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By (user no longer on site) OP
25 weeks ago

Name something your ex did that really boiled your piss.

Mine used to breath all the time

So annoying

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By *irthandgirthMan
25 weeks ago

Camberley occasionally doncaster

She used the words 'as' and 'has' in place of each other. 100% of the time. Both spoken and in writing.

You can see how infuriating that was.

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By *ristol100Man
25 weeks ago

Bristol

Ex gf took me to court to try and take my house. We never even lived together!

She lost but the stress and cost! Grrrr

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By *oe n JayCouple
25 weeks ago

Surrey

"Ex gf took me to court to try and take my house. We never even lived together!

She lost but the stress and cost! Grrrr "

WTF!

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By (user no longer on site)
25 weeks ago

"Ex gf took me to court to try and take my house. We never even lived together!

She lost but the stress and cost! Grrrr "

Jeezo that's fucked up! I hope you managed to recover financially again.

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By *mmaleiaWoman
25 weeks ago

East Northamptonshire

He smoked

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By *mmaleiaWoman
25 weeks ago

East Northamptonshire

"He smoked

W33D

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By *r John WickMan
25 weeks ago

The Continental

Fucked a mate without telling me

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By *igboro01Man
25 weeks ago

Middlesbrough

She was breathing oxygen

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By (user no longer on site)
25 weeks ago

My ex misspelled my name ALL the time. It's a short name with one L. How can he ness that up? Lots of things in the end. TF hes an ex now...

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By *ristol100Man
25 weeks ago

Bristol

"Ex gf took me to court to try and take my house. We never even lived together!

She lost but the stress and cost! Grrrr

Jeezo that's fucked up! I hope you managed to recover financially again. "

Thankfully never heard from her again!

Just moved on and with my wife of 23 years now

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By *oozleMan
25 weeks ago

high wycombe

Can’t say as it’s too terrible to write down, so to say I could have had a son..

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By *zeroMan
25 weeks ago

Glasgow

She would go into little moods if things didn't go her way.

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
25 weeks ago

Coventry

She throw crockery at my head she was angry and violet. Apart from being dangerous to my health it seemed such a waste of good dinnerware. Occasionally other heavy items for variety. I didn't mind her hitting me so much, I could manage that but I hated nice things getting smashed.

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By (user no longer on site)
25 weeks ago

"She was breathing oxygen "

Yeah my sentiments exactly was breathing that was enough lol

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By *ickD38Man
25 weeks ago

Preston

Made me watch The Mighty Boosh. That show's got about as many laughs in it as mothers' day in an oprhanage

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By *hroatitboyMan
25 weeks ago

GLA

His dick kept falling into people behind my back.

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By *929Man
25 weeks ago

newcastle

The main one that bugged me was after we split she Claimed child benefit and whatever the other one called child tax or something for our son who lived with me and she only sees for 5 minutes a time on his birthday and Christmas and she gave him fuck all of it. This went on about 2 years as I was under the impressing I was entitled to nowt but someone said I’d get child benefit only 20 quid a week or so but better than nowt then when I applied I got an extra form back with the ref “rival claim” so got my daughter to ask and sure enough she admitted she had been since she moved out

The main thing that annoyed me was after she married some little ex gutter junkie bum she still carried on claiming it. Like a mug I agreed to say that wor Liam had only just came to live with me to avoid her getting done for fraud and paying loads back only reason I did it was we share custody of my daughter and if her mam was made poorer it would effect her

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By *rAitchMan
25 weeks ago

Diagonally Parked in a Parallel Universe

"She throw crockery at my head she was angry and violet. Apart from being dangerous to my health it seemed such a waste of good dinnerware. Occasionally other heavy items for variety. I didn't mind her hitting me so much, I could manage that but I hated nice things getting smashed.

Mr"

Was she purple with rage?

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By *ell GwynnWoman
25 weeks ago

North Yorkshire

He's a lovely bloke overall, but one thing I really couldn't abide was the sulking. He knocked it on the head eventually after a friend pointed out how ridiculous it was.

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
25 weeks ago

Coventry

Was she purple with rage?"

Ha, dyslexia and an (ironically) unhelpful auto-spell strikes again.

