FabSwingers.com forum: Have you found them?

By (user no longer on site) OP
35 weeks ago

Have you found the person you are looking for on here yet?

What is the type of person you are looking for?

I’m looking for 30+ curvy/bbw woman that is into black men. Can travel into London to meet for a drink every now and then and take it from there….

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By *eliWoman
35 weeks ago

There isn't one.

I've never actively looked for any person on here. There's not a type, physical or mental that I'm particularly searching for.

However... I've found people. They've found me. We've found each other. I've found some beautiful souls who I'm firm friends with - ones who make my soul light up with joy when I hear from them or near them.

And then are those who... well I find myself back in this corner of their life. On their screen. Quickly fall in to an easy familiarity with potential and hope in the missives we exchange. I find myself smiling and thinking about them during the day. Conversations that stimulate, enrich and enhance. Wanting to learn them on a level I don't easily feel. Wanting to be seen by them. Known.

Not looking makes it all the more sweeter when the right person does come in to my life.

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By *ripfillMan
35 weeks ago

Paris, New York, Hong Kong and Havant

My quest … to find someone who can make me laugh so much whilst drinking tea, it then comes down my nose !

Not a good sight … but it’s about communication for me and seeing that ignited spark spread to deeper enriched inner glow

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By *bi HaiveMan
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35 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

'The person' ? Yes and no.

I've found an amazing partner. They're awesome.

I've also found others. Some local and some not so local.

I guess it depends what people are looking for? If it's just that one person then that's fine. If it's a case of seeking different people for different reasons then that's equally good.

I've always found that looking for someone specific is a much harder process than just looking for 'people' and finding the right fit that works for you both, be that a relationship, regular friends or just people you enjoy occasional social/physical time with.

Letting things evolve naturally opens a lot of doors and helps find the right fits for any scenarios.

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By *hil most chillMan
35 weeks ago

South East & Europe

I've found a few of them over the years. They come and go, so enjoy them before they're lost like tears in the rain

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago

Founds lots of lovely people

And a few not so lovely ones

Don't really think this is the place for one special one .... but maybe time will prove me wrong.

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago

I still haven't found, what I'm looking for.

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By *illy IdolMan
35 weeks ago

Midlands

"I still haven't found, what I'm looking for."

You hooooooo

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By *bi HaiveMan
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35 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"I still haven't found, what I'm looking for."

It's Ryan isn't it.

Try hanging around Wrexham.

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago

"I still haven't found, what I'm looking for.

You hooooooo

My vagina has never dried up quicker than upon hearing the words...you hoooooooo

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago

"I still haven't found, what I'm looking for."

Does that mean that you have not kissed honey lips or felt the healing in your fingertips?

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By *illy IdolMan
35 weeks ago

Midlands

"I still haven't found, what I'm looking for.

You hooooooo

My vagina has never dried up quicker than upon hearing the words...you hoooooooo

I'll think of something else next time

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By *eroLondonMan
35 weeks ago

Mayfair

"Have you found the person you are looking for on here yet? "

OP, I don't find them. They find me. As arrogant as that sounds it's actually quite arrogant as it sounds, but in fact quite true.

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By *rHotNottsMan
35 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham

I’ve sure I found all ones of my dreams and few of my nightmares

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By *mf123Man
35 weeks ago

with one foot out the door

I did once it burned hot as the sun but when the wings melted the fall was so bloody long and far to travel so iv decided i wamt what i dont want so i keep my feet on the ground

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By (user no longer on site) OP
35 weeks ago

"Have you found the person you are looking for on here yet?

OP, I don't find them. They find me. As arrogant as that sounds it's actually quite arrogant as it sounds, but in fact quite true."

You lucky guy

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By (user no longer on site) OP
35 weeks ago

"I still haven't found, what I'm looking for."

They will find you, just viewed your profile

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By (user no longer on site) OP
35 weeks ago

"I've found a few of them over the years. They come and go, so enjoy them before they're lost like tears in the rain"

Wow. That was pretty deep

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By (user no longer on site) OP
35 weeks ago

"There isn't one.

I've never actively looked for any person on here. There's not a type, physical or mental that I'm particularly searching for.

Not looking makes it all the more sweeter when the right person does come in to my life.

Great response. I know exactly how you feel about wanting to be seen by them. We have to press on though. Great pictures by the way Meli. Definitely my top fab crush

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By *naswingdressWoman
35 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

Like others, I've found people.

Some are my people. Some have irrevocably changed me. Those two groups aren't a complete overlap. Some I've lost, some barge into my house when I least expect it.

The sex and attraction is almost the least of it.

