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By (user no longer on site) OP   
47 weeks ago

What’s better and more convenient and comfortable to have someone over or you go to them or arrange hotel meet ?

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

Accommodate is easy, but enjoy going over, hotel can feel clinical.

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By *elloWoman
47 weeks ago

alpha centauri

Meeting at a club is my go to, if you're not sexually compatible you both have the opportunity to find replacements

Pick one with a pool and hot tub it's like a trip to the spa too

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By *tylebender03Man
47 weeks ago

Manchester

Hamptons by Hilton normally

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
47 weeks ago

Cheshire

If they have a lovely cottage somewhere out in the country, with an open fire a full fridge and a massive bed. I get concerned they also have a barn in which I’ll be dismembered slowly

So nice hotel for me

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By *eroLondonMan
47 weeks ago

Mayfair

I don't accommodate (in my home) for any form of Fab-related social. It's my sanctuary and the last bastion of security and safety.

I accommodate in a cocktail bar or a hotel room.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
47 weeks ago


"If they have a lovely cottage somewhere out in the country, with an open fire a full fridge and a massive bed. I get concerned they also have a barn in which I’ll be dismembered slowly

So nice hotel for me "

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

My house is a male free zone.

I would never go to a guy's house, do you people not watch crime dramas?!?!

Always a hotel, a nice hotel. I like nice hotels.

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By *ang bang bangity bangCouple
47 weeks ago

Sunderland

Why is "empty warehouse with a mattress in the middle" not an option?

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

Always prefer a hotel meet. Nice neutral ground but ideally only happens after we have a social so we know we want more. I've had it where we've met at a hotel for the first though and then...

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

Prefer accommodating. I'm a fussy fucker and in my experience women are usually too messy and dirty (not that way)for my taste.

I know the stereotype is the other way around. But that's my experience..

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By *ornycougaWoman
47 weeks ago

SOMEWHERE IN AFRICA

I have come to realise (since moving out of my home) that I prefer to accommodate. I really CBA packing my stuff, shlepping to a hotel, doing the walk of shame late at night (as I rarely spend the night). I am wary of other people's homes as I once turned up to find a hovel. My place every time: just a shame I don't have a home anymore!!

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By *ot to giggleWoman
47 weeks ago

Coventry


"I don't accommodate (in my home) for any form of Fab-related social. It's my sanctuary and the last bastion of security and safety.

I accommodate in a cocktail bar or a hotel room."

in a cocktail bar!!!!! you know some interesting cocktail bars - or is it different in London

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

Why is on top of several placemats in a muddy field not an option?

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By *eroLondonMan
47 weeks ago

Mayfair


"I don't accommodate (in my home) for any form of Fab-related social. It's my sanctuary and the last bastion of security and safety.

I accommodate in a cocktail bar or a hotel room.

in a cocktail bar!!!!! you know some interesting cocktail bars - or is it different in London "

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I'll PM you. I can't say it here. These walls have ears!...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
47 weeks ago


"My house is a male free zone.

I would never go to a guy's house, do you people not watch crime dramas?!?!

Always a hotel, a nice hotel. I like nice hotels. "
bravo good answer kiddo x

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By *lue NotebooksCouple
47 weeks ago

Merseyside


"Why is on top of several placemats in a muddy field not an option?"

This

Or a club that's what we both prefer

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By *cflirtyMan
47 weeks ago

Hants border

I used to prefer to accommodate, but now an adult daughter has moved back in it becomes tricky, so a nice hotel is an alternative option

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By *punk n gushCouple
47 weeks ago

deal

Usually meet in hotels or holiday accommodation unless we know the person from pervious meet then will go to there's

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By *TG3Man
47 weeks ago

Dorchester

I can accomodate or do a hotel

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
47 weeks ago

Wirral.

I feel more comfortable at mine. And why shell out for an hotel?

The folk I meet, I know well. And if it's a new guy, I'll suggest a pub first.

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By *inger_SnapWoman
47 weeks ago

Hampshire/Dorset

Hotel.... It's clean, comfortable, en suite bathroom and I know I can leave at any point.

