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By (user no longer on site) OP   
33 weeks ago

What percentage of men reject women who approach them & why?

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By *illy IdolMan
33 weeks ago

Midlands

57%

Mainly due to them not being their preference

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
33 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

Men reject women plenty.

Here and in real life

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By *nitterWoman
33 weeks ago

the land of tall tales and yarn

Happens all the time

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By *oveToPlay.Couple
33 weeks ago

Yorkshire

Men do reject women, some want to meet my Mr alone and don't want me to be a part of anything.

Happened on here and in the real world too

S

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By *uenevereWoman
33 weeks ago

Scunthorpe

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By *uenevereWoman
33 weeks ago

Scunthorpe


"What percentage of men reject women who approach them & why?"

No idea what the percentage is, but I would hope most men are only interested in sex with women they're attracted to.

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By *entleman JayMan
33 weeks ago

Wakefield

Why do you think that rejecting someone’s advances, is a privilege only for ladies? If I’m not feeling it, I’m not feeling it.

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By *iss.BellaWoman
33 weeks ago

Wales

Are men not allowed preferences too?!

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
33 weeks ago

Glasgow / London


"Are men not allowed preferences too?! "

Oh god, have I been doing it wrong?

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By *onjudgesCouple (MM)
33 weeks ago

Carlisle

It happens on occasion.

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By *ansoffateMan
33 weeks ago

Sagittarius A

I find most women to be quite gracious in appreciating that compatability is a two-way street.

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By *ebauchedDeviantsPt2Couple
33 weeks ago

Cumbria


"What percentage of men reject women who approach them & why?"

No idea about the percentage but I’ve rejected women, the reason being I don’t fancy them.

Mr

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By *ilthycoupleabzCouple
33 weeks ago

Aberdeen


"What percentage of men reject women who approach them & why?"

No idea on the percentage but I am sure it happens frequently. Why wouldn't it?

As to the why - I would assume that it is the same reason women reject men, incompatibility, no attraction etc

MrsAbz

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By *ohn.Wick.Man
33 weeks ago

The Continental


"What percentage of men reject women who approach them & why?"

I dunno, and I don’t care.

What someone else does is of no concern to me

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By *ittlebirdWoman
33 weeks ago

The Big Smoke

Not sure on the percentage of that OP but I’ll ask Nero to check the Fab archive and confirm.

PS. It’s called a preference

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
33 weeks ago

Southampton

Men have rejected me on the basis I have a face only a mother could love ... it is what it is....rejection stings but you get over it lol

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By *arley QuimWoman
33 weeks ago

Somewhere

On Fab 1.78 percent (because they're munters)

Real life 27.9 percent (because they're munters)

Any other Q's OP?

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By *elloWoman
33 weeks ago

alpha centauri


"What percentage of men reject women who approach them & why?"

Off fab I stopped approaching men long, long, long ago because I got rejected a lot.

Probably because I was a d*unken mess, aggressively throwing myself at them .

On here I have sent messages to men complimenting them on their profile and photos and you can tell from their responses that even through polite they're not actually interested.

Are you maybe projecting the way you are onto all men ?

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By *TG3Man
33 weeks ago

Dorchester


"What percentage of men reject women who approach them & why?"
They've got their vag on show i mean its outrageous, I've passed them by

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By *dam1971Man
33 weeks ago

Bedford


"What percentage of men reject women who approach them & why?

Off fab I stopped approaching men long, long, long ago because I got rejected a lot.

Probably because I was a d*unken mess, aggressively throwing myself at them .

On here I have sent messages to men complimenting them on their profile and photos and you can tell from their responses that even through polite they're not actually interested.

Are you maybe projecting the way you are onto all men ? "

Good move, slurring your words and tripping over the furniture isn’t so obvious online

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By *allerthanaverage79Man
33 weeks ago

Ayrshire

There are the same number of each sex that are nutjobs- need to be very careful on which barbers floor you chose mate!

