FabSwingers.com forum: Take the hint

By *obilebottom OP Man
30 weeks ago

All over

Do you or does it have to be spelt out for you. Are you good at reading between the lines, so to speak? Not everyone can it seems

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By *ittle Miss TinkerbellWoman
30 weeks ago

your head

Depends on the context. If someone is flirting with me, I can miss it really easily.

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By (user no longer on site)
30 weeks ago

Generally yes, though some people aren't so clear.

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By *rixie_BlondeWoman
30 weeks ago

London (She/Her)

It depends which part of my neuro diverse brain is activated - the rejection sensitivity or the hyper focus lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
30 weeks ago

My neurodivergant brain does need it to be spelled out to me sometimes

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By *ell GwynnWoman
30 weeks ago

North Yorkshire

Not really

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By *ilkey69Man
30 weeks ago

Barnsley

You have to be so careful on here as one wrong word however innocent can result in a block

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By (user no longer on site)
30 weeks ago

I can never take a hint. After a club event I was in a hotel for breakfast the following morning and a woman who was at the club was saying she was alone and told me her room number. She stuck a sausage in her mout, smiled and walked to her room. I just thought it was odd. Later found out it was what they call a hint. She's probably still waiting.

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By *illy IdolMan
30 weeks ago

Midlands

Mostly yes. But some are harder to read. Sometimes I'll be blindsided by hope

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By *carlet SeductionWoman
30 weeks ago

Maidstone

I'm very good at reading between the lines. I'm a real smart cookie

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By *illy IdolMan
30 weeks ago

Midlands

"Generally yes, though some people aren't so clear. "

Just to be clear, I would shag you x

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By *4bimMan
30 weeks ago

Farnborough Hampshire

im lost already

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By *obilebottom OP Man
30 weeks ago

All over

"I can never take a hint. After a club event I was in a hotel for breakfast the following morning and a woman who was at the club was saying she was alone and told me her room number. She stuck a sausage in her mout, smiled and walked to her room. I just thought it was odd. Later found out it was what they call a hint. She's probably still waiting."

Lol, that made me laugh bit did not mean just in 'flirting' situations. Several times today I wanted to tell someone they were totally out of otder but could not get myself to do it though I dropped lots of hints which semingly eent unoticed. That sort of thing though can be other situations of course.

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By *ig_eric_tionMan
30 weeks ago

IPSWICH

In the carnal sense I normally read between the lines about 2hrs after I should have. Bit too late then.

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By *antas little minxWoman
30 weeks ago

essex

I tend to go before I need to take the hint!!

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By *antas little minxWoman
30 weeks ago

essex

"I tend to go before I need to take the hint!!

Though flirty stuff, not good at noticing x

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By *oozleMan
30 weeks ago

high wycombe

I can sometimes, but depends on the context and how they write it.

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By *obilebottom OP Man
30 weeks ago

All over

"I tend to go before I need to take the hint!!

Good perception

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By *ittlemissTinselTitsCouple
30 weeks ago

Southampton

"In the carnal sense I normally read between the lines about 2hrs after I should have. Bit too late then.

Never mind reading between the lines, I find I need a clout around either side of my head with books

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By (user no longer on site)
30 weeks ago

"Generally yes, though some people aren't so clear.

Just to be clear, I would shag you x"

I am shocked by this Willy.

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By (user no longer on site)
30 weeks ago

No time for between the lines. If you've something to say, say it and say it clearly and directly.

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
30 weeks ago

Manchester-ish

I am pretty good but probably more likely to imagine offense that wasn't actually there. Overthinking and overly empathetic isn't a great combination. When it comes to flirting I'm pretty crap at knowing. Spell it out please!

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By *antas little minxWoman
30 weeks ago

essex

"I tend to go before I need to take the hint!!

Good perception

Saves issues later lol!

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By *ambertMan
30 weeks ago

Cheltenham

In as dense as a brick and need it in giant flashing lights

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By *till gameMan
30 weeks ago

two doors down

I got on really well with a girl I worked with, always met up for drinks and chatting on phone, anyway she met a guy and I used to go round for drinks , all got on well.

Soon they had arranged there wedding and at work the girl came to my room with invitation to the wedding, as she handed it over she said , you do know this could have been your wedding !

I was shocked, she said so you didn’t notice I was coming on to you and wanted to be with you all the time ?

Ooops major regret of mine

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
30 weeks ago

Wherever

Very good. Oftentimes I wish I wasn’t.

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By *cflirtyMan
30 weeks ago

Hampshire

My name suggests I should be good at seeing the signs, but sometimes they have to smack me in the face!

Gently of course

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
30 weeks ago

East Sussex

It depends.

