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By (user no longer on site) OP
36 weeks ago

Has anyone noticed that regardless of all of the preferences on your profile that you will still get messages off other men trying their luck… or is it just me?

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By *ex HolesMan
36 weeks ago

Up North

You have ‘that look’ OP

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By (user no longer on site)
36 weeks ago

"Has anyone noticed that regardless of all of the preferences on your profile that you will still get messages off other men trying their luck… or is it just me?"

Nope, but I have my filters set so they can’t message. My photos seem to mainly be fabbed my other guys and 1 may 2 women tops. There’s one I’m guessing I’m on there hot list as he’s fabbed every single one of my pictures.

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By *alandNitaCouple
36 weeks ago

Scunthorpe

"Has anyone noticed that regardless of all of the preferences on your profile that you will still get messages off other men trying their luck… or is it just me?"

Single guys are blocked, so there's no messages from them. I never understand why straight single blokes don't block men

Cal

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By *ohn.Wick.Man
36 weeks ago

The Continental

Not all straight men are telling the truth here, so some guys chance their arm.

No dramas really, easy to delete and ignore.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
36 weeks ago

"You have ‘that look’ OP "
they love a man of mystery

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By (user no longer on site) OP
36 weeks ago

"Has anyone noticed that regardless of all of the preferences on your profile that you will still get messages off other men trying their luck… or is it just me?

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By *heel markMan
36 weeks ago

beside the sea

I get them daily , it's no big deal . Just delete and ignore, unless persistent then they get a block .

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By *ot to giggleWoman
36 weeks ago

Coventry

who reads profiles !

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By (user no longer on site) OP
36 weeks ago

"Has anyone noticed that regardless of all of the preferences on your profile that you will still get messages off other men trying their luck… or is it just me?

Single guys are blocked, so there's no messages from them. I never understand why straight single blokes don't block men

Cal"
in my case im open to make mates like ive had good gym advice on here with nothing weird spoken about but i get the odd message now and then

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By (user no longer on site) OP
36 weeks ago

who reads profiles !"
no one told me i was meant to dive in ive been reading some autobiographies on here

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By (user no longer on site) OP
36 weeks ago

Fair point

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By *aitonelMan
36 weeks ago

Liverpool

Men being men regardless init!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
36 weeks ago

Literally, like you see women complaining but you wouldn’t think as a man you would be able to relate to their complaints of unwanted messages i do find it funny though

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By (user no longer on site)
36 weeks ago

"Has anyone noticed that regardless of all of the preferences on your profile that you will still get messages off other men trying their luck… or is it just me?"

Not if you block single men from sending you messages!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
36 weeks ago

"Has anyone noticed that regardless of all of the preferences on your profile that you will still get messages off other men trying their luck… or is it just me?

Not if you block single men from sending you messages!"
it honestly doesn’t bother me that much plus ive had good platonic chats with some guys but every once in a while i get the odd message from the optimistic lot

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By *racknell_GuyMan
36 weeks ago

Bracknell

Yeah. You need to adjust your message settings otherwise it won't stop.

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By (user no longer on site)
36 weeks ago

"Has anyone noticed that regardless of all of the preferences on your profile that you will still get messages off other men trying their luck… or is it just me?

Not if you block single men from sending you messages! it honestly doesn’t bother me that much plus ive had good platonic chats with some guys but every once in a while i get the odd message from the optimistic lot"

the old....Want sucked off mate?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
36 weeks ago

Exactly lol, the latest icebreaker was “how dominant are you?” I wish the women were as forward as the men

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
36 weeks ago

Herts/Beds/Lomdon

Do you meet the preference of every woman you message OP?

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
36 weeks ago

Central

When people are very clear about what they want, it's often like an impermeable wall that becomes insurmountable to others, who are alien to them. Fab's site tools do the hard graft to keep the dreams alive, when the user spends the 2 or 3 minutes needed to set them up. And, of course, these laser sighted men write the crisp, crystal clear words extolling their needs, alongside what they really bring to the party. Nobody is ever left with the faintest shadow of any doubt about these Goliaths. They are giants towering above us. These giants don't hesitate to invest the 14.5 minutes needed, so that the penis blizzard never approaches. We can only applaud their gash gains.

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By *iscean_dreamMan
36 weeks ago

Llanelli

Had my filters on always so I wouldn't know

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By (user no longer on site) OP
36 weeks ago

"Do you meet the preference of every woman you message OP? "
i don’t randomly message women tbh im not gagging for it

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By (user no longer on site) OP
36 weeks ago

I applaud you for the scientific explanation… 14.5 minutes is such a specific number though haha

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
36 weeks ago

Herts/Beds/Lomdon

"Do you meet the preference of every woman you message OP? i don’t randomly message women tbh im not gagging for it"

That’s not answering the question though

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By *cflirtyMan
36 weeks ago

Hampshire

I would say 75% of my fabs are from men

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By (user no longer on site) OP
36 weeks ago

"Do you meet the preference of every woman you message OP? i don’t randomly message women tbh im not gagging for it

That’s not answering the question though "
? I don’t message women… if they want to talk i’m sure they will message me I don’t really understand what you’re looking for in this answer.

