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By *eecount1815 OP   Man
31 weeks ago

Tenbury Wells

I've always struggled with Women, haven't been on date now for over 12 years, I was on Tinder for 5 years and No matches.. I'm beginning to think that All Women Care about is Money..I know I definitely need a Manual.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
31 weeks ago

Reading

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
31 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

Nope. A few may but the majority don't.

Money isn't of interest to most.

I have my thoughts as to what may be the issue but as you've not asked for advice I'll keep them to myself for now.

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By *ex HolesMan
31 weeks ago

Up North

Have you tried Fabguys??

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By *eecount1815 OP   Man
31 weeks ago

Tenbury Wells

I'm Hetrosexual, thanks

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
31 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

I'd think more women are more concerned about the sort of people who think that that manosphere nonsense is anything more than nonsense.

I was born almost below working class, so technically just about anyone has a higher social standing than me by birth. I make enough to live my life the way I want and I don't need to rely on a man to provide. I'm far from alone in that

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By *eecount1815 OP   Man
31 weeks ago

Tenbury Wells

Must just be British Women then,I reckon I'm going to have to Emigrate eventually. South East Asia possibly.

I need a Manual, more advice the merrier.

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By *aribbean King 1985Man
31 weeks ago

South West London

Im afraid most (not all) women do care about money. If you as a man cant provide financially especially then they wont be interested in being with you as most women will want to be with a man that makes equal or more money then them. Its not my opinion its basic fact

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By *eecount1815 OP   Man
31 weeks ago

Tenbury Wells

Thanks for your insight, I've just always struggled. I think I'm cursed. I definitely know that British Women aren't interested.

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By *eecount1815 OP   Man
31 weeks ago

Tenbury Wells

I agree, unequivocally.

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By *eecount1815 OP   Man
31 weeks ago

Tenbury Wells

I agree, unequivocally.

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By *aitonelMan
31 weeks ago

Travelling

They are just not that in to you!

It's fairly simple to be honest.

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By *ornycougaWoman
31 weeks ago

Wherever I lay my hat

Please Some of us are have always had financial independence for men. Don't be so insulting.

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By *ornycougaWoman
31 weeks ago

Wherever I lay my hat


"I've always struggled with Women, haven't been on date now for over 12 years, I was on Tinder for 5 years and No matches.. I'm beginning to think that All Women Care about is Money..I know I definitely need a Manual."

I suspect most are turned off by your narrow requirements on body size

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
31 weeks ago

Carlisle usually


"They are just not that in to you!

It's fairly simple to be honest. "

It's okay.

He can go seamaxxing and trap some poor girl from a lower social class who thinks it's the only way she can have a good life

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By *eecount1815 OP   Man
31 weeks ago

Tenbury Wells

I realized that fact long ago brother..

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
31 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"Must just be British Women then,I reckon I'm going to have to Emigrate eventually. South East Asia possibly.

I need a Manual, more advice the merrier."

OK now you've asked.

Your profile comes across as bitter and resentful that women aren't interested in you. Why should they be? What do you have to offer them? Negativity breeds negative responses.

Quoting some BS stats found online comes across with a very Tate feel to it. Women don't want to be thrown into a group think category where they're all looking for the same thing. Nor does singling out British women read well, insinuating that women in Asia are better and more likely to be receptive to your advances.

Add the status update and you have a self fulfilling prophecy, alienating the very people you want to appeal to.

Not cool and unlikely to be successful.

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By *eecount1815 OP   Man
31 weeks ago

Tenbury Wells

Are Men not allowed to have requirements?

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By *eecount1815 OP   Man
31 weeks ago

Tenbury Wells

Duly noted.

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By *eecount1815 OP   Man
31 weeks ago

Tenbury Wells

I've Yet to receive a logical explanation off a woman regarding this issue. it's a big problem.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
31 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"Duly noted."

OP use reply+ quote.

Then it'll be obvious who you're responding to.

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By *mber and FireCouple
31 weeks ago

Carmarthenshire


"I've Yet to receive a logical explanation off a woman regarding this issue. it's a big problem."

What issue? Something you perceive does not necessarily align with fact.

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By *ehindHerEyesCouple
31 weeks ago

SomewhereOnlyWeKnow


"I've always struggled with Women, haven't been on date now for over 12 years, I was on Tinder for 5 years and No matches.. I'm beginning to think that All Women Care about is Money..I know I definitely need a Manual.

I suspect most are turned off by your narrow requirements on body size"

And general attitude about women

Tinder

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
31 weeks ago

Carlisle usually


"I've Yet to receive a logical explanation off a woman regarding this issue. it's a big problem."

You're not appealing to women.

It could be the lack of money.

It could be the lack of physical attraction.

It could be the personality.

