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By *XBCPL OP   Man
26 weeks ago

West London

Is there an age?or a feeling ?at some point uiu gotta stop - Right?

What's the oldest ages swinger you been with M/F?

Me was 64 and was amazing! Good shape nice looks X

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By (user no longer on site)
26 weeks ago

45

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By (user no longer on site)
26 weeks ago


"45"

Fair.

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By *ris GrayMan
26 weeks ago

Dorchester

Not sure don't like to ask their age

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By *ittlemiss Hal O weenCouple
26 weeks ago

Southampton


"45"

Bollocks I should have stopped last year lol

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By *ellhungvweMan
26 weeks ago

Cheltenham

I think you stop when you don’t enjoy it anymore. I am enjoying it so got a few more years in me yet.

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By *ivemealadybonerWoman
26 weeks ago

somewhere


"45"

Best get a good dicking in the next 6 weeks for me then!

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By *rispyDuckMan
26 weeks ago

Chinese Takeaway near you

When I need a whole 4 pack of Viagra & use a defibrillator on my cock just to get an erection lol

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By *ucka39Man
26 weeks ago

Newcastle

56 and she didn't look anything in her 50s a more 43

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By *ustincamebridgeCouple
26 weeks ago

manchester


"45"

You will get past 50 and get hornier. Reach 60 and your limited inhibitions are replaced with a WTF attitude. Heading to 70 and partners become limited. Reach 80 and the bed bath in the care home . Becomes a bonus

Don’t stop

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By *weet and SpiceCouple
26 weeks ago

Around the Midlands

We'll probably stop when we aren't feeling it anymore or life circumstances change, but cannot imagine still doing it in our 70s!

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By (user no longer on site)
26 weeks ago

I think this might be the year - aging and loosing body confidence

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

26 weeks ago

East Sussex

When you feel like it. Fewer people want to meet you as you get older so it also depends on that

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By *he love catsCouple
26 weeks ago

South Wales

I'm going until it falls off.

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By *ickyKlungespeareMan
26 weeks ago

St Leonards

I asked my penis that very question this morning, and he said:

"Singing? I'll stop that when I don't hear things so well any more."

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By *imply DeeWoman
26 weeks ago

Wherever

I haven’t even started properly yet.

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By *heelerMan
26 weeks ago

Northants

99 after that you're out of people's age range.

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By *heelerMan
26 weeks ago

Northants


"I think this might be the year - aging and loosing body confidence "

Well you certainly look good for many years yet

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By *ickyKlungespeareMan
26 weeks ago

St Leonards


"I haven’t even started properly yet."

We can tell - you're still getting dressed to go out .

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By *ulie.your. bottom. slutTV/TS
26 weeks ago

Glasgow

Stop, when you start getting injuries from fucking. That's your body telling you this ain't for you anymore. Every one is different so you can't say this age or that.

Depends on your mileage, how many owners and service history

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By *illy IdolMan
26 weeks ago

Midlands


"I think this might be the year - aging and loosing body confidence "

Do you reckon you can hold out for 4 more years?

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By *eliWoman
26 weeks ago

.


"45"

Middle aged sounds about right. Most Fab users would go though.

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By *rHotNottsMan
26 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham

You get some quote mature couples on the full swap separate room couples scene.

Oldest was 54f and 56m , they were both very highly sexed, fit and gorgeous. At the time was mind blowingly good , 8 hours of non stop sex.

If you look after your body and eat well you should be good well into your 60s

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By (user no longer on site)
26 weeks ago


"45

Middle aged sounds about right. Most Fab users would go though. "

At least I have a good reason to unlos this time.

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By (user no longer on site)
26 weeks ago


"

If you look after your body and eat well you should be good well into your 60s

"

That's me fucked then

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
26 weeks ago

chichester

People should stop sexing after 47 is probably right. Life of celibacy and servitude to your country should become the only priority from then on

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By *roadShoulderzMan
26 weeks ago

Croydon


"When you feel like it. Fewer people want to meet you as you get older so it also depends on that"

Not sure I agree! I turn down more meets now than ever before. Whether there are more people with "daddy issues" or whether the stigma of not going with older has changed, but I find it to be the opposite

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By *inkyandthebrain2023Couple
26 weeks ago

Cheshire


"I think this might be the year - aging and loosing body confidence "

Looking at your pics I hope not.

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By (user no longer on site)
26 weeks ago

I went with 77 year old and had a lot of fun and will be going back for more

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

26 weeks ago

East Sussex


"When you feel like it. Fewer people want to meet you as you get older so it also depends on that

Not sure I agree! I turn down more meets now than ever before. Whether there are more people with "daddy issues" or whether the stigma of not going with older has changed, but I find it to be the opposite "

that's great

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By *wiss Army KnifeMan
26 weeks ago

Second star to the right…

14 or is that the year i should of stopped?

