FabSwingers.com forum: Do people actually reply to messages

By *edbiker6 OP Man
31 weeks ago

Scarborough

Just curious if people actually reply back to messages here

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By *atin braTV/TS
31 weeks ago

bristol

i do if its dirty sissy slut ones hehe

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By *parkle1974Woman
31 weeks ago

Leeds

Some do, some don't.

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By (user no longer on site)
31 weeks ago

Yes lots do

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By *igboro01Man
31 weeks ago

Middlesbrough

I reply to every message x

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By *ormalfornorfolkMan
31 weeks ago

Norwich

I reply to most messages if they are not completely idiotic

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By (user no longer on site)
31 weeks ago

I reply to messages where they’ve made an effort and it’s clear they’ve read my profile

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By (user no longer on site)
31 weeks ago

As assume you're speaking on women/couples.

The answer is generally; only if they like you and want to potentially meet. Otherwise they just ignore as it's easier.

I know it's hard to get as a man and it seems rude, but many women/couples on here can literally get over a hundred messages a day..

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By *iscean_dreamMan
31 weeks ago

Llanelli

If they make an effort in message then yes, I'll talk to anyone

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By *uddle4uMan
31 weeks ago

Purbeck

I normanlly do but not always striaght away i prefer to use keyboard rather than a phone screen.

Find it a bit strange when someone message you and I reply to message but get no response back

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By *ittlemissTinselTitsCouple
31 weeks ago

Southampton

"Just curious if people actually reply back to messages here "

On the whole I do, but if it's a particularly shit message then I don't bother...

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
31 weeks ago

The Town by The Cross

"Just curious if people actually reply back to messages here "

I'm just curious too ! Nice avatar. Reminds me of a rude child or someone with a facial muscular problem. So cute.

I reply to all messages except ones that appear to come from vulgar assumptive chancers.

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By *weet LisaTV/TS
31 weeks ago

Crawley

I hardly reply at all, most messages are from out of town. I can't be arsed even to say thanks any more.

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By *ityguyMan
31 weeks ago

Lincolnshire

I always reply even if it's just a no thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
31 weeks ago

Honestly, hardly ever. But that's because I hardly ever see someone I like.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
31 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

I reply to anything that manages more than 3 words and appears to have read the profile.

Usually still with just a no thanks.

But still.

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By *razymindMan
31 weeks ago

Dublin mainly

I reply but i understand why some women dont reply..

They are bombarded by guys and is very easy to be extremely picky i suppose..

However does make life much harder for guys here...

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By (user no longer on site)
31 weeks ago

Remind me what a message is?

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By (user no longer on site)
31 weeks ago

"I reply but i understand why some women dont reply..

They are bombarded by guys and is very easy to be extremely picky i suppose..

However does make life much harder for guys here...

Extremely picky = just wanting to meet guys I'm actually attracted to.

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By *razymindMan
31 weeks ago

Dublin mainly

"I reply but i understand why some women dont reply..

They are bombarded by guys and is very easy to be extremely picky i suppose..

However does make life much harder for guys here...

Extremely picky = just wanting to meet guys I'm actually attracted to. "

Well thats just one way of putting it.. i d say guys many times will meet just whoever as it s much harder. Not saying that i will do that ..but many will

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By *lderflower_AppleWoman
31 weeks ago

Basingstoke

"I reply but i understand why some women dont reply..

They are bombarded by guys and is very easy to be extremely picky i suppose..

However does make life much harder for guys here...

Why shouldn't anyone, not just women, have a choice over who they want to meet? I'm not 'extremely picky'. I simply won't meet people I'm not interested in. And if anyone gives me the impression they've carpet bombed every woman within a 300 mile radius then why would I be interested in meeting someone who is just playing a numbers game in the hope anyone at all will reply?

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
31 weeks ago

The Town by The Cross

Stop bombarding me everyone please. Your messages are important to me and I will get back to you as soon as possible.

