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By *XBCPL OP   Man
33 weeks ago

West London

This swinging world is truly a ladies' paradise. I've been trying to expand my current situation and find single lady playmates to occasionally go to clubs or out to parties. However, the reality is that their inboxes are inundated with millions of messages and unsolicited pics. I would love to know the best approach to meet women here. Any pointers, ladies and gents?

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
33 weeks ago

Southampton

It's a great profile but I personally think people may be put off with by the statement " good looking people only " as a lot of people may feel they're not good looking even if they are. Just my thoughts x

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By *eroLondonMan
33 weeks ago

Mayfair

I agree with this delightful creature ^ above. When I first looked at your profile OP your 'headline grabbing' remark "...Looking for Good Looking People' was immediately unnerving for me.

Sorry to be equally unhelpful.

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By *ornycougaWoman
33 weeks ago

Wherever I lay my hat

Agree with my esteemed Forumites above. "Good looking" is subjective. Also the "soft swap but open to everything" is super confusing: what does that even mean?!

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
33 weeks ago

Leeds

I'm not sure the hundreds of messages and unsolicited pics would class as paradise for many.

Mrs

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By *oveToPlay.Couple
33 weeks ago

Yorkshire

Hey OP

Same as what the above 2 gorgeous peeps have said

But also have you considered setting up a single womens profile?

S xxx

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By *ellhungvweMan
33 weeks ago

Cheltenham

I am with everyone else - profiles that ask for good looking people are an instant turn off.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
33 weeks ago

Leeds

I would also ignore your profile based on the "good looking people only"

Good looking is subjective, I've zero idea what you find good looking, it comes across a little pretentious.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
33 weeks ago

Meh, I'd disagree. If you want good looking say it. And let's face it, there's plenty on here with massive egos to think they fit the bill.

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By *eordieJeansCouple
33 weeks ago

Newcastle upon Tyne


"Meh, I'd disagree. If you want good looking say it. And let's face it, there's plenty on here with massive egos to think they fit the bill.

"

Does it count if my mother says I’m handsome?

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By (user no longer on site)
33 weeks ago


"Meh, I'd disagree. If you want good looking say it. And let's face it, there's plenty on here with massive egos to think they fit the bill.

Does it count if my mother says I’m handsome?"

Only if you're trying to shag her I guess.

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By *eordieJeansCouple
33 weeks ago

Newcastle upon Tyne


"Meh, I'd disagree. If you want good looking say it. And let's face it, there's plenty on here with massive egos to think they fit the bill.

Does it count if my mother says I’m handsome?

Only if you're trying to shag her I guess."

That would be very inappropriate… she’s dead.

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By (user no longer on site)
33 weeks ago


"Meh, I'd disagree. If you want good looking say it. And let's face it, there's plenty on here with massive egos to think they fit the bill.

Does it count if my mother says I’m handsome?

Only if you're trying to shag her I guess.

That would be very inappropriate… she’s dead."

Inappropriate but not completely off the table?

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By *essTTWoman
33 weeks ago

Birmingham


"This swinging world is truly a ladies' paradise. I've been trying to expand my current situation and find single lady playmates to occasionally go to clubs or out to parties. However, the reality is that their inboxes are inundated with millions of messages and unsolicited pics. I would love to know the best approach to meet women here. Any pointers, ladies and gents?"

Would you (F half) reply if this profile messaged you?

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By *eordieJeansCouple
33 weeks ago

Newcastle upon Tyne


"Meh, I'd disagree. If you want good looking say it. And let's face it, there's plenty on here with massive egos to think they fit the bill.

Does it count if my mother says I’m handsome?

Only if you're trying to shag her I guess.

That would be very inappropriate… she’s dead.

Inappropriate but not completely off the table? "

Technically it’s on the table… that’s where I keep her urn.

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By *TG3Man
33 weeks ago

Dorchester


"This swinging world is truly a ladies' paradise. I've been trying to expand my current situation and find single lady playmates to occasionally go to clubs or out to parties. However, the reality is that their inboxes are inundated with millions of messages and unsolicited pics. I would love to know the best approach to meet women here. Any pointers, ladies and gents?"
are you a woman or a couple?