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By *allipygousMan
26 weeks ago

Leicester


"When you feel like it. Fewer people want to meet you as you get older so it also depends on that"

A lot of people are unable to appreciate a fine wine

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By *rHotNottsMan
26 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham


"When you feel like it. Fewer people want to meet you as you get older so it also depends on that

Not sure I agree! I turn down more meets now than ever before. Whether there are more people with "daddy issues" or whether the stigma of not going with older has changed, but I find it to be the opposite "

It’s quite different for women. While lots of guys claim to have a thing for older women it’s often just that they think it will be easier for them. With guys it’s different I think around 47/48 is the prime age for women in 20s&30s based on mine and friends experiences, it’s drips about at 50 , because women mature much younger than men and value things like stability & success which come much later in life for men but they also want for sexual men so you have a golden 7years 47-54 ish

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By *ris GrayMan
26 weeks ago

Dorchester

I'm gonna quit at 49

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By *agatoXXXMan
26 weeks ago

Gone and completely forgotten.

Probably the I was just before I joined Fab.

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By *alcon77Man
26 weeks ago

under the sun & the moon

Tomorrow

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
26 weeks ago

Reading

When I'm in danger of breaking my hip

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By *agatoXXXMan
26 weeks ago

Gone and completely forgotten.


"Probably the I was just before I joined Fab."

*Age

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By (user no longer on site)
26 weeks ago


"45"

what's wrong with 98?

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
26 weeks ago

Reading


"When you feel like it. Fewer people want to meet you as you get older so it also depends on that

Not sure I agree! I turn down more meets now than ever before. Whether there are more people with "daddy issues" or whether the stigma of not going with older has changed, but I find it to be the opposite

It’s quite different for women. While lots of guys claim to have a thing for older women it’s often just that they think it will be easier for them. With guys it’s different I think around 47/48 is the prime age for women in 20s&30s based on mine and friends experiences, it’s drips about at 50 , because women mature much younger than men and value things like stability & success which come much later in life for men but they also want for sexual men so you have a golden 7years 47-54 ish "

I dont agree!

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By *enk15Man
26 weeks ago

Evesham

When the quimstick stops working, or I can no longer make it to the bathroom in time... whatever age that is.

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By *oding1Man
26 weeks ago

marlow


"Is there an age?or a feeling ?at some point uiu gotta stop - Right?

What's the oldest ages swinger you been with M/F?

Me was 64 and was amazing! Good shape nice looks X"

Got a age who cares its just a number. Been with a wonderful lady of 78 at abfabs. And still got that feeling.

Rod

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By *ugarbearCouple
26 weeks ago

Tredegar

i'm 60 and have stopped but i might still suck cock if urge takes

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By *XBCPL OP   Man
26 weeks ago

West London

Love the vibe amazing - Yeah the party don't stop lol Stay blessed X

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By *eah4545Couple
26 weeks ago

glasgow

For me it would depend on a couple of things. 1: if I still enjoy it ( hope I do for a long time yet lol)

2: on how the other person performed, looked etc

I’ve had the best time with an older guy 60’ish and he did not disappoint

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By *ris GrayMan
26 weeks ago

Dorchester

Ok I'm stopping at 50

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
26 weeks ago

Herts

50 3/4.

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By *ris GrayMan
26 weeks ago

Dorchester


"50 3/4. "
yes i get that

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By *ustamanMan
26 weeks ago

weymouth

When folks no longer want to have sex with you - jury's out on me at the moment

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By *avexxMan
26 weeks ago

cheshire

64 and 3 months

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By *lecom1Couple
26 weeks ago

Stornoway

Still going on here. We have a visitor coming to stay this weekend

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By *ris GrayMan
26 weeks ago

Dorchester


"Still going on here. We have a visitor coming to stay this weekend"
ET?

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By *andybeachWoman
26 weeks ago

In the middle

57!! And only because I don’t the chance to do it anymore

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By (user no longer on site)
26 weeks ago

I'm still fairly new to this but at a party I enjoyed the company of a 71 year old and he was just as good as a younger man

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By *andybeachWoman
26 weeks ago

In the middle


"Still going on here. We have a visitor coming to stay this weekendET? "

Have you see the size of his finger

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By *elloWoman
26 weeks ago

alpha centauri

Age on here goes to 99 so I'm guessing once you turn 100 you get a birthday card from the king and in the card he tells you your swinging days are over so hang up your G-string, dump the lube and just dribble in your chair by the sunny window in the home

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By *avexxMan
26 weeks ago

cheshire


"Age on here goes to 99 so I'm guessing once you turn 100 you get a birthday card from the king and in the card he tells you your swinging days are over so hang up your G-string, dump the lube and just dribble in your chair by the sunny window in the home "
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By *iddle ManMan
26 weeks ago

Walsall

I think you stop when you don't enjoy it anymore, than could be for a number of reasons. You should not be setting a limit, or a high ceiling for yourself that's for sure.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
26 weeks ago

Central

99, upwards

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By *alm_one4Man
26 weeks ago

RM16

I think we all get to a stage where we feel enough is enough, but it can also be when meets stop happening which, effectively, is everyone else deciding!

