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By *nidely Whiplash OP   Man
33 weeks ago

Derby

Got a nice response, happy to chat etc but confirmed not attracted and it wouldn't go further. What an absolute star of a response. Don't have to wonder about anything, just look for someone who might. So refreshing. Wonder how many respond that way?

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
33 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

Plenty probably do if they get an appropriate message to respond to and haven't already been drowned in the mistake of responding to the hey hru messages just to get various abuse and insistent but why messages

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By *arley QuimWoman
33 weeks ago

Somewhere


"Got a nice response, happy to chat etc but confirmed not attracted and it wouldn't go further. What an absolute star of a response. Don't have to wonder about anything, just look for someone who might. So refreshing. Wonder how many respond that way?"

Was it a man? I hear they have empty inboxes

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By *orace99Man
33 weeks ago

York


"Got a nice response, happy to chat etc but confirmed not attracted and it wouldn't go further. What an absolute star of a response. Don't have to wonder about anything, just look for someone who might. So refreshing. Wonder how many respond that way?"

It's always nice to get a response even if it is a no thanks.

I always reply when I get messaged.

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By *nidely Whiplash OP   Man
33 weeks ago

Derby

It was a woman and given the imbalance here, it's nice to receive a polite no

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By *TG3Man
33 weeks ago

Dorchester


"Got a nice response, happy to chat etc but confirmed not attracted and it wouldn't go further. What an absolute star of a response. Don't have to wonder about anything, just look for someone who might. So refreshing. Wonder how many respond that way?

Was it a man? I hear they have empty inboxes "
lol

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
33 weeks ago

Staffordshire

Same result… no shag.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
33 weeks ago

little house on the praire

If someone sent me a decent message I always responded

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
33 weeks ago

Central

It's worth pointing out that getting no response is also polite.

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By *arley QuimWoman
33 weeks ago

Somewhere


"It was a woman and given the imbalance here, it's nice to receive a polite no"

Genuinely can I ask why? A no, is still a no regardless. No response is also still a no. Why is it some men seem to place this 'value' on a woman telling them no (politely of course!). Is it that it ticks men's narratives of women MUST acknowledge them, and in some cases their unwanted approaches. And then be polite to not hurt the man's feelings?

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By *inger_SnapWoman
33 weeks ago

Hampshire/Dorset


"It was a woman and given the imbalance here, it's nice to receive a polite no

Genuinely can I ask why? A no, is still a no regardless. No response is also still a no. Why is it some men seem to place this 'value' on a woman telling them no (politely of course!). Is it that it ticks men's narratives of women MUST acknowledge them, and in some cases their unwanted approaches. And then be polite to not hurt the man's feelings? "

Innit. We don't owe anyone anything.

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By (user no longer on site)
33 weeks ago

Nah

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By *TG3Man
33 weeks ago

Dorchester


"It's worth pointing out that getting no response is also polite. "
its not but in site rules it is

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