FabSwingers.com forum: What's in a face...

By *eli OP Woman
30 weeks ago

Do you think you have a good face?

One that could be attractive to others?

Is another's face important to you? Have you ever been surprised when you've seen someone's face on here?

Sunday musings, it's a very late and lazy start clearly. :D

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
30 weeks ago

Leeds

I need a face to guage attraction I can't do that on boobs alone. I can't kiss a face I don't find attractive.

I think mines ok, some seem to like it so that'll do me.

Mrs

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By *elloWoman
30 weeks ago

alpha centauri

I have a crappy opinion of my face and body.

I don't know how to deal with compliments from people on here because I don't truly believe them.

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By (user no longer on site)
30 weeks ago

I actually hate my face, and this isn't self pity. I've had coffee I'm good on that front. But I'm not good looking by any means. Anyone that tells me I am will get blocked jfyi.

I never ask for a face picture but the face and the voice are deal breakers for me. You could have everything else, but not good in those areas, I'm gonna pass.

Double standards but it's fab and I'm female I can get away with it.

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By *esthetic21Man
30 weeks ago

Birmingham/Bristol

Na my face is a 5 at best. Make up for it with my personality

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By *eli OP Woman
30 weeks ago

"I need a face to guage attraction I can't do that on boobs alone. I can't kiss a face I don't find attractive.

I think mines ok, some seem to like it so that'll do me.

Mrs "

That's fair, are you ever surprised by the face after seeing the boobs?

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By *ather WickmasMan
30 weeks ago

The Continental

My face is devastatingly handsome, and very easy to fancy.

I’m initially attracted to someone’s face. That kicks off the beginning of a process that will hopefully see us getting naked and clashing genitals.

I’m often surprised when I see the faces of folk here. There’s a lot of outrageously attractive folk.

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By *esthetic21Man
30 weeks ago

Birmingham/Bristol

But remember beauty is in the eye of the beholder

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By (user no longer on site)
30 weeks ago

Good morning sunshine x

A face that I find attractive is important for me. I do have strange tastes though so I'm not looking for "model" types.

I hate the fat on my face. If I got rid of that I'd be quite happy with mine. It's a good reflection of my character and gives off great "Disney villuan" vibes

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By *929Man
30 weeks ago

newcastle

My face and hair is shit

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By *eli OP Woman
30 weeks ago

"I have a crappy opinion of my face and body.

I don't know how to deal with compliments from people on here because I don't truly believe them."

That sounds really rubbish, sorry to read that, _ello. If you have said crappy opinion does that affect your chance of meeting others? I'm thinking in terms of going through with it, during it etc.

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By *ake_or_deathMan
30 weeks ago

Manchester

I've often wondered why faces are so important to us. From a purely sexual point of view, someone could have a body that you'd find incredibly attractive but if their face doesn't match it then it's off-putting...which makes no sense really. So what is it about faces that we are so swayed by?

Personally I would say my face is...OK. I mean, I'm no Hollywood hunk but it's not bad and a few people down the years have told me they like it. It doesn't get me many right swipes on dating apps but then I photograph badly. I suppose it's more for people who've met me to answer that question.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
30 weeks ago

Leeds

"I need a face to guage attraction I can't do that on boobs alone. I can't kiss a face I don't find attractive.

I think mines ok, some seem to like it so that'll do me.

Mrs

That's fair, are you ever surprised by the face after seeing the boobs?

Yes I have a few times, moreso in a good way.

Mrs

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By *ot to giggleWoman
30 weeks ago

Coventry

a face unlocks who the person is - you can appreciate a body, boobies, ass, cock - but the face shows you the soul of the person and if your attracted to or can accommodate that person, some faces you know are not matches for you - for whatever reason

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
30 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

The features of my own individually I'm not keen on. Apart from my lips. But somehow it all works well enough together to make what I think is a reasonably attractive face overall.

Faces are important in that sometimes I simply don't like someone's face, and if that's the case I don't particularly want to have sex with them when looking at them during wouldn't bring me any joy.

I don't have much of a visual imagination, so I'm only surprised by someone's face if they've sent me very old or highly edited pictures of it previously. If it's the first time I see it, their face is just their face, without expectations.

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By *ellinever70Woman
30 weeks ago

Ayrshire

I think a face is what makes someone a whole person as opposed to a collection of body parts.

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By (user no longer on site)
30 weeks ago

"a face unlocks who the person is - you can appreciate a body, boobies, ass, cock - but the face shows you the soul of the person and if your attracted to or can accommodate that person, some faces you know are not matches for you - for whatever reason "

Well said, nothing else needed to add

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By *aui.Man
30 weeks ago

around here

In terms of my face, I thought I was reasonably attractive. However the amount of times I'm ghosted after sending a face pic on here says otherwise

I'm a big boy though, I can take it.

Yes other people's faces are very important. I would say a good personality definitely makes someone more attractive. If I'm not attracted to someone at all though, it won't bypass that.

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By *ittlemissTinselTitsCouple
30 weeks ago

Southampton

I have mixed opinions about my face...it looks OK with makeup, sometimes I like it...I think my smile is nice

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By *elloWoman
30 weeks ago

alpha centauri

"I have a crappy opinion of my face and body.

I don't know how to deal with compliments from people on here because I don't truly believe them.

That sounds really rubbish, sorry to read that, _ello. If you have said crappy opinion does that affect your chance of meeting others? I'm thinking in terms of going through with it, during it etc.

I think it affects my readiness to meet people one-on-one because they might feel disappointed or catfished. But meeting in a swingers club environment we can find alternative partners so not a wasted trip

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By *illy IdolMan
30 weeks ago

Midlands

"I actually hate my face, and this isn't self pity. I've had coffee I'm good on that front. But I'm not good looking by any means. Anyone that tells me I am will get blocked jfyi.

I never ask for a face picture but the face and the voice are deal breakers for me. You could have everything else, but not good in those areas, I'm gonna pass.

Double standards but it's fab and I'm female I can get away with it.

You have a nice face

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By *luttyLaylaWoman
30 weeks ago

North West

Face is the most important to me!

