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By (user no longer on site) OP   
26 weeks ago

Isn’t it the worst?

No just love. Lust too. Story of my life

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
26 weeks ago

I’m such a slut. Never satisfied.

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By *wiss Army KnifeMan
26 weeks ago

Second star to the right…

Never be satisfied, never settle and the World is your oyster

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By *eliWoman
26 weeks ago

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I've never experienced it. I don't think I want to.

I'm too much of a slut for reciprocated lust and feelings and desire to know someone.

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By (user no longer on site)
26 weeks ago

Can be just as hard for the other person too, they may want to reciprocate,but just ain’t feeling it. Wanting to love someone who deserves loving is just as tough

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By *agnar73Man
26 weeks ago

glasgow-ish

Heartbreak. That not good enough feeling. Wanting to say more, stopping.

Ah. The pointlessness of it and time and thought expended.

Yeah, never again.

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By *929Man
26 weeks ago

newcastle

I done it for 15 years (due to kids) I knew more or less from the start there were happy times don’t get me wrong was just thinking this the other day watching the Christmas 2013 video when kids were just 4 and 6 (she ran off with someone else a few weeks later before coming back) and thinking if she had even been able to bring herself to feel the slightest thing for me life could have turned out so much different but can’t change what other people think or feel

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
26 weeks ago

Reading

No I soon go off people if it's not requited. Not a fan of smacking my head against a brick wall.

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By *ad NannaWoman
26 weeks ago

East London

Imagine all those people in the world who don't even get a handjob from another person.

Think yourself lucky, Pickle.

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By *obilebottomMan
26 weeks ago

All over


"I done it for 15 years (due to kids) I knew more or less from the start there were happy times don’t get me wrong was just thinking this the other day watching the Christmas 2013 video when kids were just 4 and 6 (she ran off with someone else a few weeks later before coming back) and thinking if she had even been able to bring herself to feel the slightest thing for me life could have turned out so much different but can’t change what other people think or feel "

You made me feel sad about that, really. Can be a softy at times. Sorry to hear but hope all better and healed now

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
26 weeks ago

Reading


"Can be just as hard for the other person too, they may want to reciprocate,but just ain’t feeling it. Wanting to love someone who deserves loving is just as tough "

Great point. I wish I could have been in love with my ex.

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By *ellinever70Woman
26 weeks ago

Ayrshire

It's the folly of youth

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By *ad NannaWoman
26 weeks ago

East London

I don't do love, and if someone I lust over isn't interested in me I soon forget about them.

Something about lack of object constancy, maybe.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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26 weeks ago

East Sussex


"No I soon go off people if it's not requited. Not a fan of smacking my head against a brick wall."

I'm like that. If a person doesn't want me I soon don't want them. It's not ideal in some ways but it makes life easier

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By *ellinever70Woman
26 weeks ago

Ayrshire


"I done it for 15 years (due to kids) I knew more or less from the start there were happy times don’t get me wrong was just thinking this the other day watching the Christmas 2013 video when kids were just 4 and 6 (she ran off with someone else a few weeks later before coming back) and thinking if she had even been able to bring herself to feel the slightest thing for me life could have turned out so much different but can’t change what other people think or feel "

Are you saying that you were together for 15 years, had children and she never loved you?

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By *ansoffateMan
26 weeks ago

Sagittarius A

Going to disagree on that one.

When two people love each other, but other factors make the relationship impossible or toxic.

E.g. loving someone who loves you, but has a mental illness that makes attachment a trigger, such as fear of abandonment in BPD for example. Where they sabotage the relationship and then hurt themselves out of regret, cyclically. Watching someone you love do that is gut-wrenching.

But unrequited love sucks too.

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By *ee69Man
26 weeks ago

glasgow


"Isn’t it the worst?

No just love. Lust too. Story of my life "

Deffo I’m a slut too lol

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By *uriousscouserWoman
26 weeks ago

Wirral

It is the absolute worst, but I like to think that if Keanu Reeves ever actually met me he'd love me just as much as I do him.

It's not really unrequited, more stalkerish, so that's nice.