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By *ot to giggleWoman
33 weeks ago

Coventry

is that reject as in actually say no or the FAB reject where they fail to show up or ghost thats a lot!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
33 weeks ago

I’ve never rejected a woman on fab. If I did, it would be because I think they’re not a nice person or their views on certain things don’t align with my own.

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By *ou only live onceMan
33 weeks ago

London


"What percentage of men reject women who approach them & why?"

I'm going to be bold and say that every straight man has rejected a woman at some point in life. So, 100%.

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By *ou only live onceMan
33 weeks ago

London


"What percentage of men reject women who approach them & why?

I'm going to be bold and say that every straight man has rejected a woman at some point in life. So, 100%.

"

And rejected is the wrong word. Not had mutual attraction more to the point.

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
33 weeks ago

Herts/Beds/Lomdon

I got rejected by a woman once. Ok I was trying to buy an ice cream (a 99 no flake if you’re at all interested) but she worked in a dry cleaners. Still stung though. I’m sensitive like that.

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By *ou only live onceMan
33 weeks ago

London


"I got rejected by a woman once. Ok I was trying to buy an ice cream (a 99 no flake if you’re at all interested) but she worked in a dry cleaners. Still stung though. I’m sensitive like that. "

That was uncalled for. What a bitch.

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By *dam1971Man
33 weeks ago

Bedford


"I got rejected by a woman once. Ok I was trying to buy an ice cream (a 99 no flake if you’re at all interested) but she worked in a dry cleaners. Still stung though. I’m sensitive like that. "

*hugs*

I’m here for you

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By *iss.BellaWoman
33 weeks ago

Wales

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By *iss.BellaWoman
33 weeks ago

Wales


"Are men not allowed preferences too?!

Oh god, have I been doing it wrong?"

It would seem so off to the fab dungeon you go

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By *ixieAndHerKingCouple
33 weeks ago

Debauchery

When I was a single guy on here I said no to meets with women. Not because they weren’t attractive women, but because I didn’t feel a connection. I’m sure they’d prefer me to be honest.

Hades

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By *ittlebirdWoman
33 weeks ago

The Big Smoke


"I got rejected by a woman once. Ok I was trying to buy an ice cream (a 99 no flake if you’re at all interested) but she worked in a dry cleaners. Still stung though. I’m sensitive like that. "

No bits and juice either?

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By *y AmoreMan
33 weeks ago

london

I think I really goes both ways. Depends on the approach of the person as well. No one’s should be privileged enough not to think they can’t be rejected

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By *eroLondonMan
33 weeks ago

Mayfair

I cannot speak for others or state percentages but I usually reject women who message me with blag one liners or send photos of their inglorious quims. If their opening gambit is riddled with lazy text speak then that also puts me off.

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By (user no longer on site)
33 weeks ago

Generally when they see my face, it was good until that moment though.

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By *eroLondonMan
33 weeks ago

Mayfair


"Generally when they see my face, it was good until that moment though. "

·

Your face would probably launch a thousand ships...in the opposite direction.

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By *ealitybitesMan
33 weeks ago

Belfast

I've said no much more than I've said yes on fab.

I've even passed on women in kiss fuck pass threads because I didn't find them attractive even when others obviously do.

I'd go so far as saying that any man on fab who hasn't needs a good helping of self respect.

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By *eliWoman
33 weeks ago

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Rejected is such a harsh term isn't it? The person "rejecting" doesn't know you, isn't rejecting who you are as a person.

They're turning you down because they don't think you're compatible for whatever reason.

Men do that, why wouldn't they? They're not walking cocks with a semen filled brain.

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By (user no longer on site)
33 weeks ago


" They're not walking cocks with a semen filled brain."

Oh some are, what percentage I don't know though.

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By *ot to giggleWoman
33 weeks ago

Coventry


"What percentage of men reject women who approach them & why?"

what percentage of women have you rejected ?

