FabSwingers.com forum: Men v Women

By (user no longer on site) OP
33 weeks ago

Who is more explicit?

Taking into account, the public displayed photos on profiles (not the dick pics that sent unsolicited) who do you think as a whole or generalising, is more likely to show off their body in a sexual manner?

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
33 weeks ago

Herts/Beds/Lomdon

In a sexual manner - women.

In a ‘this is me stood in front of a camera looking uncomfortable’ manner - men

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
33 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

Uh.

Attractive people of either gender take more sexually charged photos.

Others tend to just flop their bits out and hope for the best, I think.

That's my perception of it anyway

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By (user no longer on site) OP
33 weeks ago

"In a sexual manner - women.

In a ‘this is me stood in front of a camera looking uncomfortable’ manner - men "

There’s another thread -

Can men even take a selfie?

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
33 weeks ago

North West

"Uh.

Attractive people of either gender take more sexually charged photos.

Others tend to just flop their bits out and hope for the best, I think.

That's my perception of it anyway

I flopped ma bits out

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
33 weeks ago

Herts/Beds/Lomdon

"In a sexual manner - women.

In a ‘this is me stood in front of a camera looking uncomfortable’ manner - men

There’s another thread -

Can men even take a selfie?

Was that a rhetorical question?

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By (user no longer on site)
33 weeks ago

A vast difference between an erotic picture

And flop your dick out and flash your gapping foof

There are more men flopping their dicks out purely because more of them on fab.

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By *parkle1974Woman
33 weeks ago

Leeds

Either sex can be just as explicit as one another though women have an extra orifice they can gape

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By (user no longer on site)
33 weeks ago

I think both can take quite explicit photos and videos. Women maybe do it in a more erotic way but I also think when women do it, it goes a bit under the radar as I think men tend to be more visual creatures and enjoy seeing that from women rather than vice versa

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
33 weeks ago

Manchester-ish

"Uh.

Attractive people of either gender take more sexually charged photos.

Others tend to just flop their bits out and hope for the best, I think.

That's my perception of it anyway

I'm now singing "Flop my bits out" to the tune of a Prodigy song!

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By *inger_SnapWoman
33 weeks ago

Hampshire/Dorset

Explicit - men

Sexy - women

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
33 weeks ago

Manchester-ish

To kind of answer your question. "explicit" and "show off their body in a sexual manner" are very different things to me. So I can't actually answer.

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By *ittlebirdWoman
33 weeks ago

The Big Smoke

Men…. More thigh pics please.

Ladies… more boobies please.

* this is the right thread for requests right?

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
33 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

"Men…. More thigh pics please.

Ladies… more boobies please.

* this is the right thread for requests right?

...

But I like my thighs way more than my boobs

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By *ittlebirdWoman
33 weeks ago

The Big Smoke

"Men…. More thigh pics please.

Ladies… more boobies please.

* this is the right thread for requests right?

...

But I like my thighs way more than my boobs

Oh I just want more of all of your pics please and thank you

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
33 weeks ago

Glasgow / London

"In a sexual manner - women.

In a ‘this is me stood in front of a camera looking uncomfortable’ manner - men "

Nailed it.

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
33 weeks ago

Glasgow / London

"I'm now singing "Flop my bits out" to the tune of a Prodigy song!

Well now. That’s that song forever changed.

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By *bi HaiveMan
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33 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"In a sexual manner - women.

In a ‘this is me stood in front of a camera looking uncomfortable’ manner - men

There’s another thread -

Can men even take a selfie?

Oi!!

I took all my own pics ill have you know.

Cheeky bugger.

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By *iscean_dreamMan
33 weeks ago

Llanelli

"Explicit - men

Sexy - women "

Damn, I'm Explicit but not sexy

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By (user no longer on site)
33 weeks ago

Women. Attention seeking whores all of them.

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By (user no longer on site)
33 weeks ago

"Women. Attention seeking whores all of them. "

Get yer tits out!