I have to find someone attractive

I like my face

not sure everyone else does, but i do ha x

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By *eli OP Woman
30 weeks ago

"I actually hate my face, and this isn't self pity. I've had coffee I'm good on that front. But I'm not good looking by any means. Anyone that tells me I am will get blocked jfyi.

I never ask for a face picture but the face and the voice are deal breakers for me. You could have everything else, but not good in those areas, I'm gonna pass.

Double standards but it's fab and I'm female I can get away with it.

Oh I'm not going to challenge that don't worry - it's how you view it.

I was going to say it's not double standards but you don't like your voice, do you... do you ever worry those you find attractive won't like your face and voice?

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By *eli OP Woman
30 weeks ago

"Na my face is a 5 at best. Make up for it with my personality

It's good you have a redeeming quality, happy for you.

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By *illy IdolMan
30 weeks ago

Midlands

I have an okay face. Too good for radio but not good enough for TV.

Faces are the most important to me. If I'm not attracted to your face then I'm not attracted to you.

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By *educing_EmCouple
30 weeks ago

Tipperary

I have a decent face, I don't dislike it.

I do need to like the other persons face to fancy them though,if it's not a good one it puts a wet blanket on it for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
30 weeks ago

"I have a crappy opinion of my face and body.

I don't know how to deal with compliments from people on here because I don't truly believe them."

This

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By *emorefridaCouple
30 weeks ago

La la land

I've lost a bit of weight and currently dislike my face rather a lot, at the moment.

Faces are so important, they convey so much more than text or speaking. They have their own language. I think they're so important for attraction. And yes I've been surprised more than once with someone's face.

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By *ikesEmBigMan
30 weeks ago

Herts

"Do you think you have a good face?

One that could be attractive to others?

Is another's face important to you? Have you ever been surprised when you've seen someone's face on here?

Sunday musings, it's a very late and lazy start clearly. :D"

I'm an ugly bugger hence I keep flashing my knob instead

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By *eli OP Woman
30 weeks ago

"My face is devastatingly handsome, and very easy to fancy.

I’m initially attracted to someone’s face. That kicks off the beginning of a process that will hopefully see us getting naked and clashing genitals.

I’m often surprised when I see the faces of folk here. There’s a lot of outrageously attractive folk.

Love the confidence Wick.

So a face before a body. On a site like this, do you not find it works the other way around or does the potential attraction not kick in until you've seen the face?

Also, yes there is! I look at my friends list sometimes and think 'what a beautiful bunch of wankers'.

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By *partan69Man
30 weeks ago

hyde

I used to put a picture of my face in my window to scare off intruders

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By *eardedman76Man
30 weeks ago

westminster

Bearded mmm

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
30 weeks ago

A den in the Glen

My face is ok. It's dominated by a broken nose, so from one angle it looks like I have been hit with a sledgehammer and cause trouble, from another David Gandy. On a really bad day. Like really bad.

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By (user no longer on site)
30 weeks ago

"I actually hate my face, and this isn't self pity. I've had coffee I'm good on that front. But I'm not good looking by any means. Anyone that tells me I am will get blocked jfyi.

I never ask for a face picture but the face and the voice are deal breakers for me. You could have everything else, but not good in those areas, I'm gonna pass.

Double standards but it's fab and I'm female I can get away with it.

Oh I'm not going to challenge that don't worry - it's how you view it.

I was going to say it's not double standards but you don't like your voice, do you... do you ever worry those you find attractive won't like your face and voice?"

On here? No. In my experience men don't care about that if there's a chance they'll get sex. Why I like fab Meli.

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By *eli OP Woman
30 weeks ago

"Good morning sunshine x

A face that I find attractive is important for me. I do have strange tastes though so I'm not looking for "model" types.

I hate the fat on my face. If I got rid of that I'd be quite happy with mine. It's a good reflection of my character and gives off great "Disney villuan" vibes"

Good morning Cinnamon you lovely soul, x

Oh I remember your tastes! They're not strange just... a tad unconventional. I get it.

Disney villain vibes is such a strong energy to give off, you're winning at life.

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By *ilthycoupleabzCouple
30 weeks ago

Aberdeen

I have never thought my face was overly pretty. It is quite average and unoffensive though.

I much prefer my face with full makeup, much prettier.

Alas, I am too lazy to do that all the time.

On others it is particular facial features I might like - a nice nose, kind eyes, a smile that makes me feel smiley back etc.

MrsAbz

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By *eli OP Woman
30 weeks ago

"I've often wondered why faces are so important to us. From a purely sexual point of view, someone could have a body that you'd find incredibly attractive but if their face doesn't match it then it's off-putting...which makes no sense really. So what is it about faces that we are so swayed by? "

I don't think many are swayed by a face on here. Someone could have an incredibly attractive body and the face is less so but people will still have sex with them. I think attraction is very... subjective? And it depends on what you're looking for really. Wanting to find.

"Personally I would say my face is...OK. I mean, I'm no Hollywood hunk but it's not bad and a few people down the years have told me they like it. It doesn't get me many right swipes on dating apps but then I photograph badly. I suppose it's more for people who've met me to answer that question. "

Do you photograph badly or do you take bad photos? I think quite often people do the latter, not realising that and think it's a reflection of them.

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By *ather WickmasMan
30 weeks ago

The Continental

So a face before a body. On a site like this, do you not find it works the other way around or does the potential attraction not kick in until you've seen the face?

For me, the potential for attraction doesn’t begin until I’ve seen his/her face. Seeing the photos of body’s, body parts is all nice, and appeals to the most base instinct within me, but the clincher so to speak….will always be a face.

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By *onkey 2023Man
30 weeks ago

Cross Hands

Attraction takes MANY forms…and what constitutes the concept of classifying people is so bloody complicated it’s had books written about it.

Personally, I don’t really have a ‘type’…you could be regarded as stunningly beautiful by many, but unless that certain element of ‘attraction’ was shining through from you for me, it’s a non-starter. On the flip side, you might regard yourself as having ‘average’ or ‘below average’ looks, and I might find you incredibly attractive overall…EVERYONE IS DIFFERENT, and it really is down to INDIVIDUAL ATTRACTION.

Personality, spirit, attitude, friendliness…they all count FAR more than looks, age size or shape. FACT!