The last two of those are as easy to fix as it is for the fat girls you don't like to make themselves more appealing to you. If you think women are only interested in money, why do you even want one

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By *aribbean King 1985Man
31 weeks ago

South West London


"Are Men not allowed to have requirements?"
Of course men can have requirements but its funny how some women have a problem with men who do

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By *eecount1815 OP   Man
31 weeks ago

Tenbury Wells

Have a good evening buddy

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By *elloWoman
31 weeks ago

alpha centauri

Wow what a profile.

I am surprised that with your negative opinions of all British women that you find it a struggle to date in Britain.

women are a crazy lot, ain't they

Have you tried popping down the local discotheque and using a wad of £50 notes as a fan, and rubbing yourself with gold bars so women can get the scent and flock to you

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By *eyond PurityCouple
31 weeks ago

Lincolnshire

You’ve been in the site 4 weeks

I can safely say from reading your profile and your responses on here, money is not the issue and never will be.

K

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By *eecount1815 OP   Man
31 weeks ago

Tenbury Wells

A recent survey found that 90 percent of women find 80 percent of Men below average in attractiveness.. Theirs alot of lonely guy's in the world.

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By *eecount1815 OP   Man
31 weeks ago

Tenbury Wells

Duly noted

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By *eecount1815 OP   Man
31 weeks ago

Tenbury Wells

No I like to think I have More style and class than that,I adore the art of conversation.. most women don't

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By *OYFBWoman
31 weeks ago

Jersey (sometimes Notts)

Hmm…I don’t know how to put this nicely, but to me, you don’t come across as a very nice person.

I’m sorry.

They say there’s someone for everyone, I hope you find happiness somehow.

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By *elloWoman
31 weeks ago

alpha centauri


"Duly noted "

If you don't click replay+quote, we won't know who you are noting

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By *eecount1815 OP   Man
31 weeks ago

Tenbury Wells

I know I thought everything is meant to be equal now between the sexes.

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By *eecount1815 OP   Man
31 weeks ago

Tenbury Wells

Have a lovely evening.

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By *mber and FireCouple
31 weeks ago

Carmarthenshire


"Duly noted

If you don't click replay+quote, we won't know who you are noting "

Immune to help it seems.

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By *eecount1815 OP   Man
31 weeks ago

Tenbury Wells

Just years of rejection, it's not good for the mind. You understand.

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By *eecount1815 OP   Man
31 weeks ago

Tenbury Wells


"Duly noted

If you don't click replay+quote, we won't know who you are noting

Immune to help it seems."

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By *eecount1815 OP   Man
31 weeks ago

Tenbury Wells

No offense intended, I'm just trying to find answers that's all.

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By *ather WickmasMan
31 weeks ago

The Continental

The answer appears to be in the attitude on display.

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By *ehindHerEyesCouple
31 weeks ago

SomewhereOnlyWeKnow

You realise some of one womans 20% may be in another woman's 80%

We're not all the same and looks and money are not the be all and end all for a lot of us, there's so much more that makes us choose whether or not to take things further.

Tinder

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By *ildo_swagginsthe3rdWoman
31 weeks ago

Wales

I'd go on a date with you but I don't meet your body size requirements.

I'm closer to a 14 than a 12.

So maybe you could get matches, but you're limiting your pool.

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By (user no longer on site)
31 weeks ago

Another look at me post me thinks

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By (user no longer on site)
31 weeks ago

Sadly it seems the problem may be deeper than FAB, tinder or any other meet apps (shrug)

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By *ittlemissTinselTitsCouple
31 weeks ago

Southampton


"Thanks for your insight, I've just always struggled. I think I'm cursed. I definitely know that British Women aren't interested. "

You know that every single British woman isn't interested??

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By *oddess NailaWoman
31 weeks ago

London & Edinburgh

If I’d seen your pictures on a dating app I would have been interested and would have happily messaged first.

I need my partner to make enough so we can enjoy our passions but I didn’t need a man to look after me.

If you’re dating profile read the same as your fab profile id have blocked you in an instant.

It’s insulting, demeaning, bitter and entitled. You then compliment yourself to inhuman standards that makes me think you’re over compensating.

I also can’t decide what’s worse that you are generalising all Asian woman based on misogynistic and frankly racist stereotypes or implying that they’d be grateful for what ever they can get and therefore more agreeable.

If you’re going to behave like an entitled incel then I’d suggest you invest in a sex doll so you can get the ‘perfect woman’ that meets your high standards that you’re unable to bring to the table yourself.

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By *eecount1815 OP   Man
31 weeks ago

Tenbury Wells

No attitude, just trying to find answers that's all.

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By *ickshawedCouple
31 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

When I first started dating my husband I had a good job and was in the middle of buying myself a house. He was unemployed and sleeping on his friends sofa. He has never earned more than me. What a man earns is not nearly as important as his personality.

