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By *undayGirl 69 OP   Woman
26 weeks ago

Coalville

So I’ve been on here a good while, and like most I’ve people I chat to with a view to meeting, I’m curious though as some become friends whilst you await for life to allow you that first meet and some remain people you want to screw…

So I’m asking, what’s the longest you’ve wanted to fuck someone for but been unable to meet… and then if and when you did was the attraction still there.

For reference I’ve a guy I’ve been speaking to since Xmas… but distance n work mean we’ve not got round to it yet…

But when we vid chat… well, flutters are present x

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By *imply DeeWoman
26 weeks ago

Wherever

More than a year for me but it was well worth the wait.

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By *imi_RougeWoman
26 weeks ago

Portsmouth

I've been chatting on and off to a guy since I joined in '21

Even though he's been down this way maybe twice, it just wasn't possible to meet, he's in Scotland. Maybe one day!

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By *illy IdolMan
25 weeks ago

Midlands

Probably about 8-9 months but hopefully we'll meet soon

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By *arla SwingerWoman
25 weeks ago

Somewhere

So, I was initially pally with someone online (not Fab) that I massively had the horn for. After nearly a year I booked a train ticket, and made my way to London for the day. We'd booked a room and all that jazz... Turned out he honked of BO, and I mean to the point of suggesting we showered together (preferably to ensure he used soap!). He declined this, and we did do the sex thing. Which wasn't that great due to a) the smell, b) my period kicked in (bed looked like a crime scene). We then went 'out' after, which basically means we called into a chicken shop. I then kicked my heels at the train station for 3hrs, as my train was cancelled!... All in all we didn't meet again

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By *ittlemiss Hal O weenCouple
25 weeks ago

Southampton


"So I’ve been on here a good while, and like most I’ve people I chat to with a view to meeting, I’m curious though as some become friends whilst you await for life to allow you that first meet and some remain people you want to screw…

So I’m asking, what’s the longest you’ve wanted to fuck someone for but been unable to meet… and then if and when you did was the attraction still there.

For reference I’ve a guy I’ve been speaking to since Xmas… but distance n work mean we’ve not got round to it yet…

But when we vid chat… well, flutters are present x "

Up until January this year I'd been chatting to a guy for about 18 months who I got on great with but we've never met...

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By *4bimMan
25 weeks ago

Farnborough Hampshire

a while but dont think it will happen.

gut feeling

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By *entleman JayMan
25 weeks ago

Wakefield

Wow. What a first date. Lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
25 weeks ago


"So, I was initially pally with someone online (not Fab) that I massively had the horn for. After nearly a year I booked a train ticket, and made my way to London for the day. We'd booked a room and all that jazz... Turned out he honked of BO, and I mean to the point of suggesting we showered together (preferably to ensure he used soap!). He declined this, and we did do the sex thing. Which wasn't that great due to a) the smell, b) my period kicked in (bed looked like a crime scene). We then went 'out' after, which basically means we called into a chicken shop. I then kicked my heels at the train station for 3hrs, as my train was cancelled!... All in all we didn't meet again "

Bugger, that is horrendous.

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By *entleman JayMan
25 weeks ago

Wakefield

I was talking to a lady before Christmas. She made all sorts of excuses to meet. I called it. I’m not here for pen pals.

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By *arla SwingerWoman
25 weeks ago

Somewhere


"So, I was initially pally with someone online (not Fab) that I massively had the horn for. After nearly a year I booked a train ticket, and made my way to London for the day. We'd booked a room and all that jazz... Turned out he honked of BO, and I mean to the point of suggesting we showered together (preferably to ensure he used soap!). He declined this, and we did do the sex thing. Which wasn't that great due to a) the smell, b) my period kicked in (bed looked like a crime scene). We then went 'out' after, which basically means we called into a chicken shop. I then kicked my heels at the train station for 3hrs, as my train was cancelled!... All in all we didn't meet again

Bugger, that is horrendous."

Yes, it wasn't the best

He also hooked up with kinda a mutual online friend after from the same site we were on. I believe they're still together. I'm guessing she owns a pressure washer

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By *carlet SeductionWoman
25 weeks ago

Maidstone

There's a guy.. took about 3 years or something silly like that to meet. It was awesome

We met some more and still meet to good day... maybe once/ twice a year. He's not even that far away now but it just kinda works. Been about 6/7 years I think

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By (user no longer on site)
25 weeks ago

I was video chatting to a woman on another site for a year, when that site changed she told me about Fab, so I followed her here. We eventually arranged a weekend together, I wanted to take her straight to the hotel (old romantic), but she knew we'd not get out, so instead we went out for a meal, followed by cocktails. She drank me under the table.