I find myself attracted to women generally from their mid thirties upwards…whilst I find a face photo is pretty important to complete the ‘overall mental picture’ before meeting “up,

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By (user no longer on site)
30 weeks ago

Morning .. I think there needs to be an attraction to the person and their face is a big part of that but i also think personality is equally as important.

You could look like Scarlett Johansson but have the personality of a shoe..

Personally, I'm like a fine wine .. getting better with age and i have a GREAT personality

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By *ilthycoupleabzCouple
30 weeks ago

Aberdeen

Do you photograph badly or do you take bad photos? I think quite often people do the latter, not realising that and think it's a reflection of them."

Oh I'm glad you mentioned that! I was about to say - a photo never captures the movements that make a face. Its a known "thing". Some faces are stunning in real life but in pictures, not great. Whoch is due to the lack of real life motion

MrsAbz

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By *eli OP Woman
30 weeks ago

The poetry

. Yep, I'd agree. When you see someone's face perhaps it doesn't have to be deeper than... their face does or doesn't work for me. For whatever reason.

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By *929Man
30 weeks ago

newcastle

Do you photograph badly or do you take bad photos? I think quite often people do the latter, not realising that and think it's a reflection of them.

MrsAbz"

I really hope this is true while I’m not entirely happy with how mine looks in real life I much prefer it to how it looks in photos it’s like as soon as a picture of me is taken = instant mong. I just thought the photo was the truth

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By *ake_or_deathMan
30 weeks ago

Manchester

Oh attraction is entirely subjective of course. I can only speak for myself. When it comes to Fab I have to like someone's face to the point that I can imagine kissing it. If I can't then a body has a difficult time making up for that.

"Do you photograph badly or do you take bad photos? I think quite often people do the latter, not realising that and think it's a reflection of them."

There are very few photographs of me that I like. That said, I have an old friend who is an artist and has managed to get a couple of pictures of me that I like down the years. Mostly though I freeze up as soon as a camera points at me and my discomfort and awkwardness is very obvious in the pictures that come out.

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By (user no longer on site)
30 weeks ago

I like a nice face (don’t have to look like a model) but I find a woman’s body the most attractive part.

I like my face. It’s served me well

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By *ilthycoupleabzCouple
30 weeks ago

Aberdeen

It is true indeed. An actual "thing". You can learn to take a good face pic with practice bit real life will always be better

MrsAbz

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By *aseylee324Couple
30 weeks ago

Valley of Squinting Windows

I don't find my face attractive, but apparently it's passable enough for some. That will do me!

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
30 weeks ago

Reading

Very much in the middle. Make up helps too.

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By *ake_or_deathMan
30 weeks ago

Manchester

It is true indeed. An actual "thing". You can learn to take a good face pic with practice bit real life will always be better

MrsAbz"

I'm not sure I'd agree with 'always'. I've met people down the years who look a lot better in photographs than real life because of pose, lighting, etc. And that's not even mentioning photoshop. I think the key to being a good photographic subject is a lack of self-consciousness - if you are completely relaxed in front of the camera (neither shy nor trying too hard to project personality) you're more likely to come out well.

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By *eroLondonMan
30 weeks ago

Mayfair

"Do you think you have a good face?"

A face that appeals to the masses and on par with my peers on Fab? No.

"One that could be attractive to others?"

Yes. Perhaps. But it's a face that requires a second glance and sometimes a third to guage whether it's appealing or not...to others.

"Is another's face important to you? Have you ever been surprised when you've seen someone's face on here?"

Their face is important but it's how brightly they convey their smile and their eyes is more important than their facial resplendence.

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By *carlet SeductionWoman
30 weeks ago

Maidstone

I think the face is important for physical attraction. I'm not conventionally good looking, but I can look OK when I've made an effort. When I haven't I look scary. I often think it would be awesome to see what it's like to be effortlessly beautiful, but then I remember that looks aren't everything, and being OK looking is fine.

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By *ivemealadybonerWoman
30 weeks ago

somewhere

God no, I hate my face.

I'll tell you why: my two eye sockets are completely different, so when putting make up on, it's a real challenge to make it look even

My nose, just awful

I have no lips to speak of

I can't smile for love nor money

Sometimes I look quite masculine when I've put make up on, ok I am trying to find a polite way of putting it, sometimes I look like a man with make up on (which there is nothing wrong with btw, just wasn't the look I was going for, I'll stop digging now).

In short, I hate my face

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By (user no longer on site)
30 weeks ago

"Do you think you have a good face?

One that could be attractive to others?

Is another's face important to you? Have you ever been surprised when you've seen someone's face on here?

Sunday musings, it's a very late and lazy start clearly. :D"

Yes

But it's my mum's fault..

When I shave my beard off I basically have her face from when she was a young woman, in her 20s.

-Which is ok, seeing as I'm twice that age now.

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By *carlet SeductionWoman
30 weeks ago

Maidstone

"Do you think you have a good face?

One that could be attractive to others?

Is another's face important to you? Have you ever been surprised when you've seen someone's face on here?

Sunday musings, it's a very late and lazy start clearly. :D

Yes

But it's my mum's fault..

When I shave my beard off I basically have her face from when she was a young woman, in her 20s.

-Which is ok, seeing as I'm twice that age now.

You do have a very attractive face!

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By *eli OP Woman
30 weeks ago

"In terms of my face, I thought I was reasonably attractive. However the amount of times I'm ghosted after sending a face pic on here says otherwise

I'm a big boy though, I can take it.

Yes other people's faces are very important. I would say a good personality definitely makes someone more attractive. If I'm not attracted to someone at all though, it won't bypass that."

Your face is reasonably attractive Maui, don't worry about that.

That makes sense, attraction is there or it's not. A personality doesn't make someone fuckable, just more so.

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By *avexxMan
30 weeks ago

cheshire

i have a face only a mother could love

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By *ilthycoupleabzCouple
30 weeks ago

Aberdeen

It is true indeed. An actual "thing". You can learn to take a good face pic with practice bit real life will always be better

MrsAbz

This is true but in this context I was merely thinking of a normal photo, no photoshop or filters etc

Lighting and poses - well they are true since at some point you will see them in that pose or lighing I would imagine?

