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By *amish MacBeth OP   Man
36 weeks ago

Southend

I know we’re all looking for the closest and local people on here to chat and meet up with. I’ve always been a bit more relaxed about distance and if I wanted to meet someone further away I would if I really wanted too.

My question is how far would you be comfortable travelling to meet someone without any guarantees you’re going to be having sex or even have somewhere to sleep if things aren’t what you both hoped for…

How long for the schlong?

How many miles for the smiles?

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By *ex HolesMan
36 weeks ago

Up North

600 mile round trip resulted in a lady receiving my sausage

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By *ellhungvweMan
36 weeks ago

Cheltenham

My limit is about an hour - that would get me up to Chams in Birmingham, down to Bristol or over to Oxford. Anything more than that and I would generally have to be in the area/passing through.

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By *ohn.Wick.Man
36 weeks ago

The Continental

I’ve done a 900 mile round trip for coffee and cake. I made a weekend of it however.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
36 weeks ago

East Sussex

About thirty mins.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
36 weeks ago

Leeds

We don't meet local, we usually block locals, I'd rather meet 10+ miles minimum than bump into some meet while shopping with the kids.

Mrs

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By *heonixrising500Man
36 weeks ago

Barnsley

I done 3 hour drive

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By *issmorganWoman
36 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

For a first meet, it's a social only so prefer locals.

I wouldn't travel too far unless I'd met someone before &. Had some sort of trust.

There seems to be many people who waste others time judging by all the threads I've seen.

When I'm meeting, I meet nearby for a drink or coffee, if they stand me up I haven't lost much.

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By *ookie46Woman
36 weeks ago

Deepest darkest Peru

500 mile round trip

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By *rBobbMan
36 weeks ago

Birmingham

If two people connect and want to see each other why should distance matter? It's what the car was invented for

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By *TG3Man
36 weeks ago

Dorchester

10 hour flight

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By *eliWoman
36 weeks ago

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Distance isn't a factor for me... if I really want to spend time with someone, platonically or otherwise I'd find a way to make it work.

Over two hours? I wouldn't do that in a day so I'd have my own hotel room booked. There's never any guarantee of sex, never expectation or pressure of sex with me, regardless of distance travelled.

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By (user no longer on site)
36 weeks ago

Did a round trip to Long Island in New York.

Don’t ask me miles

Don’t mind travelling but it’s more how well I get on with someone.

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By *rBobbMan
36 weeks ago

Birmingham


"Distance isn't a factor for me... if I really want to spend time with someone, platonically or otherwise I'd find a way to make it work.

Over two hours? I wouldn't do that in a day so I'd have my own hotel room booked. There's never any guarantee of sex, never expectation or pressure of sex with me, regardless of distance travelled."

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By *amish MacBeth OP   Man
36 weeks ago

Southend


"Distance isn't a factor for me... if I really want to spend time with someone, platonically or otherwise I'd find a way to make it work.

Over two hours? I wouldn't do that in a day so I'd have my own hotel room booked. There's never any guarantee of sex, never expectation or pressure of sex with me, regardless of distance travelled."

Massively agree

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By *TG3Man
36 weeks ago

Dorchester

No mattet how far i travel and I've travelled far i expect nothing except interesting converation and a smile

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By (user no longer on site)
36 weeks ago

I'm looking for guys I actually like. Not guys that are convenient.

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By (user no longer on site)
36 weeks ago

I've been to Scotland and back a couple of times previously.

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By *ex HolesMan
36 weeks ago

Up North

I’d let a nice lady travel down my knob and back

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By *illy IdolMan
36 weeks ago

Midlands


"I've been to Scotland and back a couple of times previously. "

About 500 miles then?

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By *uxom redCouple
36 weeks ago

Shrewsbury

We've done a couple of 300plus trips for a face to face chat

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By *amish MacBeth OP   Man
36 weeks ago

Southend

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By *eyond PurityCouple
36 weeks ago

Lincolnshire

Our ex FWB lived 4 hours away - we used to spend weekends or 4 days together around once a month.

