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GHOSTING DISAPPEARING VANISHED?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
31 weeks ago

Why is there such a high fall out with men making promisses with women then they vanish? A lot of women ask why but in reality women do it too but let's stick to men for now

Sadly there are a lot of fantasist on here or simply bogus accounts. We all have our share of ghosting and cancelled disappointments, it ruins it for genuine enthusiasts. Then you have the pre- ejaculated. The problem is sex drive. Men that talk a big game, build up their libido to only get excited the day before the big meeting and they wank the night before only for the libido to hit the floor, flat tyre lolz.

The tight arses, whom again want the play but can't pay for a semi decent hotel room...or the dreamers whom aren't getting nothing from the gf or wife. Pretend to be single and get their jollies of chatting setting with you and on and on oh the cheapskate, keyboard warriors, gf or wife's not giving them anything so the blokes become lions online. After arranging meets they'd rather cut their own genitalia off before parting with gard earned cash for a hotel room

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By *ealitybitesMan
31 weeks ago

Belfast

How many of these guys are you chatting to or are you just relating someone else's experiences?

I've been here 8 years and never once spoken to a fake account, been ghosted, had a no show or been one.

Every time there is one of these threads quite a few people say exactly the same so not everyone has experienced the things you listed.

If you are experiencing things like this so often it's maybe time to take a breather and have a look at how you are vetting the profiles you are chatting to.

If you aren't experiencing this and are just trying to say you aren't one of those type of guys it comes across as virtue signalling.

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By *TG3Man
31 weeks ago

Dorchester

Me too I've been here years and never chatted to a fake account, I've turned up at every meet ive organised and a few times the other person never showed. Sex is just sex if you are in the mood then its on if you're not its off. These days i look for more than fantasy because fantasy is something thats unlikely to become reality.

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By *ady CurvaceousWoman
31 weeks ago

Kent

I am sent fake photos on a daily basis. I do a quick reverse image search on almost every man who messages me and I can tell you its at least 30% that are using fake photos. I get between 100 to 200 messages a day on a normal day, m more if I post a photo that catches attention and I have to deal with keyboard warriors, fantasists, dreamers and time wasters on a daily basis.

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By *ourDiscreetDILFMan
31 weeks ago

Village outside Norwich

Sorry to hear you've had such a high fall out of fake/ghosters.

I haven't seen that yet, but all I get is left unread or read but no reply, which isn't great but when you look at how many messages the ladies are getting bombarded with each day you can see why.

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By *rHotNottsMan
31 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham

It seems to be mostly women this happens too, I guess because like most dating sites, the majority of male members aren’t actually available to meet.

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By *ikesEmBigMan
31 weeks ago

Herts


"Why is there such a high fall out with men making promisses with women then they vanish? A lot of women ask why but in reality women do it too but let's stick to men for now

Sadly there are a lot of fantasist on here or simply bogus accounts. We all have our share of ghosting and cancelled disappointments, it ruins it for genuine enthusiasts. Then you have the pre- ejaculated. The problem is sex drive. Men that talk a big game, build up their libido to only get excited the day before the big meeting and they wank the night before only for the libido to hit the floor, flat tyre lolz.

The tight arses, whom again want the play but can't pay for a semi decent hotel room...or the dreamers whom aren't getting nothing from the gf or wife. Pretend to be single and get their jollies of chatting setting with you and on and on oh the cheapskate, keyboard warriors, gf or wife's not giving them anything so the blokes become lions online. After arranging meets they'd rather cut their own genitalia off before parting with gard earned cash for a hotel room "

You missed out the White Knights

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By *ikesEmBigMan
31 weeks ago

Herts


"I am sent fake photos on a daily basis. I do a quick reverse image search on almost every man who messages me and I can tell you its at least 30% that are using fake photos. I get between 100 to 200 messages a day on a normal day, m more if I post a photo that catches attention and I have to deal with keyboard warriors, fantasists, dreamers and time wasters on a daily basis. "

Hence she knows my knob really is this pathetic

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