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By (user no longer on site)
33 weeks ago

"Women. Attention seeking whores all of them.

Get yer tits out!"

I don't know whether to laugh or reprimand you.

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By *iss.BellaWoman
33 weeks ago

Wales

"Uh.

Attractive people of either gender take more sexually charged photos.

Others tend to just flop their bits out and hope for the best, I think.

That's my perception of it anyway

I'm now singing "Flop my bits out" to the tune of a Prodigy song!

Dammit

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By *iss.BellaWoman
33 weeks ago

Wales

I've found the need to buy eye bleach on here after viewing male and female profiles.

However, I'm often caught out by ladies with suggestive profile pics to find cum soaked gaping holes, everywhere!

Generally, men are much more consistent with the themes of their profile pics Vs public pics. Does that even make sense? It has been a long day.

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By (user no longer on site)
33 weeks ago

"Women. Attention seeking whores all of them.

Get yer tits out!

I don't know whether to laugh or reprimand you. "

There's a third option

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By (user no longer on site)
33 weeks ago

"Women. Attention seeking whores all of them.

Get yer tits out!

I don't know whether to laugh or reprimand you.

There's a third option

No one needs to see hairy nipples and rubbish boobs at this time of night Joe.

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By (user no longer on site)
33 weeks ago

"Women. Attention seeking whores all of them.

Get yer tits out!

I don't know whether to laugh or reprimand you.

There's a third option

No one needs to see hairy nipples and rubbish boobs at this time of night Joe. "

Awww don't put yourself down like that. I'm sure they're not rubbish

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By *eyond PurityCouple
33 weeks ago

Lincolnshire

I’ve seen a lot more pics of men who must look in the mirror and think ‘fuck me, that pose works’

Whether that’s the gym, the toilet in the pub, the toilet at work…

There’s absolutely no effort made whatsoever in pics like that.

A woman will take a lot of pics and choose what they think is the best one.

Guys just lob cock out, pose - done

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By (user no longer on site)
33 weeks ago

"I’ve seen a lot more pics of men who must look in the mirror and think ‘fuck me, that pose works’

Whether that’s the gym, the toilet in the pub, the toilet at work…

There’s absolutely no effort made whatsoever in pics like that.

A woman will take a lot of pics and choose what they think is the best one.

Guys just lob cock out, pose - done

Womens pics are more lighting/angles/outfits to hide what they don't want to show.

Men just take a picture.

I think men's pics are more true to what they actually look like.

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By *amantha_JadeWoman
33 weeks ago

Newcastle

In a sexual manner… women.

A close up of their genitals… men

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By *y AmoreMan
33 weeks ago

london

"I’ve seen a lot more pics of men who must look in the mirror and think ‘fuck me, that pose works’

Whether that’s the gym, the toilet in the pub, the toilet at work…

There’s absolutely no effort made whatsoever in pics like that.

A woman will take a lot of pics and choose what they think is the best one.

Guys just lob cock out, pose - done

Womens pics are more lighting/angles/outfits to hide what they don't want to show.

Men just take a picture.

I think men's pics are more true to what they actually look like.

Now that’s an interesting point

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By *ot to giggleWoman
33 weeks ago

Coventry

well there are a lot of toilets and bathroom mirrors in the men's pics!! - what is it with toilets! and the seat it always up!!

both can make your eyes water and think woooo how did that get there !

and both can do sexy and fun pics - depends which porn movie they filming for when they decided they needed pics!

mine - i worked on a theme of showing off my other attributes such as my proficiency at decorating and love of chocolate - oh and wild animals and whatever else escaped that day

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By (user no longer on site)
33 weeks ago

"I’ve seen a lot more pics of men who must look in the mirror and think ‘fuck me, that pose works’

Whether that’s the gym, the toilet in the pub, the toilet at work…

There’s absolutely no effort made whatsoever in pics like that.

A woman will take a lot of pics and choose what they think is the best one.