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By *eecount1815 OP   Man
31 weeks ago

Tenbury Wells

That was a confidence boost, thanks

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By *eecount1815 OP   Man
31 weeks ago

Tenbury Wells

Thanks, that brings me some comfort.

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By *cottish guy 555Man
31 weeks ago

London

I'm broke.

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By *eecount1815 OP   Man
31 weeks ago

Tenbury Wells

No offense intended, I'm just trying to find some answers that's all miss, have a lovely evening.

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By *eecount1815 OP   Man
31 weeks ago

Tenbury Wells

You must be a great communicator then, fair play.

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By *weetiepie99Woman
31 weeks ago

cardiff


"That was a confidence boost, thanks "

Reply and quote reply and quote reply and quote!!

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By *cottish guy 555Man
31 weeks ago

London

Did you enjoy my profile?

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By (user no longer on site)
31 weeks ago


"I've always struggled with Women, haven't been on date now for over 12 years, I was on Tinder for 5 years and No matches.. I'm beginning to think that All Women Care about is Money..I know I definitely need a Manual."

Also reply+quote highlight whom you’re replying to

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By (user no longer on site)
31 weeks ago


"That was a confidence boost, thanks

Reply and quote reply and quote reply and quote!!"

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By *eecount1815 OP   Man
31 weeks ago

Tenbury Wells

I know us Men aren't really allowed to have any requirements anymore.

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By (user no longer on site)
31 weeks ago

OP I am sure it feels very frustrating from where you are sat. I would recommend some introspection and self reflection ... its not British women who are the problem .....

As Einstein said "if you keep doing the same thing you will keep getting the same result"

Negativity and blaming women is not going to attract a self respecting intelligent woman to you .....

Good luck.

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By *eecount1815 OP   Man
31 weeks ago

Tenbury Wells

It's a work of Art

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By *mber and FireCouple
31 weeks ago

Carmarthenshire


"I know us Men aren't really allowed to have any requirements anymore."

No, us men are. We just don't get away with being dickheads anymore.

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By (user no longer on site)
31 weeks ago


"I know us Men aren't really allowed to have any requirements anymore."

Absolute nonsense of course you can, but women don't have to give up their requirements and standards to meet yours.

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By *eecount1815 OP   Man
31 weeks ago

Tenbury Wells

I'll take you're advice into consideration. Have a lovely evening.

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By *ittlemissTinselTitsCouple
31 weeks ago

Southampton


"No offense intended, I'm just trying to find some answers that's all miss, have a lovely evening."

None taken I'm just curious as to how you could possibly know every British woman isn't interested...

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By *ea monkeyMan
31 weeks ago

Manchester (he/him)


"I've Yet to receive a logical explanation off a woman regarding this issue. it's a big problem."

It really isn’t.

I’m not rich, I don’t have a fancy car or nice things. I’m middle aged, balding and have a face that even my mother would slap. However, I have two loving partners, friends and people that I chat to regularly.

The issue isn’t other people but if you’re going to blame them for the issues with you, then there’s not much hope

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By *eecount1815 OP   Man
31 weeks ago

Tenbury Wells

I never asked them too

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By *elloWoman
31 weeks ago

alpha centauri

Maybe its not your lack of money but rather your lack of being able to follow instructions.

*******Reply and quote reply+quote *******.

This thread must win the prize for how many times this has been said yet ignored

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By *eecount1815 OP   Man
31 weeks ago

Tenbury Wells

Maybe I'm generalizing

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By *icecouple561Couple
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31 weeks ago

East Sussex


"It's a work of Art "

If you use reply and quote,bthen place your cursor outside of quote and start typing we will be able to see who you're responding to

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By *cottish guy 555Man
31 weeks ago

London

chivalrous Dictionary

Definitions from Oxford Languages

adjective

courteous and gallant, especially towards women (typically used of a man or his behaviour).

"shall I be chivalrous and offer you my coat?"

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By *ather WickmasMan
31 weeks ago

The Continental


"Maybe I'm generalizing "

Only maybe?

I’d suggest you are massively generalising.

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By *ittlemissTinselTitsCouple
31 weeks ago

Southampton


"Maybe I'm generalizing "

I would say so.. when I met my husband he barely had a pot to piss in but even if he was well off I love him for who he is rather than the size of his bank balance...

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By (user no longer on site)
31 weeks ago


"Maybe its not your lack of money but rather your lack of being able to follow instructions.

*******Reply and quote reply+quote *******.

This thread must win the prize for how many times this has been said yet ignored "

And sadly (facepalm) it shall continue to be ignored

REPLY+QUOTE FFS

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By *eecount1815 OP   Man
31 weeks ago

Tenbury Wells

I'm not a bad guy, I shouldn't of opened my mouth

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By *eecount1815 OP   Man
31 weeks ago

Tenbury Wells

I'm not a bad guy

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By *ildo_swagginsthe3rdWoman
31 weeks ago

Wales

You'll get a schooling mind!