My colleague once waited for ages in the ladies because she'd apparently hinted very heavily that she wanted to talk to me privately. I was oblivious

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By *empest2KMan
30 weeks ago

Derby

"Do you or does it have to be spelt out for you. Are you good at reading between the lines, so to speak? Not everyone can it seems

I can be hit or miss depending on the situation. Well, mostly hit but with the occasional miss

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By *issBellaWoman
30 weeks ago

Wales

I'm not very good with hints. Be it flirting or someone subtly telling me to jog on.

I need transparency give it me in black and white

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By *urry BlokeMan
30 weeks ago

Stalybridge

I can read between lines that aren't there MB

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By *obilebottom OP Man
30 weeks ago

All over

"I can read between lines that aren't there MB

Lol, hope you read mine. I wish someone else did

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By *antas little minxWoman
30 weeks ago

essex

"I can read between lines that aren't there MB

Lol, hope you read mine. I wish someone else did

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By *r Black 85Man
30 weeks ago

nottingham

What happens if you can't read

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By (user no longer on site)
30 weeks ago

"I got on really well with a girl I worked with, always met up for drinks and chatting on phone, anyway she met a guy and I used to go round for drinks , all got on well.

Soon they had arranged there wedding and at work the girl came to my room with invitation to the wedding, as she handed it over she said , you do know this could have been your wedding !

I was shocked, she said so you didn’t notice I was coming on to you and wanted to be with you all the time ?

Ooops major regret of mine "

So was her husband the 2nd choice?

Did you go to the wedding?..

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By *eliWoman
30 weeks ago

Sometimes I'm good at knowing things, understanding it fully without it clearly being said.

Most of the time, especially when personally involved, I find it hard to understand the nuances of the written word, those things that aren't said but meant. I tend to think no, they couldn't mean x, y and z so not as to embarrass myself.

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By *rixie_BlondeWoman
30 weeks ago

London (She/Her)

"What happens if you can't read

What does this say???

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By *till gameMan
30 weeks ago

two doors down

"I got on really well with a girl I worked with, always met up for drinks and chatting on phone, anyway she met a guy and I used to go round for drinks , all got on well.

Soon they had arranged there wedding and at work the girl came to my room with invitation to the wedding, as she handed it over she said , you do know this could have been your wedding !

I was shocked, she said so you didn’t notice I was coming on to you and wanted to be with you all the time ?

Ooops major regret of mine

So was her husband the 2nd choice?

Did you go to the wedding?.."

Yeah it seems so he was, I went to the wedding but felt weird, even her mum said to me she knew her daughter was into me.

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By *educing_EmCouple
30 weeks ago

Tipperary

For the most part yes but sometimes I get the hint wrong

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By *hoirCouple
30 weeks ago

Clacton/Bury St. Edmunds

"Do you or does it have to be spelt out for you. Are you good at reading between the lines, so to speak? Not everyone can it seems

Not even slightly, autistic af so spell it out for me doc

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
30 weeks ago

little house on the praire

I'm good at taking,a hint

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By (user no longer on site)
30 weeks ago

"I'm good at taking,a hint"

Are you?

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By (user no longer on site)
30 weeks ago

Unless it's wrapped around a large gold brick and I'm hit on the head with it I don't have a clue

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By *ansoffateMan
30 weeks ago

Sagittarius A

I can be.

I generally choose not engage in those kinds of games though, beyond a bit of playfulness. Why build a relationship on anything other than open communication?

If someone insists then the message they'll read between my lines will be spit it out and stop playing games.

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By *esthetic21Man
30 weeks ago

Birmingham/Bristol

"You have to be so careful on here as one wrong word however innocent can result in a block"
or just be yourself and the ones who block you aren't meant for you? That's how I look at it

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
30 weeks ago

little house on the praire

"I'm good at taking,a hint

Are you?"
yes

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By *hoirCouple
30 weeks ago

Clacton/Bury St. Edmunds

"Do you or does it have to be spelt out for you. Are you good at reading between the lines, so to speak? Not everyone can it seems

Depends on the context. In regards to attraction I am blind as fuck.

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By *rsKOTCTWoman
30 weeks ago

Leeds

No, I'm shit - I need it spelling out I don't do hints.

I never understand why people don't just say what they mean it would be so much easier.

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By *TG3Man
30 weeks ago

Dorchester

I'm so good at reading between the lines

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By *herry delightWoman
30 weeks ago

Ilfracombe

Why don't you just say what it is you want to say.

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By *ea monkeyMan
30 weeks ago

Manchester (he/him)

It depends on what it is. If someone is into me then they need to say. I can be very literal and black/white thinking at times, so nuances or subtleties can often be missed

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