FabSwingers.com forum: Longest distance for meet

By (user no longer on site) OP
38 weeks ago

OK I can't get my head round people saying they would travel 500 odd miles to meet me and hubby. Realistically what's the furthest you would travel for fun cause surely that's too far for a shag lol

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By *he turned me GreyCouple
38 weeks ago

Warwick and Coventry

To your momma's

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By *esthetic21Man
38 weeks ago

Birmingham/Bristol

For someone I'd never met not very fsr but someone I knew I'd drive pretty far

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By (user no longer on site)
38 weeks ago

"OK I can't get my head round people saying they would travel 500 odd miles to meet me and hubby. Realistically what's the furthest you would travel for fun cause surely that's too far for a shag lol"

Ever felt like calling their bluff?

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By *avexxMan
38 weeks ago

cheshire

siberia..

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By *eally_RosieWoman
38 weeks ago

Scunthorpe

I’ll travel up to an hour ish, for a social or a meet. That’s my limit so if a guy wants to make up the rest of the distance that’s up to him.

I have met guys from all over the country for socials x

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By *rispyDuckMan
38 weeks ago

Chinese Takeaway near you

Being it was a repeat meet with an awesome couple had already meet before. Travelled nearly 3hrs

But only cause they were hosting me for the night & boy oh boy what a night it was

. Was like travelling to a 5star hotel & you get to shag the sexy hotel manager

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By (user no longer on site)
38 weeks ago

My first lover lived 80 miles away, whilst my fwb who introduced me to Fab lived 115 miles away.

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By *razymindMan
38 weeks ago

Dublin mainly

I travelled 2 hours most to have a meet

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By *rill PhilMan
38 weeks ago

Crediton

I love driving, and if through talking I felt that person was someone I would have a great time with in and out of the bedroom, I don't see distance as much of a barrier.

I probably would go much more than 1.5 hours just for a hookup though.

Strangely however, I think I would go further just to hang out.

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By *airybobMan
38 weeks ago

Telford

I’ve traveled about an hour to a meet ,If it was an overnight stay I might go further a field

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By *andB130Couple
38 weeks ago

northampton

Half an hour for a new meet, Happy to go much further for a regular.

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By (user no longer on site)
38 weeks ago

I did embark on a risky two hour away meet once, turned out well though.

Yes local maybe easier, but you never know who you’ll find if you broaden your distance criteria

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By (user no longer on site)
38 weeks ago

Mr here, technically you could say half the planet, but it was 18 days long.

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By (user no longer on site)
38 weeks ago

I've travelled up to an hour .... and would only want someone travelling an hour max

That way no one is under pressure to play if turns out in person that you don't want to play.

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By *dventurous biMan
38 weeks ago

tesside

Back in the day I would travel a lot for work and often found myself making significant detours for a hookup.

Based solely on your profile pic I’d definitely have scheduled a trip to Montrose, or somewhere moderately adjacent like Carlisle or Berwick *wink*

These days I prefer to stay closer to home and keep my carbon footprint smaller.

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By *iddle ManMan
38 weeks ago

Walsall

As someone has already posted, I have travel half the length of the country for a meet with someone I already know, and have met previously. If you know the person is worth it, then why would you not travel to see them, sure you can just keep it local, but when you already have a connection with a person and you know they are reliable then I can't see any problems with people traveling to meets.

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By *ivemealadybonerWoman
38 weeks ago

somewhere

It always makes me laugh when a guy says they will travel down to me from somewhere like Manchester, I always say their are far more attractive people in-between or more locally to him.

Don't get me wrong, in a world I was still meeting and I genuinely had a strong sexual chemistry with someone and they lived quite far away, I'd consider it but I am also acutely aware they would expect a sex marathon but I'm more of "we've cum, can we just eat snacks and snuggle" after

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By *eyond PurityCouple
38 weeks ago

Lincolnshire

We have travelled quite a fair distance once we’ve met. We had a regular FWB who we travelled over 3 hours to each others house, but we’d spend the weekend or 4 days there.

The right people are worth travelling for.

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By *eardyBikerMan
38 weeks ago

nr stonehaven

Have travelled 120 miles(one way) in the past ...

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By *eroLondonMan
38 weeks ago

Mayfair

About 330 miles round trip, on several occasions. I agree with @Beyond Purity, for the right people (women) it's worth my time, lust and effort.

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By *obyn GravesTV/TS
38 weeks ago

1127 walnut avenue

I've travelled down to Devon..up to Norfolk for meets.. I'd be quite happy to travel further if I like the look of someone and we click really distance doesn't come into it..

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By *issmeltingpotWoman
38 weeks ago

Darlington

Approximately 1900 miles

But it was in Rhodes

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
38 weeks ago

Southampton

I've travelled to Carmarthenshire for a meet....

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By *ittlebirdWoman
38 weeks ago

The Big Smoke

About 500 miles

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By *TG3Man
38 weeks ago

Dorchester

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
38 weeks ago

Herts/Beds/Lomdon

"About 500 miles

And 500 more? What ya proclaiming here?