Guys just lob cock out, pose - done

Womens pics are more lighting/angles/outfits to hide what they don't want to show.

Men just take a picture.

I think men's pics are more true to what they actually look like.

Now that’s an interesting point "

It really is, it's just unfortunate that some people take "what they actually look like" to mean "just show their cock off"

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By (user no longer on site)
33 weeks ago

"I’ve seen a lot more pics of men who must look in the mirror and think ‘fuck me, that pose works’

Whether that’s the gym, the toilet in the pub, the toilet at work…

There’s absolutely no effort made whatsoever in pics like that.

A woman will take a lot of pics and choose what they think is the best one.

Guys just lob cock out, pose - done

Womens pics are more lighting/angles/outfits to hide what they don't want to show.

Men just take a picture.

I think men's pics are more true to what they actually look like.

Now that’s an interesting point

It really is, it's just unfortunate that some people take "what they actually look like" to mean "just show their cock off"

I never complain at the penis pics Joe.

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By (user no longer on site)
33 weeks ago

"It really is, it's just unfortunate that some people take "what they actually look like" to mean "just show their cock off"

I never complain at the penis pics Joe."

You may not, but it's a lazy take on the photos that men have. This was probably the case 10 years ago, it will probably be the case 10 years from now. Nothing groundbreaking is being said by stating the obvious in the way people think it is

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By (user no longer on site)
33 weeks ago

"It really is, it's just unfortunate that some people take "what they actually look like" to mean "just show their cock off"

I never complain at the penis pics Joe.

Dam I thought that would get me a dick pic.

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By *eyond PurityCouple
33 weeks ago

Lincolnshire

"I’ve seen a lot more pics of men who must look in the mirror and think ‘fuck me, that pose works’

Whether that’s the gym, the toilet in the pub, the toilet at work…

There’s absolutely no effort made whatsoever in pics like that.

A woman will take a lot of pics and choose what they think is the best one.

Guys just lob cock out, pose - done

Womens pics are more lighting/angles/outfits to hide what they don't want to show.

Men just take a picture.

I think men's pics are more true to what they actually look like.

No one can just lob a cock out and make it pretty

I fully agree some women will hide their size or what they consider their worst parts but the question was about being explicit and sexy not who’s pics are more true

I’ve seen some horrific pics from both sides but I guess as there is more guys on FAB than women that you are likely to see more explicit pics of guys. Also guys think with their little brain more for sure!

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By (user no longer on site)
33 weeks ago

I see less hairy, gaping asshole photos from women than men.

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By (user no longer on site)
33 weeks ago

"It really is, it's just unfortunate that some people take "what they actually look like" to mean "just show their cock off"

I never complain at the penis pics Joe.

Dam I thought that would get me a dick pic."

Sorry for getting all serious there

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By (user no longer on site)
33 weeks ago

"I’ve seen a lot more pics of men who must look in the mirror and think ‘fuck me, that pose works’

Whether that’s the gym, the toilet in the pub, the toilet at work…

There’s absolutely no effort made whatsoever in pics like that.

A woman will take a lot of pics and choose what they think is the best one.

Guys just lob cock out, pose - done

Womens pics are more lighting/angles/outfits to hide what they don't want to show.

Men just take a picture.

I think men's pics are more true to what they actually look like.

No one can just lob a cock out and make it pretty

I fully agree some women will hide their size or what they consider their worst parts but the question was about being explicit and sexy not who’s pics are more true

That is my point, women try and be sexy by doing all the things I said.

Men care less and just take a picture.

And I don't think a basic cock pic is any more explicit than the majority of naked female pics on here. And no not the open leg ones.

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By (user no longer on site)
33 weeks ago

"Uh.

Attractive people of either gender take more sexually charged photos.

Others tend to just flop their bits out and hope for the best, I think.

That's my perception of it anyway

I flop my tits out and hope for the best. Luckily, for everyone, I’ve never been tempted to flop my other bits out so far. Let’s hope that’s for the best in itself.

