FabSwingers.com forum: Asking for a friend :)

By *afarka OP Man
36 weeks ago

South of France & London

So he's friends with a couple and there is quite a bit of bantz especially with the female. They message a bit and send the odd kiss. All harmless but he wonders if she might actually be up for some fun based on a few things she said in passing. Nothing blatantly obvious. Any advice I can give him on testing the water from those who might have taken the plunge with close friends?

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
36 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

Ask them both.

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By *lueLotusWoman
36 weeks ago

the wilderness

Yeah just ask them are they swingers

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By *afarka OP Man
36 weeks ago

South of France & London

That's what I don't know.

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By *afarka OP Man
36 weeks ago

South of France & London

I mean...he dosn't know

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
36 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

"I mean...he dosn't know

If 'He' wants to fuck 'His' friend's Mrs behind his back, I'm glad I'm not 'His' friend

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By *afarka OP Man
36 weeks ago

South of France & London

I meant ... he doesn't know if THEY are swingers

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By (user no longer on site)
36 weeks ago

"I meant ... he doesn't know if THEY are swingers "

Reply and quote op.

That's the only advice I have

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By *ohn.Wick.Man
36 weeks ago

The Continental

So just ask them. It’s easy really.

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By *hunky GentMan
36 weeks ago

Maldon and Peterborough

My ironing lady always signs of with a kiss.

I think it's become 'a bit of a norm' these days.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
36 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

I stick a 'x' on the end of messages to some friends. Means nothing.

I get them in messages from clients too. And 'banter'.

Pretty sure they're not swingers and don't want to fuck me though.

Never assume. And is it worth risking fucking up a good friendship over?

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By *alandNitaCouple
36 weeks ago

Scunthorpe

Certainly don't read anything into kisses on messages. 90% of all messages I get from ladies (even work messages) have a kiss at the end. Many people just do this.

Cal

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By *hunky GentMan
36 weeks ago

Maldon and Peterborough

If asks to suck your cock then you've got your answer

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By *esthetic21Man
36 weeks ago

Birmingham/Bristol

Leave it. If they want you to know they will tell you

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By *ansoffateMan
36 weeks ago

Sagittarius A

Invite them round for a BBQ, say two weeks away.

Setup a little WhatsApp group to plan the evening. Seriously if everyone is cool with it - you'll know.

If there's anything there you'll be fucking before...

I was going to say the steak's done... You guys start without me, I'll catch up.

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By *lofeldMan
36 weeks ago

Redhill

"Invite them round for a BBQ, say two weeks away.

Setup a little WhatsApp group to plan the evening. Seriously if everyone is cool with it - you'll know.

If there's anything there you'll be fucking before...

I was going to say the steak's done... You guys start without me, I'll catch up. "

Better still, instead of a bbq, tell them that you will be hosting a spitroast.

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By *ansoffateMan
36 weeks ago

Sagittarius A

"Invite them round for a BBQ, say two weeks away.

Setup a little WhatsApp group to plan the evening. Seriously if everyone is cool with it - you'll know.

If there's anything there you'll be fucking before...

I was going to say the steak's done... You guys start without me, I'll catch up.

Better still, instead of a bbq, tell them that you will be hosting a spitroast."

Hmmmm I love it with stuffing and apple sauce.

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By *lofeldMan
36 weeks ago

Redhill

"Invite them round for a BBQ, say two weeks away.

Setup a little WhatsApp group to plan the evening. Seriously if everyone is cool with it - you'll know.

If there's anything there you'll be fucking before...

I was going to say the steak's done... You guys start without me, I'll catch up.

Better still, instead of a bbq, tell them that you will be hosting a spitroast.

Hmmmm I love it with stuffing and apple sauce."

And the option to stick a generous helping of pork between baps.

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By *issmorganWoman
36 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

Assume nothing, if they are into swinging I'm sure they'll let you know.

Also don't exclude her partner from anything.

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By *hat.coupleCouple
36 weeks ago

Dartford

I'd suggest dropping into a conversation with them both that you are on a swingers site, maybe after a few drinks!. But don't ask them openly, just see where the conversation leads and if they are swingers or interested I'm sure they'll ask. I'd not recommend just coming out and asking if he wants you to fuck his wife, could end in a punch up.

Mrs

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By *rsKOTCTWoman
36 weeks ago

Leeds

An X on the end of a message is generally accidental in many cases.

Just ask them, simple really.

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By *inger_SnapWoman
36 weeks ago

Hampshire/Dorset

"I mean...he dosn't know

If 'He' wants to fuck 'His' friend's Mrs behind his back, I'm glad I'm not 'His' friend

Exactly. It won't end well

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