A lady friend drives 2 hours to see us and spend the night - she lives with children so we can’t stay at hers but we’d be prepared to travel for her.

For the right people we travel and they travel to us.

K

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By *amish MacBeth OP   Man
36 weeks ago

Southend


"I'm looking for guys I actually like. Not guys that are convenient. "

Couldn’t have said it better

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By *ornycougaWoman
36 weeks ago

Wherever I lay my hat


"I've been to Scotland and back a couple of times previously.

About 500 miles then?"

I've done this a couple of times too. I would fly 500 miles and I would fly 500 more for the right guy

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
36 weeks ago

Reading

10 to 20 miles.

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By *ellhungvweMan
36 weeks ago

Cheltenham


"I’d let a nice lady travel down my knob and back "

A short trip then?

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By *ivemealadybonerWoman
36 weeks ago

somewhere

I used to have a maximum of 50 miles but then I met someone who was 56 miles and life changed after that lol

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By (user no longer on site)
36 weeks ago

I don't drive so I don't travel to meets, but I don't as a rule meet anyone that is more than 30ish miles away, the exception being of I have met them at a club.

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
36 weeks ago

Staffordshire

We don’t meet locals.

We like to be at least 10 miles from home, up to probably 100 maximum

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By *amie HantsWoman
36 weeks ago

Atlantis

I don’t want to travel for more than 10 minutes by foot. Makes searches challenging

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By *eroLondonMan
36 weeks ago

Mayfair

340 mile around trip is the maximum I've endured. I'm more comfortable with meeting women who are closer, but that rarely transpires because I seem to be permanently afflicted to the Fab Curse™.

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By *TG3Man
36 weeks ago

Dorchester


"I don’t want to travel for more than 10 minutes by foot. Makes searches challenging "
so thats within half a mile lol

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By *ustamanMan
36 weeks ago

weymouth

I have done over 600 mile round trip involving an overnight - fortunately it was a good night

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By *amish MacBeth OP   Man
36 weeks ago

Southend


"340 mile around trip is the maximum I've endured. I'm more comfortable with meeting women who are closer, but that rarely transpires because I seem to be permanently afflicted to the Fab Curse™. "

What’s the Fab Curse…?

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By (user no longer on site)
36 weeks ago


"I've been to Scotland and back a couple of times previously.

About 500 miles then?"

No idea I was sat on a plane , I didn't count them ha ha

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By *2000ManMan
36 weeks ago

Worthing

45 minutes.

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By (user no longer on site)
36 weeks ago


"I've been to Scotland and back a couple of times previously.

About 500 miles then?

I've done this a couple of times too. I would fly 500 miles and I would fly 500 more for the right guy"

I see what you did there.....

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By *amish MacBeth OP   Man
36 weeks ago

Southend


"I don’t want to travel for more than 10 minutes by foot. Makes searches challenging "

You must know everyone on Fabs in a 10 min walk radius by now lol

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By (user no longer on site)
36 weeks ago

How far without a guaranteed happy ending?

Lawks I don't know. They'd have to be somebody I'd be REALLY interested to have a conversation and a coffee or meal with. About 40 minutes.

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By *rHotNottsMan
36 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Really doesn’t bother me. I meet so few people and travel so much that anywhere is fine when I’m really interested I’ll travel.

But if it’s just for sex, nothing else then I prefer local & ideally they come to me.I don't see the point of traveling very far just for sex.

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
36 weeks ago

chichester

Probably within 100 miles or about 90 ish minutes

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By *eroLondonMan
36 weeks ago

Mayfair


"340 mile around trip is the maximum I've endured. I'm more comfortable with meeting women who are closer, but that rarely transpires because I seem to be permanently afflicted to the Fab Curse™.

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What’s the Fab Curse…?"