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By *ansoffateMan
33 weeks ago

Sagittarius A


"On Fab 1.78 percent (because they're munters)

Real life 27.9 percent (because they're munters)

Any other Q's OP? "

Munters I haven't heard that word in yonks.

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
33 weeks ago

A den in the Glen

The last few I politely turned down:

Lost the mojo with the conversation. (Common)

Lost interest after fucking about for ages, being sent clever (not so clever) glimpses of pictures of her expecting to piece all the bits together in my brain.

Became a little bit nutty and wanted a bit of exclusivity.

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
33 weeks ago

Glasgow / London


"Men do that, why wouldn't they? They're not walking cocks with a semen filled brain."

I mean, you say that. But …

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
33 weeks ago

Herts/Beds/Lomdon


"I got rejected by a woman once. Ok I was trying to buy an ice cream (a 99 no flake if you’re at all interested) but she worked in a dry cleaners. Still stung though. I’m sensitive like that.

No bits and juice either? "

I did go back the following day, passive aggressively, eating an ice cream (lemon sorbet lolly if you’re at all interested). Hardest thing I’ve ever done. Eating an ice cream passively aggressively. But I needed dry cleaning done.

So I hope the OP doesn’t feel despondent.

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By (user no longer on site)
33 weeks ago

Why do you think most men are passed over?

In life, people may be passed over just as people are passed over on Fab.

Attraction has to be two way for people to have an interest.

You simply can’t be for everyone and everyone isn’t for you. Unless you approach this as any hole is a good hole so long as it’s a hole.

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By *ouples_EroticaXXXCouple
33 weeks ago

manchester


"What percentage of men reject women who approach them & why?"

Men reject women based on attraction and for many other reasons just as women reject men for the same.

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By *ohnny DeeeepMan
33 weeks ago

durham

Depends on the man. If you just fancy someone to jizz in then you probably aren’t hoying out too many rejection letters, if you are looking for something in particular then you probably say no to the majority.

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By *ex HolesMan
33 weeks ago

Up North

If they’re a 7 or below then they may as well go crying back to their mum

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By *iss.BellaWoman
33 weeks ago

Wales


"If they’re a 7 or below then they may as well go crying back to their mum "

Said like a true romantic

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
33 weeks ago

Southampton


"If they’re a 7 or below then they may as well go crying back to their mum "

I'm a 2 .... off I trot

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By *eliWoman
33 weeks ago

.


"Men do that, why wouldn't they? They're not walking cocks with a semen filled brain.

I mean, you say that. But … "

No Rosie, you're not a walking cock, don't say that about yourself. You're just a mantart.

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By *viatrixWoman
33 weeks ago

Redhill

I messaged someone about going to a spa/club today and he very subtly said he wasn’t interested in going with me.

It happens.

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By *iss.BellaWoman
33 weeks ago

Wales

I can see where you're coming from though OP.

I recently had a message from someone who's profile was very much aimed towards women of a much slimmer body type than mine. When I mentioned it his response was "well that doesn't matter, it's just one night of fun isn't it?" I would have much preferred him to say actually yes, you are too big for me

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By (user no longer on site)
33 weeks ago

It hasn't happened often, but I have rejected women and couples based off the effort they've put into their messages. It was like banging my head against wall and I couldn't be arsed carrying a conversation to try and impress them.

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By *ittlebirdWoman
33 weeks ago

The Big Smoke


"If they’re a 7 or below then they may as well go crying back to their mum

I'm a 2 .... off I trot "

I think he means a 7inch gape…

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
33 weeks ago

Southampton


"If they’re a 7 or below then they may as well go crying back to their mum

I'm a 2 .... off I trot

I think he means a 7inch gape… "

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
33 weeks ago

Herts/Beds/Lomdon


"If they’re a 7 or below then they may as well go crying back to their mum

I'm a 2 .... off I trot

I think he means a 7inch gape… "

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By *icolasHidalgoDeCorazonMan
33 weeks ago

St Leonards


"If they’re a 7 or below then they may as well go crying back to their mum

I'm a 2 .... off I trot

I think he means a 7inch gape…

"

Ahhhhh...Rex's Mum .