MrsAbz

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By *oozleMan
30 weeks ago

high wycombe

I hate my photo being taken… it must be a self conscious thing…

Not the best looking guy in the world, but heart of gold and that’s all that matters to me!

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By *undayGirl 69Woman
30 weeks ago

Coalville

For me, the face and voice are more important than the body.

The chat more so than any.

Although I get told I don’t have conventional taste.

My face is ok once it’s fell into place in the morning! And it needs a bit of lippy n eyeliner else I look like my ma, and that’s upsetting. (Sorry mum)

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By (user no longer on site)
30 weeks ago

"Do you think you have a good face?

One that could be attractive to others?

Is another's face important to you? Have you ever been surprised when you've seen someone's face on here?

Sunday musings, it's a very late and lazy start clearly. :D

Yes

But it's my mum's fault..

When I shave my beard off I basically have her face from when she was a young woman, in her 20s.

-Which is ok, seeing as I'm twice that age now.

Dude you could easily pass for someone 20 years younger.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
30 weeks ago

North West

Hmmmm. Some people definitely like my face. I'm ambivalent. I have nice eyes. I can look decent at the right angle but I like to try and avoid the triple chins. I'm not completely "bag over head" but I'm also not conventionally attractive.

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By *eli OP Woman
30 weeks ago

"I've lost a bit of weight and currently dislike my face rather a lot, at the moment.

They really do don't they? Like the furrowed brow when someone's concentrating or the way their face lights up when they're truly happy. I hope you grow to like your face once more, Frida x

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By *eli OP Woman
30 weeks ago

"Do you think you have a good face?

One that could be attractive to others?

Is another's face important to you? Have you ever been surprised when you've seen someone's face on here?

Sunday musings, it's a very late and lazy start clearly. :D

I'm an ugly bugger hence I keep flashing my knob instead "

You're not ugly but you're definitely more fond of that than other features.

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By *y AmoreMan
30 weeks ago

london

The amount of times I’ve sent a face photo and been told thanks but no thinks, I now know I’m an ugly fucker. I’ve been told I’m better in person not sure what that means. Not photogenic lol

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By *agatoXXXMan
30 weeks ago

Gone and completely forgotten.

"I have a crappy opinion of my face and body.

I don't know how to deal with compliments from people on here because I don't truly believe them."

The bit of your face I can see is nice. Unless you have skelly eyes, a monobrow, and a Herman Munster forehead, I'm sure the rest of it is lovely.

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By *esthetic21Man
30 weeks ago

Birmingham/Bristol

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not true. I get alot of messaged saying hot body hot cock ect butbthen its a no when they see my face. If only they knew how much of a sexual tyrannosaurus i was

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By *esthetic21Man
30 weeks ago

Birmingham/Bristol

"The amount of times I’ve sent a face photo and been told thanks but no thinks, I now know I’m an ugly fucker. I’ve been told I’m better in person not sure what that means. Not photogenic lol"
we should start a club

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By *JcuriousCouple
30 weeks ago

Derby

I'd like to think I have a nice face

Yes someone else's face is important to me as I have to find them attractive.

I have been surpised by some faces on here, the type that definitely don't match the body on show

Miss S x

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By *esthetic21Man
30 weeks ago

Birmingham/Bristol

"I'd like to think I have a nice face

Yes someone else's face is important to me as I have to find them attractive.

I have been surpised by some faces on here, the type that definitely don't match the body on show

Miss S x"
I'd like to know how a body and face can match? You can change your body but if you ugly you ugly

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By *JcuriousCouple
30 weeks ago

Derby

"I'd like to think I have a nice face

Yes someone else's face is important to me as I have to find them attractive.

I have been surpised by some faces on here, the type that definitely don't match the body on show

Miss S xI'd like to know how a body and face can match? You can change your body but if you ugly you ugly

As in have a gorgeous body but a not so gorgeous face?

Miss S x

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By *ot to giggleWoman
30 weeks ago

Coventry

The poetry

. Yep, I'd agree. When you see someone's face perhaps it doesn't have to be deeper than... their face does or doesn't work for me. For whatever reason. "

thanks! I have my lucid moments

Face gives the soul, then chatting finds the connection.

For me i have to be comfortable with the face.

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By *rBobbMan
30 weeks ago

Birmingham

"Do you think you have a good face?

One that could be attractive to others?

Is another's face important to you? Have you ever been surprised when you've seen someone's face on here?

Sunday musings, it's a very late and lazy start clearly. :D"

I'm not sure if I have a good face or not to be honest. I've had mixed reactions after sending a face photo.

It is important to like someone's face but I think it's more important to like the person for who they are.

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By *ot to giggleWoman
30 weeks ago

Coventry

"I like a nice face (don’t have to look like a model) but I find a woman’s body the most attractive part.

I like my face. It’s served me well

Even liking a body, i bet you .. if the face was not comfortable to you, you would walk away without a 2nd glance

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS
30 weeks ago

Stockport

I've never been happy with my face, it just doesn't feel like me. Kind of as if I've been given a "face off", somebody else's face stapled onto the front of my head. It looks like a man's face for god's sake!

It's tolerable when I put my make up on, helps me feel like "me". And it's a bit better now that I've grown my hair out.

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By *esthetic21Man
30 weeks ago

Birmingham/Bristol

"I'd like to think I have a nice face

Yes someone else's face is important to me as I have to find them attractive.

I have been surpised by some faces on here, the type that definitely don't match the body on show

Miss S xI'd like to know how a body and face can match? You can change your body but if you ugly you ugly

As in have a gorgeous body but a not so gorgeous face?

Miss S x"
yea stupid question but I meant like for example if someone has a gym bod do you imagine their face to be a certain way and vice versa?

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By *ansoffateMan
30 weeks ago

Sagittarius A

I'm still not comfortable saying yes to that question.

I've had some lovely compliments, I can go as far as saying it's subjective. I'm sure I am not everyone's cup of tea.

Yes a face is very important to me, perhaps the most important physical aspect of attraction. I'm not sure surprise is the right word exactly, but yes there's been a response, along those lines, upon the revealing of a few faces.

