FabSwingers.com forum: Wife has lost the desire -But I am still Horney

By *XBCPL OP Man
26 weeks ago

West London

Wifey has lost the desire to engage in the lifestyle- Menipause has kicked in - am I the only one ?? I am still good to go!

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By (user no longer on site)
26 weeks ago

But she's the one we're all interested in, and you're the one we tolerate just to see her.

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By *ris GrayMan
26 weeks ago

Dorchester

Ahhhh you're not a couple anymore i guess you'll struggle here unless you create a single male profile where you'll constantly struggle

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By *XBCPL OP Man
26 weeks ago

West London

"But she's the one we're all interested in, and you're the one we tolerate just to see her."

10000% agree I am just a peg in the wheel and I love watching men with her Sigh!

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By (user no longer on site)
26 weeks ago

Congrats, you are now the same as 99.9% of guys on here.

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By *nitterWoman
26 weeks ago

the land of tall tales and yarn

That's a question for her not us

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By *uckurcumMan
26 weeks ago

Bishop Auckland

So what happens now to the liberated swinging lifestyle in Dubai you said in a previous post was feeding your desire for sexual enjoyment between you as a couple ?

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By *imply DeeWoman
26 weeks ago

Wherever

So you’re just another single bloke on couples profile then?

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By *ivemealadybonerWoman
26 weeks ago

somewhere

A lot as happened in four days OP (in response to your pinner etc thread).

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By *mmaleiaWoman
26 weeks ago

East Northamptonshire

Headline news today; another menopausal woman thrown on the scrap heap because man’s penis is more important instead of dealing with the situation!

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By *ark n kimCouple
26 weeks ago

Durham

For me the male half.all the fun in this lifestyle is that we do it together. personally I would say give her time to get the desire back.

But as I have said before we are all different and it's not a case of one size fits all.

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By *XBCPL OP Man
26 weeks ago

West London

Lol looks like it - and hence time to shut down the account now I guess

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By (user no longer on site)
26 weeks ago

"Lol looks like it - and hence time to shut down the account now I guess"

We will miss you.

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By *XBCPL OP Man
26 weeks ago

West London

It's time for us to move on - it was amazing while it lasted - now back to Vanila and always keep in memory the good times of the lifestyle X

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By *ifehunter93Man
26 weeks ago

Wilts/ Ox Border

I wondered does your wife want to meet on an intellectual level and still chat with other men with them knowing it won’t lead to anything?

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By *ove2-lickMan
26 weeks ago

Worcester

Op welcome to the struggling singles club

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By *icecouple561Couple
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26 weeks ago

East Sussex

She's at the younger end of the age for peri/menopause. Has she seen a medical professional?

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By *XBCPL OP Man
26 weeks ago

West London

"She's at the younger end of the age for peri/menopause. Has she seen a medical professional?"

Yes and now doing the rounds on the web and books and all the collagen and menopause pills - HRTvmaybe an option - but that's all good need to support

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By *illy IdolMan
26 weeks ago

Midlands

"Lol looks like it - and hence time to shut down the account now I guess"

See you in two weeks

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By (user no longer on site)
26 weeks ago

"But she's the one we're all interested in, and you're the one we tolerate just to see her."

Mrs

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
26 weeks ago

Central

"It's time for us to move on - it was amazing while it lasted - now back to Vanila and always keep in memory the good times of the lifestyle X"

Vanilla? Or celibacy?

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By (user no longer on site)
26 weeks ago

"Headline news today; another menopausal woman thrown on the scrap heap because man’s penis is more important instead of dealing with the situation! "

I'm glad I'm part of the patriarchy. If I wasn't I'd be totally upset at this.

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By *idcot58Man
26 weeks ago

Chepstow

Been through menopause with wife turned from horny woman to no sex at all

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By (user no longer on site)
26 weeks ago

"Been through menopause with wife turned from horny woman to no sex at all"

My condolences

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By *antastic_Mr_Fox_76Man
26 weeks ago

District 13

Are you sure it’s menopause (shrug)

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By *eyond PurityCouple
26 weeks ago

Lincolnshire

I hope the OP got several PM’s from ladies wanting to help him out whilst his wife is out of action and before he closes his account, as he said he was doing 10 hours ago.