She's definitely an 8....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
33 weeks ago


"Why do you think most men are passed over?

In life, people may be passed over just as people are passed over on Fab.

Attraction has to be two way for people to have an interest.

The context in which I framed my question is from the view of the average single male on this site & the fact women have far more choices.

You simply can’t be for everyone and everyone isn’t for you. Unless you approach this as any hole is a good hole so long as it’s a hole. "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
33 weeks ago


"Why do you think most men are passed over?

In life, people may be passed over just as people are passed over on Fab.

Attraction has to be two way for people to have an interest.

You simply can’t be for everyone and everyone isn’t for you. Unless you approach this as any hole is a good hole so long as it’s a hole. "

The context in which I framed my question is from the view of the average single male on this site & the fact women have far more choices.

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By *ikesEmBigMan
33 weeks ago

Herts


"What percentage of men reject women who approach them & why?"

Because they're crap at Uno

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By *naswingdressWoman
33 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

Both men and women have equal agency in saying no.

The thing that these questions seem to leave out is that not having sex is also an option.

No sex is often better than bad or sex with a person who won't be what you need. And I don't think men are so driven by instincts or libido that they feel differently.

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By *ansoffateMan
33 weeks ago

Sagittarius A


"Why do you think most men are passed over?

In life, people may be passed over just as people are passed over on Fab.

Attraction has to be two way for people to have an interest.

You simply can’t be for everyone and everyone isn’t for you. Unless you approach this as any hole is a good hole so long as it’s a hole.

The context in which I framed my question is from the view of the average single male on this site & the fact women have far more choices."

What's your hypothesis regarding the phenomena you have observed?

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By (user no longer on site)
33 weeks ago


"Why do you think most men are passed over?

In life, people may be passed over just as people are passed over on Fab.

Attraction has to be two way for people to have an interest.

You simply can’t be for everyone and everyone isn’t for you. Unless you approach this as any hole is a good hole so long as it’s a hole.

The context in which I framed my question is from the view of the average single male on this site & the fact women have far more choices."

I understood that.

I added real life to make a comparison. Average people in real life, just as on here, get passed by in equal measures.

Some will find the average guy here attractive. Some won’t. This isn’t exclusive to Fab. It happens in every day life too.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
33 weeks ago

The Town by The Cross


"What percentage of men reject women who approach them & why?"

'IF' most men are passed over then few men are not passed over. This means that 100% of the men who are not passed over are not passed over and 100% of the men who are passed over are passed over. 100% + 100% = 200% which means that there were twice as many men as we first thought there were. If there are twice as many men as we first thought then this is going to make the number of men who reject women very small so the answer is 1 and if you want that as a percentage just divide it by 100 which makes the true answer 0.001%

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By *ouples_EroticaXXXCouple
33 weeks ago

manchester


"Why do you think most men are passed over?

In life, people may be passed over just as people are passed over on Fab.

Attraction has to be two way for people to have an interest.

You simply can’t be for everyone and everyone isn’t for you. Unless you approach this as any hole is a good hole so long as it’s a hole.

The context in which I framed my question is from the view of the average single male on this site & the fact women have far more choices.

I understood that.

I added real life to make a comparison. Average people in real life, just as on here, get passed by in equal measures.

Some will find the average guy here attractive. Some won’t. This isn’t exclusive to Fab. It happens in every day life too. "

It’s a sex site how dare you not want to fuck every man who drops into your inbox. The cheek of it!

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By *iscean_dreamMan
33 weeks ago

Llanelli


"What percentage of men reject women who approach them & why?"

Like most men I won't meet just anyone as I need to be attracted to them.

If I'm not attracted then I'm comfortable telling them if they tell me they find me attractive and it can be for many reasons but it comes down to attraction.

