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By *uperS77 OP Man
27 weeks ago

Gloucester

Is it good to be single

Is it bad to be single

Is it indifferent to be single

Thoughts?

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By *nitterWoman
27 weeks ago

the land of tall tales and yarn

Personally I like it but it's not for everyone

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By *ascaIMan
27 weeks ago

Cheshire Liverpool Manchester

I don’t like it. I love it.

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By *amish MacBethMan
27 weeks ago

Southend

I was in relationships from 17 to 31 and the last 5 years I’ve been single and I’m pretty much over it. Hate coming home from work to be alone lol

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By *esthetic21Man
27 weeks ago

Birmingham/Bristol

I like being in a relationship but it can be very hard work at times. Sometimes being single is good

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By *esthetic21Man
27 weeks ago

Birmingham/Bristol

"I don’t like it. I love it."
cricket?

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By (user no longer on site)
27 weeks ago

Love being single. Doubt I'll ever have a relationship again

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By (user no longer on site)
27 weeks ago

I'm not looking to be anything other than single. FWBs and FBs will suffice

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By *ascaIMan
27 weeks ago

Cheshire Liverpool Manchester

"I don’t like it. I love it.cricket? "

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By *naswingdressWoman
27 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

I love the freedom

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
27 weeks ago

Herts

"I'm not looking to be anything other than single. FWBs and FBs will suffice "

This is the way.

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By *elloWoman
27 weeks ago

alpha centauri

I'm not very good at being in a relationship, gets very claustrophobic.

But I do miss having access to a safe willy, without having to plan meeting up in a neutral, populated area to make sure they're not a complete nutter or their photos weren't actually 15 years old.

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By (user no longer on site)
27 weeks ago

Freedom

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By *agnar73Man
27 weeks ago

glasgow-ish

Dunno. My messages aren’t exactly on fire on anything

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By *cLovin2Man
27 weeks ago

Reading

I've been single for almost 3 years now, I can't see a reason to change that yet, but if I met the right lady, who knows.

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By *luttyLaylaWoman
27 weeks ago

North West

I love being single.

And only meet singles

But each to their own I’m sure x

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
27 weeks ago

Reading

Its GREAT being single.

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By *weetest thingWoman
27 weeks ago

East Midlands

Tbh I like some aspects others not so much I’ve been single 7 years I’ve tried dating apps joined here bc they were so disappointing I’d like a happy medium so a fwb but even that seems impossible to find

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
27 weeks ago

Wirral.

I kinda like it - can do what I want and answer to no-one. However, there are times when I miss it. When I've had a shit day & just want a cuddle, Christmas, special occasions. Luckily I'm happy going on holiday and doing most things alone, but sometimes you need more than an FWB, or fuck buddy.

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
27 weeks ago

Wirral.

"Tbh I like some aspects others not so much I’ve been single 7 years I’ve tried dating apps joined here bc they were so disappointing I’d like a happy medium so a fwb but even that seems impossible to find "

Join the club! It ain't easy

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By *ucka39Man
27 weeks ago

Newcastle

It's hassle free and you don't need to answer to anyone

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By *ikesEmBigMan
27 weeks ago

Herts

"Is it good to be single

Is it bad to be single

Is it indifferent to be single

Thoughts? "

I always feel sorry for the lonely Twix in those party sized packets. They didn't choose to be lonely

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By *rBobbMan
27 weeks ago

Birmingham

"I kinda like it - can do what I want and answer to no-one. However, there are times when I miss it. When I've had a shit day & just want a cuddle, Christmas, special occasions. Luckily I'm happy going on holiday and doing most things alone, but sometimes you need more than an FWB, or fuck buddy. "

I agree with this. Both have their benefits and sometimes you need a little bit of both

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By *he Flat CapsCouple
27 weeks ago

Pontypool

Mr and I don't live together, but we are very much a couple. I think we have the best of both worlds. We've got the special someone in our lives, but we both like our independence and have no desire to move in together. Best relationship I've had!

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By *C79Man
27 weeks ago

Caterham

I now like being single after what turned out to be a bad relationship. I enjoy the peace and freedom that I lost but I do hope to find a Fab FWB some day so that we can go to events together & enjoy some couples fun & sharing/swapping.

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By *issYeuxBleusWoman
27 weeks ago

My boudoir - S Wales

It’s good because I get much better sleep by myself.

It’s bad because having sex with single men is proving difficult.