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By *mmaleiaWoman
38 weeks ago

Trowbridge

For a regular, 10 miles. For a 1 off, maybe 50 miles …

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By *irthandgirthMan
38 weeks ago

Camberley occasionally doncaster

Once drove 300 miles each way from El Centro to Tucson to have a FFM weekend for my birthday several years ago. I had met both ladies (who were friends) previously. I did wear them both out.

Good times.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
38 weeks ago

Reading

10 to 20 miles

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
38 weeks ago

Southampton

"About 500 miles

And 500 more? What ya proclaiming here? "

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By *ong-leggedblondWoman
38 weeks ago

Next Door

I would travel up to 2 hours for a meet with the right person, more if I was comfortable with overnight stays

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By *ubmissiveman2uMan
38 weeks ago

Cheshire

Drove from Cheshire to Dundee once stayed overnight though...

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By (user no longer on site)
38 weeks ago

Within 30 miles for new meet. If a regular than an hourx

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By (user no longer on site)
38 weeks ago

"For a regular, 10 miles. For a 1 off, maybe 50 miles …"

That is interesting cos mine, with longer term partners (a lover for three years and a FWB), were the furthest distances, and the more local ones have been short term (more than a one off).

However, it would have been easier if the FWBs were more local (definitely the reason for the relationship with the FWBs in Norwich finishing was because of distance).

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By *TG3Man
38 weeks ago

Dorchester

"About 500 miles

And 500 more? What ya proclaiming here? "
lol

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By *ripfillMan
38 weeks ago

Paris, New York, Hong Kong and Havant

For the right person it’s not an issue - ( I always carry my national trust membership card with me as a Plan B )

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By (user no longer on site)
38 weeks ago

I've travelled 150 miles for fun...but I've stayed all day long and even a had a few night time stop overs with a few different people but they've also returned the favour and stayed over with me .

If you're only intending to f@ck and go stay local as your fuel and travel bills will go through the roof

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By *eliWoman
38 weeks ago

If it was just sex? Not particularly far, there's no need to. I don't live too far from quite a big city and there are some beautiful people there.

If it's for someone I'm fond of/a very dear friend, I'd happily travel a fair bit further.

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By (user no longer on site)
38 weeks ago

I wouldn't even travel 1 mile for "just sex"

To meet someone I got on with and wanted, distance isn't an issue. I want someone I want. Not someone that's convenient.

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By *ittlebirdWoman
38 weeks ago

The Big Smoke

"About 500 miles

And 500 more? What ya proclaiming here? "

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By *ife NinjaMan
38 weeks ago

Dunfermline

I've been to London Town before. Wasn't just solely for a meet

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By *issmorganWoman
38 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

For a first meet, not far as I'd only do a social anyway.

In the past when I was single, I went to Liverpool to meet someone I knew and also Leicester.

I'd met both of those a few times though.

I also wouldn't want anyone to travel too far to me, as I feel they'd expect more than just a drink and chat.

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By *entleman JayMan
38 weeks ago

Wakefield

I’ve traveled two hours each way. I like a road trip. Adds to the build up. Lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
38 weeks ago

To my front door is my limit but I am kind so i would reimburse you half your travel expenses if you please me!!

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By *adyinred696969Couple
38 weeks ago

Brecon

Our first meet ever was 100 miles away.

We'd built up a rapport, cammed etc, so when it came time to make fantasy a reality we booked a hotel and made a weekend of it.

We plan on heading out to clubs further afeild, and hope to make friends in advanced, although I dont think that really counts.

One guy asked if he could fly over from Chicago to take Jayne lingerie shopping, with zero expectations of actually playing, and when we challenged him he sent us pics of tickets he was going to buy if we gave him the green light (we didnt), so thats 3,900 miles.

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By *ynamicnatureMan
38 weeks ago

Doncaster

I've travelled 85 miles to go to a house party.

It was easily worth it,

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By *rBobbMan
38 weeks ago

Birmingham

Sometimes you just connect with someone who is not on your doorstep. If you both want to meet then do it.

I would never let distance become an obstacle.

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By *andybeachWoman
38 weeks ago

In the middle

I’ve been to Hull n back

and as far down as Felixstowe for regular friends, I used to enjoy a road trip at the weekends

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By *rBobbMan
38 weeks ago

Birmingham

"I’ve been to Hull n back

and as far down as Felixstowe for regular friends, I used to enjoy a road trip at the weekends

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By *KentMan
38 weeks ago

Canterbury

Personally, I’m only going within an hour of my house.

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By *ell GwynnWoman
38 weeks ago

North Yorkshire

I've done a fair amount of travelling to meet people, but they were fascinating, wonderful hot people who I was really into. It's never "just a shag".

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By *eiaorganaWoman
38 weeks ago

Dundee

30 mins, I'm looking for local meets so unless I'm meeting someone at a club then I'm not interested in going further

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By *eroLondonMan
38 weeks ago

Mayfair

"I've done a fair amount of travelling to meet people, but they were fascinating, wonderful hot people who I was really into. It's never "just a shag"."

