FabSwingers.com forum: When do you know it's more

By *ony Mann OP Man
26 weeks ago

New York City New York USA

When would that light go on? When do you know that it's more than fab nsa?

Is it when you spend the night? Keep an extra set of clothes at their's? Is it when you lend them money?

When you go on holiday together?

For me I think it would be opening a shared bank account or buying a house together?

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By *arla SwingerWoman
26 weeks ago

Somewhere

Are you very all or nothing OP?

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
26 weeks ago

Reading

Never got close to that so no idea sorry.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
26 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

I don't do NSA.

But there have been times where I've thought 'Shit. This is a bit deeper than I intended it to be.'

Life happens. You move with it or you move on

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By *ot to giggleWoman
26 weeks ago

Coventry

surely these things just sort of go that way if its intended they go that way?

no idea here

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By (user no longer on site)
26 weeks ago

Men are just pretty penises. Nothing more.

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By (user no longer on site)
26 weeks ago

"Men are just pretty penises. Nothing more."

Not sure about the pretty.

Should have gone to spec savers.

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By *ansoffateMan
26 weeks ago

Sagittarius A

"Are you very all or nothing OP?

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By *oodmessMan
26 weeks ago

yumsville

If someone's asking you for your account no OP, to open an account or to enter into a property agreement... it's probably a scammer.

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By *ildo_swagginsthe3rdWoman
26 weeks ago

Wales

I reckon by the time I'm thinking about joint mortgage I probably like them a bit

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By *ony Mann OP Man
26 weeks ago

New York City New York USA

"If someone's asking you for your account no OP, to open an account or to enter into a property agreement... it's probably a scammer."
lol

No, nothing like that, it's just

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By *illy IdolMan
26 weeks ago

Midlands

It when they ask for 17 shags

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By *herry delightWoman
26 weeks ago

Ilfracombe

When you buy a plant together and have joint custody of teddy bear.

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By *aitonelMan
26 weeks ago

Travelling

When they stop telling you to fuck off

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By *a LunaWoman
26 weeks ago

South Wales

When they trust me with their PIN number *evil cackle*

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By *weetiepie99Woman
26 weeks ago

cardiff

I love men, and their penis's...even though they are ugly as f***. Apart from Rex's. I would say when you are thinking about introducing them to friends/family

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By *ony Mann OP Man
26 weeks ago

New York City New York USA

"When you buy a plant together and have joint custody of teddy bear.

Cherry I'm not giving up visiting rights to bear

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By *eordieJeansCouple
26 weeks ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

When you start leaving it in.

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By (user no longer on site)
26 weeks ago

I’ve no idea, I’ve been single for so long that I’m blind to hints and my walls are sky high. Sometimes I’d like a bit more but I’m scared of the feelies. Best stick to sticking a penis in every once in a while instead

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By (user no longer on site)
26 weeks ago

"I’ve no idea, I’ve been single for so long that I’m blind to hints and my walls are sky high. Sometimes I’d like a bit more but I’m scared of the feelies. Best stick to sticking a penis in every once in a while instead"

Not all men like being pegged

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By *herry delightWoman
26 weeks ago

Ilfracombe

"When you buy a plant together and have joint custody of teddy bear.

Cherry I'm not giving up visiting rights to bear "

Well you will have to visit him on a regular basis.

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By *naswingdressWoman
26 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

I know what a friendship looks like, and will proceed from there with that.

If anyone turns facehugger clinger or I develop those feelings myself, I'll hit the block button and run a mile.

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By *herry delightWoman
25 weeks ago

Ilfracombe

Even if they have spent nights over

Have they dressing gown and towel

Spend the night in the hotel

They can still be NSA fuck buddys

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By *ony Mann OP Man
25 weeks ago

New York City New York USA

Club together for ice-cream

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By *herry delightWoman
25 weeks ago

Ilfracombe

"Club together for ice-cream "

Even if they buy ice cream while someone is flirting at the woman behind the counter.