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By *ohn.Wick.Man
33 weeks ago

The Continental

Try a solo woman’s profile.

I’d suspect that many women would be reluctant to contact a woman through a couples profile. Especially if they’re looking to meet other women only.

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By *ortyairCouple
33 weeks ago

Wallasey

Obviously it's up to you but you don't need to ask for only good looking people, it's subjective after all.

You can choose to ignore, or politely decline, those that you aren't attracted to. It does seem to be seen as a negative by some on here so might be worth removing it. But it's your profile, your choice and hope you find all the gorgeous peeps you are looking for.

Mrs x

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By *uenevereWoman
33 weeks ago

Scunthorpe


"This swinging world is truly a ladies' paradise. I've been trying to expand my current situation and find single lady playmates to occasionally go to clubs or out to parties. However, the reality is that their inboxes are inundated with millions of messages and unsolicited pics. I would love to know the best approach to meet women here. Any pointers, ladies and gents?"

To me your profile comes across as "we are gorgeous and have lots of money and only meet the same" and as such is likely to put off the average swinger.

I'm sure that wasn't your intention but it certainly doesn't appeal to me.

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By *elloWoman
33 weeks ago

alpha centauri

I'd be out at the quality over quantity part, I don't think I'm that good a quality.

And then you want attractive people, doubly out for me.

Then you say about 420 , phew now I'm relieved I'm out

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By *ark73XXXMan
33 weeks ago

North Staffs/South Cheshire

You come across as thinking you are gorgeous and that you want the same

All fair enough but doesn’t do a thing for me

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By *XBCPL OP   Man
33 weeks ago

West London

Wow Great Feedback - I think I will adjust the profile and go with your guidance - Good Looking People we all are in our own way - but Point Raken - Stay blessed

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By *uenevereWoman
33 weeks ago

Scunthorpe


"I'd be out at the quality over quantity part, I don't think I'm that good a quality.

And then you want attractive people, doubly out for me.

Then you say about 420 , phew now I'm relieved I'm out "

I'd rather people admit to 420 etc... excellent filter so I can avoid them.

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By *esthetic21Man
33 weeks ago

Birmingham/Bristol


"Meh, I'd disagree. If you want good looking say it. And let's face it, there's plenty on here with massive egos to think they fit the bill.

Does it count if my mother says I’m handsome?

Only if you're trying to shag her I guess.

That would be very inappropriate… she’s dead.

Inappropriate but not completely off the table?

Technically it’s on the table… that’s where I keep her urn."

well that escalated

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By *ot to giggleWoman
33 weeks ago

Coventry


"Meh, I'd disagree. If you want good looking say it. And let's face it, there's plenty on here with massive egos to think they fit the bill.

Does it count if my mother says I’m handsome?

Only if you're trying to shag her I guess.

That would be very inappropriate… she’s dead.

Inappropriate but not completely off the table?

Technically it’s on the table… that’s where I keep her urn.well that escalated "

was it wrong to laugh

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
33 weeks ago

Southampton


"Meh, I'd disagree. If you want good looking say it. And let's face it, there's plenty on here with massive egos to think they fit the bill.

Does it count if my mother says I’m handsome?

Only if you're trying to shag her I guess.

That would be very inappropriate… she’s dead.

Inappropriate but not completely off the table?

Technically it’s on the table… that’s where I keep her urn.well that escalated

was it wrong to laugh "

it was dead funny

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By *ivemealadybonerWoman
33 weeks ago

somewhere

Not sure I'm qualified to even reply to this thread tbh lol.

One thing I can say, if you are going to swing, Dubai looks like a lovely location for it lol.

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By *XBCPL OP   Man
33 weeks ago

West London

Thank you point taken and adjusted - Happy Fabbing XXX


"It's a great profile but I personally think people may be put off with by the statement " good looking people only " as a lot of people may feel they're not good looking even if they are. Just my thoughts x"

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By *XBCPL OP   Man
33 weeks ago

West London

Thank you point taken and adjusted - Happy Fabbing XXX

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By *XBCPL OP   Man
33 weeks ago

West London

Thank you point taken and adjusted - Happy Fabbing XXX


"I agree with this delightful creature ^ above. When I first looked at your profile OP your 'headline grabbing' remark "...Looking for Good Looking People' was immediately unnerving for me.