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By *loss aka Miss JonesWoman
30 weeks ago

south coast IOW

Face is really important to me but it doesnt have to be what others would deem attractive necessarily as i sometimes like quirks and a personality can raise any face a few points. As for my face there are a few things i would change with a magic wand but in reality im use to it and comfortable with it. I think my face fits my personality so im ok.

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By *iaisonseekerMan
30 weeks ago

Liverpool

The face is key. Despite popular belief, even men can't spend their entire time with someone looking at a pair of tits.

From a female perspective, I find my face is often a disappointment because (despite my age) it is quite soft and boyish. I think lots of women have a particular "dominant" or hypermasculine look that they expect from men on here.

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By *JcuriousCouple
30 weeks ago

Derby

"I'd like to think I have a nice face

Yes someone else's face is important to me as I have to find them attractive.

I have been surpised by some faces on here, the type that definitely don't match the body on show

Miss S xI'd like to know how a body and face can match? You can change your body but if you ugly you ugly

As in have a gorgeous body but a not so gorgeous face?

Miss S xyea stupid question but I meant like for example if someone has a gym bod do you imagine their face to be a certain way and vice versa?"

No I see what you mean but not like that, just as in a body we find reallt attractive but they don't have an attractive face as you would think, not that bodies and faces should "match" but you get my drift, you'd think they'd look a different way and it surpises you.

Miss S x

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By *ot to giggleWoman
30 weeks ago

Coventry

Its awful isn't it! I hate selfie pics, i hate my face pics ... if i see someone's face pic , i ask am i comfortable enough to meet them

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By *ell GwynnWoman
30 weeks ago

North Yorkshire

Faces are very important when it comes to attraction, but going off face pics alone is a tricky one for me. People can have attractive or not-so-attractive photos, which do absolutely nothing to convey what they look like in person. I need to see a face being animated to know if I really fancy them.

I'm mostly content with my face, and, fortunately, I've occasionally found people who are also content with my face.

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By *iaisonseekerMan
30 weeks ago

Liverpool

"Faces are very important when it comes to attraction, but going off face pics alone is a tricky one for me. People can have attractive or not-so-attractive photos, which do absolutely nothing to convey what they look like in person. I need to see a face being animated to know if I really fancy them.

I'm mostly content with my face, and, fortunately, I've occasionally found people who are also content with my face."

This is certainly true. An expressive face is always more attractive.

I seem to remember seeing a documentary with a set-piece based around a speed-dating event and they linked the popularity of one of the women to her facial expressions, which were apparently an indicator that she would be a good mother

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
30 weeks ago

Manchester-ish

I spent a long time not liking my face. Recently I've realised it's actually a nice face. Attractive, pretty even. Annoying that it took such a long time.

Other people's faces are massively important to me. I couldn't fancy someone just from a body on here. Even a face photo just shows that there might be an attraction. It's only in person that I feel a definite attraction which is why organised socials are such a thing for us.

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By *urry BlokeMan
30 weeks ago

Stalybridge

I don't think I'm ugly Meli

I don't think I'm pretty either

I think I look my age and my face shows signs of a life lived

My face pic on here is pretty hi def so there is no hiding

As for what I like, a face I am attracted to definitely matters

I couldn't get funky with someone just cos they had a bot bod

I'd see the face first and then what it was attached to

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By *y AmoreMan
30 weeks ago

london

Its awful isn't it! I hate selfie pics, i hate my face pics ... if i see someone's face pic , i ask am i comfortable enough to meet them "

The joy of fab I didn’t think I was to bad until I sent out photos.

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By *ittlebirdWoman
30 weeks ago

The Big Smoke

Its awful isn't it! I hate selfie pics, i hate my face pics ... if i see someone's face pic , i ask am i comfortable enough to meet them

The joy of fab I didn’t think I was to bad until I sent out photos.

They must’ve been looking at different pics

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By *ot to giggleWoman
30 weeks ago

Coventry

Its awful isn't it! I hate selfie pics, i hate my face pics ... if i see someone's face pic , i ask am i comfortable enough to meet them

The joy of fab I didn’t think I was to bad until I sent out photos.

Thats always a bit of a thing to take xxx

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By *y AmoreMan
30 weeks ago

london

Its awful isn't it! I hate selfie pics, i hate my face pics ... if i see someone's face pic , i ask am i comfortable enough to meet them

The joy of fab I didn’t think I was to bad until I sent out photos.

They must’ve been looking at different pics

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By *eli OP Woman
30 weeks ago

"God no, I hate my face.

I'll tell you why: my two eye sockets are completely different, so when putting make up on, it's a real challenge to make it look even

My nose, just awful

I have no lips to speak of

I can't smile for love nor money

In short, I hate my face "

This is really quite sad; you've picked your face apart and there's no sort of... kindness to yourself. Can you see what Doughtnut loves about it?

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By *ucka39Man
30 weeks ago

Newcastle

It's does ok more than others

one and only way to look at it (it turns heads)

Yes I've been really surprised when I've been chatting with someone with no photos on show and I've thought wow out my league but I must be on borderline to attractive I don't constantly look in the mirror

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By *eli OP Woman
30 weeks ago

"I've never been happy with my face, it just doesn't feel like me. Kind of as if I've been given a "face off", somebody else's face stapled onto the front of my head. It looks like a man's face for god's sake!

It's tolerable when I put my make up on, helps me feel like "me". And it's a bit better now that I've grown my hair out."

That dissonance between how you feel and how you think you look must be difficult at times. Makeup and growing your hair out sounds like it can help but I hope in time you're more comfortable with your face Polly. It looks more how you want it to, x

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By *eli OP Woman
30 weeks ago

"I'm still not comfortable saying yes to that question.

I've had some lovely compliments, I can go as far as saying it's subjective. I'm sure I am not everyone's cup of tea.

No one, not one single person on the forums, in the world is everyone's cup of tea. And that's okay. We don't need to be. A face that is attractive to those we're attracted to is more than enough.

The most important physical aspect is interesting. I think it might be for me (physically) - the features I like are more facially based than anywhere else. I like seeing someone's face when it becomes animated, passionate I suppose.

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By *ou only live onceMan
30 weeks ago

London

There are days when I like (or dislike) it more than others, but in general, I like my face.