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By *eecount1815 OP   Man
31 weeks ago

Tenbury Wells

God help me

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By *eecount1815 OP   Man
31 weeks ago

Tenbury Wells

I don't think that, it's just what the evidence suggests, it's an interesting world.

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By *ittlemissTinselTitsCouple
31 weeks ago

Southampton


"God help me "

I would take this one on the chin ...and make sure you use the reply + quote button when replying to people otherwise it causes all sorts of confusion lol

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By *eecount1815 OP   Man
31 weeks ago

Tenbury Wells


"God help me

I would take this one on the chin ...and make sure you use the reply + quote button when replying to people otherwise it causes all sorts of confusion lol"

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By *ittlemissTinselTitsCouple
31 weeks ago

Southampton


"I don't think that, it's just what the evidence suggests, it's an interesting world."

Oh and for what it's worth you're a good looking guy and I may have been interested but as a fat girl I'm not your type... which us perfectly fine

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By (user no longer on site)
31 weeks ago


"I'm not a bad guy "

Says Zangief

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By *ittlemissTinselTitsCouple
31 weeks ago

Southampton


"I'm not a bad guy

Says Zangief "

Who ??

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By *elloWoman
31 weeks ago

alpha centauri


"God help me

I would take this one on the chin ...and make sure you use the reply + quote button when replying to people otherwise it causes all sorts of confusion lol"

So you finally do reply+quote yet don't write anything. aaarrrggghhhh

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By *ehindHerEyesCouple
31 weeks ago

SomewhereOnlyWeKnow


"Maybe I'm generalizing

I would say so.. when I met my husband he barely had a pot to piss in but even if he was well off I love him for who he is rather than the size of his bank balance... "

Same for me and him, he had started a company from scratch and was far from well off, I didn't care about that, it was him I was into not his bank balance

Tinder

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By *illy IdolMan
31 weeks ago

Midlands

Ignoring all his other points, this is why men don't share their preferences on body types. You're damned if you do.

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By *reggSausageMan
31 weeks ago

derby

Good luck OP it would appear you have painted yourself into a corner, may I suggest a change of tack, yes we all have an ideal but to only focus on the ideal is missing the point and is the flight of Icarus, there is beauty everywhere, I can find hundreds of ladies on this site right now who are larger than a 12 yet will blow your mind and your socks off, I can probably name about thirty right off the bat right now without searching too and that is the challenge, you have to convince them of your worthiness l, that’s it, it’s not money it’s is this man worth my time, if you think it’s the other way round then shame on you for calling yourself a gentleman, present yourself as a worthy suitor and they will give you the time, present them with a list of requirements then they won’t even entertain you, you have the stature of a gentleman, behave like one and you are surely to get results

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By *emorefridaCouple
31 weeks ago

La la land

It's Men who obsess about money. I earned my own money, bought my own house managed everything before I got together with my other half. I don't need a Man to provide for me I'm quite capable of that myself. Think Men blame lack of money as a cop out to be honest.

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By *eroLondonMan
31 weeks ago

Mayfair


"All Women Care about is Money. I know I definitely need Manual."

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You Manuel. He'll help you.

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By *electableicecreamMan
31 weeks ago

The West

How to cock block yourself in thre easy steps.

Blame women

Stereotype women

Absolutely refuse to press the REPLY AND QUOTE button that about five people have already helpfully suggested.

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By (user no longer on site)
31 weeks ago

I’ve been poor and now I’m fairly loaded (it’s relative I know). I get loads more sex now I’m rich but it’s way too easy to say women are just after the cash. Having money just makes it easier to have sex as it gives more opportunities. Instead of only having one night out a week I can now have 7. I don’t flat share so not constrained there either. It’s the same with most things, money doesn’t make you happy but it allows you to do all the things in life which do!

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By *illy IdolMan
31 weeks ago

Midlands


"Good luck OP it would appear you have painted yourself into a corner, may I suggest a change of tack, yes we all have an ideal but to only focus on the ideal is missing the point and is the flight of Icarus, there is beauty everywhere, I can find hundreds of ladies on this site right now who are larger than a 12 yet will blow your mind and your socks off, I can probably name about thirty right off the bat right now without searching too and that is the challenge, you have to convince them of your worthiness l, that’s it, it’s not money it’s is this man worth my time, if you think it’s the other way round then shame on you for calling yourself a gentleman, present yourself as a worthy suitor and they will give you the time, present them with a list of requirements then they won’t even entertain you, you have the stature of a gentleman, behave like one and you are surely to get results "

But what if he's not attracted to women above a size 12? Is that not okay or should he change his preferences to keep everyone else happy?

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By *elloWoman
31 weeks ago

alpha centauri


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But what if he's not attracted to women above a size 12? Is that not okay or should he change his preferences to keep everyone else happy?"