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By *cflirtyMan
47 weeks ago

Hants border


"Hotel.... It's clean, comfortable, en suite bathroom and I know I can leave at any point."

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By *ravelling_WilburyMan
47 weeks ago

Beverley

Not really arsed. It's not really any different to real life, where I am also not arsed. Mine is fine. Yours is fine, and if its out of town so I a hotel. It's not Hostel FFS. If you're meeting someone you're not entirely sure about but are intent on banging them, you need to ask yourself why banging them is the priority

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By *ittlebirdWoman
47 weeks ago

The Big Smoke


"Not really arsed. It's not really any different to real life, where I am also not arsed. Mine is fine. Yours is fine, and if its out of town so I a hotel. It's not Hostel FFS. If you're meeting someone you're not entirely sure about but are intent on banging them, you need to ask yourself why banging them is the priority "

^^ this. 100%

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago


"Not really arsed. It's not really any different to real life, where I am also not arsed. Mine is fine. Yours is fine, and if its out of town so I a hotel. It's not Hostel FFS. If you're meeting someone you're not entirely sure about but are intent on banging them, you need to ask yourself why banging them is the priority "

Because I want sex, probably.

And hotels don't have dodgy bedding.

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
47 weeks ago

Wirral.


"Not really arsed. It's not really any different to real life, where I am also not arsed. Mine is fine. Yours is fine, and if its out of town so I a hotel. It's not Hostel FFS. If you're meeting someone you're not entirely sure about but are intent on banging them, you need to ask yourself why banging them is the priority

Because I want sex, probably.

And hotels don't have dodgy bedding.

"

Ever turned up with one of those UV lights that the CSIs use?

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
47 weeks ago

Central

I generally get a hotel room. It's fairly simple and removes potential for hassle

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By *ravelling_WilburyMan
47 weeks ago

Beverley


"Not really arsed. It's not really any different to real life, where I am also not arsed. Mine is fine. Yours is fine, and if its out of town so I a hotel. It's not Hostel FFS. If you're meeting someone you're not entirely sure about but are intent on banging them, you need to ask yourself why banging them is the priority

Because I want sex, probably.

And hotels don't have dodgy bedding.

"

I've just had a night in Blackpool and I assure you they do

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By *lue NotebooksCouple
47 weeks ago

Merseyside


"Not really arsed. It's not really any different to real life, where I am also not arsed. Mine is fine. Yours is fine, and if its out of town so I a hotel. It's not Hostel FFS. If you're meeting someone you're not entirely sure about but are intent on banging them, you need to ask yourself why banging them is the priority

Because I want sex, probably.

And hotels don't have dodgy bedding.

Ever turned up with one of those UV lights that the CSIs use? "

Hahah..Gordon Ramsay on Hotel Hell

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
47 weeks ago

Wirral.


"Not really arsed. It's not really any different to real life, where I am also not arsed. Mine is fine. Yours is fine, and if its out of town so I a hotel. It's not Hostel FFS. If you're meeting someone you're not entirely sure about but are intent on banging them, you need to ask yourself why banging them is the priority

Because I want sex, probably.

And hotels don't have dodgy bedding.

I've just had a night in Blackpool and I assure you they do"

What we're you thinking?

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By *luttyLaylaWoman
47 weeks ago

North West

Hotel. Don’t have to give out my address and safer imo

And who doesn’t like a night away not having to tidy up ha

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago


"Not really arsed. It's not really any different to real life, where I am also not arsed. Mine is fine. Yours is fine, and if its out of town so I a hotel. It's not Hostel FFS. If you're meeting someone you're not entirely sure about but are intent on banging them, you need to ask yourself why banging them is the priority

Because I want sex, probably.

And hotels don't have dodgy bedding.

Ever turned up with one of those UV lights that the CSIs use? "

Why I also avoid premier inns.

