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People that demand as face but don't have one of themselves

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By *partan69 OP   Man
over a year ago

denton

As in - no face pic = no reply or = block

But don't have their own

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By *valanche1001Man
over a year ago

Leeds

It’s up to them at the end of the day, you aren’t compelled to send them yours either.

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By *glyBettyTV/TS
over a year ago

Not in your area


"It’s up to them at the end of the day, you aren’t compelled to send them yours either. "

Precisely this.

And even if they send you one, if you didn't ask them to send you one, you aren't obliged to return the favour.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Simply put.

They wanna see if they fancy you before deciding whether to continue the conversation.

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By *ulie.your. bottom. slutTV/TS
over a year ago

Near Glasgow


"It’s up to them at the end of the day, you aren’t compelled to send them yours either. "

While what you say is true, it comes across has entitlement. I had a message from a a guy say "why do you hide your face on pics".

The guy had no public or friends only pics. When I replied "at least I have some pics, why don't you have any at all". His reply " am shy".

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol


"It’s up to them at the end of the day, you aren’t compelled to send them yours either.

Precisely this.

And even if they send you one, if you didn't ask them to send you one, you aren't obliged to return the favour."

And precisely this too.

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By *ebauchedDeviantsPt2Couple
over a year ago

Cumbria


"As in - no face pic = no reply or = block

But don't have their own"

It’s a buyers market.

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Lots of women are inundated with messages and it's a good an easy filter op, to see if there's attraction.

Just pass them by if it's not for you.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"Simply put.

They wanna see if they fancy you before deciding whether to continue the conversation.

"

Exactly this. You can set your pic to delete once your message is read too

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By *he turned me GreyCouple
over a year ago

Warwick and Coventry


"As in - no face pic = no reply or = block

But don't have their own"

Cuz they look like a bulldog chewing a wasp

Mr

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Soho


"As in - no face pic = no reply or = block

But don't have their own"

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I don't see anything wrong with that approach. Does it irk you, OP?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Politeness says that is your don't ask for something you're not prepared to give.

Also I was brought up that it was not polite to demand things you should ask or enquire NOT demand.

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By *partan69 OP   Man
over a year ago

denton

I know some people prefer to stay anonymous due to the nature of the site

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Swanage

Some people are so private

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

A face pic via private message is totally different to expecting them to have one on a public profile.

If you don't want to send it then you aren't compatible - simple.

I want to see one early on, I don't want to waste time chatting away to say no sorry your not for me when I finally see them.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As in - no face pic = no reply or = block

But don't have their own"

And them birds that ask to buy them a drink and neve putting out! Pft.

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By *rBobbMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

I don't mind to be honest. If they are going to run for the hills, then it's better that it's early on.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

Asking for a privately sent face picture is not equal to asking for a publicly visible face.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is there a question?

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By *ohnny DeeeepMan
over a year ago

durham

Well in all fairness….

Not everybody wants to advertise to everyone who they are.

Some people get spotted from fab out and about or on other platforms and get approached outside of fab.

If I’m talking to somebody who demands a face pic but won’t send me one, that would be an issue.

But somebody hiding their face from the whole site but wanting you to send them a personal one I think is fair.

As long as they send you one in return if they are interested in talking further.

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By *stwo2023Couple
over a year ago

Worcester


"As in - no face pic = no reply or = block

But don't have their own"

I'm sure they do have a face.

Why would they send one to someone they're not interested in?

They haven't forced you to send one. You chose to.

Evie

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By *ongAndThick123Man
over a year ago

Leeds

What does my head in is people giving it the ‘ald billy big balls. Messaging saying all the things they want to do to you.

Then when you ask them for a face photo they suddenly they sh*t themselves.

Don’t jump in my inbox talking like gods gift if you don’t have the confidence to back it up.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

People can ask for whatever they want. You get to choose how you respond.

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By *umagain58Man
over a year ago

London

I used to have pictures on my profile. Sadly I took them down as found others were using them in their profiles. I still manage to meet up without a picture but fully understand this is an issue for some. Should all respect what others like to do or not.

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By *ilthycoupleabzCouple
over a year ago

Aberdeen

It is a request not a demand that you must message them.

If it bothers you, just don't message the profile. No reason to get upset by it

MrsAbz

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've seen this a few times always makes me wonder if it could be a fake account??

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By *ivemealadybonerWoman
over a year ago

somewhere

I'll be honest, when I used to ask for a face pic, 9 times out of 10 I'll forget I haven't got one on my public pics and completely forgot to send one!

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By *AYENCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire


"As in - no face pic = no reply or = block

But don't have their own"

Are you comparing sending a private face pic to having a public face pic on ones profile?

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By *ackandSarah2024Couple
over a year ago

All over


"It’s up to them at the end of the day, you aren’t compelled to send them yours either. "

Surely this is the logical answer?

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