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By *ot - CoupleCouple
31 weeks ago

Glasgow

It depends on what you've said. If its a nice thought out message and we know you've read our profile, then yes, we will reply. But, if it's a 1 or 2 word message then no. Or, if don't have photos on your profile it will be a no.

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By (user no longer on site)
31 weeks ago

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By (user no longer on site)
31 weeks ago

"Stop bombarding me everyone please. Your messages are important to me and I will get back to you as soon as possible."

In 5-10 business days

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By *razymindMan
31 weeks ago

Dublin mainly

"I reply but i understand why some women dont reply..

They are bombarded by guys and is very easy to be extremely picky i suppose..

However does make life much harder for guys here...

Ofcourse all have a choice...but lets be realistic...if nobody speaks to you..then you become a bit desperate

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By (user no longer on site)
31 weeks ago

"I reply but i understand why some women dont reply..

They are bombarded by guys and is very easy to be extremely picky i suppose..

However does make life much harder for guys here...

Ofcourse all have a choice...but lets be realistic...if nobody speaks to you..then you become a bit desperate"

Lovely

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By (user no longer on site)
31 weeks ago

"Stop bombarding me everyone please. Your messages are important to me and I will get back to you as soon as possible.

In 5-10 business days"

Reminds me, I need to switch my out of office off.

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By *eally_RosieWoman
31 weeks ago

Scunthorpe

Used to reply to almost every message. Not any more

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By *razymindMan
31 weeks ago

Dublin mainly

"I reply but i understand why some women dont reply..

They are bombarded by guys and is very easy to be extremely picky i suppose..

However does make life much harder for guys here...

Ofcourse all have a choice...but lets be realistic...if nobody speaks to you..then you become a bit desperate

Lovely"

Indeed lovely

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
31 weeks ago

The Town by The Cross

"Stop bombarding me everyone please. Your messages are important to me and I will get back to you as soon as possible.

In 5-10 business days"

I was thinking more along the lines of 'before hell freezes over'

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
31 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

"Ofcourse all have a choice...but lets be realistic...if nobody speaks to you..then you become a bit desperate"

Well desperation is super attractive and the women will flock to you then

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By *ealitybitesMan
31 weeks ago

Belfast

I reply to every message I get.

I don't get many but it's still easy to be very picky.

I haven't sent an opening message in 4 years so I don't have to worry about whether others will reply or not.

When I did send messages I deleted them as soon as I sent them so I wouldn't be checking constantly to see if they had been read or not.

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By *razymindMan
31 weeks ago

Dublin mainly

"Ofcourse all have a choice...but lets be realistic...if nobody speaks to you..then you become a bit desperate

Well desperation is super attractive and the women will flock to you then

Ok ok ... whats wrong with everybody?

I didnt say i was desperate..we are just discussing the situation on fab

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
31 weeks ago

Leeds

Depends on the message & who's sent it.

Some I reply to, some I don't.

Mrs

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
31 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

"Ofcourse all have a choice...but lets be realistic...if nobody speaks to you..then you become a bit desperate

Well desperation is super attractive and the women will flock to you then

Ok ok ... whats wrong with everybody?

I didnt say i was desperate..we are just discussing the situation on fab"

I didn't say you were desperate.

But if the reaction to no replies is to become desperate, why would that increase the likelihood of response?

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By *razymindMan
31 weeks ago

Dublin mainly

"Ofcourse all have a choice...but lets be realistic...if nobody speaks to you..then you become a bit desperate

Well desperation is super attractive and the women will flock to you then

Ok ok ... whats wrong with everybody?

I didnt say i was desperate..we are just discussing the situation on fab

I didn't say you were desperate.

But if the reaction to no replies is to become desperate, why would that increase the likelihood of response?"

Probably will not..you are correct. But i was just mentioning why it start to become desperate... many men dont have chance to meet women very easily

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
31 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

"Probably will not..you are correct. But i was just mentioning why it start to become desperate... many men dont have chance to meet women very easily"

Easily.