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By *aGaGagging for itCouple
35 weeks ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Thought we had as this would take us outside our usual play boundaries, which was exciting us, only for them to go quiet on us when we tried to arrange a meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago

Not quite yet, although chatting to some delightful and sexy women a wee bit far for sporadic get together, but I’m hopeful (fingerscrossed)

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By (user no longer on site) OP
35 weeks ago

"Not quite yet, although chatting to some delightful and sexy women a wee bit far for sporadic get together, but I’m hopeful (fingerscrossed) "

What is too far for you?

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago

"Not quite yet, although chatting to some delightful and sexy women a wee bit far for sporadic get together, but I’m hopeful (fingerscrossed)

What is too far for you? "

For a booty call? Probably 40 miles (national speed limit = 30mins) but for a meet without expectation with someone I get on with could be the other side of the world

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By *eroLondonMan
35 weeks ago

Mayfair

"Have you found the person you are looking for on here yet?

OP, I don't find them. They find me. As arrogant as that sounds it's actually quite arrogant as it sounds, but in fact quite true.

You lucky guy"

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Luck and providence has very little to do with it and occasionally it's a double edge sword: some of them are quite mediocre. We men are allowed to have preferences too.

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By *ake_or_deathMan
35 weeks ago

Manchester

I'm not sure I'm looking for one person. The closest was when I met someone who became a regular FWB for a while but who has sadly (for me) disappeared (lockdown didn't help).

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By *hil most chillMan
35 weeks ago

South East & Europe

"I've found a few of them over the years. They come and go, so enjoy them before they're lost like tears in the rain

Wow. That was pretty deep"

That's what she said.

There... ruined it for you

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By *issmorganWoman
35 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

Yep, met my now partner here 8. 5 years ago.. I wasn't looking for more, but it sometimes happens.

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS
35 weeks ago

Stockport

I've met some lovely people, I've made some good friends. I haven't found "the person" here, and I don't expect to find them anywhere now. I think the most I could ever hope for would be to find friends with whom sex might happen once in a while, but that hasn't happened yet. I live in hope that it might. Sometimes the sex thing is just an itch that needs scratching, and a fuck buddy would do, but again it hasn't happened.

Who knows, everything might change tomorrow. But it probably won't.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
35 weeks ago

Central

Looking for many, not one. Not found them all yet

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By *igboro01Man
35 weeks ago

Middlesbrough

Met some good people on here. Not yet met the one!! But I'm still looking x

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
35 weeks ago

Wherever

"I've met some lovely people, I've made some good friends. I haven't found "the person" here, and I don't expect to find them anywhere now. I think the most I could ever hope for would be to find friends with whom sex might happen once in a while, but that hasn't happened yet. I live in hope that it might. Sometimes the sex thing is just an itch that needs scratching, and a fuck buddy would do, but again it hasn't happened.

Who knows, everything might change tomorrow. But it probably won't."

I so want to believe it will, the moment we stop looking.

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago

I’ve met some really lovely people and yes I found the one but he is too busy to notice.

Oh well

Pick myself up, dust myself off and just keep going

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago

No but still hopeful

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By *iss.BellaWoman
35 weeks ago

Chester

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By *exyScientistsCouple
35 weeks ago

Castlebar

Not looking for one particular person or couple. Or maybe we just haven't found THE person. I like a variety

Mrs

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By *iaisonseekerMan
35 weeks ago

Liverpool

It seems to me that Fab is a site where people are looking primarily for experiences/situations rather than people. Most profiles I see (couples in particular) are looking for people (within certain parameters) to fulfil particular scenarios.: MMF, gangbang, cuckolding etc etc

Perhaps that is why the romantically inclined often struggle to find "the" person they're looking for.

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago

No but I’ve only really just started looking I’ve found some nice friends but I think it will be a while before that connection appears

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By *essTTWoman
35 weeks ago

Birmingham

I'd love to met someone on here I can be 100% comfortable and explore with but alas, no luck yet

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By *rAitchMan
35 weeks ago

Diagonally Parked in a Parallel Universe

Nope, not met anyone, and can't remember I last had a chat conversation on here. However, I've not looked.

The older I get, the more I enjoy my own company. Would be nice to have a chat every now and then, though.

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago

"I still haven't found, what I'm looking for.

You hooooooo

My vagina has never dried up quicker than upon hearing the words...you hoooooooo

In the latest research I heard it’s as dry as your wit

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By *ucka39Man
35 weeks ago

Newcastle

Found few just need few more

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By *eardedwonder999Man
35 weeks ago

Worcester

I think I'll have more luck finding a needle in a haystack at this rate

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