I agree someone should never force a change to their preferences, as a large woman I wouldn't want to be with someone who finds my body shape a turn off.

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By *ehindHerEyesCouple
31 weeks ago

SomewhereOnlyWeKnow


"Ignoring all his other points, this is why men don't share their preferences on body types. You're damned if you do."

Honestly the size preference is a moot point for me, people like what they like, it's the rest of the attitude that irked

Tinder

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By *oddess NailaWoman
31 weeks ago

London & Edinburgh


"Ignoring all his other points, this is why men don't share their preferences on body types. You're damned if you do."

Unless I’ve missed something no one has called him out for having preferences on size but they have pointed out that he’s significantly narrowed the already very limited pool of females on the site.

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By *emorefridaCouple
31 weeks ago

La la land


"Ignoring all his other points, this is why men don't share their preferences on body types. You're damned if you do.

Honestly the size preference is a moot point for me, people like what they like, it's the rest of the attitude that irked

Tinder

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This ^ I'm well aware I'm not everyone's cup of tea. Same as not everyone isn't mine.

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By *eecount1815 OP   Man
31 weeks ago

Tenbury Wells


"Ignoring all his other points, this is why men don't share their preferences on body types. You're damned if you do.

Honestly the size preference is a moot point for me, people like what they like, it's the rest of the attitude that irked I didn't mean to be this much trouble

Tinder

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By *illy IdolMan
31 weeks ago

Midlands


"

But what if he's not attracted to women above a size 12? Is that not okay or should he change his preferences to keep everyone else happy?

I agree someone should never force a change to their preferences, as a large woman I wouldn't want to be with someone who finds my body shape a turn off. "

There's never an easy way of wording it without offending someone but at least he is clear and open on his preferences. I won't comment on the rest of his profile, but I respect that.

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By *eecount1815 OP   Man
31 weeks ago

Tenbury Wells


"Good luck OP it would appear you have painted yourself into a corner, may I suggest a change of tack, yes we all have an ideal but to only focus on the ideal is missing the point and is the flight of Icarus, there is beauty everywhere, I can find hundreds of ladies on this site right now who are larger than a 12 yet will blow your mind and your socks off, I can probably name about thirty right off the bat right now without searching too and that is the challenge, you have to convince them of your worthiness l, that’s it, it’s not money it’s is this man worth my time, if you think it’s the other way round then shame on you for calling yourself a gentleman, present yourself as a worthy suitor and they will give you the time, present them with a list of requirements then they won’t even entertain you, you have the stature of a gentleman, behave like one and you are surely to get results

But what if he's not attracted to women above a size 12? Is that not okay or should he change his preferences to keep everyone else happy?"
I don't want to blow my back out.

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By *mber and FireCouple
31 weeks ago

Carmarthenshire


"Good luck OP it would appear you have painted yourself into a corner, may I suggest a change of tack, yes we all have an ideal but to only focus on the ideal is missing the point and is the flight of Icarus, there is beauty everywhere, I can find hundreds of ladies on this site right now who are larger than a 12 yet will blow your mind and your socks off, I can probably name about thirty right off the bat right now without searching too and that is the challenge, you have to convince them of your worthiness l, that’s it, it’s not money it’s is this man worth my time, if you think it’s the other way round then shame on you for calling yourself a gentleman, present yourself as a worthy suitor and they will give you the time, present them with a list of requirements then they won’t even entertain you, you have the stature of a gentleman, behave like one and you are surely to get results

But what if he's not attracted to women above a size 12? Is that not okay or should he change his preferences to keep everyone else happy? I don't want to blow my back out."

Wow. Chivalry isn't dead.

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By *illy IdolMan
31 weeks ago

Midlands


"Ignoring all his other points, this is why men don't share their preferences on body types. You're damned if you do.

Unless I’ve missed something no one has called him out for having preferences on size but they have pointed out that he’s significantly narrowed the already very limited pool of females on the site. "

I won't point the comment out but it is their

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By *cottish guy 555Man
31 weeks ago

London


"All Women Care about is Money. I know I definitely need Manual.

·

You Manuel. He'll help you."

Què?

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By *ehindHerEyesCouple
31 weeks ago

SomewhereOnlyWeKnow


"Good luck OP it would appear you have painted yourself into a corner, may I suggest a change of tack, yes we all have an ideal but to only focus on the ideal is missing the point and is the flight of Icarus, there is beauty everywhere, I can find hundreds of ladies on this site right now who are larger than a 12 yet will blow your mind and your socks off, I can probably name about thirty right off the bat right now without searching too and that is the challenge, you have to convince them of your worthiness l, that’s it, it’s not money it’s is this man worth my time, if you think it’s the other way round then shame on you for calling yourself a gentleman, present yourself as a worthy suitor and they will give you the time, present them with a list of requirements then they won’t even entertain you, you have the stature of a gentleman, behave like one and you are surely to get results

But what if he's not attracted to women above a size 12? Is that not okay or should he change his preferences to keep everyone else happy? I don't want to blow my back out."