As if it's easy to find someone actually attractive and compatible as a woman here.

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By *ivemealadybonerWoman
31 weeks ago

somewhere

I do if they spark my interest, usually I don't though, I more often reply to people when I go for my usual old lady trip to the bathroom at 3am, when someone asks me if I'm horny...yeah sure, pop round lol.

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By *orphia2003Woman
31 weeks ago

Tonypandy.

Usually I respond.

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By *alandNitaCouple
31 weeks ago

Scunthorpe

"Just curious if people actually reply back to messages here "

We always reply to messages, but totally understand that people have the right to NOT reply. If there's no response, we know they're not interested.

Cal

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By *orksRockerMan
31 weeks ago

Bradford

No one ever 'Has' to ... Manage you're expectations OP.

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By *ilyandronCouple
31 weeks ago

Bristol

Only if lily wants to fuck them.

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By *ubFTMTV/TS
31 weeks ago

Swindon

Yes if people put the effort in. Stupid 4 word messages or dick pics off the bat are deleted or answered with sarcasm and then deleted

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By *razymindMan
31 weeks ago

Dublin mainly

"Usually I respond."

I think if someone doesnt get crazy amount of messages ..then it s polite to answer with a polite no thank you..ans even then if needed well block the guy..

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By *ellhungvweMan
31 weeks ago

Cheltenham

Yes they do.

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By (user no longer on site)
31 weeks ago

"I do if they spark my interest, usually I don't though, I more often reply to people when I go for my usual old lady trip to the bathroom at 3am, when someone asks me if I'm horny...yeah sure, pop round lol."

Hang on, I haven't seen you in the bathroom at my 3.00am insomnia induced trip!

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
31 weeks ago

Wherever

I’ll reply when I could be potentially interested. Otherwise I delete.

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By *ivemealadybonerWoman
31 weeks ago

somewhere

Hang on, I haven't seen you in the bathroom at my 3.00am insomnia induced trip!"

My bad, must do better lol

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By *orphia2003Woman
31 weeks ago

Tonypandy.

"Usually I respond.

I think if someone doesnt get crazy amount of messages ..then it s polite to answer with a polite no thank you..ans even then if needed well block the guy.."

Of course that depends on whether the initial message deserves a polite reply. Sometimes an instant block is far more appropriate.

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By (user no longer on site)
31 weeks ago

"Usually I respond.

I think if someone doesnt get crazy amount of messages ..then it s polite to answer with a polite no thank you..ans even then if needed well block the guy.."

As the Fab FAQs say "It's not rude not to reply"

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By (user no longer on site)
31 weeks ago

Hang on, I haven't seen you in the bathroom at my 3.00am insomnia induced trip!

My bad, must do better lol"

I also take exception to the"old lady"!! Honestly, the youth of today (mere spring chicken!)

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By *issy4kinkTV/TS
31 weeks ago

Leeds

I try to reply to most people, but there's only so many times I can receive "hi, how are you" each day.

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By *illie fitMan
31 weeks ago

Bournemouth

I’m finding I’m inundated with messages women sending me tit pictures and asking “fancy a fuck”

It’s getting a bit overwhelming

I’ll try to reply to you all

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By *elloWoman
31 weeks ago

alpha centauri

"Just curious if people actually reply back to messages here "

I reply to some, but not even half of what I get , it's not possible to reply to that many. Especially when each 'thank you but no thanks ' generates a further 3 or 4 messages then nah sod that, I didn't ask the person to message me in the first place so why should I have to respond.

1 I got a couple of hours ago was literally 'X' why and how should I have responded to a single letter of the alphabet?

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By (user no longer on site)
31 weeks ago

I reply to 95% and of those 99% are a polite no thanks.

The 5% I don't reply to don't warrant a response.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
31 weeks ago

Reading

I replied to 2 today so yes

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By (user no longer on site)
31 weeks ago

"Just curious if people actually reply back to messages here

1 I got a couple of hours ago was literally 'X' why and how should I have responded to a single letter of the alphabet? "

We get a few of them. I wonder if thay has ever worked for them.