It's a pretty conventional face so I think it would be attractive to some people, by law of averages of nothing else (assuming brown-ness not an issue - different thread!)

Someone's face is a key factor in whether I find them attractive or not. Come to think of it, I can't think of anyone I find attractive whose face I don't like...

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30 weeks ago

I kind of had a lovely/hate relationship with my face. Some days I think it looks ok but then other days I'm not a fan. I don't want to go into the aspects I don't like as it would incur this self loathing that no one needs to hear about but it does get heightened say on dating apps if I get no matches or on here when a conversation stops when I share a face pic but I know there's nothing I can really do about it

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By *eli OP Woman
30 weeks ago

"For me, the face and voice are more important than the body.

The chat more so than any.

Although I get told I don’t have conventional taste.

My face is ok once it’s fell into place in the morning! And it needs a bit of lippy n eyeliner else I look like my ma, and that’s upsetting. (Sorry mum)"

I'm trying to work out how to delicately phrase this but also it's a Sunday and I don't have too much energy to do so. Apologies in advance!

So the face and voice are more important to you than the body. It's the same for me. I sometimes think that maybe it's because I'm fat? I don't place the same precedence on a body because I know mine is soft and chubby. Not sure if that makes sense... it's more a stream of consciousness.

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By *ee69Man
30 weeks ago

glasgow

"I kind of had a lovely/hate relationship with my face. Some days I think it looks ok but then other days I'm not a fan. I don't want to go into the aspects I don't like as it would incur this self loathing that no one needs to hear about but it does get heightened say on dating apps if I get no matches or on here when a conversation stops when I share a face pic but I know there's nothing I can really do about it"

Same tbh , it the only one we got so just go with it lol

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By *eli OP Woman
30 weeks ago

"I'd like to think I have a nice face

Yes someone else's face is important to me as I have to find them attractive.

I have been surpised by some faces on here, the type that definitely don't match the body on show

Miss S x"

You have an adorable face! I was going to say cute but then some people really hate the word cute. It's meant as a compliment but it could be seen as saying "I'm not sexually attracted to you".

I don't want to sound like I'm being mean but yes, sometimes there's a bit of an "oh" moment. Oh good or bad! Mainly good.

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By *eli OP Woman
30 weeks ago

"I don't think I'm ugly Meli

I don't think I'm pretty either

I think I look my age and my face shows signs of a life lived

My face pic on here is pretty hi def so there is no hiding

As for what I like, a face I am attracted to definitely matters

I couldn't get funky with someone just cos they had a bot bod

I'd see the face first and then what it was attached to"

Everyone looks their age... just some have had a different life. I like faces that show sign of aging, I think it's a beautiful thing - you know when someone smiles and their eyes crinkle in genuine happiness? Or those little lines across the forehead. I don't think there's only beauty in youth.

When you're looking for more... NSA style dalliance, is the face still important then?

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By *urry BlokeMan
30 weeks ago

Stalybridge

"I don't think I'm ugly Meli

I don't think I'm pretty either

I think I look my age and my face shows signs of a life lived

My face pic on here is pretty hi def so there is no hiding

As for what I like, a face I am attracted to definitely matters

I couldn't get funky with someone just cos they had a bot bod

I'd see the face first and then what it was attached to

When you're looking for more... NSA style dalliance, is the face still important then?"

Yeah

I have had a few anon meets but, in general, I like to see the mantelpiece up front

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By *JcuriousCouple
30 weeks ago

Derby

"I'd like to think I have a nice face

Yes someone else's face is important to me as I have to find them attractive.

I have been surpised by some faces on here, the type that definitely don't match the body on show

Miss S x

You have an adorable face! I was going to say cute but then some people really hate the word cute. It's meant as a compliment but it could be seen as saying "I'm not sexually attracted to you".

I don't want to sound like I'm being mean but yes, sometimes there's a bit of an "oh" moment. Oh good or bad! Mainly good."

Oh no, I get you! I've had it before, I can see why you elaborated as some people can see it as a bad thing, don't worry Meli I know you think your little cheerleader is sexy

Miss S x

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By (user no longer on site)
30 weeks ago

I do like someome with a nice friendly/kind looking face. Glint in their eyes and cheeky smile

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By *ickyKlungespeareMan
30 weeks ago

St Leonards

Do you think you have a good face?

It's all right. Nice enough eyes, jawline, and straight teeth. Huge nose.

One that could be attractive to others?

Sort of. I have a bit of a Harrison Ford smile, which some people really like. Not attractive in a Brad Pitt, George Clooney, or Rob Lowe sense. Averagely attractive physically, above average charismatically.

Is another's face important to you?

Very - not quite a deal-breaker, but as near as makes no difference. But I find Aubrey Plaza far better looking than, for example, Sienna Miller, because I get more sense of the person that comes with the face. So charisma has to shine through for peak attraction. Intelligence, humour, and a different take on the world. Defiance and vulnerability can be seen in a face - I like those. Deceptiveness can be seen in a face too, which is mostly unattractive. Can be fun sometimes.

Have you ever been surprised when you've seen someone's face on here?

I think that's hard to avoid - it's not generally a "face" site, and people put a lot of time and effort into making pics look their best, so reality isn't that obvious from photos of bodies made to resemble a more idealised aesthetic, and faces withheld for privacy/abuse reasons.

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By *r Black 85Man
30 weeks ago

nottingham

"Do you think you have a good face?

One that could be attractive to others?

Is another's face important to you? Have you ever been surprised when you've seen someone's face on here?

Sunday musings, it's a very late and lazy start clearly. :D"

Apparently, I have a handsome face.

I always thought that was a nice way of saying ugly

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By *ittlemissTinselTitsCouple
30 weeks ago

Southampton

You have a lovely face x

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
30 weeks ago

North East Scotland, mostly

Lordy, that’s a lot of thinking for a Sunday.

I don’t have a classically beautiful face, no. I’m quite asymmetric, and I take face pics from above to disguise my double chin. Luckily for me most people are taller than me too

I do mostly like my face, though. I’m aware I’m quite expressive and my eyes tell a story in person. I think that’s impossible to tell in a pic.