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By (user no longer on site)
27 weeks ago

Having to rely on someone? Having them in your life all the time? All the...

Affection?

Ewww no. I'll take a marriage thanks.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
27 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"Mr and I don't live together, but we are very much a couple. I think we have the best of both worlds. We've got the special someone in our lives, but we both like our independence and have no desire to move in together. Best relationship I've had! "

This 100%

All the joys of single life with the added bonus of an emotional support human.

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By *ot to giggleWoman
27 weeks ago

Coventry

been single for ever really - FWEB would be good - see what happens, dont want to change my status but be good to have a laugh and connect when you wanted to

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By *cLovin2Man
27 weeks ago

Reading

"It’s good because I get much better sleep by myself.

It’s bad because having sex with single men is proving difficult.

Why are us single men difficult? Interesting to hear from the other side of the fence

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By *cLovin2Man
27 weeks ago

Reading

"Having to rely on someone? Having them in your life all the time? All the...

Affection?

Ewww no. I'll take a marriage thanks.

Are things that bad

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By (user no longer on site)
27 weeks ago

3 years separated and not going back,love my peace and space ;0)

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By *andy CanesWoman
27 weeks ago

south

I love being single

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By *carlet SeductionWoman
27 weeks ago

Maidstone

Be nice to have someone in my life. But I'm realising that I'm probably single for the foreseeable. I'm not a huge fan. I like company and someone to share things with.

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By *parky-1992Man
27 weeks ago

dublin

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By *parky-1992Man
27 weeks ago

dublin

This. This right here.

I was in relationships for pretty much my whole 20s. Yes there are some big benefits (someone to go home to after a shit day, someone to go to bed beside at night, sex on tap etc.). But there’s just something about the freedom. Getting up when you want, watching what you want, deciding when you want to do something.

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By *929Man
27 weeks ago

newcastle

I like it now but still have the odd sad moment/night out of nowhere. Took a lot of getting used too after 15 years living with someone was sad and lonely for a long time think being in the same house we once all lived together in made it harder to move on. Now enjoy it more had a great couple of weeks with the weather making feel so much better overall I like it a lot more now

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By *entleman JayMan
27 weeks ago

Wakefield

I really like it. My life on my terms. I’m getting selfish in my old age. Lol.

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By *lexV16Man
27 weeks ago

Welling

3.5 years single. Open to a relationship with the right one but not rushing to it. Enjoying every moment of my single life. I am single but not alone that’s probably the secret formula for it.

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By *agnar73Man
27 weeks ago

glasgow-ish

That and the statistical probability a married man will outlive me.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
27 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

I like being single.

I also greatly enjoy the relationships I have now that let me keep all the best bits of being single

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By *oxy RedWoman
27 weeks ago

Glasgow

I like being single...quite secure with that.

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By (user no longer on site)
27 weeks ago

Lone wolf and more than content in life. Still, if someone truly special comes into my life then what will be will be; we never say never. Just like money and power can change a person so can unconditional love.

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By *ivpoolmanMan
27 weeks ago

Liverpool

"I like being single...quite secure with that.

I second that x

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By *na64Woman
27 weeks ago

Manchester

"I'm not looking to be anything other than single. FWBs and FBs will suffice

This is the way. "

Second this

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By (user no longer on site)
24 weeks ago

Single last 3 years love it. No more explanations/asking permission and so on

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By *issYeuxBleusWoman
24 weeks ago

My boudoir - S Wales

It’s good to not be in a bad relationship.

It’s bad to not be in a good relationship.

Fucking hell. That wore me out. No more thinking tonight.

I like being single. I don’t have to worry about my snoring.

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By *8on33Man
24 weeks ago

winfrith

I'm happy in my own company and happy with a partner.

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By *ickie76XXXMan
24 weeks ago

dartford

"It’s good to not be in a bad relationship.

It’s bad to not be in a good relationship.

Fucking hell. That wore me out. No more thinking tonight.

I like being single. I don’t have to worry about my snoring. "

Well said, and the effort is appreciated as that makes sense.

I’ve never worried about my snoring though it’s never bothered me. It’s only ever others than have complained about it and neighbouring houses

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By *iss.Bella.Woman
24 weeks ago

Wales

Good for sure. single and staying that way for the foreseeable

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By *hrek101Man
24 weeks ago

Herts

I like the freedom and not answering to anyone but I miss the affection so much. I would like to have someone I am significant too.