Yeah maybe don't dig yourself a big hole to fall in. Most were not bothered by the size thing

Tinder

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By *elloWoman
31 weeks ago

alpha centauri


" I don't want to blow my back out."

You still think the problem is your bank balance

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By *illy IdolMan
31 weeks ago

Midlands


" I don't want to blow my back out.

You still think the problem is your bank balance "

I can't help him anymore I'm out

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By (user no longer on site)
31 weeks ago


"I'm not a bad guy

Says Zangief

Who ??"

Zangief - bad guy!

*one for the film geeks.

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By *emorefridaCouple
31 weeks ago

La la land


" I don't want to blow my back out.

You still think the problem is your bank balance

I can't help him anymore I'm out"

You tried valiantly fair play

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By *oddess NailaWoman
31 weeks ago

London & Edinburgh


" But what if he's not attracted to women above a size 12? Is that not okay or should he change his preferences to keep everyone else happy? I don't want to blow my back out."

OP having a preference on size is 100% your prerogative and no one should make you feel bad about that ….. however you’ve chosen to make an unnecessary and somewhat derogatory fat phobic comment above that again shows your personality is the issue not your preferences.

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By *reggSausageMan
31 weeks ago

derby


"Good luck OP it would appear you have painted yourself into a corner, may I suggest a change of tack, yes we all have an ideal but to only focus on the ideal is missing the point and is the flight of Icarus, there is beauty everywhere, I can find hundreds of ladies on this site right now who are larger than a 12 yet will blow your mind and your socks off, I can probably name about thirty right off the bat right now without searching too and that is the challenge, you have to convince them of your worthiness l, that’s it, it’s not money it’s is this man worth my time, if you think it’s the other way round then shame on you for calling yourself a gentleman, present yourself as a worthy suitor and they will give you the time, present them with a list of requirements then they won’t even entertain you, you have the stature of a gentleman, behave like one and you are surely to get results

But what if he's not attracted to women above a size 12? Is that not okay or should he change his preferences to keep everyone else happy?"

The point is not every size twelve and below is perfection, nor above nor any man at any height, the point is if you rule someone out of the question because of a physical attribute then you are missing out on their story, yes I get that there needs to be a physical attraction but does everything have to be a No Yes Next, I’m not suggesting you give everyone your time but the OP is looking for the needle in the haystack meanwhile there’s rich tapestry all around him, you me all of us, if that all sounds too whimsical then my head in the clouds approach is garnering more results than his maybe

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By *ittlemissTinselTitsCouple
31 weeks ago

Southampton


"I'm not a bad guy

Says Zangief

Who ??

Zangief - bad guy!

*one for the film geeks. "

Think you might have to educate me when I'm up lol

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
31 weeks ago

North East Scotland, mostly

Have you tried an automatic instead of a manual? You may find that easier.

Mr TMN

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By *eroLondonMan
31 weeks ago

Mayfair

OP, I couldn't agree with you more. Finally someone with gumption, verve and lateral obliques to speak the unspeakable, lest they be shot down like a deflated Zeppelin.

These women - the illegitimate daughters of Eve - sprung forth from tainted wombs with all the greed and lust for money. They care less for men and even less for themselves if they're not cocooned within a silken purse filled with the currency of deceit. Ask them out on a date and they magically need to powder their dainty noses with MAC™ powder when the bill arrives. They're not content with Boots No.7 but want everything resembling a 007.

They walk the cheap cobbled streets on designer heels but want you to drive them around in expensive wheels. They have Champagne tastes but Shandy money.

If you manage to get one naked (in a Deluxe Room because they won't settle for less) check if they're sporting a long scar along their abdomen: she's probably sold one of her Kidneys for an Anya Hindmarch™.

Do what I do: I'm now chatting up women at the local job centre. They haven't seen a farthing since Luncheon Vouchers were abolished. Sometimes one has to go to Greggs to get the dregs.

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By *ittlemissTinselTitsCouple
31 weeks ago

Southampton


"Good luck OP it would appear you have painted yourself into a corner, may I suggest a change of tack, yes we all have an ideal but to only focus on the ideal is missing the point and is the flight of Icarus, there is beauty everywhere, I can find hundreds of ladies on this site right now who are larger than a 12 yet will blow your mind and your socks off, I can probably name about thirty right off the bat right now without searching too and that is the challenge, you have to convince them of your worthiness l, that’s it, it’s not money it’s is this man worth my time, if you think it’s the other way round then shame on you for calling yourself a gentleman, present yourself as a worthy suitor and they will give you the time, present them with a list of requirements then they won’t even entertain you, you have the stature of a gentleman, behave like one and you are surely to get results

But what if he's not attracted to women above a size 12? Is that not okay or should he change his preferences to keep everyone else happy? I don't want to blow my back out."

