FabSwingers.com forum: If a couple gets divorced can I get my gift back

By *XBCPL OP Man
32 weeks ago

West London

Just asking Ahem for a fried what is the Protocol - Couple Married for 1 year and no - Thoughts Suggestions ?

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By *ittlebirdWoman
32 weeks ago

The Big Smoke

Errr nope

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
32 weeks ago

North West

No, you do not. Once you give a gift, it's not yours to be troubled by.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
32 weeks ago

The Town by The Cross

No. A gift was GIVEN not loaned. The gift was GIVEN on the occasion of a marriage which took place. When something is GIVEN it is no longer the property of the giver.

Tough titties..... Was it a yacht ?

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By *agondaMan
32 weeks ago

Witterings

Clearly the gift wasn’t one of love

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
32 weeks ago

North West

"No. A gift was GIVEN not loaned. The gift was GIVEN on the occasion of a marriage which took place. When something is GIVEN it is no longer the property of the giver.

Tough titties..... Was it a yacht ?"

Probably an Argos pan set with a 10yr warranty

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By *XBCPL OP Man
32 weeks ago

West London

lol it was a Gold Set - true it was given but the girl ended up being a Right Old Bunt ??

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By *ivemealadybonerWoman
32 weeks ago

somewhere

Of course not, if anything they are probably arguing who keeps it currently, what was it just out of interest op, I'm eager to know!

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
32 weeks ago

The Town by The Cross

From Solicitor

Personal gifts such as jewellery tend to stay within the ownership of the spouse or civil partner they were gifted to. Joint wedding gifts, such as a valuable artwork or an antique, are treated as matrimonial assets regardless of whose family or friends gifted them.

( and the courts will distribute them as they see fit - but the gift is not given back as it wasn't give to guarantee a long and happy marriage ) that bit was me

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By *ivemealadybonerWoman
32 weeks ago

somewhere

"lol it was a Gold Set - true it was given but the girl ended up being a Right Old Bunt ??"

The bloke still needs to eat? Help a brother out and all that when it sounds like he had the dirty played on him.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
32 weeks ago

The Town by The Cross

"lol it was a Gold Set - true it was given but the girl ended up being a Right Old Bunt ??"

Tough titties.... the given gift wasn't gifted to prevent her buntiness..... it's hers.

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By *XBCPL OP Man
32 weeks ago

West London

Jude Jury and Excutioner Lol

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
32 weeks ago

The Town by The Cross

"Jude Jury and Excutioner Lol"

You'll get another one ........

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By (user no longer on site)
32 weeks ago

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By (user no longer on site)
32 weeks ago

"Jude Jury and Excutioner Lol"

I think my critique of your spelling may have backfired!

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By (user no longer on site)
32 weeks ago

What is a gold set???

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By (user no longer on site)
32 weeks ago

"What is a gold set??? "

Based on spelling I assumed it was 'golf', but it could have been something from the Brinx Mat heist.

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By *ivemealadybonerWoman
32 weeks ago

somewhere

"What is a gold set???

Based on spelling I assumed it was 'golf', but it could have been something from the Brinx Mat heist."

I was going with saucepans

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By *aTina HeadTurnerWoman
32 weeks ago

Travelling

This escalated quickly.

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By (user no longer on site)
32 weeks ago

"What is a gold set???

Based on spelling I assumed it was 'golf', but it could have been something from the Brinx Mat heist.

I was going with saucepans

Oh i thought it was matching chains.. 'Mr T' style!

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By *XBCPL OP Man
32 weeks ago

West London

Umm no a Gold Set - As asian we Gold - Golf???

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By *ostindreamsMan
32 weeks ago

London

No but you don't have to bring a gift if you are invited to one of their wedding again

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
32 weeks ago

East Sussex

Ask them to return it. Let us know how it goes

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By *naswingdressWoman
32 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Ask them to return it. Let us know how it goes

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By (user no longer on site)
32 weeks ago

"Umm no a Gold Set - As asian we Gold - Golf???"

Tell them it was gold plated

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By *undee2Man
32 weeks ago

Dundee

"lol it was a Gold Set - true it was given but the girl ended up being a Right Old Bunt ??"

Think of it as a lesson in the importance of due diligence before marriage.

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By *stwo2023Couple
32 weeks ago

Worcester

What was the gift?

Evie

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By *ripfillMan
32 weeks ago

Paris, New York, Hong Kong and Havant

Errrr no !

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By *ohn.Wick.Man
32 weeks ago

The Continental

Always judge the potential for longevity within the union when choosing gifts.

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By *4bimMan
32 weeks ago

Farnborough Hampshire

Demand the cash equivalent refunded to you.

They made a commitment.

A deals a deal

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By *ardfun10Man
32 weeks ago

banbury

No you can’t get it back

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
32 weeks ago

Central

No. It's an unconditional gift, for the relationship you've had, reflecting your best wishes for the couple. You can give further gifts after the wedding, it doesn't have to be a one time thing, as it's a wedding, you give without any ties or part-ownership

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By *xydadbodMan
32 weeks ago

Milton keynes

No refunds I'm afraid lol

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By *ansoffateMan
32 weeks ago

Sagittarius A

Marry the one who keeps the gift.

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By *eroLondonMan
31 weeks ago

Mayfair

"Marry the one who keeps the gift."

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That's usually the mother in law...

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By *JB1954Man
31 weeks ago

Reading

Perhaps slightly off topic ? Many years ago when my first marriage ended. There was agreement that then wife moved out what she would take. I was not at house when she moved out. When I arrived at house after she had left. Apart from large items like beds, sofas, washing machine , fridge and freezer, curtains and carpets. I had no cutlery , pots, pans, towels etc.

Saw solicitor the next week. Informed him what had been taken . He said it was better for me not to try and get back items. As divorce would take even longer . So I took the hit.

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By *UGGYBEAR2015Man
31 weeks ago

BRIDPORT

This is why I rarely give wedding gifts, I’m sure some only get married to be deluged in gifts, it’s just a scam.

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By * and M lookingCouple
31 weeks ago

Worcester

We have a friend who split as they were in the airport on the way to their honeymoon.

In this instance then yes maybe, otherwise, don't be a tight arse.

Oh and he went on the honeymoon alone!

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By *illan-KillashMan
31 weeks ago

London/Sussex/Surrey/Berks/Hants

Came for the comments.

*was not dissapointed

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By *immyinreadingMan
31 weeks ago

henley on thames

"Just asking Ahem for a fried what is the Protocol - Couple Married for 1 year and no - Thoughts Suggestions ?"

No.

What made you think the answer might be yes?

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By *ools and the brainCouple
31 weeks ago

couple, us we him her.

"Just asking Ahem for a fried what is the Protocol - Couple Married for 1 year and no - Thoughts Suggestions ?"

Why would you even ask this?

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By *rsKOTCTWoman
31 weeks ago

Leeds

Yeah just ask for it back, do we get refunds from looking at your profile now it's just the man?

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By *rsKOTCTWoman
31 weeks ago

Leeds

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