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By *erotic_adventureMan
33 weeks ago

London, Scotland & The North,

"Explicit - men

Sexy - women

Damn, I'm Explicit but not sexy

Dam, I'm explicit aswell

.....a little creativity can make a difference

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By *icolasHidalgoDeCorazonMan
33 weeks ago

St Leonards

"I've found the need to buy eye bleach on here after viewing male and female profiles.

However, I'm often caught out by ladies with suggestive profile pics to find cum soaked gaping holes, everywhere!

Generally, men are much more consistent with the themes of their profile pics Vs public pics. Does that even make sense? It has been a long day."

My biggest takeaway from the thread so far has been that I want to see "CumSoakedGapingHole" as a username x

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By *rsMistyPeaksWoman
33 weeks ago

Essex

"Women. Attention seeking whores all of them. "

Raises hand

Except the whore part. I’m fairly sure if I charged there would be demands for a refund

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By *rsKOTCTWoman
33 weeks ago

Leeds

Men are more likely to just whip out their genitals and hope for the best, women for the most tend not to rely on genitals and post sexier pics.

#Notallmen

#Notallwomen

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By (user no longer on site)
33 weeks ago

"Men are more likely to just whip out their genitals and hope for the best, women for the most tend not to rely on genitals and post sexier pics.

#Notallmen

#Notallwomen

Bit mean against tall people

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By *teve691000Man
33 weeks ago

West Midlands

As a man it’s hard to take photos of your self and look vaguely sexy whilst trying to hide your identity.

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By *illy IdolMan
33 weeks ago

Midlands

That's a tough one.

Men are more explicit. What you see is what you get. But, women take sexier pics and are better at polishing turds. Close ups, clever angles, filters. I have no idea what body part I'm looking at half the time.

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By (user no longer on site)
33 weeks ago

"But, women take sexier pics and are better at polishing turds."

Ah so true Willy, so true

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By *rsKOTCTWoman
33 weeks ago

Leeds

"Men are more likely to just whip out their genitals and hope for the best, women for the most tend not to rely on genitals and post sexier pics.

#Notallmen

#Notallwomen

Bit mean against tall people

I'm Tallist what can I say

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By *illy IdolMan
33 weeks ago

Midlands

"But, women take sexier pics and are better at polishing turds.

Ah so true Willy, so true"

I couldn't tell if half the women on here were a size 8 or 18 looking at their pics

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By (user no longer on site)
33 weeks ago

"But, women take sexier pics and are better at polishing turds.

Ah so true Willy, so true

I couldn't tell if half the women on here were a size 8 or 18 looking at their pics"

It's all part of the surprise Willy. You never know what you're gonna get.

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By *eliWoman
33 weeks ago

I don't think it's a gendered thing. I think it's down to the confidence of the person. What it is they're looking for.

I've been on here for a decade. Seen many profiles in that time. Women who don't feel confident in showing their full body. Men who don't. Trans who don't.

Those who delight in uploading graphic photos. Carefully taken cock pics to emphasise size. Carefully taken photos by women to hide their size.

In my mind it's not a gendered thing.

I do think men are more likely to take a photo and say fuck it, that's good enough.

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By *illy IdolMan
33 weeks ago

Midlands

"But, women take sexier pics and are better at polishing turds.

Ah so true Willy, so true

I couldn't tell if half the women on here were a size 8 or 18 looking at their pics

It's all part of the surprise Willy. You never know what you're gonna get. "

Ruuunnnnn Willy, Ruuunnnnn!

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By *hilloutMan
33 weeks ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

"I’ve seen a lot more pics of men who must look in the mirror and think ‘fuck me, that pose works’

Whether that’s the gym, the toilet in the pub, the toilet at work…

There’s absolutely no effort made whatsoever in pics like that.

A woman will take a lot of pics and choose what they think is the best one.