Sorry to be equally unhelpful. "

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By *XBCPL OP   Man
33 weeks ago

West London

True and clear - Soft Swap is just us having sex - but we love to kiss and play with others and close out the oth each other - Thank you point taken and adjusted - Happy Fabbing XXX


"Agree with my esteemed Forumites above. "Good looking" is subjective. Also the "soft swap but open to everything" is super confusing: what does that even mean?! "

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By *XBCPL OP   Man
33 weeks ago

West London

True it can be overbearing - it's just the way it is now X Thank you

- Happy Fabbing XXX


"I'm not sure the hundreds of messages and unsolicited pics would class as paradise for many.

Mrs "

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By *XBCPL OP   Man
33 weeks ago

West London

Yeah Hubby here I may do that - Maybe it's better - but I am sure it's shot in the dark

Thank you point taken and adjusted - Happy Fabbing XXX


"Hey OP

Same as what the above 2 gorgeous peeps have said

But also have you considered setting up a single womens profile?

S xxx"

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By *XBCPL OP   Man
33 weeks ago

West London

Thank you point taken and adjusted - Happy Fabbing XXX


"I am with everyone else - profiles that ask for good looking people are an instant turn off."

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By *XBCPL OP   Man
33 weeks ago

West London

Thank you point taken and adjusted - Happy Fabbing XXX


"I would also ignore your profile based on the "good looking people only"

Good looking is subjective, I've zero idea what you find good looking, it comes across a little pretentious.

Mrs "

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By *XBCPL OP   Man
33 weeks ago

West London

lol Good Looking is subjective - who are we to say we are good looking - Point Taken and Happy Fabbing Xx


"Meh, I'd disagree. If you want good looking say it. And let's face it, there's plenty on here with massive egos to think they fit the bill.

"

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By *XBCPL OP   Man
33 weeks ago

West London

RIP and sorry - Happy Fabbing XXx


"Meh, I'd disagree. If you want good looking say it. And let's face it, there's plenty on here with massive egos to think they fit the bill.

Does it count if my mother says I’m handsome?

Only if you're trying to shag her I guess.

That would be very inappropriate… she’s dead."

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By *XBCPL OP   Man
33 weeks ago

West London

Male Half - Happy Fabbing X


"This swinging world is truly a ladies' paradise. I've been trying to expand my current situation and find single lady playmates to occasionally go to clubs or out to parties. However, the reality is that their inboxes are inundated with millions of messages and unsolicited pics. I would love to know the best approach to meet women here. Any pointers, ladies and gents?are you a woman or a couple? "

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By *XBCPL OP   Man
33 weeks ago

West London

That is not the intent and I have re worked it - but we are generally good ppl

Still finding our way - Happy Fabbing X


"This swinging world is truly a ladies' paradise. I've been trying to expand my current situation and find single lady playmates to occasionally go to clubs or out to parties. However, the reality is that their inboxes are inundated with millions of messages and unsolicited pics. I would love to know the best approach to meet women here. Any pointers, ladies and gents?

To me your profile comes across as "we are gorgeous and have lots of money and only meet the same" and as such is likely to put off the average swinger.

I'm sure that wasn't your intention but it certainly doesn't appeal to me."

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
33 weeks ago

Reading

It may seem that but everyone has preferences so we would only match with a tiny proportion of those people. Yes if a woman will fuck anyone then she will be busy but how many women would that be?

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By *eroLondonMan
33 weeks ago

Mayfair


"I agree with this delightful creature ^ above. When I first looked at your profile OP your 'headline grabbing' remark "...Looking for Good Looking People' was immediately unnerving for me.

Sorry to be equally unhelpful.

·

Thank you point taken and adjusted - Happy Fabbing XXX

"

And Happy 'desi' Fabbing ² you too.