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By (user no longer on site)
31 weeks ago

"Just curious if people actually reply back to messages here

1 I got a couple of hours ago was literally 'X' why and how should I have responded to a single letter of the alphabet? "

With just a 'Y'

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By *oozleMan
31 weeks ago

high wycombe

It depends on the person who gets the message, even if you write what you believe is the kindest message and nicest, sometimes you won’t get a reply.

This could be because of many reasons, I’m sure a lot of women and couples get loads of messages so purely the numbers could get in the way, the profile you have also plays a big part!

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By *ambertMan
31 weeks ago

Cheltenham

Nope. Replying is a myth perpetuated by big internet to sell more data plans

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By (user no longer on site)
31 weeks ago

I reply if the sender is someone I would maybe meet

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By *r TriomanMan
31 weeks ago

Chippenham Malmesbury area

I do so yes OP, people reply to messages.

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By *eyond PurityCouple
31 weeks ago

Lincolnshire

We look at a profile before opening a message - we know from that whether it’s wise or worth opening the message.

When you send a message you are effectively saying ‘come and look at me’ - so it would be wise to have a good profile as well as a good first message.

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By *isstinseltoesWoman
31 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

Yes if its a decent message or I like their profile.

If they've sent a one liner or not read my profile, no.

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
31 weeks ago

chichester

I tend to only bother replying if I find the profile attractive in some fashion

sometimes I get surgery questions messages so I will reply to those though

otherwise I just ignore them

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By *luebell888Woman
31 weeks ago

Glasgowish

"Just curious if people actually reply back to messages

here "

Me. I replied to you 3 weeks ago.

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By *ezoMan
31 weeks ago

The Kingdom

"Just curious if people actually reply back to messages here "

I do, while I understand that not everyone will and that is their choice. Myself I have had about half replied to.

But like some have said, most people seem to not even read the profile of who they are messaging. It is a bit awkward to reply.

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By *inkyandthebrain2023Couple
31 weeks ago

Cheshire

We do reply if the message or profile grabs our attention.

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
31 weeks ago

A den in the Glen

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By *glyBettyTV/TS
31 weeks ago

About 3 feet away from the fence

I do, but only the ones that have demonstrated that they've bothered to read my profile.

About half the messages I get don't even meet this requirement

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By *riving_Home_For_MimiWoman
31 weeks ago

Hampshire/Dorset

Only if I think the other person is attractive and we're compatible

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By *rangarCouple
31 weeks ago

Bromsgrove

I reply to the ones that seem to have e shown an interest in us and our profile but so many are just one word or an obvious cut & paste.

I also get a bit fed up when people ask questions or for adevice which I’m fine with and I spend time posting a reply only to find I hear nothing again or the message isn’t even read.

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By *mmaleiaWoman
31 weeks ago

Trowbridge

Yes, to people I find hot or interesting

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By *obandruthCouple
31 weeks ago

wolverhampton

Simple answer yes.

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By *loria JamesTV/TS
31 weeks ago

Durham

I reply to every polite message I get, I don't reply to "fancy a fuck" or "you free".

If a guy can't put any effort into arranging a meet I always think the meet will be poor to x

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By *ondonMagicCouple
31 weeks ago

Durham

Hmmmm

I’ve just checked and we reply to ALL messages we get, even if it’s with a “no Thankyou”

If we’ve missed one plz resend and we will reply

Magic x

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By *hatsWhatCoupleCouple
31 weeks ago

Northampton

No one is owed a reply. In the same way we weren’t owed a message in the first place

If someone has read our profile and made an effort we will always reply

If they haven’t we won’t.

