FabSwingers.com forum: I’ve messaged everyone

By (user no longer on site) OP
31 weeks ago

I’ll probably get battered on here for this.

Is it just me but I feel like I’ve messaged everyone I could message under your saved searches?

And now it’s just the same profiles that don’t want you talking to them.

No joy

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By *ather WickmasMan
31 weeks ago

The Continental

Probably time to say “Fab, completed it mate”, and retire your cock.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
31 weeks ago

Leeds

So someone messages me, I immediately look at their profile - if I like the pics and bio I'll reply, if I don't or there isn't anything I won't.

Messaging everyone from a blank profile ain't going to get a response.

Mrs

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By *eadinthecloudsMan
31 weeks ago

Manchester

Fab speedrun! Might be a new WR

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By *ee69Man
31 weeks ago

glasgow

"I’ll probably get battered on here for this.

Is it just me but I feel like I’ve messaged everyone I could message under your saved searches?

And now it’s just the same profiles that don’t want you talking to them.

No joy

Someone for everyone or so they say , maybe no on fab , hopefully somewhere m8 why not chill with the searches , and just have fun in the forum for a bit , see if there clubs near you too , a didn’t find the clubs near me my thing but you could try , might be good you never know

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By *naswingdressWoman
31 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

Give it a few weeks, maybe a month.

In the meantime (this is generic advice, I've not looked at your profile), spruce up your profile - appealing pictures including an avatar picture, text that gives an idea of who you are and why someone would want to meet you. Then try again.

(Persistent messages are bad, yes. But that's why I say a month. If they delete a second time, don't try again)

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By *eard and BoobsCouple
31 weeks ago

Portstewart

Op your a fib you haven't messaged every profile on the site. You need to see what makes you unique and you have to see if there's a market for your uniqueness and go from there

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By (user no longer on site)
31 weeks ago

Not sure I understand the messaging everyone attitude.

I may look at local people, but very few I message as my view tends to be "the women on here get inundated, if they are interested they can let me know, meanwhile I will stick to piddling around in the lounge".

I only message a very few people direct, and that will be cos their profiles (or status updates) have caught my attention.

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By *isstinseltoesWoman
31 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

Op, are you just messaging everyone who is nearby, with similar messages?.

That and having no pics at all won't be doing you any good.

It's better to spend more time making your profile the best it can be & messaging those you're genuinely interested in, rather than everyone because they're close by.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
31 weeks ago

Thanks everyone. Taken the plunge and put my picture up. Will see what else I can do

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
31 weeks ago

Leeds

"Thanks everyone. Taken the plunge and put my picture up. Will see what else I can do "

Good luck op, much better than a blank profile, if your uncomfortable showing your face there's always chest/clothed pics too, can I suggest a profile edit?

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site) OP
31 weeks ago

"Thanks everyone. Taken the plunge and put my picture up. Will see what else I can do

Good luck op, much better than a blank profile, if your uncomfortable showing your face there's always chest/clothed pics too, can I suggest a profile edit?

Mrs "

Yep, go ahead

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
31 weeks ago

Leeds

"Thanks everyone. Taken the plunge and put my picture up. Will see what else I can do

Good luck op, much better than a blank profile, if your uncomfortable showing your face there's always chest/clothed pics too, can I suggest a profile edit?

Mrs

Yep, go ahead "

Loose the 1st paragraph, there's nothing worse than a man moaning about not getting meets, even in a slightly positive way.

Make it positive, I wouldn't read past that if I looked.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
31 weeks ago

"Thanks everyone. Taken the plunge and put my picture up. Will see what else I can do

Good luck op, much better than a blank profile, if your uncomfortable showing your face there's always chest/clothed pics too, can I suggest a profile edit?

Mrs

Yep, go ahead "

Firstly delete "I’m quite confident no one on this app will meet me. I’ve made peace with it. So I just want to find someone I can message that might" - too negative.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
31 weeks ago

"Thanks everyone. Taken the plunge and put my picture up. Will see what else I can do

Good luck op, much better than a blank profile, if your uncomfortable showing your face there's always chest/clothed pics too, can I suggest a profile edit?

Mrs

Yep, go ahead

Loose the 1st paragraph, there's nothing worse than a man moaning about not getting meets, even in a slightly positive way.

Make it positive, I wouldn't read past that if I looked.

Mrs "

Thanks. Was more down in the dumps than moaning but I get how it can be perceived. Will change it around.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
31 weeks ago

"Thanks everyone. Taken the plunge and put my picture up. Will see what else I can do

Good luck op, much better than a blank profile, if your uncomfortable showing your face there's always chest/clothed pics too, can I suggest a profile edit?