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By *rispyDuckMan
36 weeks ago

Chinese Takeaway near you

"Has anyone noticed that regardless of all of the preferences on your profile that you will still get messages off other men trying their luck… or is it just me?"

Top of page go to: Account

: Scroll down to (Message filters)

& hit block messages from men

Simples

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By (user no longer on site) OP
36 weeks ago

"I would say 75% of my fabs are from men

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you have to applaud the work ethic

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By *ros40Man
36 weeks ago

Bedford

Is it that when you see you've received a message and find it's not a reply from a woman, instead it's a cock pic or request for one

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By (user no longer on site) OP
36 weeks ago

"Has anyone noticed that regardless of all of the preferences on your profile that you will still get messages off other men trying their luck… or is it just me?

Top of page go to: Account

: Scroll down to (Message filters)

& hit block messages from men

Simples "
it honestly doesn’t bother me that much they don’t harrass me

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By (user no longer on site) OP
36 weeks ago

"Is it that when you see you've received a message and find it's not a reply from a woman, instead it's a cock pic or request for one

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in my case they want to donate blowjobs lol not had a cock request yet

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By *eroLondonMan
36 weeks ago

Mayfair

I suspect that it's just you, OP. I have no filters and my mailbox is open to all. Women usually message me.

The only men who occasionally message me are the ones from the forum, usually friends and acquaintances saying hello.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
36 weeks ago

"I suspect that it's just you, OP. I have no filters and my mailbox is open to all. Women usually message me.

The only men who occasionally message me are the ones from the forum, usually friends and acquaintances saying hello."
i must be lucky

But the latter is exactly why i wont turn filters on cause there are some genuine nice friendly people out there

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By *TG3Man
36 weeks ago

Dorchester

"You have ‘that look’ OP "
what look young fun n full of cum?

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
36 weeks ago

Staffordshire

Embrace it.

The majority of straight single male profiles wouldn’t get any mail at all otherwise.

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By *amie HantsWoman
36 weeks ago

Atlantis

"Embrace it.

The majority of straight single male profiles wouldn’t get any mail at all otherwise."

I’d embrace you

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By (user no longer on site) OP
36 weeks ago

"You have ‘that look’ OP what look young fun n full of cum?

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extra appreciation at the fact you left out dumb haha

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
36 weeks ago

Staffordshire

"Embrace it.

The majority of straight single male profiles wouldn’t get any mail at all otherwise.

I’d embrace you "

A sphincter says what?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
36 weeks ago

"Embrace it.

The majority of straight single male profiles wouldn’t get any mail at all otherwise."
i do find it funny to be fair. I really don’t see the need in blocking people who have no access to me

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By *tophickcockMan
36 weeks ago

barnstaple

"Do you meet the preference of every woman you message OP? i don’t randomly message women tbh im not gagging for it"

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By (user no longer on site) OP
36 weeks ago

"Do you meet the preference of every woman you message OP? i don’t randomly message women tbh im not gagging for it

So are you implying that men randomly message you because they are "gagging for it"?and if women message you, does that put them in the same "gagging for it" category?so people only message you because they are gaggers and for no other reason? So that doesn't say much about the message your profile sends out then"
i dont imply… i said what i said and it applies to me not anyone else. Which is why i spoke from my perspective. Id be more than happy to elaborate if you ask nicely pal

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By *urry BlokeMan
36 weeks ago

Stalybridge

Here's a thing

I'm bi

Like properly bi

I have had romantic relationships with as many men as I have women

Despite this

I NEVER message guys here listed as straight

On the flip side, there is rarely a day goes by where I don't get a message from a guy listed as straight

There are waaaay more bi men here than it might first appear

Male bi-phobia is a problem

Blokes edging their bets is also an issue

Either way OP, if you don't want blokes messaging you, just block them

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By *tophickcockMan
36 weeks ago

barnstaple

Perhaps take the attention rather as a compliment, not an annoyance, a simple and respectful "no thank you, not in my interest"will prevent repeat offenders from contacting you.

I get winks and messages from parties who deem themselves "only straight", I'm not offended, its merely another stream of being social and interactive.

If you fear and are genuinely annoyed or hateful of same sex conversation then pre apply the necessary "block options"

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By (user no longer on site) OP
36 weeks ago

"Here's a thing

I'm bi

Like properly bi

I have had romantic relationships with as many men as I have women

Despite this

I NEVER message guys here listed as straight

On the flip side, there is rarely a day goes by where I don't get a message from a guy listed as straight

There are waaaay more bi men here than it might first appear

Male bi-phobia is a problem

Blokes edging their bets is also an issue

Either way OP, if you don't want blokes messaging you, just block them

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it doesn’t bother me honestly ive had bi guys message me but after i tell them i am truly straight we’ve had good conversation. Im just not insecure about my sexuality and i dont think people should be judged for thinking with their dick if you get what i mean

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By *ucka39Man
36 weeks ago

Newcastle

Happens just deal with it, it'll pass. You'll not be the first nor last

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By (user no longer on site) OP
36 weeks ago

"Perhaps take the attention rather as a compliment, not an annoyance, a simple and respectful "no thank you, not in my interest"will prevent repeat offenders from contacting you.

