FabSwingers.com forum: Planner or spontaneous?

By *wist my nipples OP Couple
41 weeks ago

North East Scotland, mostly

Which one are you? What are the pros and cons?

Mrs TMN x

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By *ohn.Wick.Man
41 weeks ago

Excommunicdo.

Spontaneously planned

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By *wist my nipples OP Couple
41 weeks ago

North East Scotland, mostly

"Spontaneously planned"

Please elaborate for extra marks.

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By *mmaleiaWoman
41 weeks ago

Trowbridge

Planned spontaneously

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

Well that depends on what’s it intalls and who with

For instance with a woman who only wants me to top it can spontaneous if they like

If it’s a guy or woman or couple who want me to bottom then it’s always got to be Planned

So there isn’t any accident or anything like that

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By *ohn.Wick.Man
41 weeks ago

Excommunicdo.

"Spontaneously planned

Please elaborate for extra marks."

I’ll think about it a while (planned) then send a FaF? (Spontaneous)

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By *avid 50Man
41 weeks ago

kendal

My wife would always plan sex, before the days of mobile phones she would ring me from her office telling me she will be home from work early and she wanted sex before the children came home . Occasionally she would ring me up wanted me to go to her office She knew there would be nobody in the office that day so she wore a skirt and blouse rather than trousers and she wanted to fulfil the fantasy of having sex in the boardroom , but I think we tried every room in the building over the years

Around the house, she was usually a jeans and jumpers girl, but I knew that if she was wearing a dress it was a sign and she wanted sex and to make sure I hadn’t misunderstood a quick feel of her bum that she was not wearing knickers insured, I was on the right track

Her planning sex made life so much easier

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By *SCouple81Couple
41 weeks ago

Between Edinburgh and Scottish Borders

It has to be planned for us.

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By *eliWoman
41 weeks ago

Spontaneous planning.

Love a good list, a thought out itinerary but with space for more spontaneity... you know the whole, "after, let's see where the night takes us" attitude? Yep, that's me.

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By *TG3Man
41 weeks ago

Dorchester

I'm spontaneous if the weather suits I'm in the van and off

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By *iscean_dreamMan
41 weeks ago

Llanelli

I always plan on spontaneously doing things

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By *ensuallover1000Man
41 weeks ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

I’m a meticulous planner in most instances.

Sex can be spontaneous however….

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By *ot to giggleWoman
41 weeks ago

Coventry

love to plan stuff but really love that cheeky spontaneous time too

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
41 weeks ago

Central

I'm not one to sit around waiting for the random sender's of 'Fuck now gawjus' messages. I plan well in advance

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By *punk n gushCouple
41 weeks ago

deal

Planned we are busy people hard to find time

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
41 weeks ago

Herts/Beds/Lomdon

I smother myself in lube and get on the northern line in rush hour. Some things need initiative

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By *TG3Man
41 weeks ago

Dorchester

"I smother myself in lube and get on the northern line in rush hour. Some things need initiative "
so if your at the back you can slide through to the front?

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
41 weeks ago

Herts/Beds/Lomdon

"I smother myself in lube and get on the northern line in rush hour. Some things need initiative so if your at the back you can slide through to the front?

Like a slinky, slippery cat. Covered in liquid silk.

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By *JcuriousCouple
41 weeks ago

Derby

"Spontaneous planning.

Love a good list, a thought out itinerary but with space for more spontaneity... you know the whole, "after, let's see where the night takes us" attitude? Yep, that's me. "

This is us for sure!

Just have to plan a date in advance as we need to arrange childcare.

Miss S x

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By *uenevereWoman
41 weeks ago

Scunthorpe

I'm very much a planner but can be spontaneous.

For me planning what to do on a trip away is as much part of the fun as going away.

I love lists

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By *oshy-JoshMan
41 weeks ago

Surrey

Very much spontaneous but idm a bit of planning. But being spontaneous is more exciting and raw and dirty which I am lol

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
41 weeks ago

Leeds

Spontaneous, I don’t like to plan, never know if you’re going to make it.

I say “ yeah fuck it, let’s go “ a lot.

The mr

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By *rBobbMan
41 weeks ago

Birmingham

A little bit of both. However if you haven't got a plan then it can't go wrong.

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

My busy life means pla ning is ideal but my preference is for spontaneous

So I pla stuff and the spontaneously can't be arsed to do it and want to do something else

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By *ell GwynnWoman
41 weeks ago

North Yorkshire

A cop-out "bit of both" answer from me too. I like to plan, it makes me happy to have a plan, but can be spontaneous on occasion. Only if I'm the one being spontaneous, though. Other people's spontaneity can piss off.

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By *rHotNottsMan
41 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham

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By *rHotNottsMan
41 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Another both….

I love the planning & build up on projects and holidays with others, researching and visualising. I’m big believer in creating things twice , first in the mind then in reality.

But I also like totally unexpected adventures alone - I’m on a flight to Tbilisi in a few hours and haven’t even booked a hotel! I’m going to land at 4:45am, head to the old town for sunrise and breakfast and just make it up until Monday night.

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By *ivemealadybonerWoman
41 weeks ago

somewhere

I wouldn't say I am a planner, I mean I research places and say "I'd like to do that" but that's as far as it goes.

Doughnut said I was a travel princess the other day, that I just turn up with no clue on anything, he carries everything and passes me what ever I need at the time (passport etc).

Which is weird give my 'tism, you would think I would plan everything to the last second and know exactly where I am going but I lost count the amount of times when my kids were small and we would call our days out "magical mystery tours" because I would insist I knew where I was going but in actual fact I never wanted to admit I didn't (before Tom Tom's were a thing) and alot of the time I'd just keep driving because I never wanted to go home, the amount of times we went to the new forest and ended up in Dorset for tea was ridiculous lol

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By *elboy1978Man
41 weeks ago

Jarrow

Any

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
41 weeks ago

Staffordshire

Spontaneous to the max.

Our only plan usually is no plan.

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By *hatKlungeEnigmaMan
41 weeks ago

St Leonards

I plan space.

And in that space, there's a lot of room for spontaneity.

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By *TG3Man
41 weeks ago

Dorchester

"I smother myself in lube and get on the northern line in rush hour. Some things need initiative so if your at the back you can slide through to the front?

Like a slinky, slippery cat. Covered in liquid silk. "
paint?

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