Wow!! Well done ... you've actually rendered me speechless... something no one has managed before ...

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By *eecount1815 OP   Man
31 weeks ago

Tenbury Wells


"OP, I couldn't agree with you more. Finally someone with gumption, verve and lateral obliques to speak the unspeakable, lest they be shot down like a deflated Zeppelin.

These women - the illegitimate daughters of Eve - sprung forth from tainted wombs with all the greed and lust for money. They care less for men and even less for themselves if they're not cocooned within a silken purse filled with the currency of deceit. Ask them out on a date and they magically need to powder their dainty noses with MAC™ powder when the bill arrives. They're not content with Boots No.7 but want everything resembling a 007.

They walk the cheap cobbled streets on designer heels but want you to drive them around in expensive wheels. They have Champagne tastes but Shandy money.

If you manage to get one naked (in a Deluxe Room because they won't settle for less) check if they're sporting a long scar along their abdomen: she's probably sold one of her Kidneys for an Anya Hindmarch™.

Do what I do: I'm now chatting up women at the local job centre. They haven't seen a farthing since Luncheon Vouchers were abolished. Sometimes one has to go to Greggs to get the dregs."
Finally you Sir are a Man of impeccable style and taste! My compliments.

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By *eecount1815 OP   Man
31 weeks ago

Tenbury Wells


" I don't want to blow my back out.

You still think the problem is your bank balance "
not really no.

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By *elloWoman
31 weeks ago

alpha centauri


"

Do what I do: I'm now chatting up women at the local job centre. They haven't seen a farthing since Luncheon Vouchers were abolished. Sometimes one has to go to Greggs to get the dregs."

And we can be impressed with a Groupon meal out if you really want to be flash

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By *uriousscouserWoman
31 weeks ago

Wirral

If the main thing you can offer a woman is money then the women you'll attract will be those concerned about money.

That's not necessarily representative of the general population.

I make more than enough to keep myself in very good style - I wouldn't be interested in a man whose biggest selling point is that he can give me what I already have in abundance.

You're not competing with other men (much less the fabled top 10% or 6/6/6-ers or whatever the alphabros are currently citing), you're competing with the peace and joy I have in my life without you. If you're not adding to that then I'd rather have a wank and uninterrupted peace.

Yes, I'm very well aware I'm not your type OP, but I'm sure there are other women who are more to your taste who feel the same way as I do.

I hope you can find your way through and find the partner(s) you're looking for.

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By *oddess NailaWoman
31 weeks ago

London & Edinburgh


"Have you tried an automatic instead of a manual? You may find that easier.

Mr TMN "

Haha

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
31 weeks ago

Carlisle usually


"OP, I couldn't agree with you more. Finally someone with gumption, verve and lateral obliques to speak the unspeakable, lest they be shot down like a deflated Zeppelin.

These women - the illegitimate daughters of Eve - sprung forth from tainted wombs with all the greed and lust for money. They care less for men and even less for themselves if they're not cocooned within a silken purse filled with the currency of deceit. Ask them out on a date and they magically need to powder their dainty noses with MAC™ powder when the bill arrives. They're not content with Boots No.7 but want everything resembling a 007.

They walk the cheap cobbled streets on designer heels but want you to drive them around in expensive wheels. They have Champagne tastes but Shandy money.

If you manage to get one naked (in a Deluxe Room because they won't settle for less) check if they're sporting a long scar along their abdomen: she's probably sold one of her Kidneys for an Anya Hindmarch™.

Do what I do: I'm now chatting up women at the local job centre. They haven't seen a farthing since Luncheon Vouchers were abolished. Sometimes one has to go to Greggs to get the dregs."

Ohhhh...

I wondered why you were lowering yourself to flirting with me Néro

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By *cottish guy 555Man
31 weeks ago

London


"

Do what I do: I'm now chatting up women at the local job centre. They haven't seen a farthing since Luncheon Vouchers were abolished. Sometimes one has to go to Greggs to get the dregs.

And we can be impressed with a Groupon meal out if you really want to be flash "

I can stretch to a clubcard meal deal. Just let me know which tesco to meet you at.

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By *eroLondonMan
31 weeks ago

Mayfair


"

Do what I do: I'm now chatting up women at the local job centre. They haven't seen a farthing since Luncheon Vouchers were abolished. Sometimes one has to go to Greggs to get the dregs.

And we can be impressed with a Groupon meal out if you really want to be flash "

•

I'm more of a "Grope On" meal type of person. I like to fondle during my fondue.

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By *cottish guy 555Man
31 weeks ago

London


"

Do what I do: I'm now chatting up women at the local job centre. They haven't seen a farthing since Luncheon Vouchers were abolished. Sometimes one has to go to Greggs to get the dregs.