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By *arley QuimWoman
33 weeks ago

Somewhere


"What percentage of men reject women who approach them & why?

Like most men I won't meet just anyone as I need to be attracted to them.

If I'm not attracted then I'm comfortable telling them if they tell me they find me attractive and it can be for many reasons but it comes down to attraction. "

You did way worse till you found your fwb though?

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By *iscean_dreamMan
33 weeks ago

Llanelli


"What percentage of men reject women who approach them & why?

Like most men I won't meet just anyone as I need to be attracted to them.

If I'm not attracted then I'm comfortable telling them if they tell me they find me attractive and it can be for many reasons but it comes down to attraction.

You did way worse till you found your fwb though? "

I've met lots of incredible ladies before and since, I've turned down quite a few as well #fablife

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By *ags73Man
33 weeks ago

glasgow-ish


"What percentage of men reject women who approach them & why?"

Spideysenses. It’s some shit like that when I do it, a vibe, a feeling, a sense of something.

Can’t quite explain it. It’s maybe not based on looks or dress or big boobies.

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
33 weeks ago

Wirral.


"Why do you think most men are passed over?

In life, people may be passed over just as people are passed over on Fab.

Attraction has to be two way for people to have an interest.

You simply can’t be for everyone and everyone isn’t for you. Unless you approach this as any hole is a good hole so long as it’s a hole.

The context in which I framed my question is from the view of the average single male on this site & the fact women have far more choices."

So as a single woman on here I get a few messages through my filters. But most I either don't fancy or don't have face pics, so are "rejected" straight away.

Maybe one a day piques my interest. But most of them disappear within a day or so, as they find something better.

So technically, I MAY have more to choose from, as you say. But do they count if they're not for me? Or should I just choose one of them anyway? Genuinely curious

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By *rHotNottsMan
33 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham


"What percentage of men reject women who approach them & why?

Off fab I stopped approaching men long, long, long ago because I got rejected a lot.

Probably because I was a d*unken mess, aggressively throwing myself at them .

On here I have sent messages to men complimenting them on their profile and photos and you can tell from their responses that even through polite they're not actually interested.

Are you maybe projecting the way you are onto all men ? "

I often get messages complimenting a photo or forum post and I just normally reply thank-you because you never know if it’s just a genuine compliment or a bit of a flirt.

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By *TG3Man
33 weeks ago

Dorchester


"What percentage of men reject women who approach them & why?

'IF' most men are passed over then few men are not passed over. This means that 100% of the men who are not passed over are not passed over and 100% of the men who are passed over are passed over. 100% + 100% = 200% which means that there were twice as many men as we first thought there were. If there are twice as many men as we first thought then this is going to make the number of men who reject women very small so the answer is 1 and if you want that as a percentage just divide it by 100 which makes the true answer 0.001% "

Isn't the passover a religious festival maybe he had the faith

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By *weet LisaTV/TS
33 weeks ago

Crawley

Had my first meet request from a woman yesterday morning, one half of a female couple. I said no for very hairy reasons, I have something on the horizon with a friend and she doesn't like me smooth.

The woman asked can't I stay dressed/covered I said I can't do it hairy so that's a 100% record for saying no.

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By (user no longer on site)
33 weeks ago

I rejected a woman after I told her I wasnt interested in the nicest way and she told me to fuck off. Blocked her for that

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By (user no longer on site)
33 weeks ago


"Are men not allowed preferences too?!

"

Of course men can have preferences

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
33 weeks ago

Leeds

Wonder what the percentage is of men who have no morals, no dignity who will literally shag anything because it has a vagina?

The mr

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
33 weeks ago

A den in the Glen


"Wonder what the percentage is of men who have no morals, no dignity who will literally shag anything because it has a vagina?

The mr "

Fab stats report that 3.14% of men will fuck any pie put in front of them.

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By *aptain VMan
33 weeks ago

Birstall, Leicester


"What percentage of men reject women who approach them & why?"