So I don’t tend to write people off on their face pics. Yes, some are more traditionally beautiful than others, but until you see someone in person it’s hard to tell re. attraction. I do like to see people smiling. I don’t like those serious faces guys sometimes send, or pouty faces. Cos it’s not really them.

Mrs TMN x

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By *slander_83Man
30 weeks ago

london

Well i snooped on your profile and can say i like what i saw

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By *slander_83Man
30 weeks ago

london

Can i see your face? ??

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By *ansoffateMan
30 weeks ago

Sagittarius A

"I'm still not comfortable saying yes to that question.

I've had some lovely compliments, I can go as far as saying it's subjective. I'm sure I am not everyone's cup of tea.

No one, not one single person on the forums, in the world is everyone's cup of tea. And that's okay. We don't need to be. A face that is attractive to those we're attracted to is more than enough.

I couldn't agree more.

Including the passion in the moment. If at the centre of all those wonderful feelings of lust and intimacy, there's a beautiful face looking back at me, as enthralled by the moment as I - it really is the cherry on the top - as they say.

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By *eli OP Woman
30 weeks ago

"There are days when I like (or dislike) it more than others, but in general, I like my face.

It's a pretty conventional face so I think it would be attractive to some people, by law of averages of nothing else (assuming brown-ness not an issue - different thread!)

Someone's face is a key factor in whether I find them attractive or not. Come to think of it, I can't think of anyone I find attractive whose face I don't like...

It makes me meh that brownness is an issue or a... fetish but yes. Whole other thread.

You have a good face Yolo. Crap username but you can't have it all.

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By *ascaIMan
30 weeks ago

Cheshire Liverpool Manchester

I’m quite happy with my face, the beard could be better!

But yeah a face is important to me, I’d never meet anyone without having seen their face.

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By *ittlemissTinselTitsCouple
30 weeks ago

Southampton

"I’m quite happy with my face, the beard could be better!

But yeah a face is important to me, I’d never meet anyone without having seen their face. "

You have a very nice face indeed

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By *eli OP Woman
30 weeks ago

"Do you think you have a good face?

It's all right. Nice enough eyes, jawline, and straight teeth. Huge nose. "
Alright is good, it's nice when people have that confidence in their face.

"...Intelligence, humour, and a different take on the world. Defiance and vulnerability can be seen in a face - I like those. Deceptiveness can be seen in a face too, which is mostly unattractive. Can be fun sometimes. "

And this is where the subjective qualities come in. What one person could read as intelligence, a different take on the world, another could look and look and never find that. We add our own experiences, our own confirmation biases when we interpret a face in that way.

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
30 weeks ago

Glasgow / London

Not many people are happy and confident about their face. Maybe it’s partly because we look at our own faces quite a lot. In the bathroom mirror, and so on. We get hyper-critical. We definitely don’t see ourselves as others do.

Still, it’s always a little sad to see people I think are really attractive talking themselves down. Even though I get it. I understand why.

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By *bonybucksMan
30 weeks ago

High Wycombe

I find a face to be rather important as is their personality.

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By *nitterWoman
30 weeks ago

the land of tall tales and yarn

I think my boat race is passable enough for a lady of my years. For me to find a face attractive it's usually a killer smile.

I live seeing the faces of others on here, they have never been wildly different from what I might have imagined.

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By (user no longer on site)
30 weeks ago

"I’m quite happy with my face, the beard could be better!

But yeah a face is important to me, I’d never meet anyone without having seen their face.

You have a very nice face indeed

I think you do too..Youthful.

Do we use the same face cream

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By *TG3Man
30 weeks ago

Dorchester

Two eyes a nose and a mouth

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By *eli OP Woman
30 weeks ago

Oh Joe. Okay, I'll avoid pitying or patronising. Yes, it's understandable why that could have a negative effect but you're right - there's nothing you can do about it. When you find those matches though, those you're compatible with... it's worth the self doubt of before isn't it?

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By *ittlemissTinselTitsCouple
30 weeks ago

Southampton

"I’m quite happy with my face, the beard could be better!

But yeah a face is important to me, I’d never meet anyone without having seen their face.

You have a very nice face indeed

I think you do too..Youthful.

Do we use the same face cream

Ah thank you lovely.. yours is gorgeous

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By *eli OP Woman
30 weeks ago

"Lordy, that’s a lot of thinking for a Sunday.

I don’t have a classically beautiful face, no. I’m quite asymmetric, and I take face pics from above to disguise my double chin. Luckily for me most people are taller than me too

I do mostly like my face, though. I’m aware I’m quite expressive and my eyes tell a story in person. I think that’s impossible to tell in a pic.

Mrs TMN x"

I know NipNips, I know. It was this or me doing a sex related thread but I'm trying to curb my libido.

Your eyes are very expressive, you don't have a poker face and that's very much a compliment. I like your face and I'm looking forward to seeing it over coffee/cocktails.

Smiling is lovely isn't it? When you get a feel of how someone could look when they smile at you? I like seeing people relaxed, comfortable so, much like you, I try to not give too much weight to face photos because in person it's so much more alive. Doesn't mean I don't like seeing them though.

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By *hrek101Man
30 weeks ago

Herts

Sums it up pretty accurately. I dislike my face more than I like it. I have had those that like me say I'm "handsome" but I just think they have weird taste. I think if you picked 50 men at random I would always end up being I'm the bottom 10. Hence the body which detracts from my face

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By *2000ManMan
30 weeks ago

Worthing

I like a happy smiling face with personality. I used to work in I.T. for a perfumery/cosmetic company so was in a contact with a lot of women. Some so-called attractive ones could not crack a smile even if their life depended on it. Just a thought.

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By (user no longer on site)
30 weeks ago

A smile does more for good looks than any of those silly poses people normally do

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By *ou only live onceMan
30 weeks ago

London

"There are days when I like (or dislike) it more than others, but in general, I like my face.

It's a pretty conventional face so I think it would be attractive to some people, by law of averages of nothing else (assuming brown-ness not an issue - different thread!)

Someone's face is a key factor in whether I find them attractive or not. Come to think of it, I can't think of anyone I find attractive whose face I don't like...

It makes me meh that brownness is an issue or a... fetish but yes. Whole other thread.