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By *ony Mann OP Man
25 weeks ago

New York City New York USA

"Club together for ice-cream

Even if they buy ice cream while someone is flirting at the woman behind the counter. "

I'm not sure she noticed Cherry

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By *ris GrayMan
25 weeks ago

Dorchester

"When would that light go on? When do you know that it's more than fab nsa?

Is it when you spend the night? Keep an extra set of clothes at their's? Is it when you lend them money?

When you go on holiday together?

For me I think it would be opening a shared bank account or buying a house together?"
when they give you a front door key

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By *herry delightWoman
25 weeks ago

Ilfracombe

"Club together for ice-cream

Even if they buy ice cream while someone is flirting at the woman behind the counter.

I'm not sure she noticed Cherry"

She probably thought you were a dirty old man, which I what you are lol

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By (user no longer on site)
25 weeks ago

If I've got to th3 stage where I want to holiday with them ... then it's more than just a fuck

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By *ad NannaWoman
25 weeks ago

East London

When the knot they ask you to tie is not the one in the condom.

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By *eliWoman
25 weeks ago

For me, probably when it feels like more. It varies. Sometimes it's in how I'm kissed. Other times it's when it feels right. Good in that moment. Reciprocated feelings.

I suppose, most of the time it's when I feel like I can really by myself with them and they actively enjoy learning me. And I them. There's not a significant event timestamp to it.

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By *rHotNottsMan
25 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Words and feelings mean very little to me , especially on here , people lie, people do show themselves through actions though.

I’ve never opened a joint bank account with anyone on fab!!! but I’ve been on a few holidays, been a guarantor for rent and let someone use my apartment when I wasn’t here! I also have asked for big things too like a car, a place to stay. So it’s more when there’s trust and generosity

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By *eyond PurityCouple
25 weeks ago

Lincolnshire

For us it was just the feeling - looking forward to a message, a pic and being able to talk about anything and everything.

We didn’t try and smother each other - we gave each other the freedom to grow, spread our wings and chat and meet others. We became champions for each other.

Little did we know that in essence we were building really strong foundations and we still support each other and don’t clip each others wings

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By *mf123Man
25 weeks ago

with one foot out the door

U know when you know but be warned fire that burns the hottest stings the longest

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By *eliWoman
25 weeks ago

"For us it was just the feeling - looking forward to a message, a pic and being able to talk about anything and everything.

We didn’t try and smother each other - we gave each other the freedom to grow, spread our wings and chat and meet others. We became champions for each other.

Little did we know that in essence we were building really strong foundations and we still support each other and don’t clip each others wings

Oh you two. Nauseatingly adorable

Talking about anything and everything is such a solid foundation. I've found that with some people (rare but special) I can open up to them in weeks in a way that I never do with others even after months of dating them.

That feeling is really special, hope it continues for you K and C.

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By *herry delightWoman
25 weeks ago

Ilfracombe

Is it when you spend the night?

You have spent many nights at mine.

I have spent the night with you at a hotel

Keep an extra set of clothes at their's?

You have some things at my place.

Is it when you lend them money?

I would never ask you to lend me money and you know that for a fact.

We have even walked down the aisle of a church.

But you are still just a nice NSA fuck.

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By *ony Mann OP Man
25 weeks ago

New York City New York USA

"Is it when you spend the night?

You have spent many nights at mine.

I have spent the night with you at a hotel

Keep an extra set of clothes at their's?

You have some things at my place.

Is it when you lend them money?

I would never ask you to lend me money and you know that for a fact.

We have even walked down the aisle of a church.

But you are still just a nice NSA fuck.

"
Cherry

Buy each other ice cream and dinner.

Visit together..

We are still NSA

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By *herry delightWoman
25 weeks ago

Ilfracombe

"Is it when you spend the night?

You have spent many nights at mine.

I have spent the night with you at a hotel

Keep an extra set of clothes at their's?

You have some things at my place.

Is it when you lend them money?

I would never ask you to lend me money and you know that for a fact.

We have even walked down the aisle of a church.

But you are still just a nice NSA fuck.

Cherry

Buy each other ice cream and dinner.

Visit together..

We are still NSA

Yes xx

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