FabSwingers.com forum: Condom’s or no condom’s ?

By (user no longer on site) OP
31 weeks ago

What’s better and feels rite ??

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By *rFoxAndXenoCouple
31 weeks ago

Weymouth

Have enjoyed the sensation of condoms in the past, different but nice!

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By *riving_Home_For_MimiWoman
31 weeks ago

Hampshire/Dorset

Safe sex every time, you don't want to catch anything!

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
31 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

It feels better without.

But I'm not putting my partners at extra risk for the sake of a slight increase in enjoyment when it still feels fucking good with

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
31 weeks ago

little house on the praire

condoms

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By *avexxMan
31 weeks ago

cheshire

"Safe sex every time, you don't want to catch anything!"
,, this

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By *oastal1968Man
31 weeks ago

London

"It feels better without.

But I'm not putting my partners at extra risk for the sake of a slight increase in enjoyment when it still feels fucking good with

This 100%

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By (user no longer on site)
31 weeks ago

Safe sex is best

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By (user no longer on site)
31 weeks ago

No condoms and choose responsible partners wisely.

Std risks are actually surprisingly low and there's no fun in life without some risk.

Last time I tried to use a condom I lost my erection and called it a day.

Ghastly things.

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By *offiaCoolWoman
31 weeks ago

Kidsgrove

"No condoms and choose responsible partners wisely.

Std risks are actually surprisingly low and there's no fun in life without some risk.

Last time I tried to use a condom I lost my erection and called it a day.

Ghastly things.

chlamydia diagnoses (all ages) increased 24.3% from 160,279 diagnoses in 2021 to 199,233 in 2022.

gonorrhoea diagnoses increased to 82,592 diagnoses in 2022, an increase of 50.3% compared to 2021 (54,961)

25 Oct 2023

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By (user no longer on site)
31 weeks ago

Both easily treated with antibiotics.

Nothing to be afraid of.

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By (user no longer on site)
31 weeks ago

Some info..

There are only 4 STDs that are incurable. HIV, HPV, hep B and herpes.

Everything else is a treatable minor thing these days.

So, hep B, I'm vaccinated so no worries.

HPV, not really an issue for men.

HIV, the risk is overblown. Did you know that the risk of getting hiv through receptive vaginal intercourse with a hiv positive person is only 0.08%? Statistically, you have to backback a hiv positive guy 1250 times to ensure you catch it..

Also, it's not the death sentence it once was and with medication you'll live a normal life.

Also, you can always take prep to almost entirely eliminate the risk.

Third also, hiv can still be caught through oral sex and very, very few people are insisting on protection for oral.

The only std that truly scares me is herpes. I'm terrified of it. I wouldn't go near anyone who even has a coldsore.

And with that, condoms offer relatively little protection anyway..

So yeah. As long as you're not indiscriminately shagging anything that moves, you should be ok.

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By *ickie76XXXMan
31 weeks ago

dartford

"Some info..

There are only 4 STDs that are incurable. HIV, HPV, hep B and herpes.

Everything else is a treatable minor thing these days.

So, hep B, I'm vaccinated so no worries.

HPV, not really an issue for men.

Also, it's not the death sentence it once was and with medication you'll live a normal life.

Also, you can always take prep to almost entirely eliminate the risk.

Third also, hiv can still be caught through oral sex and very, very few people are insisting on protection for oral.

The only std that truly scares me is herpes. I'm terrified of it. I wouldn't go near anyone who even has a coldsore.

And with that, condoms offer relatively little protection anyway..

So yeah. As long as you're not indiscriminately shagging anything that moves, you should be ok. "

Very informative answer there. Fair play to you

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By *nglo-Indian-DelightCouple
31 weeks ago

Worcestershire

I prefer no condom so penetrative sex is only ever with my wife. Not prepared to take risks.

