FabSwingers.com forum: Winks...then ghosted

By *rangar OP Couple
30 weeks ago

Bromsgrove

Weve had a few winks sent that when we return them maybe with a message along the lines of thanks for the wink you hear no more ever.....just seems odd to show interest then nothing....have others found this?

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By (user no longer on site)
30 weeks ago

I've winked by mistake before.

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By *endalshaggersCouple
30 weeks ago

Kendal

Yep! We've found maybe people wink initially due to over excitement at public photos/videos - then read your profile after and find out your're not what they're wanting or vice versa.

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By *ansoffateMan
30 weeks ago

Sagittarius A

Ghosting seems a strong term in this context, but I've had people repeat that process a few times, before engaging.

People are peculiar creatures I wouldn't read too much into behaviour, too soon.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
30 weeks ago

Central

It's a lot of things, including conflicting expectations and changed needs. Some are relatively fickle and find other new, shiny things that attract them.

A few want near immediate response to any contact and get in a huff when they perceive they're ignored, etc.

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By *oveToPlay.Couple
30 weeks ago

Yorkshire

Yes had this happen to us a couple of times - could be for an array of differing reasons but we respect and understand that them not replying back to a message is a response in itself.

Don't really give it a second thought and move on

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By (user no longer on site)
30 weeks ago

"Weve had a few winks sent that when we return them maybe with a message along the lines of thanks for the wink you hear no more ever.....just seems odd to show interest then nothing....have others found this?"

Yeah happens a lot of the time. I dunno why people will send a wink, the point is show you are interested and want to talk

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By *esthetic21Man
30 weeks ago

Birmingham/Bristol

That's fab

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By *eordieJeansCouple
30 weeks ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

The only thing that makes sense on fab is that nothing makes sense.

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By *glyBettyTV/TS
30 weeks ago

About 3 feet away from the fence

Winks to me are like fabbing pics. It might just be because they like your profile or pics, it doesn't necessarily mean they want to meet.

If they're genuinely interested in meeting, they'll message you

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