Gotta be done

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By *TG3Man
33 weeks ago

Dorchester

Only 1.5% of men reject a woman

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By (user no longer on site)
33 weeks ago

I rejected a woman recently in the nicest possible way and she told me to fuck off. Now tell is that not a toxic person for not getting their way?

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By *ongandharderMan
33 weeks ago

Rotherham

Due to rates on Incels , loneliness and women generally going for the same men / men of a certain standard being rightfully or wrongly particular

Results in frustration to the point most men will shag anything to get some form of contact or attention

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
33 weeks ago


"I rejected a woman recently in the nicest possible way and she told me to fuck off. Now tell is that not a toxic person for not getting their way?"

Do you get a lot of female attention for you to have that luxury?

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By *naswingdressWoman
33 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I rejected a woman recently in the nicest possible way and she told me to fuck off. Now tell is that not a toxic person for not getting their way?

Do you get a lot of female attention for you to have that luxury?"

You make it sound like female attention is oxygen.

You do know you won't die if you won't have sex, right? (Yes, I know you'd prefer to be having sex, wouldn't we all. But if you get one bad offer a decade, you still have the "luxury" of saying no)

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By *he turned me GreyCouple
33 weeks ago

Warwick and Coventry


"I rejected a woman recently in the nicest possible way and she told me to fuck off. Now tell is that not a toxic person for not getting their way?

Do you get a lot of female attention for you to have that luxury?"

So, you have to accept every offer you get?...

Starting to think "men will fuck anything" thread holds water...

Mr

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By (user no longer on site)
33 weeks ago

I’d rather die a virgin than have sex with someone from fab

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By *naswingdressWoman
33 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I’d rather die a virgin than have sex with someone from fab"

rude

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By *hunky GentMan
33 weeks ago

Maldon and Peterborough

I'm far too busy to even reply to most people.

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By *ilthycoupleabzCouple
33 weeks ago

Aberdeen


"I’d rather die a virgin than have sex with someone from fab"

Um but Pickle, you aren't a virgin? So I take it you're still open to offers

MrsAbz

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By *he love catsCouple
33 weeks ago

South Wales

We (reject) don't really like this word, different genders regularly, only a small percentage of our messages will lead to meets and even less to sex.

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By *ea monkeyMan
33 weeks ago

Manchester (he/him)


"I rejected a woman recently in the nicest possible way and she told me to fuck off. Now tell is that not a toxic person for not getting their way?

Do you get a lot of female attention for you to have that luxury?"

It’s not about scarcity or proliferation that causes people to reject others. It’s based upon attraction.

The fact that you don’t understand this points to a level of desperation on your part where you would meet anyone if they offered, irrespective of your attraction

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By *ivemealadybonerWoman
33 weeks ago

somewhere

Personal preference I guess OP, we all have them.

I never really gave my advances to a man first when I was meeting incase of rejection (as I typically fancy blokes out of my league lol).

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By *bony22Woman
33 weeks ago

Sheffield

Maybe you’re getting rejection because you are giving “Baby Reindeer vibes ????”

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By *glyBettyTV/TS
33 weeks ago

About 3 feet away from the fence

If you're lucky enough to be conventionally attractive in some way, you will have the option to turn offers down, whether you are a man or a woman.

It's always been this way.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod

33 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"I rejected a woman recently in the nicest possible way and she told me to fuck off. Now tell is that not a toxic person for not getting their way?

Do you get a lot of female attention for you to have that luxury?"

Yes that's a toxic person.

But that's not gender specific is it?

And it doesn't matter the level of attention someone gets. No means no. Anyone and everyone is equally allowed to say those two letters for whatever reason they choose.

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By *allandathleticMan
33 weeks ago

Asgard

9 times out of 10. I do.

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By *heRazorsEdgeMan
33 weeks ago

Wales/ All over UK


"What percentage of men reject women who approach them & why?"