Many years ago I had a meet with a late 60’s/early 70’s Lady which is the oldest person I’ve met, by some distance

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By (user no longer on site)
26 weeks ago


"What is the age you stop swinging! "

Depends. If I am wearing boxers never, but briefs mean no swing.

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By *ot to giggleWoman
26 weeks ago

Coventry

when i cant get my legs up any more and i need undressing and dressing afterwards

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By *ripfillMan
26 weeks ago

havant

When I am 69

Then I will think about stopping - 69 is suck lick - lick suck

If I have passed that test then I get my licence back to carry on . Reviewed annually.

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By *avinaTVTV/TS
26 weeks ago

Transsexual Transylvania

56, apparently.

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By *xonman53Man
26 weeks ago

Thame

You look great!!

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By (user no longer on site)
26 weeks ago

When you dont enjoy it anymore

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By *cotty_01ukMan
26 weeks ago

birmingham

Just keep going

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By *assionate explorer 1Man
26 weeks ago

Folkestone

The oldest couple I have been a bull for were in their 50's.

Don't think there's an age limit. Just need the sexual chemistry

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS
26 weeks ago

Stockport

Fab says you've got to go after 99...

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By *abluesbabyMan
26 weeks ago

Gibraltar/Cheshire/London

This thread with different age limits is making me think of the glossy packaging on boxes of Lego.

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By *ife NinjaMan
26 weeks ago

Dunfermline

When one is deceased

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By (user no longer on site)
26 weeks ago

I went to the local swingers spa for my 50th birthday and had the best night ever. While there, a couple in their late 70s came in. She was a little nervous as it was her first time. An hour later she was full of smiles and said "I'm definitely coming again!"

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By *ris GrayMan
26 weeks ago

Dorchester


"Still going on here. We have a visitor coming to stay this weekendET?

Have you see the size of his finger "

oh yes and long almost penis shaped good thinking

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
26 weeks ago

chichester

Think I’ll just hire people for sex if I ever get to a stage where I can’t meet anyone for sex casually

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By *oney HoneyWoman
26 weeks ago

York

I was wondering this exact thing yesterday. Wondering if when I get to 60/70 will I still be able to attract men and will I even still be interested in sex?!

Then this morning I got a random message from a man in his 80s… he wasn’t being creepy, or trying to suggest a meet, was just admiring my photos. It cheered me up as I thought, yep, there isn’t really an age limit!

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
26 weeks ago

little house on the praire

I stopped at 56. I think I burnt myself out after 40 years of swinging

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By *B69Woman
26 weeks ago

Wiltshire

Hoping I still have a few years in me

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By *agondaMan
26 weeks ago

Witterings


"I was wondering this exact thing yesterday. Wondering if when I get to 60/70 will I still be able to attract men and will I even still be interested in sex?!

Then this morning I got a random message from a man in his 80s… he wasn’t being creepy, or trying to suggest a meet, was just admiring my photos. It cheered me up as I thought, yep, there isn’t really an age limit! "

Bravo! There isn’t a physical age limit, it’s all in our minds … I am cheered up too now thanks xx

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By *agondaMan
26 weeks ago

Witterings


"Hoping I still have a few years in me "

I am sure you do. I know I do. Shall we check this out together lol xx

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By *JB1954Man
26 weeks ago

Reading

My personnel opinion . Yes now 70. So finding partners now very limited. I will say yes still if I can say fit. Do not have to take medication . Unlike a lot of younger friends I know. Yes still get aroused and can perform .

My thought is most people think ? Once say over 50 ? Males and females do not have sex .

I will say I was having a conversation with female who is a lot younger than me last week. She made comment about me being ‘past it’ . I did say to her she should think in this day and age. Males can as long as get erections , cum can get a female pregnant . Her reply was she did not think of that.

I did say to her yes so possible. But as now me being 70. Then I would be 91 approx when child was 20. If still alive ?

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By *agatoXXXMan
26 weeks ago

Gone and completely forgotten.


"When you dont enjoy it anymore "

So it's now, then?

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By *arkus1812Man
26 weeks ago

Lifes departure lounge NN9 Northamptonshire East not West MidlandsMidlands


"Age on here goes to 99 so I'm guessing once you turn 100 you get a birthday card from the king and in the card he tells you your swinging days are over so hang up your G-string, dump the lube and just dribble in your chair by the sunny window in the home "

Thats what I am aiming for, only 16 years to go

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