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Can someone please kindly tell the OP what the Fab Curse™ is.….….?

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By *ittlebirdWoman
36 weeks ago

The Big Smoke


"340 mile around trip is the maximum I've endured. I'm more comfortable with meeting women who are closer, but that rarely transpires because I seem to be permanently afflicted to the Fab Curse™.

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What’s the Fab Curse…?

•

Can someone please kindly tell the OP what the Fab Curse™ is.….….?"

You mentioned it SAF… you must do it

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By (user no longer on site)
36 weeks ago

Half an hour.

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By *inger_SnapWoman
36 weeks ago

Hampshire/Dorset

Unless I knew them really well, I probably wouldn't leave my city.

And it kind of depends how much effort they're putting into the "relationship".

I think far more men are willing to travel, than women. And I've never really understand why they'd do it? Like why can't you find someone local? Why do need to travel a hundred miles or more for a shag? It's a bit weird.

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By *r AnalyticMan
36 weeks ago

Nuneaton

35 miles is what I deemed as fair.

But try and keep it 15 ish miles.

However, if we click and seems worth the trip then as long as its only a car drive away I don't mind. As I would make a day out of it.

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By *r AnalyticMan
36 weeks ago

Nuneaton


"Unless I knew them really well, I probably wouldn't leave my city.

And it kind of depends how much effort they're putting into the "relationship".

I think far more men are willing to travel, than women. And I've never really understand why they'd do it? Like why can't you find someone local? Why do need to travel a hundred miles or more for a shag? It's a bit weird."

Hummm i do get what your saying. Just a snag no as you say you can get that in or around where you like. If it's a bucket list then maybe worth the drive.

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By *inger_SnapWoman
36 weeks ago

Hampshire/Dorset


"Unless I knew them really well, I probably wouldn't leave my city.

And it kind of depends how much effort they're putting into the "relationship".

I think far more men are willing to travel, than women. And I've never really understand why they'd do it? Like why can't you find someone local? Why do need to travel a hundred miles or more for a shag? It's a bit weird.

Hummm i do get what your saying. Just a snag no as you say you can get that in or around where you like. If it's a bucket list then maybe worth the drive."

I don't have a bucket list and if I thought I was on someone else's, that would be a massive turn off.

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By *eroLondonMan
36 weeks ago

Mayfair


"340 mile around trip is the maximum I've endured. I'm more comfortable with meeting women who are closer, but that rarely transpires because I seem to be permanently afflicted to the Fab Curse™.

·

What’s the Fab Curse…?

•

Can someone please kindly tell the OP what the Fab Curse™ is.….….?

You mentioned it SAF… you must do it "

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I was going to be all eloquent about it but...OP, dear fellow, it's when you can't find a half-decent crumpet in your neck of the woods and nearly all of those that tick your boxes, in addition to those who ruffle their plumage at you, are just too motherfucking far away. It's a pain in the arse when your favourite totty or two (or three) require all the planning of a military manoeuvre just to get your end away.

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By *ittlebirdWoman
36 weeks ago

The Big Smoke


"340 mile around trip is the maximum I've endured. I'm more comfortable with meeting women who are closer, but that rarely transpires because I seem to be permanently afflicted to the Fab Curse™.

·

What’s the Fab Curse…?

•

Can someone please kindly tell the OP what the Fab Curse™ is.….….?

You mentioned it SAF… you must do it

·

I was going to be all eloquent about it but...OP, dear fellow, it's when you can't find a half-decent crumpet in your neck of the woods and nearly all of those that tick your boxes, in addition to those who ruffle their plumage at you, are just too motherfucking far away. It's a pain in the arse when your favourite totty or two (or three) require all the planning of a military manoeuvre just to get your end away."

Did you just use the word motherfucking?

Where is Nero and what have you done with him?

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By *orace99Man
36 weeks ago

York


"I've been to Scotland and back a couple of times previously.

About 500 miles then?"

I think it would probably be 500 miles more than that

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