FabSwingers.com forum: I don't usually have bad days, so I guess it's just my turn

By *nitter OP Woman
26 weeks ago

the land of tall tales and yarn

Well actually it was a terrible day yesterday and it's rolled into today.

Usually if something happens I twirl throw some glitter and face into it, fix it, make it better. I just can't do it today, I know I'll be able to do it tomorrow, but just not today.

I know that when I compare it to problems other people are having, put it into perspective I'll realise that it's not so bad, but I can't today.

Today I'm just going curl up, hide away from the real world and cry.

I'm so sorry I have no idea why I'm posting this , I'm not looking for advice, I just wanted to get it out. It's probably not better or worse than all the other nonsense I post.

Knitter

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By *hunky GentMan
26 weeks ago

Maldon and Peterborough

Sending hugs OP.

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By *ellroseWoman
26 weeks ago

Brum

It’s good to cry and let it out OP

Here to chat if ever you need to

Sending hugs

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By *iss.Bella.Woman
26 weeks ago

Wales

Sending hugs beautiful

Take the time to breathe today, tomorrow is another day.

Take some time to do something for you and remember the things that you have in your life to be thankful for.

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By *r Black 85Man
26 weeks ago

nottingham

"Well actually it was a terrible day yesterday and it's rolled into today.

Usually if something happens I twirl throw some glitter and face into it, fix it, make it better. I just can't do it today, I know I'll be able to do it tomorrow, but just not today.

I know that when I compare it to problems other people are having, put it into perspective I'll realise that it's not so bad, but I can't today.

Today I'm just going curl up, hide away from the real world and cry.

I'm so sorry I have no idea why I'm posting this , I'm not looking for advice, I just wanted to get it out. It's probably not better or worse than all the other nonsense I post.

Knitter

Hey

Really sorry to hear you aren't doing so good.

We all have moments like this but what important is we have people around us to remind us there care and will support in whatever way they can. You have posted this firstly as a way of letting it out. It is never good to suffer alone or sit on ones feelings. You spread soooo much joy in the forums that it is now time for us to pick up our glitter, put our capes on and spread some joy your way and remind you that "hey, we got you today"

Take care

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By *rsKOTCTWoman
26 weeks ago

Leeds

Sometimes we just need to hide under the duvet and cry it out.

Hope you feel better soon OP & back to your glitter throwing self.

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By *ivemealadybonerWoman
26 weeks ago

somewhere

"Well actually it was a terrible day yesterday and it's rolled into today.

Usually if something happens I twirl throw some glitter and face into it, fix it, make it better. I just can't do it today, I know I'll be able to do it tomorrow, but just not today.

I know that when I compare it to problems other people are having, put it into perspective I'll realise that it's not so bad, but I can't today.

Today I'm just going curl up, hide away from the real world and cry.

I'm so sorry I have no idea why I'm posting this , I'm not looking for advice, I just wanted to get it out. It's probably not better or worse than all the other nonsense I post.

Knitter

I used to have this mentality, my problems aren't half as bad as other people's and doughnut would say to me "have you got a roof over your head and blah blah blah" all of that is true of course but at the same time, whatever you are feeling for whatever reason (even if it's you broke a nail you paid lots for, you smashed your favourite coffee cup, the vending machine was out of twirls), it's your reason.

I get upset over the most ridiculous things sometimes, I really do and I hate taking stuff into the next day but sometimes it happens, what I do is write down whatever it is, the conversation I should have had, my thoughts or whatever it is, helps me no end xxx

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By *enitMan
26 weeks ago

Galway

Just settle into it and as you say tomorrow will be better.

It's good to share

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By *C79Man
26 weeks ago

Caterham

I'm with you 100%. On Monday, I had a situation that truly broke my heart & continues to do so. I'm not the type of person who can shake off a problem, it takes time. I also learnt that I really don't have anyone to talk to about anything which is probably why I'm here. People I thought would be understanding turned the tables & made it about them.

I'm sure time will help but I wish I could hide from the world right now. Instead, I have to travel for work & am hating every moment.

OP, I hope you find a quick way back to feeling better.