Mrs

Yep, go ahead

Firstly delete "I’m quite confident no one on this app will meet me. I’ve made peace with it. So I just want to find someone I can message that might" - too negative."

Thanks mate. Yep it’s gone.

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By (user no longer on site)
31 weeks ago

"Fab speedrun! Might be a new WR"

Fabswingers any%

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By *ememberTheNameMan
31 weeks ago

barnsley

"I’ll probably get battered on here for this.

Is it just me but I feel like I’ve messaged everyone I could message under your saved searches?

And now it’s just the same profiles that don’t want you talking to them.

No joy

Life’s tough

Don’t moan and bitch about it

Move on

go talk to a lady at a bar

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
31 weeks ago

Leeds

"Thanks everyone. Taken the plunge and put my picture up. Will see what else I can do

Good luck op, much better than a blank profile, if your uncomfortable showing your face there's always chest/clothed pics too, can I suggest a profile edit?

Mrs

Yep, go ahead

Loose the 1st paragraph, there's nothing worse than a man moaning about not getting meets, even in a slightly positive way.

Make it positive, I wouldn't read past that if I looked.

Mrs

Thanks. Was more down in the dumps than moaning but I get how it can be perceived. Will change it around. "

Reads much better

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
31 weeks ago

Wow, I like the way you've taken aboard the positive advice and actually action it on ur profile..Good luck on ur fab adventure

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By (user no longer on site) OP
31 weeks ago

"Wow, I like the way you've taken aboard the positive advice and actually action it on ur profile..Good luck on ur fab adventure

Yep, pride before the fall and all that jazz.

Thank you

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By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan
31 weeks ago

Forget messaging and get yourself along to a fab social or a club if you haven't been already, Just go with the attitude of meeting new people and having fun, Its easier to get your personality across then chatting on fab, but don't expect sex just because you've turned up.

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By *ivemealadybonerWoman
31 weeks ago

somewhere

The scattergun approach, the "I'm not bothered what they look like, I just want the clunge".

Please tell me it was just a good old fashioned copy and paste job, not reading profiles, don't let me down OP lol.

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By *he turned me GreyCouple
31 weeks ago

Warwick and Coventry

Op fair play for listening to the advice given, and actually putting some action in, so many ask for it and don't do fook all about it....

You my friend are a rarity, good luck on your fab adventure...

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By (user no longer on site)
31 weeks ago

OP great you've taken advice on the profile. Not being able to accomodate or travel may limit your choices further.

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By *eadinthecloudsMan
31 weeks ago

Manchester

"Fab speedrun! Might be a new WR

Fabswingers any%"

Exactly

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By *electableicecreamMan
31 weeks ago

The West

I wonder if there's more to what it can offer than eating pussy?

Are you sensual, rough, Dom, sub?

What kind of women are you attracted to?

What information about you might make you stand out that isn't necessarily sexual? Details matter!

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By (user no longer on site)
31 weeks ago

"Wow, I like the way you've taken aboard the positive advice and actually action it on ur profile..Good luck on ur fab adventure

It's nice to see someone give positive advice too actually, well done fabbers

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By (user no longer on site)
31 weeks ago

"Thanks everyone. Taken the plunge and put my picture up. Will see what else I can do

Good luck op, much better than a blank profile, if your uncomfortable showing your face there's always chest/clothed pics too, can I suggest a profile edit?

Mrs

Yep, go ahead

Loose the 1st paragraph, there's nothing worse than a man moaning about not getting meets, even in a slightly positive way.

Make it positive, I wouldn't read past that if I looked.

Mrs

Thanks. Was more down in the dumps than moaning but I get how it can be perceived. Will change it around.

Reads much better

Mrs "

What a lovely person

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By *oodmessMan
31 weeks ago

yumsville

No advice but you've got to be brave putting your face on - sometimes there's just a drought. If you've re-written your profile update your status so people know about it. Look at meets section too, unless you're looking for absolute local someone might be out of your area but suited

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By (user no longer on site) OP
31 weeks ago

Hard to respond to everyone but thanks for being kind. I always start my forums with “I’ll probably get battered for this” but everyone has been nice.

I’ve taken it all on board. Had a few messages and people checking my profile out. Will see how it goes

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By (user no longer on site)
31 weeks ago

You’ve messaged EVERYONE?

That would be a full time job…..that deserves some credit….

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