I get winks and messages from parties who deem themselves "only straight", I'm not offended, its merely another stream of being social and interactive.

If you fear and are genuinely annoyed or hateful of same sex conversation then pre apply the necessary "block options""
please explain to me where i stated that i was annoyed in the simple question at the start of the thread. I have actually been advocating against blocking guys. Relax its a simple question in a forum full of simple questions hope that helps

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By *TG3Man
36 weeks ago

Dorchester

"You have ‘that look’ OP what look young fun n full of cum?

extra appreciation at the fact you left out dumb haha"
well you don't have pics lol

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
36 weeks ago

Herts/Beds/Lomdon

I never message straight guys (or anyone actually) but pretty much every guy who messages me calls themselves straight. Funny thing is I actually like talking with actual straight straight guys about stuff..life, problems, jokes etc and that’s hard to to on here for sone reason

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By *tophickcockMan
36 weeks ago

barnstaple

"Do you meet the preference of every woman you message OP? i don’t randomly message women tbh im not gagging for it

So are you implying that men randomly message you because they are "gagging for it"?and if women message you, does that put them in the same "gagging for it" category?so people only message you because they are gaggers and for no other reason? So that doesn't say much about the message your profile sends out then i dont imply… i said what i said and it applies to me not anyone else. Which is why i spoke from my perspective. Id be more than happy to elaborate if you ask nicely pal"

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By (user no longer on site) OP
36 weeks ago

"I never message straight guys (or anyone actually) but pretty much every guy who messages me calls themselves straight. Funny thing is I actually like talking with actual straight straight guys about stuff..life, problems, jokes etc and that’s hard to to on here for sone reason "
i think a lot of people have a chip on their shoulder tbh ill never turn down a good convo, i enjoy a good laugh

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By (user no longer on site) OP
36 weeks ago

"Do you meet the preference of every woman you message OP? i don’t randomly message women tbh im not gagging for it

So are you implying that men randomly message you because they are "gagging for it"?and if women message you, does that put them in the same "gagging for it" category?so people only message you because they are gaggers and for no other reason? So that doesn't say much about the message your profile sends out then i dont imply… i said what i said and it applies to me not anyone else. Which is why i spoke from my perspective. Id be more than happy to elaborate if you ask nicely pal

Sorry Pal, no need to elaborate at all, I fully and totally understood that it is your perspective you were talking about, hence why I replied in direct reference to your experienced perspective and profile,."
no worries mate i get you and in terms of my profile. I am a black man who lives in the countryside, i cant really post pictures openly but i’m not afraid to show my face its more of a security thing… but the result is a shit profile lol

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
36 weeks ago

Herts/Beds/Lomdon

"Do you meet the preference of every woman you message OP? i don’t randomly message women tbh im not gagging for it

So are you implying that men randomly message you because they are "gagging for it"?and if women message you, does that put them in the same "gagging for it" category?so people only message you because they are gaggers and for no other reason? So that doesn't say much about the message your profile sends out then i dont imply… i said what i said and it applies to me not anyone else. Which is why i spoke from my perspective. Id be more than happy to elaborate if you ask nicely pal

Sorry Pal, no need to elaborate at all, I fully and totally understood that it is your perspective you were talking about, hence why I replied in direct reference to your experienced perspective and profile,. no worries mate i get you and in terms of my profile. I am a black man who lives in the countryside, i cant really post pictures openly but i’m not afraid to show my face its more of a security thing… but the result is a shit profile lol"

Why not add photos but not your face? Plenty of examples on here for some inspiration.

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By *osey WalesMan
36 weeks ago

I see it as flattery.

Many of my pics are fabbed by gay or bi guys. I'm quite happy to be considered fab by anyone.

They are not what i am looking for but its nice to know that someone appreciates the effort you have made in the picture.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
36 weeks ago

Honestly i might do, i need to work on my headless poses though I'm not quite used to that yet lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
36 weeks ago

"I see it as flattery.

Many of my pics are fabbed by gay or bi guys. I'm quite happy to be considered fab by anyone.

They are not what i am looking for but its nice to know that someone appreciates the effort you have made in the picture."
honestly i find it funny I don’t condemn them at all… as for pics i think its totally fine for someone to like a photo its not invasive

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By *ubikslongswordMan
36 weeks ago

Rubiksville

"Has anyone noticed that regardless of all of the preferences on your profile that you will still get messages off other men trying their luck… or is it just me?"

There is a filter to stop men messaging you, the problem is it stops them showing up on the "who's looked at you" as well and seeing that on 0 for many days in a row makes me feel sad, so I don't apply the filter, just so I get a couple of views a days which helps my serotonin for all of 2 seconds. Then the page loads to show me it's men

But let them look/message I'll take the compliment

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By (user no longer on site) OP
36 weeks ago

You’re a good sport as it should be. Why block them when theres no need

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