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago


"Not really arsed. It's not really any different to real life, where I am also not arsed. Mine is fine. Yours is fine, and if its out of town so I a hotel. It's not Hostel FFS. If you're meeting someone you're not entirely sure about but are intent on banging them, you need to ask yourself why banging them is the priority

Because I want sex, probably.

And hotels don't have dodgy bedding.

I've just had a night in Blackpool and I assure you they do"

Well, it's Blackpool what do you expect.

I like nice hotels. Blackpool doesn't have nice hotels.

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By *ravelling_WilburyMan
47 weeks ago

Beverley

I've got nice bedding and a nice bed. Hence mine is fine

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
47 weeks ago

Wirral.


"Not really arsed. It's not really any different to real life, where I am also not arsed. Mine is fine. Yours is fine, and if its out of town so I a hotel. It's not Hostel FFS. If you're meeting someone you're not entirely sure about but are intent on banging them, you need to ask yourself why banging them is the priority

Because I want sex, probably.

And hotels don't have dodgy bedding.

Ever turned up with one of those UV lights that the CSIs use?

Hahah..Gordon Ramsay on Hotel Hell "

I'd watch that!

"Fuck me! Theres more protein on that sheet than in Heston fucking Blumenthals Fat Duck"

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
47 weeks ago

Wirral.


"I've got nice bedding and a nice bed. Hence mine is fine "

Well, if you're offering.

Do I get a full English, too?

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By *naswingdressWoman
47 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

Usually a hotel or travel.

Occasionally I accommodate, for someone I know well.

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By *ravelling_WilburyMan
47 weeks ago

Beverley


"I've got nice bedding and a nice bed. Hence mine is fine

Well, if you're offering.

Do I get a full English, too? "

Last time I checked I was a... Erm, yes sure you do

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
47 weeks ago

Wirral.


"I've got nice bedding and a nice bed. Hence mine is fine

Well, if you're offering.

Do I get a full English, too?

Last time I checked I was a... Erm, yes sure you do "

And black pudding? Gotta be black pudding now nom nom

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By *ravelling_WilburyMan
47 weeks ago

Beverley

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By *ravelling_WilburyMan
47 weeks ago

Beverley


"I've got nice bedding and a nice bed. Hence mine is fine

Well, if you're offering.

Do I get a full English, too?

Last time I checked I was a... Erm, yes sure you do

And black pudding? Gotta be black pudding now nom nom "

Of course, Im not an animal! Crispy Rounds and white pepper

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
47 weeks ago

little house on the praire

I used to prefer meeting at mine after a social first

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

With the amount of hassle it is trying to arrange a meet on here, if I'm gonna have to fork out £250 odd for a hotel I would probably just streamline the process by ordering an SW to my house..

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
47 weeks ago

Wirral.


"I've got nice bedding and a nice bed. Hence mine is fine

Well, if you're offering.

Do I get a full English, too?

Last time I checked I was a... Erm, yes sure you do

And black pudding? Gotta be black pudding now nom nom

Of course, Im not an animal! Crispy Rounds and white pepper "

As Gordon Ramsey would say, Fuck me! x

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

Hotel wins it for me.

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By *ravelling_WilburyMan
47 weeks ago

Beverley


"I've got nice bedding and a nice bed. Hence mine is fine

Well, if you're offering.

Do I get a full English, too?

Last time I checked I was a... Erm, yes sure you do

And black pudding? Gotta be black pudding now nom nom

Of course, Im not an animal! Crispy Rounds and white pepper

As Gordon Ramsey would say, Fuck me! x"

Why do you think Im making breakfast

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
47 weeks ago

Wirral.


"I've got nice bedding and a nice bed. Hence mine is fine

Well, if you're offering.

Do I get a full English, too?

Last time I checked I was a... Erm, yes sure you do

And black pudding? Gotta be black pudding now nom nom

Of course, Im not an animal! Crispy Rounds and white pepper

As Gordon Ramsey would say, Fuck me! x

Why do you think Im making breakfast "

And scramble me eggs, there's a good boy

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago


"I don't accommodate (in my home) for any form of Fab-related social. It's my sanctuary and the last bastion of security and safety.

