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By *onyB200 OP   Man
32 weeks ago

london

Just out of curiosity why do guys when leaving a veri when they have met a lady or a couple always put “treat her/them with the respect she/they deserve” surely that would be a natural thing to do without telling other people to do it.

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By *lderflower_AppleWoman
32 weeks ago

Basingstoke

I agree... It seems an odd statement to make, when respect should be at the forefront of anyone's mind when they're meeting and hoping for an enjoyable experience.

I wonder if it's simply that they've seen it written on other verifications so think it's fab etiquette - in much the same way people blindly add in the utterly useless legal warnings to their bios.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
32 weeks ago

The Town by The Cross


"Just out of curiosity why do guys when leaving a veri when they have met a lady or a couple always put “treat her/them with the respect she/they deserve” surely that would be a natural thing to do without telling other people to do it.

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Reason 1 : They are unimaginative twonks who read something once and thought it sounded gentlemanly and fail to realise that it puts them right back in the Edwardian period when all women were no more than chatel to be beaten and taken at his leisure for his pleasure.

Reason 2 : They are unimaginative twonks who read something once and thought it sounded gentlemanly and fail to realise that it puts them right back in the Edwardian period when all women were no more than chatel to be beaten and taken at his leisure for his pleasure.

But mostly it's .......

Reason 3 : They are unimaginative twonks who read something once and thought it sounded gentlemanly and fail to realise that it puts them right back in the Edwardian period when all women were no more than chatel to be beaten and taken at his leisure for his pleasure.

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By *nnCeeWoman
32 weeks ago

East of Eden, West of Hell


"Just out of curiosity why do guys when leaving a veri when they have met a lady or a couple always put “treat her/them with the respect she/they deserve” surely that would be a natural thing to do without telling other people to do it.

Reason 1 : They are unimaginative twonks who read something once and thought it sounded gentlemanly and fail to realise that it puts them right back in the Edwardian period when all women were no more than chatel to be beaten and taken at his leisure for his pleasure.

Reason 2 : They are unimaginative twonks who read something once and thought it sounded gentlemanly and fail to realise that it puts them right back in the Edwardian period when all women were no more than chatel to be beaten and taken at his leisure for his pleasure.

But mostly it's .......

Reason 3 : They are unimaginative twonks who read something once and thought it sounded gentlemanly and fail to realise that it puts them right back in the Edwardian period when all women were no more than chatel to be beaten and taken at his leisure for his pleasure. "

I've yet to read one which says

"Please feel free to use and abuse, they love it! And even if they do, if you do it enough, they'll come to expect it"

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By *ell GwynnWoman
32 weeks ago

North Yorkshire

It's just filler, isn't it. Like when you're doing GCSE coursework and you can't quite make the word count, so you go back and pad it out with waffle and fluff.

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By *waleMFCouple
32 weeks ago

Swale

Not as bad as the veris that talk about "hands off there mine" or similar phrases such a turn off if we see someone has written that

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By *onyB200 OP   Man
32 weeks ago

london

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By *onyB200 OP   Man
32 weeks ago

london

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By *TG3Man
32 weeks ago

Dorchester


"Just out of curiosity why do guys when leaving a veri when they have met a lady or a couple always put “treat her/them with the respect she/they deserve” surely that would be a natural thing to do without telling other people to do it.

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Its just words that fill the space, think about their profiles then you'll understand

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By *onyB200 OP   Man
32 weeks ago

london


"Just out of curiosity why do guys when leaving a veri when they have met a lady or a couple always put “treat her/them with the respect she/they deserve” surely that would be a natural thing to do without telling other people to do it.

Reason 1 : They are unimaginative twonks who read something once and thought it sounded gentlemanly and fail to realise that it puts them right back in the Edwardian period when all women were no more than chatel to be beaten and taken at his leisure for his pleasure.

Reason 2 : They are unimaginative twonks who read something once and thought it sounded gentlemanly and fail to realise that it puts them right back in the Edwardian period when all women were no more than chatel to be beaten and taken at his leisure for his pleasure.

But mostly it's .......

Reason 3 : They are unimaginative twonks who read something once and thought it sounded gentlemanly and fail to realise that it puts them right back in the Edwardian period when all women were no more than chatel to be beaten and taken at his leisure for his pleasure.

I've yet to read one which says

"Please feel free to use and abuse, they love it! And even if they do, if you do it enough, they'll come to expect it" "

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
32 weeks ago

East Sussex

I think it's because they believe that most women/couples don't deserve respect.

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By *illan-KillashMan
32 weeks ago

London/Sussex/Surrey/Berks/Hants


"I think it's because they believe that most women/couples don't deserve respect. "

Don't deserve or don't get?

When I read though some of the threads there's often a clear lack of respect, maybe "treat him/her/them with respect" is attempting to correct it?

*I'm not disrespecting your comment

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
32 weeks ago

East Sussex


"I think it's because they believe that most women/couples don't deserve respect.

Don't deserve or don't get?

When I read though some of the threads there's often a clear lack of respect, maybe "treat him/her/them with respect" is attempting to correct it?

*I'm not disrespecting your comment "

Don't deserve. Before I start I know it's not all men.

Some men do think of women and couples who have multiple partners as less worthy of respect. When they meet someone who is a normal, nice, straightforward person they think they're an exception and more worthy.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
32 weeks ago

East Sussex


"I think it's because they believe that most women/couples don't deserve respect.

Don't deserve or don't get?

When I read though some of the threads there's often a clear lack of respect, maybe "treat him/her/them with respect" is attempting to correct it?

*I'm not disrespecting your comment "

. I know

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By *illan-KillashMan
32 weeks ago

London/Sussex/Surrey/Berks/Hants


"I think it's because they believe that most women/couples don't deserve respect.

Don't deserve or don't get?

When I read though some of the threads there's often a clear lack of respect, maybe "treat him/her/them with respect" is attempting to correct it?

*I'm not disrespecting your comment

Don't deserve. Before I start I know it's not all men.

Some men do think of women and couples who have multiple partners as less worthy of respect. When they meet someone who is a normal, nice, straightforward person they think they're an exception and more worthy."

I see where you're coming from.

I recall a thread comment a while from a man castigated women for having multiple sexual partners.

Thought I'd woken up in the dark ages.

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By *hunky GentMan
32 weeks ago

Maldon and Peterborough

It's respect. Innit bruv

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By *ivemealadybonerWoman
32 weeks ago

somewhere

I think some are sincere when they say it, much like "I had such a nice time with xyz, she's very nice" but they use the respect thing instead because they are trying to convey they are really nice.

Some obviously put it because they have seen others put it.

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By *ellinever70Woman
32 weeks ago

Ayrshire


"I think it's because they believe that most women/couples don't deserve respect.

Don't deserve or don't get?

When I read though some of the threads there's often a clear lack of respect, maybe "treat him/her/them with respect" is attempting to correct it?

*I'm not disrespecting your comment

Don't deserve. Before I start I know it's not all men.

Some men do think of women and couples who have multiple partners as less worthy of respect. When they meet someone who is a normal, nice, straightforward person they think they're an exception and more worthy."

Maybe if they had more respect for themselves they'd meet normal, nice, straightforward people more often

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By *ucka39Man
32 weeks ago

Newcastle

From there own experience with observation it suggests would be nice to offer a little normality which does get forgotten at times

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