For the record her complexion was more of a rouge when angry.

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By *ornycougaWoman
25 weeks ago

NORWAY Wherever I lay my hat

Well he was a gaslighting bully so there's plenty to go at there. But he also used to leave drawers and cupboard doors very slightly adjar. That really boiled my piss

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By *ea monkeyMan
25 weeks ago

Manchester (he/him)

She was a manipulative, gaslighting liar that was screwing around behind my back and telling all her friends she’d dumped me whilst telling me we were good. Quite a lot pissed me off

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By *antastic_Mr_Fox_76Man
25 weeks ago

District 13

Live

so fucking annoying

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By (user no longer on site) OP
25 weeks ago

Worst thing my ex did was try and use my kids as a weapon.

Trying to turn them against me and it actually worked for a while which broke my heart.

Fast forward a few years.

They’ve grown up and see her what she really is.

All good now

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By *antastic_Mr_Fox_76Man
25 weeks ago

District 13

"Worst thing my ex did was try and use my kids as a weapon.

Trying to turn them against me and it actually worked for a while which broke my heart.

Fast forward a few years.

They’ve grown up and see her what she really is.

All good now "

I can resonate with this shitty situation but glad it’s turned out good as it did for me too

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By *esiGalGuy123Man
25 weeks ago

Find me..

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By *esiGalGuy123Man
25 weeks ago

Find me..

Asked for money when I was horny! How an awful thing to do

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By *uri00620Woman
25 weeks ago

Croydon

Told me to get an abortion at 20 wks after I got pregnant.. after 4 miscarriages and specialist treatment.

On a lighter note he could never find anything bc he refused to move his eyeballs to the left or the right!

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
25 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

Required several arrests and a restraining order to leave me the fuck alone

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By *irthandgirthMan
25 weeks ago

Camberley occasionally doncaster

"Worst thing my ex did was try and use my kids as a weapon.

Trying to turn them against me and it actually worked for a while which broke my heart.

Fast forward a few years.

They’ve grown up and see her what she really is.

All good now "

I've also had that. My daughter went no contact with me for well over a year due to her mum painting me as a shit dad etc. I do feel a little smug that my daughter now lives with me, and we holiday together every Christmas (which her mother never allowed after we split)

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By *ife NinjaMan
25 weeks ago

Dunfermline

I forgave her years ago. Holding onto hate just sucks the life out of you.

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By *amantha_JadeWoman
25 weeks ago

Newcastle

He would drink himself into oblivion most weekends and was a horrible, argumentative, nasty dr*nk. He used to sit up until the small hours gambling online. When he’d lost all of his money, he would then wake me up around 4-5am and hassle me to transfer money to him and wouldn’t let me go back to sleep until I had.

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By *ittlebirdWoman
25 weeks ago

The Big Smoke

No idea. Forgot about them years ago and cracked on with my own life

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By *iss.Bella.Woman
25 weeks ago

Wales

I no longer grant any of my exes head space. Holding on to that anger does you no good.

However, I wouldn't be upset if karma caught up with them

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By *ucka39Man
25 weeks ago

Newcastle

Manipulate everyone/everything well nearly everything thing but definitely everyone

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By *oobaaMan
25 weeks ago

South Shields

woke up one morning with her sitting on top of me with a knive at my throat accusing me of having an affair with her friend.

Left that afternoon.

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By *ris GrayMan
25 weeks ago

Dorchester

I don't hate anyone my ex wife was lovely sorry but too much hate in the world lets nuke Russia

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By *ripfillMan
25 weeks ago

havant

Omg - there is some real heartache in some of these threads

So sad … I mean it !

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By *allerthanaverage79Man
25 weeks ago

Ayrshire

"Name something your ex did that really boiled your piss.

Mine used to breath all the time

So annoying "

Boiling my actual piss!

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By *allerthanaverage79Man
25 weeks ago

Ayrshire

"woke up one morning with her sitting on top of me with a knive at my throat accusing me of having an affair with her friend.

Left that afternoon."

Did you though?

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By *mmaleiaWoman
25 weeks ago

East Northamptonshire

"Asked for money when I was horny! How an awful thing to do "

Did it work though? Asking for a friend …

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By *irthandgirthMan
25 weeks ago

Camberley occasionally doncaster

Oh, I also have an ex who ass*ulted both me and my daughter, then threatened to k*ll herself if I didn't get back with her.