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By *coobyABCMan
26 weeks ago

Aberdeen

Venting is the first step yo turning something crap and finding some good. Sending positive vibes and bags of glitter your way OP

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By *agnar73Man
26 weeks ago

glasgow-ish

"Well actually it was a terrible day yesterday and it's rolled into today.

Usually if something happens I twirl throw some glitter and face into it, fix it, make it better. I just can't do it today, I know I'll be able to do it tomorrow, but just not today.

I know that when I compare it to problems other people are having, put it into perspective I'll realise that it's not so bad, but I can't today.

Today I'm just going curl up, hide away from the real world and cry.

I'm so sorry I have no idea why I'm posting this , I'm not looking for advice, I just wanted to get it out. It's probably not better or worse than all the other nonsense I post.

Knitter

Aww hugs.

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
26 weeks ago

Glasgow / London

Oh, Knitter. Mr Black nailed it, I think. Today’s tough? That’s okay. Some days are. We’ve got your back. We

you around here.

“Lean on me, I won’t fall over. I’m made of steel and stone cold sober.”

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
26 weeks ago

A den in the Glen

Sorry to hear this..surround yourself with positivity and it's ok to take a knee, collect yourself and things will get better.

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By (user no longer on site)
26 weeks ago

*manly hugs* on the upside, you got this, you always have.

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By *ris GrayMan
26 weeks ago

Dorchester

"Well actually it was a terrible day yesterday and it's rolled into today.

Usually if something happens I twirl throw some glitter and face into it, fix it, make it better. I just can't do it today, I know I'll be able to do it tomorrow, but just not today.

I know that when I compare it to problems other people are having, put it into perspective I'll realise that it's not so bad, but I can't today.

Today I'm just going curl up, hide away from the real world and cry.

I'm so sorry I have no idea why I'm posting this , I'm not looking for advice, I just wanted to get it out. It's probably not better or worse than all the other nonsense I post.

Knitter

"
awwww hey i guess we all have bad days come have a coffee and while away the day.

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By *EAT..85Woman
26 weeks ago

Nottingham

I'm not on here much anymore, but I do recognize you as a beautiful presence in the forums Knitter. Low times hit us all, hopefully yours will pass soon and that you have plenty of people around to help/brighten if you need it x

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
26 weeks ago

North West

It's important to have an outlet for your feelings - here, there or anywhere.

Sending all our love and some glitter for later *sprinkle*

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
26 weeks ago

Manchester-ish

Your problem might not seem big compared to others. But a very wise friend told me that you should never feel bad for feeling how you feel and that we all have a different capacity for life at different times. Don't compare what's on your plate to theirs because your plates might be made out of different materials.

Love you wise friend, if you read this

Hope you feel better soon Tink. Be gentle with yourself until you do.

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By *enk15Man
26 weeks ago

Evesham

Sending you all the hugs

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By *nnCeeWoman
26 weeks ago

East of Eden, West of Hell

Gentle tucks a sparkly blanket around you and leaves your favourite things within reach.

Let me know if you want anything else. I'll sit beside you if company will help, and hugs are available. (Alternatively, I can f*** off if that's preferred)

Breathe deep, feel the feels today, and know that you've survived every single one of the bad days so far.

You got this xx

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By *wiss Army KnifeMan
26 weeks ago

Second star to the right…

I have always found writing about my day very therapeutic and a problem shared is a problem halved. Even if there is no immediate solution to problem it helps to talk it through with someone as it externalises it rather then internalising it.

Often when journal keeping i can see all the events of the past few days or weeks that have led me to feeling the way i do. It’s a great relief when i put it together then i can think what can i do about it?

Write everything down fully, speak to someone you trust that.gives good advice and hopefully things will get better from there.

Sending virtual hugs xx

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By *angria_girlukWoman
26 weeks ago

LUTON

Sending hugs, fluffy kittens, good drinks, tissues and takeout.

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By (user no longer on site)
26 weeks ago

No advice here! Just look after yourself and hope you feel better soon. Sometimes it's good to just vent into the ether and let it all out

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By *mf123Man
26 weeks ago

with one foot out the door

Everyone is allowed to take a day to lick wounds recover and bounce back when the time is right

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By (user no longer on site)
26 weeks ago

If you were inundated with cock pics would that help?