Must take admin a while to do it now

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By *eyond PurityCouple
26 weeks ago

Lincolnshire

"Wifey has lost the desire to engage in the lifestyle- Menipause has kicked in - am I the only one ?? I am still good to go!"

Hormones can be a bitch. I hope your wife gets the medical and emotional support she needs. It may take a while to balance things, so be patient.

C x

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By *iaisonseekerMan
26 weeks ago

Liverpool

"Wifey has lost the desire to engage in the lifestyle- Menipause has kicked in - am I the only one ?? I am still good to go!"

Would you say that she was freed from desire?

Mind and senses purified?

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By (user no longer on site)
26 weeks ago

"So what happens now to the liberated swinging lifestyle in Dubai you said in a previous post was feeding your desire for sexual enjoyment between you as a couple ? "

Things change in minutes, a bit like the weather.

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By *rsKOTCTWoman
25 weeks ago

Leeds

"I hope the OP got several PM’s from ladies wanting to help him out whilst his wife is out of action and before he closes his account, as he said he was doing 10 hours ago.

Must take admin a while to do it now

Days it seems.

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By *reggSausageMan
25 weeks ago

derby

What happened to love …..

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By *urvytreatWoman
25 weeks ago

somewhere nice

If only men could understand the struggles of menopause!! It’s not just physical changes we go though, it’s emotionally hard too.

Surely supporting your wife is more important than getting yer leg over!!

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By *ornycougaWoman
25 weeks ago

NORWAY Wherever I lay my hat

"What happened to love ….. "

FTS when a guy wants to pound a pussy

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By *rAngryPantzMan
25 weeks ago

near you.

"Wifey has lost the desire to engage in the lifestyle- Menipause has kicked in - am I the only one ?? I am still good to go!"

Not the only one. However, you continuing with it is a discussion you should be having with her.

However, if you continue solo, don’t expect it to be anywhere near the same experience.

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By (user no longer on site)
25 weeks ago

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By (user no longer on site)
25 weeks ago

"Wifey has lost the desire to engage in the lifestyle- Menipause has kicked in - am I the only one ?? I am still good to go!"

Ask Sabrina to help you update your couple profile. It's not correct now things have changed so greatly.

I'd suggest keeping Sabrina in the loop and being upfront.

Both of your hormones need looking after

We are selective and believe in Quality over Quantity!

We have been in this game for a while - After not so great experiences - We are back and selective!! We only do club meets and with verified people.

We are in good shape (Not Super Models), well traveled and love the build up socially no Wham Bam- Hygiene and nice sweet aromatic smells is a Must!!

We have a preference and if you match it - We will respond and if we don't please respect our desires.

Just to set Expectations we are Soft Swap but Open to Everything!

Zak is also allowed to play alone and would welcome any invites - and allowed to have a playmate he/she X

Single Guys - I know it's a tough game - We will find you Sigh if need be - But I know it's tough!!

Lastly we only meet in London and Dubai

Thanks for reading!

Zak and SabrinaXXX

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By *XBCPL OP Man
25 weeks ago

West London

Appreciate your honesty and guidance X

"Wifey has lost the desire to engage in the lifestyle- Menipause has kicked in - am I the only one ?? I am still good to go!

Ask Sabrina to help you update your couple profile. It's not correct now things have changed so greatly.

I'd suggest keeping Sabrina in the loop and being upfront.

Both of your hormones need looking after

We are selective and believe in Quality over Quantity!

We have been in this game for a while - After not so great experiences - We are back and selective!! We only do club meets and with verified people.

We are in good shape (Not Super Models), well traveled and love the build up socially no Wham Bam- Hygiene and nice sweet aromatic smells is a Must!!

We have a preference and if you match it - We will respond and if we don't please respect our desires.

Just to set Expectations we are Soft Swap but Open to Everything!

Zak is also allowed to play alone and would welcome any invites - and allowed to have a playmate he/she X

Single Guys - I know it's a tough game - We will find you Sigh if need be - But I know it's tough!!

Lastly we only meet in London and Dubai

Thanks for reading!

Zak and SabrinaXXX

From female "

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