FabSwingers.com forum: Getting cheeky cheeky on a first meet

By (user no longer on site) OP
30 weeks ago

Just a simple question because one of my friends went on a date which someone on a different platform and he basically got lucky lucky after only speaking to her the day before just a question are you someone that would actually sleep with that person after knowing them just for one day

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By *eordieJeansCouple
30 weeks ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

That’s basically how fab works for us.

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By *ittleMissCali_MrDJCouple
30 weeks ago

wonderland.

I've played with someone I said hello to 5mins previous...

I don't like private meets anyway.. so at clubs we both often play first time.

Took us months with each other though

Cali

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By *eliWoman
30 weeks ago

I thought meet was bad enough.

Then there came playdate.

And now there's cheeky cheeky on a meet.

Sad times.

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By *ell GwynnWoman
30 weeks ago

North Yorkshire

"I thought meet was bad enough.

Then there came playdate.

And now there's cheeky cheeky on a meet.

Sad times.

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By *ell GwynnWoman
30 weeks ago

North Yorkshire

"I thought meet was bad enough.

Then there came playdate.

And now there's cheeky cheeky on a meet.

Sad times.

As soon as a saw the thread title I thought of you

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By *alandNitaCouple
30 weeks ago

Scunthorpe

"Just a simple question because one of my friends went on a date which someone on a different platform and he basically got lucky lucky after only speaking to her the day before just a question are you someone that would actually sleep with that person after knowing them just for one day

In clubs, we've had sex with people we've never even exchanged names with.

Cal

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By *londebiguyMan
30 weeks ago

Southport

"I thought meet was bad enough.

Then there came playdate.

And now there's cheeky cheeky on a meet.

Sad times.

It feels like toddler talk.

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By (user no longer on site)
30 weeks ago

In clubs, we've had sex with people we've never even exchanged names with.

Cal"

This what it's about, it's not dating, it's a sex site

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By *ivemealadybonerWoman
30 weeks ago

somewhere

"I thought meet was bad enough.

Then there came playdate.

And now there's cheeky cheeky on a meet.

Sad times.

I loathe the words meet and playdate, glad to see someone else on my wave length lol.

I've had socials that had led to the bedroom very quickly, even when the intention wasn't too play but it's happened.

I've never used to dating apps for actual, one on one dating before, only to find a fwb and never just jumped into bed with someone, unless I'm meeting them souly for the purpose of having sex and well, I'm not there to chit chat lol

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By *weetiepie99Woman
30 weeks ago

cardiff

"I thought meet was bad enough.

Then there came playdate.

And now there's cheeky cheeky on a meet.

Sad times.

'Play', it's just eeewww

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By *eliWoman
30 weeks ago

"I thought meet was bad enough.

Then there came playdate.

And now there's cheeky cheeky on a meet.

Sad times.

As soon as a saw the thread title I thought of you

This is the worst thing you've ever typed.

I don't want to be associated with "meet".

Can you imagine?

'Hey Nell, you free next week? I'd really like to spend some naughty time with you and have some cheeky cheeky on our meet. Mmmmmm*'

*because they're the sort of person in my mind who would type mmmmm.

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By *ather WickmasMan
30 weeks ago

The Continental

A day?

Amateur!

Try hanging out of a bird after a meeting her a couple of hours ago.

Fab……..completed it mate.

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By *ellhungvweMan
30 weeks ago

Cheltenham

As others have observed - that is what the site is actually about. There has been an influx of people over the years who now treat it as a dating site but that just seems weird to me.

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By *ex HolesMan
30 weeks ago

Up North

Touch my bum - this is life

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By (user no longer on site) OP
30 weeks ago

Before anyone asks what platform it starts with the letter T

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By *londebiguyMan
30 weeks ago

Southport

Most of my meeting people through Fab or at clubs has been quite spontaneous from a short lead time I'd say.

Some , we've stayed in touch and met again a number of times and some fairly regularly.

I've ground that often planning far ahead, it can just fizzle out.

Of course, timing can be off and life gets in the way so it cannot really be helped.

I'm very relaxed and easy about it all.

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By *ivemealadybonerWoman
30 weeks ago

somewhere

"Before anyone asks what platform it starts with the letter T

That's worse than here for instant sex lol

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By *ather WickmasMan
30 weeks ago

The Continental

"Before anyone asks what platform it starts with the letter T

Definitely an amateur if it took him a day.

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By *essTTWoman
30 weeks ago

Birmingham

Let me guess

He didn't want to date her again cause he thinks he can't talk a woman seriously if she has sex on the first date

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By (user no longer on site)
30 weeks ago

"I thought meet was bad enough.

Then there came playdate.

And now there's cheeky cheeky on a meet.

Sad times.