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Duly noted in my moth-eaten vintage notebook. xx

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By *oundingcockMan
38 weeks ago

PORTSMOUTH

travelled 3662 miles approx for a meet

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By (user no longer on site)
38 weeks ago

It would depend if there was a Parkrun nearby that I want to do.

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
38 weeks ago

A den in the Glen

"About 500 miles

And 500 more? What ya proclaiming here? "

You tit. You beat me too it.

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By *rixie_BlondeWoman
38 weeks ago

London (She/Her)

I flew London - Isle of Man, but that was exceptional, I just had to know if there was something between us.

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By *razymindMan
38 weeks ago

Dublin mainly

I think if connection was that great...then really i could as far as needed...

Especially nowdays you can get very cheap flights..

So probably would be cheaper to fly to a place 800 miles away then to drive to a place 50 miles away

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By (user no longer on site)
38 weeks ago

As someone who travels with work I have met from Aberdeen to Cornwall.

I usually search my post code +500 miles. I have strict filters on for what I am looking for so only shows a few pages at most.

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By (user no longer on site)
38 weeks ago

I always feel that love has no geographical limit, although lust certainly does

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By *eroLondonMan
38 weeks ago

Mayfair

"I always feel that love has no geographical limit, although lust certainly does "

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But desire comes somewhere in between, and will often usurp both over the throne of sex.

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By *amie HantsWoman
38 weeks ago

Atlantis

"I always feel that love has no geographical limit, although lust certainly does

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But desire comes somewhere in between, and will often usurp both over the throne of sex."

Not if it’s further than 15 minutes in the car from mine it won’t

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By *eroLondonMan
38 weeks ago

Mayfair

"I always feel that love has no geographical limit, although lust certainly does

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But desire comes somewhere in between, and will often usurp both over the throne of sex.

Not if it’s further than 15 minutes in the car from mine it won’t "

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Stop flirting with me, Miss Pånts.

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By *arley QuimWoman
38 weeks ago

Somewhere

Less the travel I have an issue with, more everything else around it. Taking time off work, getting pets looked after, booking somewhere to stay over, and cost. Most of those things don't matter as much if it's someone you definitely connect with. I'd be loathe to make the effort and realise in 10mins of meeting it wasn't a match.

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By (user no longer on site)
38 weeks ago

London is the furthest I've travelled but it wasn't for a first meet and it definitely wasn't only for a sex meet for a few hours. If I'm travelling a long way, I want to make sure it's worth the journey.

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By *eroLondonMan
38 weeks ago

Mayfair

"London is the furthest I've travelled but it wasn't for a first meet and it definitely wasn't only for a sex meet for a few hours. If I'm travelling a long way, I want to make sure it's worth the journey."

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It's true, he came to sêê me...and then buggered off to get laid, the cad and bounder!

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By (user no longer on site)
38 weeks ago

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It's true, he came to sêê me...and then buggered off to get laid, the cad and bounder!"

Sorry Nero, but you saw her. Could you really blame me?

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
38 weeks ago

Glasgow / London

"I've done a fair amount of travelling to meet people, but they were fascinating, wonderful hot people who I was really into. It's never "just a shag"."

Nell said it perfectly so I’ll just lazily quote her and say “Yeah, this.”

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By *eroLondonMan
38 weeks ago

Mayfair

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It's true, he came to sêê me...and then buggered off to get laid, the cad and bounder!

Sorry Nero, but you saw her. Could you really blame me?

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In fairness I couldn't. She was the epitome of resplendence.

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By *elboy1978Man
38 weeks ago

Jarrow

I haven’t had a meet yet

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By (user no longer on site)
38 weeks ago

I'd be willing to go 86 miles .. approximately

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By *trapgameWoman
38 weeks ago

West Midlands

In the past I've travelled to the US. More than just a shag, was 100% worth it

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By (user no longer on site)
38 weeks ago

How far is Mrs TMN? That far.

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By (user no longer on site)
38 weeks ago

Jokes aside, I AM travelling to Preston this week. But that’s for love not for fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
38 weeks ago

"I haven’t had a meet yet"

Me neither bud .. i'm just here for the banter

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By *4bimMan
38 weeks ago

Farnborough Hampshire

Use too. Not anymore.

When you've put a lot in with little return you invest elsewhere

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By (user no longer on site)
38 weeks ago

Depends entirely on the person I’m speaking to. If I did have to travel quite far I’d probably make it a weekend getaway and do some sightseeing (they don’t have to be with me to do that)

There’s a few profiles on here that have caught my attention. Not just because they’re insanely hot but I like the way they conduct themselves in the forums.

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By *ullsfan77Man
38 weeks ago

Torquay

1 hours drive-1.5 at a push. Due to a high risk of ghosting time wasters.

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By *rgasmatron1970Man
38 weeks ago

Bromley

I will always travel for pleasure.

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By *ansoffateMan
38 weeks ago

Sagittarius A

The last long one was London, I am happy to for someone I care for.

It's not the travelling it's the time that's an issue and traffic makes that worse, work plus I like my sleep.

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By *r MzchiefMan
38 weeks ago

Middle Earth

Im planning a trip of 175 miles but shes worth it.

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