FabSwingers.com forum: Left on read.

By *racknell_Guy OP Man
31 weeks ago

Bracknell

Does getting left on read simply means they're keeping their options open? Or are they not interested?

Surely if they weren't interested they would just delete the message.

I understand the women on here get a continued bombardment of messages so won't reply to everyone but to leave someone on read rather than just delete it?

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By (user no longer on site)
31 weeks ago

Left un read can then be followed in the future by mass delete.

I take it as not interested and a week or so later delete it from my sent items.

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
31 weeks ago

Manchester-ish

Sometimes it means I want to reply later. Sometimes it means even deleting is too much effort.

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By *mmaleiaWoman
31 weeks ago

Trowbridge

If Ive read it & not replied, I’m not going to, I usually put back to unread if I was going to reply

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By *parkle1974Woman
31 weeks ago

Leeds

Sometimes I read them with the intent to reply and then I forget.

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By *TG3Man
31 weeks ago

Dorchester

"Sometimes I read them with the intent to reply and then I forget."
lol

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
31 weeks ago

Glasgow / London

Sometimes a conversation ends. It’s okay, you can start another one.

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By *ather WickmasMan
31 weeks ago

The Continental

Best bet is to simply delete your sent items right away. You won’t have to worry about it being left, ignored, or deleted.

A reply will be a surprise that way.

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By *coobyBoobyDooWoman
31 weeks ago

M1 J22

Only smarties know the answer

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By (user no longer on site)
31 weeks ago

Sometimes I read it and forget to delete.

Sometimes I read it and think I'll reply later but then change mt mind.

Sometimes I do reply later and we swap genital pictures.

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By *eliWoman
31 weeks ago

I think left on read, unless they're important to you, means you shouldn't be looking at your sent box and should delete it as soon as the message is sent.

Why overthink a stranger OP? They don't need to live in your head rent free.

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By *rBobbMan
31 weeks ago

Birmingham

"Sometimes I read it and forget to delete.

Sometimes I read it and think I'll reply later but then change mt mind.

Sometimes I do reply later and we swap genital pictures.

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By *aitonelMan
31 weeks ago

Travelling

Don't over think it! It could mean anything.

Likely they aren't interested but too lazy to delete. But you never know, they may reply months later (true story).

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By *elloWoman
31 weeks ago

alpha centauri

Left on read means I think I might reply at some point but then I'll probably forget , so from me it's not necessarily a no.

But I would say regularly delete your sent messages because checking on there status can be frustrating and confusing. Send message, delete sent message log, if you get a response that's good, if you don't you can forget about it

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By *naswingdressWoman
31 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

For me, it means I'm thinking about it.

No sense worrying about something you can't do anything about.

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By *ou only live onceMan
31 weeks ago

London

Dunno. Guess it depends on the person reading it, the person sending it, the content, or anything else.

I'm not trying to be flippant but there is literally no single answer to that question. Best not to overthink it; people will reply when they can, if they want to.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
31 weeks ago

Central

Actions count, not words. No reply is the only important thing. Recipients of your mails will all be different, so just stick with the lack of response being what matters.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
31 weeks ago

little house on the praire

I do it as I know it annoys people

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By *esthetic21Man
31 weeks ago

Birmingham/Bristol

Someone replied to me today from 3 weeks ago

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By *ivemealadybonerWoman
31 weeks ago

somewhere

I've got 118 unread in my box, I'll probably mass delete them all soon. I have my reasons lol

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By *TG3Man
31 weeks ago

Dorchester

They are definitely thinking you're hot and maybe whittle you down to the 20 maybes, never give up

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By *ena AmourTV/TS
31 weeks ago

Chard

I mostly get one liners so don't even have to click it to read it

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By (user no longer on site)
31 weeks ago

"I do it as I know it annoys people"

Evil, I like it

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By *TG3Man
31 weeks ago

Dorchester

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By *TG3Man
31 weeks ago

Dorchester

"I've got 118 unread in my box, I'll probably mass delete them all soon. I have my reasons lol"
they all from 5 guys?

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
31 weeks ago

I don't delete messages full stop. If I haven't replied a tall, it definitely means I'm not interested!!

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By *ohnny DeeeepMan
31 weeks ago

durham

I wouldn’t even give it a second thought mate.

Women get 100s of messages a day.

Are normally looking for something specific and not just “a bang”

And have high safety concerns, so I can imagine they look for reasons to not respond to people and also just don’t have the time to waste.

Personally I’d just say shoot your shot and forget about it, if she replies she replies.

Besides, the person you message is just another person who looks attractive in a photo, along with millions of others.

You could meet and find out you don’t even click.

It’s not worth analysing honestly.

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By *ee69Man
31 weeks ago

glasgow

"I wouldn’t even give it a second thought mate.

Women get 100s of messages a day.

Are normally looking for something specific and not just “a bang”

And have high safety concerns, so I can imagine they look for reasons to not respond to people and also just don’t have the time to waste.

Personally I’d just say shoot your shot and forget about it, if she replies she replies.

Besides, the person you message is just another person who looks attractive in a photo, along with millions of others.

You could meet and find out you don’t even click.

It’s not worth analysing honestly."

Totally ?? , if a nice chat or more comes from a message it’s great but the girls get a lot a hassle on here

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By *he turned me GreyCouple
31 weeks ago

Warwick and Coventry

"Does getting left on read simply means they're keeping their options open? Or are they not interested?

Surely if they weren't interested they would just delete the message.

I understand the women on here get a continued bombardment of messages so won't reply to everyone but to leave someone on read rather than just delete it? "

Means they will get back to you in 5 fab working days...

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
31 weeks ago

Glasgow / London

I’m leaving this thread on read.

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