You have a good face Yolo. Crap username but you can't have it all.

I keep the username because the face is so good; it's a contractual obligation. And nothing to do with the fact it annoys you.

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By *eah BabyCouple
30 weeks ago

Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria

I seem to have a face people smile at, young, old, and inbetween ….well I think their smiling

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By *iscean_dreamMan
30 weeks ago

Llanelli

"Do you think you have a good face?

One that could be attractive to others?

Is another's face important to you? Have you ever been surprised when you've seen someone's face on here?

Sunday musings, it's a very late and lazy start clearly. :D"

My face is ok I think, could be better but I'm not young anymore.

Some people find my face attractive, especially after a few drinks.

Yes faces are important to me when it comes to attraction.

I've been suprised by a few faces when meeting people at socials etc for the first time.

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By (user no longer on site)
30 weeks ago

It really is and I suppose the 10% where it's worth it can outweigh the 90% of those the feel like I'm not handsome at all which is crazy to think about because I'd struggle to find any instance where the 10% outweighs the 90!

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By (user no longer on site)
30 weeks ago

"Do you think you have a good face?

One that could be attractive to others?

Is another's face important to you? Have you ever been surprised when you've seen someone's face on here?

Sunday musings, it's a very late and lazy start clearly. :D"

Some days I do, some days I don't. Agree with someone further up we can be too critical to ourselves. Its something I've changed on those days to be kinder to myself.

It's subjective with others - we can't be everyone's cup of tea but surely we're someone's.

Yeah a face is important to me more so than body.

And yes I have been suprised when seeing someone's face on here (though not because what they look like).

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By *ustAnotherMan
30 weeks ago

wherever I may roam

I like my face more than my body, in terms of self confidence. Enough people have complimented my eyes for me to believe them after 25 years but only just.

As for what I find attractive, the tilt of a chin, then up turn of a full pair of lips..someone doesn't have to be stunning but can have different facial features that really attract me and turn me on

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By *eli OP Woman
30 weeks ago

"Not many people are happy and confident about their face. Maybe it’s partly because we look at our own faces quite a lot. In the bathroom mirror, and so on. We get hyper-critical. We definitely don’t see ourselves as others do.

Still, it’s always a little sad to see people I think are really attractive talking themselves down. Even though I get it. I understand why."

It is isn't it? Sometimes I wish people could see themselves how I see them. Those features they dislike are things I find lovely to look at, the little quirks adding up to form the person I like.

Faces are one of those things there's a lot of self criticism around and you're right, it's possibly (amongst other things) to do with how oft we see our own. I remember hearing once that if you stared at your face for over a certain length of time you'll start to see it as abnormal, disfigured in some way. I'm not sure if there's truth to it but it's an interesting tidbit.

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By *allerthanaverage79Man
30 weeks ago

Ayrshire

"Look into the eyes, into the eyes, not around the eyes, or above the eyes" (also good advice when presented with Bristol cities during a social!

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
30 weeks ago

ashford

I like my face! Faces are important don't really take much notice of bodies tbh x

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By (user no longer on site)
30 weeks ago

I have a good looking face

If you find Black men attractive obvs.

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By *r Black 85Man
30 weeks ago

nottingham

"I have a good looking face

If you find Black men attractive obvs. "

My guy

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By *_elia DominaTV/TS
30 weeks ago

Edinburgh (She/Her)

Being someone who loves latex and rubber, a face disappears under a latex hood.

The expression of the eyes and mouth are all that are left.

They show every delicious emotion and torment.

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By *till gameMan
30 weeks ago

two doors down

As they say you don’t look at the mantelpiece when you’re poking the fire !

Only joking

I go for women with softer features, a rounder face not angular, a nice smile and lips are good to, but not ones that are pumped up like duck

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By *allerthanaverage79Man
30 weeks ago

Ayrshire

"I like my face! Faces are important don't really take much notice of bodies tbh x"

Says the last bending over and showing her ass!

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By (user no longer on site)
30 weeks ago

"Do you think you have a good face?

One that could be attractive to others?

Is another's face important to you? Have you ever been surprised when you've seen someone's face on here?

Sunday musings, it's a very late and lazy start clearly. :D"

I like my face. I like your face too.

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By *ittlemissTinselTitsCouple
30 weeks ago

Southampton

"Do you think you have a good face?

One that could be attractive to others?

Is another's face important to you? Have you ever been surprised when you've seen someone's face on here?

Sunday musings, it's a very late and lazy start clearly. :D

I like my face. I like your face too.

You have a very nice face

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By *eli OP Woman
30 weeks ago

"Do you think you have a good face?

One that could be attractive to others?

Is another's face important to you? Have you ever been surprised when you've seen someone's face on here?

Sunday musings, it's a very late and lazy start clearly. :D

I like my face. I like your face too.

Dinopants, what are you doing here? I like your face too.

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By *rill PhilMan
30 weeks ago

Crediton

I don't like my face.

Others faces are very important to me because that's where the eyes are and I find eyes one of the top 3 most attractive parts of a woman

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By *ornycougaWoman
30 weeks ago

Wherever I lay my hat

I don't like mine. I have a terrible resting bitch face and gurn too much from what I have seen in photos. Having said that, a nice face is hugely important to me and yes - there are a lot of prawns on here (I'd devour their body but chuck their head away)

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By (user no longer on site)
30 weeks ago

"I don't like mine. I have a terrible resting bitch face and gurn too much from what I have seen in photos. Having said that, a nice face is hugely important to me and yes - there are a lot of prawns on here (I'd devour their body but chuck their head away) "

Ooof! That prawn metaphor is brutal

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By *uxom redCouple
30 weeks ago

Shrewsbury

No simple as

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By *pa-LoverMan
30 weeks ago

Princes Risborough

Don't disagree but would add that the eyes reveal the soul of the person.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
30 weeks ago

North West

"I have a good looking face

If you find Black men attractive obvs. "

Your face is muy guapo

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By *exySiren01Woman
30 weeks ago

RCT

I think my face is okish, thank god for whoever invented make up haha.

A face is important to me when it comes to attraction, I cant kiss someone I'm not attracted to on a physical level

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