agree because once someone is dead it's all over. "

Just pondered necrophilia for a mo then

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By *rFoxAndXenoCouple
31 weeks ago

Weymouth

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By *oodmessMan
31 weeks ago

yumsville

^^ should have added a smiley face as it was a bit too Jimmy Carr dry

#lube

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By *ikeSM23Man
31 weeks ago

Manchester

Ffs….. what category of dysfunctional moral dilemma does this thread sit in?

Have I been completely misguided to think swingers as actually normal people that would separate their hedonistic pursuits when the mortal coil demanded.

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By *agatoXXXMan
31 weeks ago

Gone and completely forgotten.

I would have been on the othe side of this, with the dying ex. If she had asked for me to sleep withher one last time, she'd have died unfulfilled. I don't know if she did, in the end, but I can only hope so.

I'm just happy to have outlived her.

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By *oodmessMan
31 weeks ago

yumsville

"Ffs….. what category of dysfunctional moral dilemma does this thread sit in?

Have I been completely misguided to think swingers as actually normal people that would separate their hedonistic pursuits when the mortal coil demanded."

It's not a question for swingers it's a question for the public that happens to being asking on a swinger site. The persons dying wish was to sleep with their ex. they weren't a swinger (might have been who knows), but its not a normal question in the first instance, coil or no coil.

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By *ikeSM23Man
31 weeks ago

Manchester

"Ffs….. what category of dysfunctional moral dilemma does this thread sit in?

Have I been completely misguided to think swingers as actually normal people that would separate their hedonistic pursuits when the mortal coil demanded.

The origin of the idea (lad bible) isn’t known for swinging accepted, the fact remains the OP posted it to be read by this community which is by default a swinging platform

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By *endalshaggersCouple
31 weeks ago

Kendal

If she asked to fuck her ex, I'd definitely put it down to the meds as she absolutely hates his guts and hasn't seen him bar bumping into him socially twice in the past decade or so.

He on the other hand, I've no doubt would absolutely love another go.

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By *a LunaWoman
31 weeks ago

South Wales

Probably pack my bags and leave them to it.

There are dying wishes like “let’s go to Morocco” or “let’s buy that sofa from Loaf we saw on the ad”.

Asking to fuck an ex partner isn’t really cricket is it. Dying doesn’t give them the excuse to be a thoughtless bonehead.

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By (user no longer on site)
31 weeks ago

Even when she’s with her boo, all she thinks about is you.

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By (user no longer on site)
31 weeks ago

All seriousness- Kelly Rowland or Nelly would have the answers for this

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By *rispyDuck OP Man
31 weeks ago

Chinese Takeaway near you

Haha some varying intereting answers

I honestly wouldn’t know what to think about that!

On 1 hand had they asked to sleep with a random stranger ‘yes think would be ok with that’ but an Ex! Think would leave me thinking ‘had they been thinking of getting back of fucking their Ex all this time we been together?’

It’s a dilemma for sure haha

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By *cflirtyMan
31 weeks ago

Hampshire

"I'd be ok i think... They'll be dead soon enough?? "

Midnight xx luv your compassionate side

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By *rsMistyPeaksWoman
31 weeks ago

Essex

As I’m not monogamous if my husband wanted to sleep with anyone at any point it’s generally not an issue. It would have to be an absolute nutcase for me to have a problem with it…. Then as a deathbed wish I would overlook it anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
31 weeks ago

"As I’m not monogamous if my husband wanted to sleep with anyone at any point it’s generally not an issue. It would have to be an absolute nutcase for me to have a problem with it…. Then as a deathbed wish I would overlook it anyway.

I haven't met any woman in person that would tolerate much in the way of conversation about an ex in positive or glowing fashion let alone a wee shag before I popped me clogs

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By *andynecklaceWoman
31 weeks ago

Someplace

No, that would be an issue for me

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By (user no longer on site)
31 weeks ago

That’s her last wish??….ffs.

I chose wrong.

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By *luehairedcumslutCouple
31 weeks ago

St Neots

I'd let them but the ex can take over the funeral arrangements, I'm gone

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By *layfullsamMan
31 weeks ago

Solihull

"Saw this on LadBible.

Dying wife (for the sake of inclusivity let’s just say) dying partner asked their spouse if they could sleep with an Ex 1 last time?

If this was your dying partner asking you this, how would you feel about it & what would be your response? "

Happy to arrange it for after she had died

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By (user no longer on site)
31 weeks ago

"yeah sure you can luv, next week"

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