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"I grew up in a pub, so it's like a second home." • You must possess a cast-iron liver. | |||
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"I grew up in a pub, so it's like a second home. • You must possess a cast-iron liver. " Liver, what liver? | |||
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"Nope not something I could do confidently x " I'll watch you back, don't worry. | |||
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"Nope not something I could do confidently x I'll watch you back, don't worry. " Thank you | |||
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"I'd go to a pub alone and do sometimes but I don't think I'd go to a bar alone" What’s the difference between a pub and a bar? | |||
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"I'd go to a pub alone and do sometimes but I don't think I'd go to a bar alone What’s the difference between a pub and a bar?" A pub is comfy & laid back. A bar is more formal/evening type of vibe...? I'd not go to a bar solo, either. But mainly 'cos I don't drink | |||
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"I'd go to a pub alone and do sometimes but I don't think I'd go to a bar alone What’s the difference between a pub and a bar?" I'd say a pub offers food? A bar generally just serves drinks and snacks? | |||
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"Always, I've met the absolute best people over the last month just be venturing out in Newcastle City Centre, oddly I always gravitate towards swingers or Fab folks..? I think we all stand out by a country mile.. Or I maybe wrong here? " I love Newcastle for stopping off for a bevvie on my home from work once a week or so! Never met any swingers though | |||
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"I'd go to a pub alone and do sometimes but I don't think I'd go to a bar alone" I think I’m similar to this. I find it much easier to do so when I’m away from my home city though I do still feel self conscious. Trying to get out of my comfort zone though! Seeing guys in the pub by themselves is quite normal but not ladies so much | |||
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"I'd go to a pub alone and do sometimes but I don't think I'd go to a bar alone I think I’m similar to this. I find it much easier to do so when I’m away from my home city though I do still feel self conscious. Trying to get out of my comfort zone though! Seeing guys in the pub by themselves is quite normal but not ladies so much" I fell into the habit of popping into the Spoons opposite the bus station on my commute home quite frequently for months (shitty weather conditions, and they have toilets! ). Started off feeling a little blah, as I was literally going in to kill waiting time, and paying 60p for an orange and soda water But got to the point the bar staff recognised me, knew my daft little order, and would gravitate towards me with a smile on their face (because I'm sober/not a PITA), and have a bit chit chat as others were getting rowdy I was also firmly working my way through their back stock of scampi fries, that apparently nobody else bought | |||
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"I'd go to a pub alone and do sometimes but I don't think I'd go to a bar alone I think I’m similar to this. I find it much easier to do so when I’m away from my home city though I do still feel self conscious. Trying to get out of my comfort zone though! Seeing guys in the pub by themselves is quite normal but not ladies so much I fell into the habit of popping into the Spoons opposite the bus station on my commute home quite frequently for months (shitty weather conditions, and they have toilets! ). Started off feeling a little blah, as I was literally going in to kill waiting time, and paying 60p for an orange and soda water But got to the point the bar staff recognised me, knew my daft little order, and would gravitate towards me with a smile on their face (because I'm sober/not a PITA), and have a bit chit chat as others were getting rowdy I was also firmly working my way through their back stock of scampi fries, that apparently nobody else bought " Fuck all I can think about now is those crispy wee pillows of fishyness, love them | |||
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"Yes off course I can't see any issues " Some folk don't like to. I totally get that | |||
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"Yes off course I can't see any issues Some folk don't like to. I totally get that " I quite enjoy it. You never know who you’ll end up chatting with. | |||
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"Personally I think drinking on your own is not a good thing in general" Some of us like rum but don't like people. | |||
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"Personally I think drinking on your own is not a good thing in general Some of us like rum but don't like people. " I love rum and maybe some people but what I mean is drinking on your own isn't a good habit to form | |||
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"Personally I think drinking on your own is not a good thing in general Some of us like rum but don't like people. I love rum and maybe some people but what I mean is drinking on your own isn't a good habit to form But...see above. I'm not giving up rum and I aren't gonna become sociable. There's worse habits. " difficult you are | |||
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"Personally I think drinking on your own is not a good thing in general Some of us like rum but don't like people. I love rum and maybe some people but what I mean is drinking on your own isn't a good habit to form But...see above. I'm not giving up rum and I aren't gonna become sociable. There's worse habits. difficult you are " Rather that than be easy | |||
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"Personally I think drinking on your own is not a good thing in general Some of us like rum but don't like people. I love rum and maybe some people but what I mean is drinking on your own isn't a good habit to form But...see above. I'm not giving up rum and I aren't gonna become sociable. There's worse habits. difficult you are Rather that than be easy " well nothing good ever comes easy does it | |||
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"I avoid pubs if at all possible, solo or not." ,,, not even a nice country pub, | |||