The ratio of delete no reply yesterday versus reply was around 90% and we had a lot of messages (new video)

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By *rettCoolMan
31 weeks ago

Dunfermline

No wonder folk just leave a short message .. nothing worse or more frustrating when u put the effort in on a long message and the recipient just deletes it .. mmmh

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By *rangarCouple
31 weeks ago

Bromsgrove

"No wonder folk just leave a short message .. nothing worse or more frustrating when u put the effort in on a long message and the recipient just deletes it .. mmmh "

I find it depends on the message…We read them all but some of the long ones are clearly cut & paste with no reference to reading our profile….others are short but have clearly read what we want.

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By *ulie.your. bottom. slutTV/TS
31 weeks ago

Glasgow

"No wonder folk just leave a short message .. nothing worse or more frustrating when u put the effort in on a long message and the recipient just deletes it .. mmmh "

I will generally reply to a person, if the sender seems to have a genuine interest in me, even if they are not my type.

I will even reply to a hi or how are you. It when the first message or second is you free today or when you free etc. I just ignore.

Don't know the mindset of people like that. They seem to think everyone is desperate to jump into bed with anyone. No effort to see if you are compatible or anything.

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By *ansoffateMan
31 weeks ago

Sagittarius A

"Just curious if people actually reply back to messages here

I'm just curious too ! Nice avatar. Reminds me of a rude child or someone with a facial muscular problem. So cute.

I reply to all messages except ones that appear to come from vulgar assumptive chancers. "

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By *TG3Man
31 weeks ago

Dorchester

Many do if you write a great message, sometimes they don't when the message demands get greater then your message goes to message heaven

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By *all_Dark_DirtyMan
31 weeks ago

all over

Send the right message to the right person and they will reply, copy and paste messages are easy to spot a mile away.

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By *TG3Man
31 weeks ago

Dorchester

"Send the right message to the right person and they will reply, copy and paste messages are easy to spot a mile away."
how?

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By *ulie.your. bottom. slutTV/TS
31 weeks ago

Glasgow

"Send the right message to the right person and they will reply, copy and paste messages are easy to spot a mile away."

Its amazing how many guys message the same opening message again and again. I have one guy who messages the same message every month wanting to meet in car. Even though, after declining the offer on first message, I've ignored every message.

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By *hatsWhatCoupleCouple
31 weeks ago

Northampton

"Send the right message to the right person and they will reply, copy and paste messages are easy to spot a mile away.

I don’t think the previous messages show when the sender does this. We always replay which should bring historic messages back into their inbox.

If it’s a load of cut and paste we then block

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By *yzykMan
31 weeks ago

Stirlingshire

"No wonder folk just leave a short message .. nothing worse or more frustrating when u put the effort in on a long message and the recipient just deletes it .. mmmh "

This

Never ever sent a short message or a cut n paste job, usually always deleted unopened

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By *ulie.your. bottom. slutTV/TS
31 weeks ago

Glasgow

"Send the right message to the right person and they will reply, copy and paste messages are easy to spot a mile away.

I don’t think the previous messages show when the sender does this. We always replay which should bring historic messages back into their inbox.

If it’s a load of cut and paste we then block "

The previous messages will show unless they deleted the thread. But I think they just see your profile and hit message and paste. In which case they aren't aware of previous messages.

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By *estman for the jobMan
31 weeks ago

Lincolnshire

It's hard to get replies lately but every now and then someone restored your faith on here

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By *amesBeelzebubMan
31 weeks ago

norwich

"I reply to messages where they’ve made an effort and it’s clear they’ve read my profile "

And what a beautiful profile it is. Alas I'm obviously out of your preferences

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By *aribbean King 1985Man
31 weeks ago

South West London

People only reply to messages to someone they actually may be interested in

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By *amesBeelzebubMan
31 weeks ago

norwich

I usually get replies to be fair..

Replies are more likely if personalised,polite, funny and have a photo.

If I don't get a reply i presume I'm not their type or I got lost in the 200 other similar messages they received

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By *nnocentOneWoman
31 weeks ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

"I reply to messages where they’ve made an effort and it’s clear they’ve read my profile "

THIS!

