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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I was reflecting on my experience on the site. I have been close to leaving the site due to my experience on here. What has your experience been with time wasters on here?

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By *ynamicnatureMan
over a year ago

Doncaster

Hey OP, sorry to hear that you had a shit experience.

To date I've only had good ones.

I hope better experiences are coming your way.

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By *4bimMan
over a year ago

Farnborough Hampshire

It's a part of this.

Sooner you learn to brush it off the easier it becomes.

Remember the block button is your friend

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
over a year ago

Herts/Beds/Leeds/London

Seems to go with the territory. Don’t let them get you down OP.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not experienced time wasters on Fab - so maybe I have been fortunate. All the people I have met have been really nice people and I have had very positive experiences. I also enjoy chatting to people with no expectation of a meet, and only had two ghost me after we have been chatting for a while - but that is their choice, and we all move on.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks all. Even though I know its expected it is still extremely irritating and annoying.

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By *ayHaychMan
over a year ago

Leeds (Home) / Sheffield (Work)

I’ve learnt to just accept it.

You can take all the load on yourself to facilitate the most comfortable meet and tailor everything for an individual exactly how they want it. You can be everything they’re looking. Chat as much or as little as they want. After everything they can still just ghost you at the last minute.

Maybe it’s nerves, maybe something changes how they feel at the last minute, maybe their car actually has broken down.

I used to think if I could host it would be different. Then I was able to host for a period of time and it made no difference

It’s always a gamble, and I don’t take it personally. If it works out, then that’s great.

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By *ot to giggleWoman
over a year ago

Coventry

Lots of them! They talk themselves up big and then vanish, or the wife wont let them out!!

Its on them not you xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I haven’t had any responses yet

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By *ellhungvweMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham

If I am honest I tend not to suffer from time wasters. If you suffer from time wasters (or any other malaise from the site) then I generally think it is because you are not validating who you are talking to very well. These types of people do have tell tale signs but you need to actively look for them and then act accordingly.

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

Always good to have a plan B if they don’t appear. I generally only meet at clubs now, so if they don’t turn up I can still have a night out.

Sorry it’s happened to you Op, hope things improve.

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By *arden5Man
over a year ago

Woking

Had a time waster this morning does get one a bit annoyed especially when you have made the effort to drive to where they want to meet

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