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By *LIICK OP   Man
26 weeks ago

Cornwall & Cardiff

Should guys start with small talk like asking how you are, what you're up to or something picking up on your status? (Like I do cos I'm a gent lol) or should you go straight into "wanna get bent over?"

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By *punk n gushCouple
26 weeks ago

Walmer, Deal

We're more inclined to reply to someone if it's clear they have read our profile and shown some interest

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
26 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

Talking to people with an actual purpose seems better than pointless small talk to me.

Though if your only purpose is fucking, I'm still not interested

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By (user no longer on site)
26 weeks ago

Are those the only options?

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By *ou only live onceMan
26 weeks ago

London

"wanna get bent over?" never fails. Like, literally NEVER.

Thank me later.

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By *ris GrayMan
26 weeks ago

Dorchester


"Should guys start with small talk like asking how you are, what you're up to or something picking up on your status? (Like I do cos I'm a gent lol) or should you go straight into "wanna get bent over?" "
Talk to them about their profile add some humour

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By (user no longer on site)
26 weeks ago


""wanna get bent over?" never fails. Like, literally NEVER.

Thank me later."

YOLO

Wanna get bent over?

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By *ou only live onceMan
26 weeks ago

London


""wanna get bent over?" never fails. Like, literally NEVER.

Thank me later.

YOLO

Wanna get bent over?"

Slide into my DMs...

See, OP - Never. Fails.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
26 weeks ago

Reading

There isn't a one size fits all. I would respond badly to the bend me over message but I'm not looking for meaningless sex. If you are them to with the direct approach. Your message and your profile should be tailored to what you are looking for.

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By (user no longer on site)
26 weeks ago

Since we reply to alot of messages with:

"We are fine, we aren't doing anything this weekend and we wont tell you what we do for work"

We would like something a bit different. Preferably something that shows they read the profile

Ask if we want to be bent over for a block! Free of charge!

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By *essTTWoman
26 weeks ago

Birmingham


"Should guys start with small talk like asking how you are, what you're up to or something picking up on your status? (Like I do cos I'm a gent lol) or should you go straight into "wanna get bent over?" "

Swings and round abouts some women don't mind vulgar messages some do

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By *imi_RougeWoman
26 weeks ago

Portsmouth

If you've read their profile, that should give a pretty good indication of the kind of msg to send.

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By *edstockings2Couple
26 weeks ago

Ilfracombe


"Should guys start with small talk like asking how you are, what you're up to or something picking up on your status? (Like I do cos I'm a gent lol) or should you go straight into "wanna get bent over?" Talk to them about their profile add some humour "

Humour or kink shame?

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By *eally_RosieWoman
26 weeks ago

Scunthorpe

It’s a fine line. An opening message should always be polite and respectful… and my response would indicate where to pitch anything further. I hate explicit messages from people I’ve never met or spoken to before.

However… it gets pretty mundane pretty quickly if somebody just continually messages for days on end with idle chit chat, and no sign of ever arranging anything. I’m on here to meet.

A clear indication that they’ve read my profile is always a great start xx

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By *eroLondonMan
26 weeks ago

Covent Garden


""wanna get bent over?" never fails. Like, literally NEVER.

Thank me later."

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This ^ is the gospel truth.

Far too many men fritter away any miniscule hope of meeting women because of their desire to engage in pointless tittle-tattle. Be direct. Be forthright.

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By *ACOLCouple
26 weeks ago

limerick

Well it really depends on the profile, somebody might specify on their profile that they aren't here to waste time or chitchating, then you know... some will say not in a hurry then you know.

I guess what I am trying to say is, READ THE PROFILE.

Good luck OP!!!

Lina.

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