If you’re including time wasters and those who are fantasists I’d say it’s close to 75%…

There are those that would fuck a damp sock if it had tits however

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By *iscean_dreamMan
33 weeks ago

Llanelli

Anyone feeling sorry for OP? Seems he will have sex with anyone that has a pulse and still not getting anywhere.

Can someone please give him a sympathy shag?

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By (user no longer on site)
33 weeks ago


"I rejected a woman recently in the nicest possible way and she told me to fuck off. Now tell is that not a toxic person for not getting their way?

Do you get a lot of female attention for you to have that luxury?"

Its a weird one for me, I get attention from women I dont normally go for or find attractive but if it is someone I like they come with a catch

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
33 weeks ago


"I rejected a woman recently in the nicest possible way and she told me to fuck off. Now tell is that not a toxic person for not getting their way?

Do you get a lot of female attention for you to have that luxury? Its a weird one for me, I get attention from women I dont normally go for or find attractive but if it is someone I like they come with a catch"

You are a striking looking man with your 6 pack etc….how often are you approached by women?

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By (user no longer on site)
33 weeks ago

I only ever reject anyone who doesn’t take my fancy, in a “my” preference way

Not that I’m inundated in any way shape or form

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
33 weeks ago


"I only ever reject anyone who doesn’t take my fancy, in a “my” preference way

Not that I’m inundated in any way shape or form "

My point is I’m trying see if women rejecting men is the same or higher than men rejecting women or do women expect the man to make the first approach?

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By *rsMistyPeaksWoman
33 weeks ago

Essex


"I rejected a woman recently in the nicest possible way and she told me to fuck off. Now tell is that not a toxic person for not getting their way?

Do you get a lot of female attention for you to have that luxury?"

May I just point out saying no should never been seen as a “luxury”

No matter your sex,gender, orientation, religion, marital status etc…. For whatever reason (and no reason is a reason) saying no to anyone at any time is a “right”

Thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
33 weeks ago

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By *assing Fancies xCouple
33 weeks ago

Sherwood Forest

I (mr) have had to reject the advances of women on here and at socials I've attended with my wife for various reasons.

Considering there is probably alot more male members of fab compared to others then the percentage of thanks but no thanks is bound to be higher

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
33 weeks ago


"I (mr) have had to reject the advances of women on here and at socials I've attended with my wife for various reasons.

Considering there is probably alot more male members of fab compared to others then the percentage of thanks but no thanks is bound to be higher "

That’s my point:I’m trying to see if it is 50/50 or if women reject more men then the other way round?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
33 weeks ago


"I’d rather die a virgin than have sex with someone from fab"

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By *ilthycoupleabzCouple
33 weeks ago

Aberdeen


"I (mr) have had to reject the advances of women on here and at socials I've attended with my wife for various reasons.

Considering there is probably alot more male members of fab compared to others then the percentage of thanks but no thanks is bound to be higher

That’s my point:I’m trying to see if it is 50/50 or if women reject more men then the other way round?"

What difference does that make to anything?

MrsAbz

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
33 weeks ago


"Maybe you’re getting rejection because you are giving “Baby Reindeer vibes ????”"

I’ve heard of “BETTY DAVIS EYES” but “Baby Reindeer Vibes”

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
33 weeks ago


"I rejected a woman recently in the nicest possible way and she told me to fuck off. Now tell is that not a toxic person for not getting their way?

Do you get a lot of female attention for you to have that luxury?

May I just point out saying no should never been seen as a “luxury”

No matter your sex,gender, orientation, religion, marital status etc…. For whatever reason (and no reason is a reason) saying no to anyone at any time is a “right”

Thank you "

That is not what I said or asked.

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By *ucka39Man
33 weeks ago

Newcastle

Wouldn't like to complicate things as we seem better bouncing off each other as besties

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By *ib.Man
33 weeks ago

Hampshire


"What percentage of men reject women who approach them & why?"

About the same?

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By (user no longer on site)
33 weeks ago

They know better than to approach me

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