Take care of yourself, hide, find some chocolate, a comfy cushion, warm duvet and snuggle down with some mindless tele. Oh and don't forget to throw some glitter around too.

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By *4bimMan
26 weeks ago

Farnborough Hampshire

i dont know you

but hope you feel better and things turn around

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By *uckurcumMan
26 weeks ago

Bishop Auckland

Sometimes doing just what your doing is the best remedy ...

Let yourself be guided by letting go of whatever happened in the day and look forward to a brighter tomorrow

Things do always look up ...

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
26 weeks ago

Reading

You never have to apologise or compare your life to others. If you are having a bad couple of days do something that makes you feel better. I hope tomorrow will improve.

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By *rsMistyPeaksWoman
26 weeks ago

Essex

I get it. Sometimes even the brightest of us has a bad day. It’s ok. You’re allowed.

I’ll echo the sentiments of those who say “we’ve got you”. We’re not just here for the glitter x

Be kind to yourself. Cry. Rant. Sleep. Eat. Whatever helps.

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By *assy69Man
26 weeks ago

West Sussex and Wales

"Well actually it was a terrible day yesterday and it's rolled into today.

Usually if something happens I twirl throw some glitter and face into it, fix it, make it better. I just can't do it today, I know I'll be able to do it tomorrow, but just not today.

I know that when I compare it to problems other people are having, put it into perspective I'll realise that it's not so bad, but I can't today.

Today I'm just going curl up, hide away from the real world and cry.

I'm so sorry I have no idea why I'm posting this , I'm not looking for advice, I just wanted to get it out. It's probably not better or worse than all the other nonsense I post.

Knitter

Until recently, I too never had bad days, it’s hard to accept them, and hard to accept that they shall pass ….. big hugs to you and hope you’re feeling perkier soon OP

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By *ittle Miss TinkerbellWoman
26 weeks ago

your head

A cry can be very cathartic. I hope it helps Knitter. Also, your problems are not diluted just because someone else's may be worse. All are valid. Sending hugs

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By *lexm87Man
26 weeks ago

Various

If you can, find your favourite snack, a big mug of tea, or coffee, some uplifting music and either stay toasty under the duvet, gaze out the window, or get your best outdoor cape on and go for a wander.

To echo many folk here, you've done the hard bit and admitted, mainly to yourself, that things aren't right. So, now you've identified the type of problem, you can start looking for the best solutions for you.

Think of it as a day of sparkle revitalisation and twirl realignment.

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By *nitter OP Woman
26 weeks ago

the land of tall tales and yarn

I wish I had the energy to respond to each of your lovely messages but I don't have the energy today.

I will say thabk you, they have been so lovely to read and have made me smile.

Thanks Knitter

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By *ittlemiss Hal O weenCouple
26 weeks ago

Southampton

"Well actually it was a terrible day yesterday and it's rolled into today.

Usually if something happens I twirl throw some glitter and face into it, fix it, make it better. I just can't do it today, I know I'll be able to do it tomorrow, but just not today.

I know that when I compare it to problems other people are having, put it into perspective I'll realise that it's not so bad, but I can't today.

Today I'm just going curl up, hide away from the real world and cry.

I'm so sorry I have no idea why I'm posting this , I'm not looking for advice, I just wanted to get it out. It's probably not better or worse than all the other nonsense I post.

Knitter

Oh lovely I'm so sorry you're having a bad day, sending lots of hugs ...xx

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By (user no longer on site)
26 weeks ago

I know exactly what you mean. I don’t often have them but I had one on Monday it’s not nice and bloody hard. As BT always say “it’s good to talk”

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By *hunky GentMan
26 weeks ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"I wish I had the energy to respond to each of your lovely messages but I don't have the energy today.

I will say thabk you, they have been so lovely to read and have made me smile.

Thanks Knitter

When this site sticks together we do it well.

Always happy to chat OP.

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By *nitter OP Woman
26 weeks ago

the land of tall tales and yarn

When this site sticks together we do it well.

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By *ansoffateMan
26 weeks ago

Sagittarius A

I hope you feel better soon and your tears give way to a

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By *imi_RougeWoman
26 weeks ago

Portsmouth

Sending you a big smoochy hug

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