Guys just lob cock out, pose - done

Womens pics are more lighting/angles/outfits to hide what they don't want to show.

Men just take a picture.

I think men's pics are more true to what they actually look like.

Completely agree. As to who might be more explicit? I think it's about even for both men and women.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
33 weeks ago

North West

"But, women take sexier pics and are better at polishing turds.

Ah so true Willy, so true

I couldn't tell if half the women on here were a size 8 or 18 looking at their pics"

I'm actually size 8. It's just that our photos are x2 zoomed in

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
33 weeks ago

Glasgow / London

"I do think men are more likely to take a photo and say fuck it, that's good enough."

If I may defend myself …

It’s actually more like taking 10 photos in a row and saying ‘fuck it, *one* of them’s good enough.’

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By *ivemealadybonerWoman
33 weeks ago

somewhere

I mean you have your standard boobs out for the folk with them, you have the cocks with the folks with them, to me you have seen one boob you've seen most, the same with cocks.

Then you got the arsehole pics, the fanny pics, fanny pics can be tasteful as can arsehole pics with a butt plug for example

Then we go into inserting objects (bigger than a butt plug, standard size) which is when it starts getting explicit for me, I've seen tasteful ones and ones I think A) where does it all go and B) why have you posted that?!

In short, I don't know OP who had the most, explicit is one person's beano to another person's take a break.

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By *eyond PurityCouple
33 weeks ago

Lincolnshire

We’ve never had a woman send us genital pics.

We get plenty of messages from men where either they have a dick as a profile pic or they send dick pics with their messages.

Action shots on singles profile with others in - I’d say they are 90% guys profiles.

Like I say a lot of men think with their little brain.

Most women put more thought into pics - even if it’s to hide some bits. Most men don’t give a toss.

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By *mf123Man
33 weeks ago

with one foot out the door

Anal extravaganza

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By *illy IdolMan
33 weeks ago

Midlands

"But, women take sexier pics and are better at polishing turds.

Ah so true Willy, so true

I couldn't tell if half the women on here were a size 8 or 18 looking at their pics

I'm actually size 8. It's just that our photos are x2 zoomed in

You sneaky little devil

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By *igR93Man
33 weeks ago

Sarcasm City

"Men…. More thigh pics please.

Ladies… more boobies please.

* this is the right thread for requests right?

Your wish is my command

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By *itaandJohnCouple
33 weeks ago

Bristol

Agreed, there's definitely trends when it comes to what men tend to post compared to women/couples/trans folk etc, and we've had our share of low effort dick pics in our inbox.

Difficult to say what group tends to be more explicit with photos as it's more based on an individuals definition of what 'explicit' is to them.

Overall we don't mind explicit photos of any kind as long as effort has clearly been put in. Examples include: using good lighting, interesting angles, a variety of attire, unique locations, fun toys/props used etc.

We've often done mini photoshoots together and solo, spending hours setting up and brainstorming ideas, taking 100's of shots and picking the best few, editing them and then posting (we do this fo fun, never money). We've found that even the most explicit of photo can be beautiful if people invest the time and effort into the art of photography

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By (user no longer on site)
33 weeks ago

"I do think men are more likely to take a photo and say fuck it, that's good enough.

If I may defend myself …

It’s actually more like taking 10 photos in a row and saying ‘fuck it, *one* of them’s good enough.’

And women take about a 100

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By *ealitybitesMan
33 weeks ago

Belfast

I'm one of those who says fuck it that will do.

I take a couple of shots, pick the best one, adjust the lighting and post it.

I've never spent more than 5 mins on any pic and that includes editing time but I've never been accused of lacking effort or poor quality pics.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
33 weeks ago

North West

"I do think men are more likely to take a photo and say fuck it, that's good enough.

If I may defend myself …

It’s actually more like taking 10 photos in a row and saying ‘fuck it, *one* of them’s good enough.’

And women take about a 100"

I give up after 2 or 3. But I'm not a proper woman

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