I accommodate in a cocktail bar or a hotel room."

You bang inside the bar? Right on the bar top right? Always knew you were a kinky chap!

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
47 weeks ago

Reading

Foc me someone local who can accomodate. Nothing else really works for regular ongoing.

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

There’s only one person from Fab who has ever been to my house. They are a platonic friend. Otherwise. I’d never invite anyone from Fab to my house.

After meeting socially, I’d only meet someone at a high quality hotel. I’m so fussy I offer to book the hotel myself because I can ensure it meets my expectations.

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By *eroLondonMan
47 weeks ago

Mayfair


"I don't accommodate (in my home) for any form of Fab-related social. It's my sanctuary and the last bastion of security and safety.

I accommodate in a cocktail bar or a hotel room.

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You bang inside the bar? Right on the bar top right? Always knew you were a kinky chap! "

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I have my modus operandi.

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By *TG3Man
47 weeks ago

Dorchester


"With the amount of hassle it is trying to arrange a meet on here, if I'm gonna have to fork out £250 odd for a hotel I would probably just streamline the process by ordering an SW to my house.."
Whats an SW?

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By *ot to giggleWoman
47 weeks ago

Coventry


"I don't accommodate (in my home) for any form of Fab-related social. It's my sanctuary and the last bastion of security and safety.

I accommodate in a cocktail bar or a hotel room.

in a cocktail bar!!!!! you know some interesting cocktail bars - or is it different in London

•

I'll PM you. I can't say it here. These walls have ears!..."

Accommodating cocktail bar with ears!! Does it provide cocktails? Im abstaining from blue ones!!

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago


"With the amount of hassle it is trying to arrange a meet on here, if I'm gonna have to fork out £250 odd for a hotel I would probably just streamline the process by ordering an SW to my house..Whats an SW? "

Sex worker.

If I've got 24 hours to live. I haven't got time to mess about.

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By *eliWoman
47 weeks ago

.

Hotel. Or going to theirs. Neither are particularly difficult for me to do.

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By *rsKOTCTWoman
47 weeks ago

Leeds

Hotel or anywhere else.

No randomer is coming to my family home.

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By *rHotNottsMan
47 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham

It depends. People I know have been to my place here and the UK and I stay at theirs too.

But I know how much women like a nice hotel and spa or cottage so I do that occasionally.

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By *ripfillMan
47 weeks ago

Paris, New York, Hong Kong and Havant


"My house is a male free zone.

I would never go to a guy's house, do you people not watch crime dramas?!?!

Always a hotel, a nice hotel. I like nice hotels. "

(I hope you tip for good service! )

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By *ivemealadybonerWoman
47 weeks ago

somewhere

Only time I've had hotel meets I've felt seedy walking up to the room as the man has already been waiting for me, might feel different if we went to the room together.

I prefer to either going to theirs or vice versa (preferably theirs as I can just leave lol).

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By *TG3Man
47 weeks ago

Dorchester


"With the amount of hassle it is trying to arrange a meet on here, if I'm gonna have to fork out £250 odd for a hotel I would probably just streamline the process by ordering an SW to my house..Whats an SW?

Sex worker.

If I've got 24 hours to live. I haven't got time to mess about. "
live today because you don't live forever

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
47 weeks ago

Wherever

I prefer hotel. There’s something special about it and I like the anonymity.

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By *TG3Man
47 weeks ago

Dorchester

I unlike many guys accomodate and i use hotels oh and i have a campervan so could pull up to the waters edge on a sunny evening if required

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By *orphnStormMan
47 weeks ago

Pontypridd

Usually hotels for us as neither can usually accommodate.

I like hotels, it's just easier.

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By *idnight experimentalCouple
47 weeks ago

Congleton


"Meeting at a club is my go to, if you're not sexually compatible you both have the opportunity to find replacements

Pick one with a pool and hot tub it's like a trip to the spa too "

That’s our thoughts all over xx

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
47 weeks ago

Chichester

Hotels usually

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