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By *929Man
26 weeks ago

newcastle


"I done it for 15 years (due to kids) I knew more or less from the start there were happy times don’t get me wrong was just thinking this the other day watching the Christmas 2013 video when kids were just 4 and 6 (she ran off with someone else a few weeks later before coming back) and thinking if she had even been able to bring herself to feel the slightest thing for me life could have turned out so much different but can’t change what other people think or feel

You made me feel sad about that, really. Can be a softy at times. Sorry to hear but hope all better and healed now "

Thank you my friend yes better now I still and always will miss having a family but If she was at my door begging me to take her back with 10 million quid in her purse I’d say no

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By *929Man
26 weeks ago

newcastle


"I done it for 15 years (due to kids) I knew more or less from the start there were happy times don’t get me wrong was just thinking this the other day watching the Christmas 2013 video when kids were just 4 and 6 (she ran off with someone else a few weeks later before coming back) and thinking if she had even been able to bring herself to feel the slightest thing for me life could have turned out so much different but can’t change what other people think or feel

Are you saying that you were together for 15 years, had children and she never loved you?"

Yes she fell pregnant very early after a few months, she ran off with someone else while pregnant before coming back, ran off with another bloke again in early 2014, left again in 2015 after I’d just bought a house for us (swears nobody else was involved and do believe her that time) always told me “the kids won’t be young forever” and how we could never have what her and her ex had ect to me living with my kids was worth it still

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
26 weeks ago


"I've never experienced it. I don't think I want to.

I'm too much of a slut for reciprocated lust and feelings and desire to know someone. "

Well I have never sought out unrequited lust. It just happens. Not being someone’s type or not being quite enough etc. blah blah. You know the rest

Sad times

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By *ittlebirdWoman
26 weeks ago

The Big Smoke


"Isn’t it the worst?

No just love. Lust too. Story of my life "

Sup?

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By *iss.Bella.Woman
26 weeks ago

Wales


"No I soon go off people if it's not requited. Not a fan of smacking my head against a brick wall."

Exactly this. life's too short

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By (user no longer on site)
26 weeks ago

There's unrequited lust masquerading as love.

Then you see their Facebook page 20 years later and thank the gods you never married that nerdy little turd in Ottawa with his geeky wife.

Thank gods I met The Redhead.

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By (user no longer on site)
26 weeks ago


"Isn’t it the worst?

No just love. Lust too. Story of my life "

That's coz you got a heart the size of a range rover

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
26 weeks ago

Reading


"There's unrequited lust masquerading as love.

Then you see their Facebook page 20 years later and thank the gods you never married that nerdy little turd in Ottawa with his geeky wife.

Thank gods I met The Redhead.

"

Plus bigamy

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By *mf123Man
26 weeks ago

with one foot out the door

Just as bad as once requited

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
26 weeks ago


"Isn’t it the worst?

No just love. Lust too. Story of my life

Sup? "

Fancy a chat?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
26 weeks ago


"Isn’t it the worst?

No just love. Lust too. Story of my life

That's coz you got a heart the size of a range rover"

bigger than that mate

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By *uriousscouserWoman
26 weeks ago

Wirral


"There's unrequited lust masquerading as love.

Then you see their Facebook page 20 years later and thank the gods you never married that nerdy little turd in Ottawa with his geeky wife.

Thank gods I met The Redhead.

"

I'm in purchasing because when I was 22 I really fancied a buyer and I wangled my way into the desk next to his (HR didn't go for my suggestion that we share a chair).

He was gorgeous and older and cool and I lusted after him long after we stopped working together. He inspired so very many masturbatory fantasies that the mention of his (fairly common) name made me come over all unnecessary.

In 2017 I was finishing a 6 month contract at a company and he came to pick the role up from me and he was an absolute arsehole. I wanted to go back to 22 year old me and give her a slap upside the head; what the hell was I thinking?

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By (user no longer on site)
26 weeks ago


"Imagine all those people in the world who don't even get a handjob from another person.

Think yourself lucky, Pickle."

Are you saying you gave Mr P a handjob?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
26 weeks ago


"Imagine all those people in the world who don't even get a handjob from another person.

Think yourself lucky, Pickle.

Are you saying you gave Mr P a handjob? "

I fucking wish

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