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By *LiamMan
24 weeks ago

Midlands

Born alone

I'm staying single

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By *entleman JayMan
24 weeks ago

Wakefield

I love being single. I’m staying single.

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By *asyGent75Man
24 weeks ago

Doncaster South Yorkshire

I love being single

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By *entleman JayMan
24 weeks ago

Wakefield

"This. This right here.

I’ve had more sex in day on fab than I had in two years in my marriage.

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By *ocknrollerMan
24 weeks ago

Glasgow/Stirlingshire

"It’s good to not be in a bad relationship.

It’s bad to not be in a good relationship.

Fucking hell. That wore me out. No more thinking tonight.

I like being single. I don’t have to worry about my snoring. "

This

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By *onkeynutWoman
23 weeks ago

somewhere

I enjoy being single and doing what I want when I want. I would really struggle to live with someone again.

I do miss the affection and closeness and I guess meaning something to someone. Though i’m not at a stage where that outweighs the benefits of being single.

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By *poolGuyMan
23 weeks ago

Liverpool

Single but not by choice. It's bad to be single, having someone to share with is benefit to body and mind.

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By *oxy jWoman
23 weeks ago

somerset

i would not enjoy being single but saying that if anything happened to my hubs id not have another relationship we are so strong together i wouldnt swing neither with out him

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By *ogfrog4Man
23 weeks ago

hayling island

Single works for me

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By *he Gentleman 84Man
23 weeks ago

North East

I’m fine being single there’s things you miss about relationships but if you have a hectic lifestyle with work, family & other elements it can make it easier in other ways. Do I miss things about a relationship yes but these things happen when they happen until then I’ll keep my eyes out for a FWB!

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By *reggSausageMan
23 weeks ago

derby

The worst thing about being single is there is no one to share your words with.

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By (user no longer on site)
23 weeks ago

It’s a mixed bag for sure. I catch myself wandering between ‘it’d be so nice to share my life with someone’ to ‘oh I couldn’t deal with someone’s incessant presence/ I need my space’.

Obviously for the right woman I’d imagine a compromise would be found, but add in the unnatural/ un-organic ways of meeting people eg dating apps with shallow/ one dimensional profiles and half efforts on small talk and I fear I’ll be dying alone haha.

Having said that being alone has meant I’ve been able to live my own life, I’ve been able to live and work overseas without worrying about the implications on a partner, I’ve been able to live my authentic self I guess.

But sometimes when you realise how touch starved you’ve been or ‘when was the last time…’ it can be a bit depressive.

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By *haunshouse9Man
23 weeks ago

BIDEFORD

I loved being married and I miss my old life.

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By (user no longer on site)
23 weeks ago

Single by choice and happy

I would only be in relationship if that person ticked all the right boxes ..... and also was not vanilla and wanted to swing.

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By *alloSpaceboyMan
23 weeks ago

Carmarthen

I find it easier to be single but you do miss the immediate moral support you get in a marriage at times of crisis.

Aside from that, I feel liberated.

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By *alm_one4Man
23 weeks ago

RM16

Indifferent is probably the best description.

When I’m single I often think it'd be nice to share experiences with someone, when I do have a GF, I often think it’d be nice to be single and do whatever I want!

Probably not healthy, but I came to terms with it a long time ago so now just enjoy (ish) the situation I find myself in.

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By *amierebelMan
23 weeks ago

nae danger.

Single life is genuinely amazing I don’t think I could ever do a relationship again

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By *arlot o scaraWoman
23 weeks ago

Hell

Sometimes it’s lonely being single, but not quite as lonely as when I was married to the wrong person. So there’s that

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By *ittlebirdWoman
23 weeks ago

The Big Smoke

"Sometimes it’s lonely being single, but not quite as lonely as when I was married to the wrong person. So there’s that

Totally agreed

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By *cLovin2Man
23 weeks ago

Reading

"Sometimes it’s lonely being single, but not quite as lonely as when I was married to the wrong person. So there’s that

You were lonely married to the wrong person, I felt like I was in jail married to the wrong person.

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By *oodmessMan
23 weeks ago

yumsville

Women have all the boobs, being single means you have to write beggy posts to get them in your inbox, otherwise it's good as you can sit in you jimjams posting and thinking about boobs.

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By *poolGuyMan
23 weeks ago

Liverpool

"The worst thing about being single is there is no one to share your words with."

Totally agree

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