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"for me i like company when going to the pub,, female company " There goes your invitation for pie and pint | |||
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"for me i like company when going to the pub,, female company There goes your invitation for pie and pint " ,,, you know i would have a pint with you mb | |||
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"Yea if you're a weirdo " Total weirdo here | |||
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"for me i like company when going to the pub,, female company There goes your invitation for pie and pint ,,, you know i would have a pint with you mb " Oh thanks, anytime. Pie too or tapas or a selection of meze | |||
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"I avoid pubs if at all possible, solo or not.,,, not even a nice country pub," I'll take a nice cafe over that | |||
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"Always, I've met the absolute best people over the last month just be venturing out in Newcastle City Centre, oddly I always gravitate towards swingers or Fab folks..? Newcastle possibly the best city in the uk!! I can go out drinking in the town on my own easily but I have had awkward occasions when an ex will come into the same bar with a bloke and I'm standing there like Billy no mates. Never a good feeling. I think we all stand out by a country mile.. Or I maybe wrong here? I love Newcastle for stopping off for a bevvie on my home from work once a week or so! Never met any swingers though " | |||
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"I adore going Into a pub alone and people watching, however I do take a book, to stop people Inviting themselves into my space, or worse asking me to join them as they feel sorry for me, being on my own " And I was just going to buy you a cider. | |||
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"I do it all the time. I go out and watch a band or two. But being taller than most and with a tendency to lurk at the back with my resting bitch face. I do get some people assuming I'm a bouncer or police officer. " At least you have the courtesy to stand at the back! Being 5'3", I always used to be surrounded by tall folk at gigs & can't see x | |||
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"Personally I think drinking on your own is not a good thing in general" Judgy McJudgeFace I don't drink alcohol. Is it a good thing to drink Pepsi Max alone? | |||
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"Personally I think drinking on your own is not a good thing in general" It all depends though, no? I mean going to a bar on your tod to get shitfaced, is very different to having a pint, or a soft drink. If I'm hanging about for over 40mins on my commute home I'd rather sit in a bar/pub and have a drink/access to their loos vs sitting on the train platform. | |||
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"Personally I think drinking on your own is not a good thing in general" · And why do you think this? | |||
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"Personally I think drinking on your own is not a good thing in general Some of us like rum but don't like people. " If only they sold rum with a free penis attached, that'd solve a lot of your problems wouldn't it? Maybe one for dragons den | |||
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"I prefer a chewie costume, get too much attention as solo!" You could always go in Leia's bikini from return of the jedi, Might turn a few heads | |||
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"I have to do it with my job- I love my own company, so very often head to a bar solo. Never been chatted up by the way. Ever- not even in my 20s. " Taxi to Gatwick please | |||
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"Generally ill only head to the pub on my own if I'm meeting someone there. There are no 'local' type pubs anywhere near, and I couldn't think of anything worse than getting to the pub and finding I can't get a seat anywhere while surrounded by loud music and people trying to talk over it. If it were a nice peaceful environment to relax in, I'd be there in a heartbeat. " A good old-fashioned pub. | |||
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"Generally ill only head to the pub on my own if I'm meeting someone there. There are no 'local' type pubs anywhere near, and I couldn't think of anything worse than getting to the pub and finding I can't get a seat anywhere while surrounded by loud music and people trying to talk over it. If it were a nice peaceful environment to relax in, I'd be there in a heartbeat. A good old-fashioned pub. " Where have they all gone... | |||
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"Generally ill only head to the pub on my own if I'm meeting someone there. There are no 'local' type pubs anywhere near, and I couldn't think of anything worse than getting to the pub and finding I can't get a seat anywhere while surrounded by loud music and people trying to talk over it. If it were a nice peaceful environment to relax in, I'd be there in a heartbeat. A good old-fashioned pub. Where have they all gone... " There's a few near me. Just saying | |||
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"Generally ill only head to the pub on my own if I'm meeting someone there. There are no 'local' type pubs anywhere near, and I couldn't think of anything worse than getting to the pub and finding I can't get a seat anywhere while surrounded by loud music and people trying to talk over it. If it were a nice peaceful environment to relax in, I'd be there in a heartbeat. " No music, one armed bandits or duke boxes in my local. Just an excellent selection of beers and friendly customers v | |||
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"Generally ill only head to the pub on my own if I'm meeting someone there. There are no 'local' type pubs anywhere near, and I couldn't think of anything worse than getting to the pub and finding I can't get a seat anywhere while surrounded by loud music and people trying to talk over it. If it were a nice peaceful environment to relax in, I'd be there in a heartbeat. A good old-fashioned pub. Where have they all gone... " They're out of fashion, the youngsters drink less and like me prefer other locations for socialising. I prefer a nice couch in a coffee shop. | |||
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