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By *XBCPL OP   Man
33 weeks ago

West London

Absolutely quite so - There is someone for everyone in this wild world - I am just looking for consistency- and someone who carry a conversation and all the extras is a bonus - Happy Fabbing and Be Great Xx


"It may seem that but everyone has preferences so we would only match with a tiny proportion of those people. Yes if a woman will fuck anyone then she will be busy but how many women would that be?"

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
33 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

Ladies paradise means I now think of the garden of Eden as a video game where you as Eve have to swat away a constant deluge of unwanted penii, and if you game over and just delete the whole inbox you lose the level prize of someone actually worth talking to

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By *XBCPL OP   Man
33 weeks ago

West London

Sigh Sonia the world lol - Happy Fabbing XXX


"Ladies paradise means I now think of the garden of Eden as a video game where you as Eve have to swat away a constant deluge of unwanted penii, and if you game over and just delete the whole inbox you lose the level prize of someone actually worth talking to "

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By *XBCPL OP   Man
33 weeks ago

West London

Desi lol always my Guy Stay blessed


"I agree with this delightful creature ^ above. When I first looked at your profile OP your 'headline grabbing' remark "...Looking for Good Looking People' was immediately unnerving for me.

Sorry to be equally unhelpful.

·

Thank you point taken and adjusted - Happy Fabbing XXX

And Happy 'desi' Fabbing ² you too. "

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By * and R cple4Couple
33 weeks ago

swansea

I'm not sure if you as a couple are looking for a single women or just one of you if so which one ..

If its one of you maybe make a singles profile and go from their..

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
33 weeks ago

Reading


"

Desi lol always my Guy Stay blessed

I agree with this delightful creature ^ above. When I first looked at your profile OP your 'headline grabbing' remark "...Looking for Good Looking People' was immediately unnerving for me.

Sorry to be equally unhelpful.

·

Thank you point taken and adjusted - Happy Fabbing XXX

And Happy 'desi' Fabbing ² you too. "

Upgraded to beautiful now. Lol GL

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By *ark73XXXMan
33 weeks ago

North Staffs/South Cheshire


"

Desi lol always my Guy Stay blessed

I agree with this delightful creature ^ above. When I first looked at your profile OP your 'headline grabbing' remark "...Looking for Good Looking People' was immediately unnerving for me.

Sorry to be equally unhelpful.

·

Thank you point taken and adjusted - Happy Fabbing XXX

And Happy 'desi' Fabbing ² you too.

Upgraded to beautiful now. Lol GL"

I’m afraid some people are beyond help

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By *ilthycoupleabzCouple
33 weeks ago

Aberdeen


"

Desi lol always my Guy Stay blessed

I agree with this delightful creature ^ above. When I first looked at your profile OP your 'headline grabbing' remark "...Looking for Good Looking People' was immediately unnerving for me.

Sorry to be equally unhelpful.

·

Thank you point taken and adjusted - Happy Fabbing XXX

And Happy 'desi' Fabbing ² you too.

Upgraded to beautiful now. Lol GL

I’m afraid some people are beyond help "

Normally I would sigh and wonder but reading the profile and the responses on here, suggests the OP themselves have a healthy self esteem level (good, it is nice to see positivity) and possibly assume that others have the same confidence. Hence, they think most other people are assured of their own beauty?

It actually doesn't read that badly to me really.

MrsAbz

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By (user no longer on site)
33 weeks ago


"

Desi lol always my Guy Stay blessed

I agree with this delightful creature ^ above. When I first looked at your profile OP your 'headline grabbing' remark "...Looking for Good Looking People' was immediately unnerving for me.

Sorry to be equally unhelpful.

·

Thank you point taken and adjusted - Happy Fabbing XXX

And Happy 'desi' Fabbing ² you too.

Upgraded to beautiful now. Lol GL

I’m afraid some people are beyond help

Normally I would sigh and wonder but reading the profile and the responses on here, suggests the OP themselves have a healthy self esteem level (good, it is nice to see positivity) and possibly assume that others have the same confidence. Hence, they think most other people are assured of their own beauty?

