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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Are you able to switch yours off or is it a constant whirr?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Constant. I wish there was button you could press to shut it down lol.

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By *lackboaWoman
over a year ago

greenock

I'm lucky....i can switch off very easily....thank god.....in my job its essential as i often take emotional 'baggage' home......happily i can dump it outside the front door.....and leave it there

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"I'm lucky....i can switch off very easily....thank god.....in my job its essential as i often take emotional 'baggage' home......happily i can dump it outside the front door.....and leave it there"

How do you do it? Do you practice mindfulness?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always on. I think about loads. I need to learn a way to just switch it off.

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Constant. I wish there was button you could press to shut it down lol."

Do you meditate or take anything to help?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can shut it off if something more exciting comes along......

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By *oulou45Woman
over a year ago

Bucks

Mine is always whirring, would love to be able to switch off, as can never sleep a whole night.

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Mine is always whirring, would love to be able to switch off, as can never sleep a whole night. "

Are you able to fall asleep easily?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm lucky....i can switch off very easily....thank god.....in my job its essential as i often take emotional 'baggage' home......happily i can dump it outside the front door.....and leave it there

How do you do it? Do you practice mindfulness?"
I've heard of that.

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"I can shut it off if something more exciting comes along......"

What sort of exciting?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Mine is always whirring, would love to be able to switch off, as can never sleep a whole night. "
I'm the same, it just seems to be going full speed all the time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

never. sleeping is a nightmare. i think i think too much

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By *mm_n_ZedCouple
over a year ago

Fareham

Always buzzing, always planning, always worrying. But I do sleep ok

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think we're all not getting enough sex lol

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

If I have a difficult case at work I do think about it at home and see what I can do so tend not to switch off sometimes..

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

Mine is often constant lol

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"never. sleeping is a nightmare. i think i think too much

You need to join my Over-Thinkers Anonymous group.

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"I think we're all not getting enough sex lol"

I have found it a good way to stop thinking.

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"If I have a difficult case at work I do think about it at home and see what I can do so tend not to switch off sometimes.."

Thinking about others and trying to solve a problem is at least thinking with a purpose.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"never. sleeping is a nightmare. i think i think too much

You need to join my Over-Thinkers Anonymous group."

I'll give it some thought

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes i can.. but most of the time it's constantly on one!

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Sometimes i can.. but most of the time it's constantly on one!"

What's special about the 'sometimes'?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, but it runs out of steam periodically!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My little cogs are always ticking

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"No, but it runs out of steam periodically!"

A steam brain.

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"My little cogs are always ticking

I thought cogs turned and the hands did the ticking?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No, but it runs out of steam periodically!

A steam brain."

Mostly powered by hot air

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

40 odd years of constant use/abuse and mostly multithreading or deep diving and analyzing. I wish I could turn it off ... many friends appear to have happier lives because they can walk away from things or thoughts ... unfortunately for me, once the train of thoughts start ... I have to reach the end

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Are you able to switch yours off or is it a constant whirr?"

U have to switch it off !!!!! how the 'eck do you switch it on in the first place ??

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"40 odd years of constant use/abuse and mostly multithreading or deep diving and analyzing. I wish I could turn it off ... many friends appear to have happier lives because they can walk away from things or thoughts ... unfortunately for me, once the train of thoughts start ... I have to reach the end

How does a thought reach an end?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine is always on..... Just whirls away 24/7

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Are you able to switch yours off or is it a constant whirr?

U have to switch it off !!!!! how the 'eck do you switch it on in the first place ??

Now Minxie, we know yours is on.

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

depends on circumstances..

sometimes can switch off, others its constantly ticking over..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No, but it runs out of steam periodically!"

Was it made in Victorian times?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Are you able to switch yours off or is it a constant whirr?

U have to switch it off !!!!! how the 'eck do you switch it on in the first place ??

Now Minxie, we know yours is on."

I think some might beg to differ lol

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"depends on circumstances..

sometimes can switch off, others its constantly ticking over.."

If you can switch it off sometimes what's to stop you accessing that switch at other times.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No, but it runs out of steam periodically!

Was it made in Victorian times?

Oh I wish!

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Are you able to switch yours off or is it a constant whirr?

U have to switch it off !!!!! how the 'eck do you switch it on in the first place ??

Now Minxie, we know yours is on.