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By (user no longer on site)
31 weeks ago

I'd say i'm gettin a 20% return rate but my patter is bad

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By *ight_owl.Man
31 weeks ago

Essex

I’ll reply if they say more than “Hi” or if the message appears that they have more than a single brain cell

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By *ggdrasil66Man
31 weeks ago

Saltdean

Never!

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By *ex HolesMan
31 weeks ago

Up North

To save being disappointed I’d recommend not sending any messages

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By (user no longer on site)
31 weeks ago

"Just curious if people actually reply back to messages here "

Yeah, we do.

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By *partharmonyCouple
31 weeks ago

Ruislip

"Just curious if people actually reply back to messages here "

We certainly do but only to messages that are worth responding to. Most are dire.

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By *erryspringerMan
31 weeks ago

Glasgow

Am happy if the just read my message, never. Mind a reply

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By *ourDiscreetDILFMan
31 weeks ago

Village outside Norwich

The majority won't reply but they get hundreds of messages a day so while they may start by replying even to say no they soon loss the will to continue.

I'm always grateful when anyone messages/ replies even if to say no.

I do sometimes wish my inbox was full.

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By *naswingdressWoman
31 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

Yes, if it's a decent message from someone I'm interested in.

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By *omKsubSMan
31 weeks ago

Newton

"Just curious if people actually reply back to messages here "

Depends on the message.

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By *lint-EverhardMan
31 weeks ago

Perpignan and cap

I do but it seems like I shouldn't have, who knew?

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By *obin444Man
31 weeks ago

Windsor

Plenty seem to

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By *weet and SpiceCouple
31 weeks ago

Around the Midlands

We try to, especially if some thought has going into the message rather than an obvious copy and paste

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By *d4fun73Man
31 weeks ago

Shipley

Must be Friday! Stupid question of the day, although it's early yet

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By *elloWoman
31 weeks ago

alpha centauri

"I’ll reply if they say more than “Hi” or if the message appears that they have more than a single brain cell

What !! I've got to have more than 1 brain cell

But I've got boobies ( . ) ( . )

Men on here are such a tease with their unattainable preferences

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By *impcuckMan
31 weeks ago

edge of taunton

nobody is owed a reply

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
31 weeks ago

Central

Yes. But not generally to decline interest

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By (user no longer on site)
31 weeks ago

"nobody is owed a reply"

Who is this Nobody, and why is he owed a reply?

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By *toC Thats MeWoman
31 weeks ago

Sheffield

Rarely for me!

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By *nnandElleCouple
31 weeks ago

Brackley

We do, if it peaks our interest and with a face pic.

We now delete straight off the "hi how's u" messages from blank profiles.

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By *xiled BikerMan
31 weeks ago

Beverley

Well once the shock of receiving a message passes, then always!

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By *winging_couple300Couple
31 weeks ago

Doncaster

Always, even just to say no thank you

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By *2000ManMan
31 weeks ago

Worthing

Men usually do. For me it has to be more than "hi" or "_ello".

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By *ulie.your. bottom. slutTV/TS
31 weeks ago

Glasgow

"Men usually do. For me it has to be more than "hi" or "_ello"."

I don't mind replying to a hi or _ello as a opening message. After all we open a normal conversation like this.

It's when the conversation afterwards you discover they only know 3 sentences.

" How you"

"Am horny "

"You free" or "When you free"

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By (user no longer on site)
31 weeks ago

Had my first reply yesterday. But due to no verification It was a hard no but to each their own . No grudges . I did thank them for replying and saying no sorry . To get a meet people want verification . To get verification you need to meet . It's catch 22 ....

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By *rBobbMan
31 weeks ago

Birmingham

Yes. Patients is key.

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
31 weeks ago

Staffordshire

Some do, some don’t.

We reply if we’re interested and accept the same treatment when we send messages.