It actually doesn't read that badly to me really.

MrsAbz"

That's because they took on board the advise and tinkered with their profile

Which is, I think, the 1st time in ages that that's actually happened!!!!!

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By *XBCPL OP   Man
33 weeks ago

West London

Respect changed as per your guidance Happy Fabbing XXX


"I'd be out at the quality over quantity part, I don't think I'm that good a quality.

And then you want attractive people, doubly out for me.

Then you say about 420 , phew now I'm relieved I'm out "

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By *XBCPL OP   Man
33 weeks ago

West London

Dubai is amazing - Great Scene Happy Fabbing X


"Not sure I'm qualified to even reply to this thread tbh lol.

One thing I can say, if you are going to swing, Dubai looks like a lovely location for it lol."

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By *XBCPL OP   Man
33 weeks ago

West London

Hello and thank You - Yeah it's for Male half will give it a shot X


"I'm not sure if you as a couple are looking for a single women or just one of you if so which one ..

If its one of you maybe make a singles profile and go from their.. "

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By *eadinthecloudsMan
33 weeks ago

Manchester

Think the good looking people comment is actually subjective but I reckon it’ll turn off more people than it attracts.

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By *XBCPL OP   Man
33 weeks ago

West London

Always take advice and always listen - no one is perfect and sometimes you need another pair of eyes - ahem boobs and balls lol - Thank You X


"

Desi lol always my Guy Stay blessed

I agree with this delightful creature ^ above. When I first looked at your profile OP your 'headline grabbing' remark "...Looking for Good Looking People' was immediately unnerving for me.

Sorry to be equally unhelpful.

·

Thank you point taken and adjusted - Happy Fabbing XXX

And Happy 'desi' Fabbing ² you too.

Upgraded to beautiful now. Lol GL

I’m afraid some people are beyond help

Normally I would sigh and wonder but reading the profile and the responses on here, suggests the OP themselves have a healthy self esteem level (good, it is nice to see positivity) and possibly assume that others have the same confidence. Hence, they think most other people are assured of their own beauty?

It actually doesn't read that badly to me really.

MrsAbz

That's because they took on board the advise and tinkered with their profile

Which is, I think, the 1st time in ages that that's actually happened!!!!!"

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By *XBCPL OP   Man
33 weeks ago

West London

Point taken and thanks changed it - Happy Fabbing X


"Think the good looking people comment is actually subjective but I reckon it’ll turn off more people than it attracts. "

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By *melia DominaTV/TS
33 weeks ago

Edinburgh (She/Her)


"This swinging world is truly a ladies' paradise. I've been trying to expand my current situation and find single lady playmates to occasionally go to clubs or out to parties. However, the reality is that their inboxes are inundated with millions of messages and unsolicited pics. I would love to know the best approach to meet women here. Any pointers, ladies and gents?"

Socials, clubs, chatrooms... as you said, Message boxes are full.

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By *ainbowQueen03Woman
33 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

I host Scissor Sisters WOMEN only event on Wednesday 3rd July in Flirts at Xtasia.

Women who are interested in meeting other women for social, play or both?

Read bottom of my profile for more information.

Any questions, feel free to ask.

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By *XBCPL OP   Man
33 weeks ago

West London

Awesome X


"I host Scissor Sisters WOMEN only event on Wednesday 3rd July in Flirts at Xtasia.

Women who are interested in meeting other women for social, play or both?

Read bottom of my profile for more information.

Any questions, feel free to ask.

"

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By *inger_SnapWoman
33 weeks ago

Hampshire/Dorset

I don't think that's always true.

You're best bet is to always read the profile and make sure you're actually compatible.

Send a polite msg with a face pic.

Always offer to have a no pressure social first.

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By *XBCPL OP   Man
33 weeks ago

West London

Fair and appreciate the advice - Hapoy Fabbing X


"I don't think that's always true.

You're best bet is to always read the profile and make sure you're actually compatible.

Send a polite msg with a face pic.

Always offer to have a no pressure social first.

"

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