I think some might beg to differ lol

Using it for chaos doesn't mean it is off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Are you able to switch yours off or is it a constant whirr?

U have to switch it off !!!!! how the 'eck do you switch it on in the first place ??

haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Are you able to switch yours off or is it a constant whirr?

U have to switch it off !!!!! how the 'eck do you switch it on in the first place ??

Now Minxie, we know yours is on.

I think some might beg to differ lol

Using it for chaos doesn't mean it is off."

it being off would absolve me of responsibility though yeah??

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Are you able to switch yours off or is it a constant whirr?

U have to switch it off !!!!! how the 'eck do you switch it on in the first place ??

Now Minxie, we know yours is on.

I think some might beg to differ lol

Using it for chaos doesn't mean it is off.

it being off would absolve me of responsibility though yeah??

QED - it's on.

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

"depends on circumstances..

sometimes can switch off, others its constantly ticking over..

If you can switch it off sometimes what's to stop you accessing that switch at other times."

not as tired, issues within whatever 'project' is ongoing..

sometimes sex helps funnily enough..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Goal oriented... some thoughts are neat and tidy and take you stepwise where you need to go, others are more open -ended I. agree ... I would also assume thoughts end when you get totally distracted by some fascinating thing and forget the original... tangents can be dangerous.

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"depends on circumstances..

sometimes can switch off, others its constantly ticking over..

If you can switch it off sometimes what's to stop you accessing that switch at other times.

not as tired, issues within whatever 'project' is ongoing..

sometimes sex helps funnily enough..

I know sex helps with my brain.

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

"depends on circumstances..

sometimes can switch off, others its constantly ticking over..

If you can switch it off sometimes what's to stop you accessing that switch at other times.

not as tired, issues within whatever 'project' is ongoing..

sometimes sex helps funnily enough..

I know sex helps with my brain."

release of chemicals post orgasm..

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By *atasha_DavidCouple
over a year ago

Slough

Constant whirr, sometimes to the point of denying me much needed sleep.

Occasionally it stops after really great sex for a few minutes

I have learned to use self hypnosis to distract my conscious brain so as to give my subconscious chance to resolve the issues it has, which is what often is the cause of my lack of conscious focus.

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Constant whirr, sometimes to the point of denying me much needed sleep.

Occasionally it stops after really great sex for a few minutes

I have learned to use self hypnosis to distract my conscious brain so as to give my subconscious chance to resolve the issues it has, which is what often is the cause of my lack of conscious focus."

That sounds like a useful skill to have acquired.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I download it to a piece of paper and switch off. Both at work and home.

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"I download it to a piece of paper and switch off. Both at work and home."

That's great if it works for you. I used to leave myself voice-mail messages to the office phone in the middle of the night. Writing it down opens up other thoughts for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a very active mind, I need to read and have a constant sound (like a fan) to sleep.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it wasn't I would be worried!

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"If it wasn't I would be worried!"

Why?

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"I have a very active mind, I need to read and have a constant sound (like a fan) to sleep."

If it works for you then all is well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I download it to a piece of paper and switch off. Both at work and home.

That's great if it works for you. I used to leave myself voice-mail messages to the office phone in the middle of the night. Writing it down opens up other thoughts for me."

I didn't manage to switch off for years but that was no way to live. Now the minute I leave work, it's out of my brain. If I lose the bit of paper I'm stuck though!

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"I download it to a piece of paper and switch off. Both at work and home.

That's great if it works for you. I used to leave myself voice-mail messages to the office phone in the middle of the night. Writing it down opens up other thoughts for me.

I didn't manage to switch off for years but that was no way to live. Now the minute I leave work, it's out of my brain. If I lose the bit of paper I'm stuck though!"

Why are you stuck? If it was important enough I am sure you could resurrect the thought and complete the action. If not it was just a piece of paper.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i concur

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"i concur

I beg to differ...

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By *oulou45Woman
over a year ago

Bucks

"Mine is always whirring, would love to be able to switch off, as can never sleep a whole night.

Are you able to fall asleep easily?"
No I wish, I can lie awake for hrs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Constant unfortunately and i have a inquisitive mind which makes it worse.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am quite good at switching off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I turn mine off pretty well when it comes to sleep time. Head hits the pillow and I'm gone.........

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By *ackandkateCouple
over a year ago

Truro

I'm more than able to switch off whenever I get "the fuck'ems"

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