I loathe the words meet and playdate, glad to see someone else on my wave length lol.

I've had socials that had led to the bedroom very quickly, even when the intention wasn't too play but it's happened.

I like a meet

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By *hil most chillMan
30 weeks ago

South East & Europe

Most of my fab dates have involved boning on the first meet. I never assume, but usually it's clear beforehand if it's going that way or not.

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By *rHotNottsMan
30 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham

"As others have observed - that is what the site is actually about. There has been an influx of people over the years who now treat it as a dating site but that just seems weird to me."

I don't think so. I think you just change what your looking for & move around in different circles.

Fab is huge with lots of sub-groups and many groups never use the forums which is more the dating side of fab

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By *ittlebirdWoman
30 weeks ago

The Big Smoke

"Let me guess

He didn't want to date her again cause he thinks he can't talk a woman seriously if she has sex on the first date

^^ this 100%

Saying that I love first date fucking and if the other person doesn’t take me seriously after that it’s very much their loss

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
30 weeks ago

North East Scotland, mostly

Cheeky cheeky AND lucky lucky on the same date? Whatta guy. I’ve only managed some nawty fun, personally.

Mrs TMN x

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By *TG3Man
30 weeks ago

Dorchester

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well i used to but I've moved on from that now friends first lovers second

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By *icecouple561Couple
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30 weeks ago

East Sussex

I have on the past many times. We both have. Nowadays not so much.

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By *pen to offers!Man
30 weeks ago

Carlisle

Met plenty in clubs who I’ve not spoken to, but just been invited to play with. It’s all part of the fun

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By *heelerMan
30 weeks ago

Northants

Yes most definitely your both wanting it

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By *herry delightWoman
30 weeks ago

Ilfracombe

Got to be honest at a club you don't normally get there name until after playing and then you forget it by the time you get home

You don't need to know someone to have sex. Its only sex after all.

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By (user no longer on site)
30 weeks ago

I like a meet"

Do you mean 'meat'?

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By (user no longer on site)
30 weeks ago

I like a meet

Do you mean 'meat'?"

This is where I've been going wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
30 weeks ago

"I thought meet was bad enough.

Then there came playdate.

And now there's cheeky cheeky on a meet.

Sad times.

It feels like toddler talk."

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By *ea monkeyMan
30 weeks ago

Manchester (he/him)

"Cheeky cheeky AND lucky lucky on the same date? Whatta guy. I’ve only managed some nawty fun, personally.

Mrs TMN x"

I think the word you’re stretching for there is sex.

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By *TG3Man
30 weeks ago

Dorchester

"I thought meet was bad enough.

Then there came playdate.

And now there's cheeky cheeky on a meet.

Sad times.

It feels like toddler talk.

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Your profile pic/avatar is sublime

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
30 weeks ago

North East Scotland, mostly

"Cheeky cheeky AND lucky lucky on the same date? Whatta guy. I’ve only managed some nawty fun, personally.

Mrs TMN x

I think the word you’re stretching for there is sex. "

You’re so vulgar

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By *eyond PurityCouple
30 weeks ago

Lincolnshire

We chatted to a guy on Sunday, met for a drink on Monday and as the vibe was there and the attraction between C and him was hot, we ended up inviting him home.

If you’re in a club sometimes you don’t even know someone’s name

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By *eiaorganaWoman
30 weeks ago

Dundee

In a club, yes.

Private meets, no. If they're coming into my home I need to have had a social with them first and see if we click.

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By *eally_RosieWoman
30 weeks ago

Scunthorpe

I always social first with no guarantees, because I never know if I want to fuck someone until I’ve met them.

Some socials end up with a good fumble in the car afterwards, and the odd one has been known to end in a dash to the Premier Inn next door to book a room.

One things for sure though… if the guy called it ‘cheeky cheeky’ my panties would be staying firmly on x

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By *ot to giggleWoman
30 weeks ago

Coventry

depends !!! have met for social - and have met for social that sort of moved into a whole weekend

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By *ornucopiaMan
30 weeks ago

Bexley

I have zero interest in golf but I often use the term 'A hole in one'.

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By *parkle1974Woman
30 weeks ago

Leeds

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By *ot to giggleWoman
30 weeks ago

Coventry

the other thing here is that not many guys actually deliver what they say they are going to deliver and the ability to actually put a date and time in a diary to turn up is beyond them !! or their wifes dont let them out!

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By *eally_RosieWoman
30 weeks ago

Scunthorpe

"the other thing here is that not many guys actually deliver what they say they are going to deliver and the ability to actually put a date and time in a diary to turn up is beyond them !! or their wifes dont let them out!"

lol this

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
30 weeks ago

Central

Yes. But I've had sex, whatever it is you're asking about OP

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