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By *ucka39Man
31 weeks ago

Newcastle

Ribbed condoms

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By *amish MacBethMan
31 weeks ago

Southend

No condom is like the first time you had melted cheese instead of from the fridge

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By (user no longer on site)
31 weeks ago

Also, you have a 1 in 93 odds of dying in a car crash. Yet most of us do it every day without fear.

The odds of getting your life seriously impacted by an std are pretty negligible.

The leading cause of preventable death of heart disease, yet obese people are worried about condoms.

Make it make sense..

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By *mpishMan
31 weeks ago

Lincoln

Condoms every time.

Also can last a lot longer in them I find

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By *razymindMan
31 weeks ago

Dublin mainly

No condom for anal..but with someone i know is safe

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By *naswingdressWoman
31 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

It makes almost no difference to me, so wrap it up please

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By *naswingdressWoman
31 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Also, you have a 1 in 93 odds of dying in a car crash. Yet most of us do it every day without fear.

The odds of getting your life seriously impacted by an std are pretty negligible.

The leading cause of preventable death of heart disease, yet obese people are worried about condoms.

Make it make sense.. "

What you're saying is like saying "you've got a one in two chance of developing cancer, so I'm not going to bother looking before I cross the road or play in traffic.".

Why take risks that can be avoided?

(And you do you, I'm not telling you what to do, but that's how it makes sense. You mitigate for risk where you can, even where the risk is low)

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By *rmainman10Man
31 weeks ago

Portsmouth

For a new meet and spontaneous = condom

Regular and someone who is safe and comfortable= no condom

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By (user no longer on site)
31 weeks ago

"Also, you have a 1 in 93 odds of dying in a car crash. Yet most of us do it every day without fear.

The odds of getting your life seriously impacted by an std are pretty negligible.

The leading cause of preventable death of heart disease, yet obese people are worried about condoms.

Make it make sense..

What you're saying is like saying "you've got a one in two chance of developing cancer, so I'm not going to bother looking before I cross the road or play in traffic.".

Why take risks that can be avoided?

(And you do you, I'm not telling you what to do, but that's how it makes sense. You mitigate for risk where you can, even where the risk is low)"

I disagree.

I regularly take risks in the name of fun. Skydiving, bungee jumping, all extreme sports etc. flying on a plane for a holiday...

All avoidable risks. But life is about having fun and enjoying it, and sometimes those fun things involve risk.

Of all the risks I take on a regular basis, unprotected sex with a decently vetted person is probably the safest one.

And the reward is more than worth it for me. Sex is one of life's greatest pleases and it's free. Condoms just suck all of the joy out of it for me..

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By *naswingdressWoman
31 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Also, you have a 1 in 93 odds of dying in a car crash. Yet most of us do it every day without fear.

The odds of getting your life seriously impacted by an std are pretty negligible.

The leading cause of preventable death of heart disease, yet obese people are worried about condoms.

Make it make sense..

What you're saying is like saying "you've got a one in two chance of developing cancer, so I'm not going to bother looking before I cross the road or play in traffic.".

Why take risks that can be avoided?

(And you do you, I'm not telling you what to do, but that's how it makes sense. You mitigate for risk where you can, even where the risk is low)

I disagree.

I regularly take risks in the name of fun. Skydiving, bungee jumping, all extreme sports etc. flying on a plane for a holiday...

All avoidable risks. But life is about having fun and enjoying it, and sometimes those fun things involve risk.

Of all the risks I take on a regular basis, unprotected sex with a decently vetted person is probably the safest one.

And the reward is more than worth it for me. Sex is one of life's greatest pleases and it's free. Condoms just suck all of the joy out of it for me.."

Ok. I wasn't trying to convince you. I was trying to explain the rationale.

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By (user no longer on site)
31 weeks ago

And I smoke so I'm not exactly scared of cancer either.