I do not recall my performance that evening awful hangover the next day, slept most of that day. So whilst I spent the weekend in bed, it was not how I envisaged it.

However, she forgave me being a lightweight and we carried on seeing each other after that.

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By *eroLondonMan
25 weeks ago

Covent Garden

One year.

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By *rixie_BlondeWoman
25 weeks ago

London (She/Her)

About 10 years. We never actually had sex, I gave him oral and he fingered me. I realised there’s no way real sex could compare to the heights I had imagined in my decade of longing. But over that time I saw him look fat, thin, bearded, clean shaven, tired and fresh. However he looked I still had an active, physical longing for him. I expect I’d still feel it if I saw him now

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By *B69Woman
25 weeks ago

Wiltshire

Been years, but we both say never say never

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By *arl17Man
25 weeks ago

Central Portugal

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By *arl17Man
25 weeks ago

Central Portugal

Don't let it worry me... Life is way to short x

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By *ucka39Man
25 weeks ago

Newcastle

Think was roughly a month because we were both very busy but chatted on here regularly and the attraction didn't disappoint if anything in person I was surprised how attractive she was and was nice we spent the whole night together for making up for lost time

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By *eally_RosieWoman
25 weeks ago

Scunthorpe

There are two guys on here that were two of my first ever solo meets upon joining, within a few weeks of each other, over 4 years ago. Both young, both hot, both exactly my type, both local, and I’ve always kept in touch with both of them.

I’ve just never got round to doing it again! With either of them. xx

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By (user no longer on site)
25 weeks ago

I've talked to some guys for couple years and we've never made plans, then I can talk to some guys for a week or 2 and make plans.

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By *esthetic21Man
25 weeks ago

Birmingham/Bristol

No one talks to me on here

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By *ellinever70Woman
25 weeks ago

Ayrshire

I prefer to be an early closer

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By *herry delightWoman
25 weeks ago

Ilfracombe

Probably a week nearer longer than two.

If by then a meet is not planned by then I move on.

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By *ornycougaWoman
25 weeks ago

NORWAY Wherever I lay my hat


"Probably a week nearer longer than two.

If by then a meet is not planned by then I move on. "

I'm not dissimilar tho about a month is my limit if they aren't in London. I want someone to be champing at the bit to meet me. If they aren't, I rapidly lose interest.

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By (user no longer on site)
25 weeks ago


"Probably a week nearer longer than two.

If by then a meet is not planned by then I move on. "

Cherry, let’s plan your trip to London!

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By *ositivity99Man
25 weeks ago

Herts

Friend in here in my veris - we only meet once / twice a year and it’s always mind blowing. I get totally thrilled that she’s fucking as many guys as possible in between

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By *ittlebirdWoman
25 weeks ago

The Big Smoke

Around a year. Was worth it

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By *ackformore100Man
25 weeks ago

Tin town

Longest is 3 years shortest is 4 hours from wink to squirt.

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By (user no longer on site)
25 weeks ago


"Around a year. Was worth it "

A year?! Sheesh. Fair play to you

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By *hrista BellendWoman
25 weeks ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

2 years, twas covid times though, so we were both grounded. We are still very good friends

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By *ittlemiss Hal O weenCouple
25 weeks ago

Southampton


"So I’ve been on here a good while, and like most I’ve people I chat to with a view to meeting, I’m curious though as some become friends whilst you await for life to allow you that first meet and some remain people you want to screw…

So I’m asking, what’s the longest you’ve wanted to fuck someone for but been unable to meet… and then if and when you did was the attraction still there.

For reference I’ve a guy I’ve been speaking to since Xmas… but distance n work mean we’ve not got round to it yet…

But when we vid chat… well, flutters are present x

Up until January this year I'd been chatting to a guy for about 18 months who I got on great with but we've never met... "
I've given up now lol

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By *ripfillMan
25 weeks ago

havant

About a year - still in contact she is very wise, and utterly delightful…

I am apparently not wise and can be a bit daft

She is a very useful fab expert. I still make awful blunders - getting better though I think … though per pupilage

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By *allerthanaverage79Man
25 weeks ago

Ayrshire

Forever!

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By *hris196969Man
25 weeks ago

Kidderminster

Very good question.

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