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By *owestoft ManMan
25 weeks ago

Lowestoft

Never knew of a single thing lol it was multiple singular issues. Too personalized to state them all. But it was when I was working away a lot that I realized how different we were and we slowly drifted apart and got divorced. The only reason we got together was her love of BBC while we lived in Africa. After leaving there and eventually went to Oz where she could only have BWC that we started seeing our issues together.

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By *owestoft ManMan
25 weeks ago

Lowestoft

By the way I'm a VSWC lol

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By (user no longer on site)
25 weeks ago

He used to lie all the time ... stupid little things and big whoppers ....

Happily spend my money but was tighter than a gnats chuff with his own.

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By *oobaaMan
25 weeks ago

South Shields

"woke up one morning with her sitting on top of me with a knive at my throat accusing me of having an affair with her friend.

Left that afternoon.

Did you though?"

Yep..it was coming and I shouldnt have stayed so long but we have a son together and a 25 year age difference

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By *ifeforelivingMan
25 weeks ago

teesside

She was breathing that was enough then she married one of my ex mates

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By *oadsafun1960Man
25 weeks ago

Somerset & Hertfordshire

I don't hate my ex so guess I'm insane! My ex last told me she loved me on her birthday, last year, on the holiday of a life time in the Caribbean, but she also sent a message to someone else the same day saying she loved him and would rather have been with him. She finished with me when we got back and blocked me everywhere I never got an explanation just excuses of everything I did wrong, she never apologised for anything ever!

Then she got back in touch with me some months later when she'd finished with him, we met socially, but it was just playing at being friends, I suspect it was just a stop gap to fill a void maybe even an intention to hurt me again but I hope not. Sadly I still loved her and still do, so it hurts me every single day knowing she's making the same mistakes over and over again, which will eventually end with her being hurt yet again. Some say I'm lucky and had a narrow escape, sadly I just miss her and wish she could see what's going wrong with her life and that she has what she is looking for right in front of her if only she'd look more closely instead of looking for something that doesn't exist. I was ready to marry her, I'd still give everything up for her. But she's now putting herself at risk, everything she does just gets more and more extreme as she tries to control everything and everyone around her!

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By (user no longer on site)
25 weeks ago

"Fucked a mate without telling me"

So would it have been ok if she had told you? Was it cos you wanted to watch?

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By *agatoXXXMan
25 weeks ago

Gone and completely forgotten.

Everything.

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By *ickyKlungespeareMan
25 weeks ago

St Leonards

Would drop hints for a cuppa. I make a good cuppa.

Would then ask for it in a standard-sized mug, not the dinky cute mug.

Would then drink about one third of it, which wouldn't have been enough to even fill the dinky mug.

Would very, very occasionally offer to make a cup of tea for us both.

It was insipid piss 80% of the time. No - not just my categorisation. She didn't like it either.

The other 20% were my "things can only get better" naive hope.

I never let her loose on the coffee after the first occasion...there's only so much trauma one can invite in willingly, and February 11th 1991, 7.08pm was that trauma.

None were reasons for divorce though - that was just life doing its other things.

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By *anae21Woman
25 weeks ago

Nearer than you think

He listened to Enya and Status Quo.

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By *ustamanMan
25 weeks ago

weymouth

Plenty, but I suspect there was plenty about me that boiled her piss to - in the end we drifted apart pretty much led separate social lives and were basically just house sharing. So I left, i also gave her the house as she's a money grabbing bitch and I'm not and couldn't be arsed with the argument

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By *andy CanesWoman
25 weeks ago

south

"Oh, I also have an ex who ass*ulted both me and my daughter, then threatened to k*ll herself if I didn't get back with her. "

really unhinged

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By *irthandgirthMan
25 weeks ago

Camberley occasionally doncaster

"Oh, I also have an ex who ass*ulted both me and my daughter, then threatened to k*ll herself if I didn't get back with her.

really unhinged "

Yup. I needed therapy after that little episode.