I'm already the second oldest person in my father's traceable lineage. I'm doing ok

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By *cotty_01ukMan
31 weeks ago

birmingham

Just go with the flow x

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By *razymindMan
31 weeks ago

Dublin mainly

"Also, you have a 1 in 93 odds of dying in a car crash. Yet most of us do it every day without fear.

The odds of getting your life seriously impacted by an std are pretty negligible.

The leading cause of preventable death of heart disease, yet obese people are worried about condoms.

Make it make sense..

What you're saying is like saying "you've got a one in two chance of developing cancer, so I'm not going to bother looking before I cross the road or play in traffic.".

Why take risks that can be avoided?

(And you do you, I'm not telling you what to do, but that's how it makes sense. You mitigate for risk where you can, even where the risk is low)

I disagree.

I regularly take risks in the name of fun. Skydiving, bungee jumping, all extreme sports etc. flying on a plane for a holiday...

All avoidable risks. But life is about having fun and enjoying it, and sometimes those fun things involve risk.

Of all the risks I take on a regular basis, unprotected sex with a decently vetted person is probably the safest one.

And the reward is more than worth it for me. Sex is one of life's greatest pleases and it's free. Condoms just suck all of the joy out of it for me..

Ok. I wasn't trying to convince you. I was trying to explain the rationale."

Definitelly we have to be careful...

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By *edbiker6Man
31 weeks ago

Scarborough

"Safe sex every time, you don't want to catch anything!"
absolutely agree 100%

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By (user no longer on site)
31 weeks ago

If it’s clubs or saunas then condom if it’s a one off private meet condom

If it’s a long term fb or fbw that can provide test results ever couple off weeks then no condom

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By *illDoXXXMan
31 weeks ago

Preston

Fantasy always bare

Reality mostly covered

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By (user no longer on site)
31 weeks ago

"Also, you have a 1 in 93 odds of dying in a car crash. Yet most of us do it every day without fear.

The odds of getting your life seriously impacted by an std are pretty negligible.

The leading cause of preventable death of heart disease, yet obese people are worried about condoms.

Make it make sense..

What you're saying is like saying "you've got a one in two chance of developing cancer, so I'm not going to bother looking before I cross the road or play in traffic.".

Why take risks that can be avoided?

(And you do you, I'm not telling you what to do, but that's how it makes sense. You mitigate for risk where you can, even where the risk is low)

I disagree.

I regularly take risks in the name of fun. Skydiving, bungee jumping, all extreme sports etc. flying on a plane for a holiday...

All avoidable risks. But life is about having fun and enjoying it, and sometimes those fun things involve risk.

Of all the risks I take on a regular basis, unprotected sex with a decently vetted person is probably the safest one.

And the reward is more than worth it for me. Sex is one of life's greatest pleases and it's free. Condoms just suck all of the joy out of it for me..

Ok. I wasn't trying to convince you. I was trying to explain the rationale."

And I appreciate your input. I was just saying why I think it's questionable rationale.

I'm ok trading a mild risk for a pleasure. But I'm the kind of guy who chooses a bacon sandwich over a bowl of muesli. That little risk is worth it for the large amount of extra taste, y'know..

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By *d4funtimesMan
31 weeks ago

Cambridge

Only with special safe friends

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By *partan69Man
31 weeks ago

hyde

Always safety first,

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By *-jonMan
31 weeks ago

London

9 9 9!

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By *ivemealadybonerWoman
31 weeks ago

somewhere

I mean without obviously but only with my husband, anyone else, with condoms

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By *elboy1978Man
31 weeks ago

Fellgate

Always Condoms depending on the situation would consider bareback

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By *iss DevilWoman
31 weeks ago

Bedford

With partner or long-term FWB- bareback. Anyone random, always condoms (though I usually prefer no full penetration with random people).

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
31 weeks ago

chichester

obviously feels better without but safety etc so people use what they feel comfortable with

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By (user no longer on site)
31 weeks ago

Hubby and long term trusted person, bareback. Anyone else condoms always.

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