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By *ot to giggleWoman
31 weeks ago

Coventry

i try to reply to all but so many are a nuisance if you say no thanks

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By *uffnmuffCouple
31 weeks ago

London

I try to reply to messages but it might take me a week to get back to you x

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By *amhorniestMan
31 weeks ago

Surrey

"Some do, some don't."

Can't say fairer than that

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By *inAndTonic21Couple
31 weeks ago

Merseyside

I try to reply to all messages as wouldn’t just ignore someone in real life -can be time consuming but always think you don’t know what people are going though so try to be polite!

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By *ot to giggleWoman
31 weeks ago

Coventry

"I try to reply to all messages as wouldn’t just ignore someone in real life -can be time consuming but always think you don’t know what people are going though so try to be polite!

i totally agree with you here - takes time and sometimes i just dont have the time to do it -

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By *inAndTonic21Couple
31 weeks ago

Merseyside

"I try to reply to all messages as wouldn’t just ignore someone in real life -can be time consuming but always think you don’t know what people are going though so try to be polite!

i totally agree with you here - takes time and sometimes i just dont have the time to do it -"

Exactly - can only try to be a good human

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By *racknell_GuyMan
31 weeks ago

Bracknell

"Just curious if people actually reply back to messages here "

I do yea, but then I'm only getting one or two a week. If I were getting 100's a day I probably wouldn't be bothering with every single one.

I would at least delete them though. Not just leave them on read. Something I brought up in a separate forum thread.

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By *andy CanesWoman
31 weeks ago

candy cane lane

If it’s anything about what my profile says I’m looking for yes if not no

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By *ustAnotherMan
31 weeks ago

wherever I may roam

To some people yes? To you? Clearly not

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By (user no longer on site)
31 weeks ago

"Just curious if people actually reply back to messages here "

Some girls do, some girls don't, some girls...

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By *edbiker6 OP Man
30 weeks ago

Scarborough

"I reply to anything that manages more than 3 words and appears to have read the profile.

Usually still with just a no thanks.

But still."
thank you that is what I would personally do as if someone has taken their time to message I would feel ignorant even if it is to say no thank you.

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By *anJenny 181Couple
30 weeks ago

Preston

When we first started fab we would reply to everyone, our mantra was you never know what people are going through & enjoyed being nice and kind to people.

But after you have been shit on a few times & 90% of the people who message you hit your published red flags it's time to start being more selective to whom you reply back to.

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By (user no longer on site)
30 weeks ago

Not a lot reply to mine but my online patter is abysmal so fair play & i'm greatfull to those who do reply

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By *edbiker6 OP Man
30 weeks ago

Scarborough

"i try to reply to all but so many are a nuisance if you say no thanks"
if I do get a response saying no thank you I respect that and don’t try and message again as for me it’s not only disrespectful but also implies you are desperate. Thank you for your comment

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By *sleWightCoupleCouple
30 weeks ago

Ryde

We reply to ones with a degree of sincerity and politeness. When you get ones which consist of the words:

"Suk mi kok"

...then we tend not to bother. And yes, we've had that message a few times now.

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By *ullyMan
30 weeks ago

Near Clacton

No!

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By *ixieAndHerKingCouple
30 weeks ago

Debauchery

We do, mostly. Although it’s not the answer people usually want.

Hades

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By *ittlebirdWoman
30 weeks ago

The Big Smoke

"We do, mostly. Although it’s not the answer people usually want.

Hades

You didn’t reply to mine… meanie

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By *4bimMan
30 weeks ago

Farnborough Hampshire

Yes, had some replies today.

Always nice to get them and they stand out as they have taken time to do so

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By *ixieAndHerKingCouple
30 weeks ago

Debauchery

"We do, mostly. Although it’s not the answer people usually want.

Hades

You didn’t reply to mine… meanie

What? When? You’re always top of our reply list.. do I need to take someone out for a thrashing?

Hades

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By *riel13Woman
30 weeks ago

Northampton

I don't

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