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By *exycarlashane181Couple
25 weeks ago

Leamington Spa

Chose what I ate, bought, where I went, what I wore, who I talked to, and put a tracker on me

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By (user no longer on site)
25 weeks ago

Never in her life did she ever admit to being wrong or apologised…..ever!!!

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By *ansoffateMan
25 weeks ago

Sagittarius A

Burn the toast.

I mean like carbon burnt.

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By *ustBoWoman
25 weeks ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

Didn't seem to believe in consent or that no actually did mean no.

But at least it gave me the push I needed to get out of the relationship.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
25 weeks ago

North West

Mainly the fact he didn't see his (our) son and still, to this day, cannot behave like an adult regarding his relationship with our son. The ex is a man of 40, for reference. I managed well enough without the child support, I just worked my fucking arse off and Mr KC did too, for a child who wasn't/isn't his.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
25 weeks ago

"Mainly the fact he didn't see his (our) son and still, to this day, cannot behave like an adult regarding his relationship with our son. The ex is a man of 40, for reference. I managed well enough without the child support, I just worked my fucking arse off and Mr KC did too, for a child who wasn't/isn't his. "

That’s the mark of a real man right there. Kudos

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
25 weeks ago

North West

That’s the mark of a real man right there. Kudos "

We're still together over 20yrs later, my son was 18 months old when we got together and will be 22 later this year. Mr KC is an absolute giant among men (for many reasons!)

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By *ensible lady 1960Woman
25 weeks ago

Near Bishop Auckland.

Woudnt give up hes boozing problem.which led to our divorce and hes death at 53 due to hes heavy drinking.

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By *uxom redCouple
25 weeks ago

Shrewsbury

Gaslighted me for years ,abused me in every way really .

The worst was turning the children against me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
25 weeks ago

That’s the mark of a real man right there. Kudos

We're still together over 20yrs later, my son was 18 months old when we got together and will be 22 later this year. Mr KC is an absolute giant among men (for many reasons!)"

Love this

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By * and R cple4Couple
25 weeks ago

swansea

After all these horror story's I thank my lucky stars I don't have a ex...

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By *ucka39Man
25 weeks ago

Newcastle

"After all these horror story's I thank my lucky stars I don't have a ex... "

Mine would give anyone nightmares,

so I'll stay quiet

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By *ANDA!Man
25 weeks ago

DUMFRIES

Jeez....where to start.

Subjected my youngest daughter to horrendous verbal and mental abuse from her then partner a few years ago and she's still dealing with it now.

Let my 3 youngest kids live in an absolute hovel (unknown to me i might add) which was in such a state when social services came to visit they stayed for 3hrs helping her clean up.

Abandoned/disowned my 3 older kids and thinks she sun shines out of the youngest's arse

Pretended she was going to take her own life and sparked a small scale hunt for 6hrs, all because she disowned our oldest daughter but in doing so lost her only babysitter for the youngest.

Stated playing Mother of the Year for the youngest when I raised court action against her for residency of the youngest

Blames me for her living in a shithole because "I didn't do enough to support her"

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By *ot_desi_coupleCouple
25 weeks ago

Bromley

I wish I didn't have any stories as narcissistic abuse still continues. But on a lighter side, muttering under his breath used to drive me nuts. Coward.

Rani xx

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By *azmar62Couple
25 weeks ago

Hinckley

My first wife’s one tone drone voice when nagging. She had an amazing figure that men literally die for. But not an ounce of personality. Everything and everyone was beneath her. She was definitely the trophy wife. I was Drained of life, she had to go. When I left her , it was the best thing I ever did? But, it came with consequences. She threatened me with police, saying she’d make up an abuse charge. She did exactly that. I got arrested and I got drilled by the police. Her downfall was, when questioned by the magistrate in court, she kept falling over her own lies. I was relieved when a not guilty verdict was reached. I’m a happy and wiser man now. Beauty is literally skin deep. So choose wisely.

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By *elboy1978Man
25 weeks ago

Fellgate

Always saying she was right when she wasn’t

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By *ad NannaWoman
25 weeks ago

East London

30 years together and he couldn't remember my date of birth.

He still rings me for his national insurance number

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By (user no longer on site)
25 weeks ago

she ruined my mental health by mentally abusing and very controlling

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