And we can be impressed with a Groupon meal out if you really want to be flash

•

I'm more of a "Grope On" meal type of person. I like to fondle during my fondue."

Have you bumped your head recently Nero? How many fingers am I holding up?

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By *eroLondonMan
31 weeks ago

Mayfair


"...Ohhhh...

I wondered why you were lowering yourself to flirting with me Néro "

•

Sometimes I lower myself to apotheosize you.

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By *laytonAMan
31 weeks ago

newport

Try being a bit more positive, maybe ask yourself why people aren't connecting or ask a female friend what they think about you. Your welcome to your preferences and all that but if you expect ladies queuing up because your a man, things are only getting worse. It definitely ain't about money I guarantee its your approach that's letting you down.

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By *rozac_fairyCouple
31 weeks ago

Birmingham

Maybe British Women just aren't into you

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By (user no longer on site)
31 weeks ago

Trying to understand women,it's hard enough to understand one woman lol. Just relax be yourself, might just get a response. Cavemen are all dead , except on certain occasions

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By *ex HolesMan
31 weeks ago

Up North

I’m looking for a British woman (or any other ethnicity) that has a bangable hole and nice big set of tits. Apply within

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By (user no longer on site)
31 weeks ago

This is how it starts. I’m scared.

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By *he turned me GreyCouple
31 weeks ago

Warwick and Coventry


"I've always struggled with Women, haven't been on date now for over 12 years, I was on Tinder for 5 years and No matches.. I'm beginning to think that All Women Care about is Money..I know I definitely need a Manual."

No manual needed you've got endurance....

Maybe it's not the women, what or who is thr common demoninator in all of this

Mr

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
31 weeks ago

Wirral.


"No I like to think I have More style and class than that,I adore the art of conversation.. most women don't "

I think you'll find that I, and many women, love the "art of conversation". Me? I can chat for England.

Also, it ain't about money. Many women, myself included, support ourselves very well and don't need or want a man to provide for them.

I'm thinking you're looking for a very specific type of lady? If so, you may need to rethink your parameters as, has been said above, the women you're wanting are just not that into you.

No offence intended with this by the way, just maybe a reason why you've been single for 12 yrs.

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By *eecount1815 OP   Man
31 weeks ago

Tenbury Wells


"No I like to think I have More style and class than that,I adore the art of conversation.. most women don't

I think you'll find that I, and many women, love the "art of conversation". Me? I can chat for England.

Also, it ain't about money. Many women, myself included, support ourselves very well and don't need or want a man to provide for them.

I'm thinking you're looking for a very specific type of lady? If so, you may need to rethink your parameters as, has been said above, the women you're wanting are just not that into you.

No offence intended with this by the way, just maybe a reason why you've been single for 12 yrs. "
no just a reasonably fit and healthy one really.

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By *elloWoman
31 weeks ago

alpha centauri


"I’m looking for a British woman (or any other ethnicity) that has a bangable hole and nice big set of tits. Apply within "

Well _ello ,

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By *eecount1815 OP   Man
31 weeks ago

Tenbury Wells


"Try being a bit more positive, maybe ask yourself why people aren't connecting or ask a female friend what they think about you. Your welcome to your preferences and all that but if you expect ladies queuing up because your a man, things are only getting worse. It definitely ain't about money I guarantee its your approach that's letting you down. "
duly noted

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By *eecount1815 OP   Man
31 weeks ago

Tenbury Wells


"No I like to think I have More style and class than that,I adore the art of conversation.. most women don't

I think you'll find that I, and many women, love the "art of conversation". Me? I can chat for England.

Also, it ain't about money. Many women, myself included, support ourselves very well and don't need or want a man to provide for them.

I'm thinking you're looking for a very specific type of lady? If so, you may need to rethink your parameters as, has been said above, the women you're wanting are just not that into you.

No offence intended with this by the way, just maybe a reason why you've been single for 12 yrs. "
duly noted

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
31 weeks ago

Wirral.


"Ignoring all his other points, this is why men don't share their preferences on body types. You're damned if you do."

That's not really true, Willy. I've never offended when a guy is not looking for fat gals. If he states on his profile he's looking for gym fit/petite/slim, I just move on.

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By *eecount1815 OP   Man
31 weeks ago

Tenbury Wells


"I've always struggled with Women, haven't been on date now for over 12 years, I was on Tinder for 5 years and No matches.. I'm beginning to think that All Women Care about is Money..I know I definitely need a Manual.

No manual needed you've got endurance....

Maybe it's not the women, what or who is thr common demoninator in all of this

Mr "
complex creatures aren't they.

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By *eecount1815 OP   Man
31 weeks ago

Tenbury Wells


"Ignoring all his other points, this is why men don't share their preferences on body types. You're damned if you do.

That's not really true, Willy. I've never offended when a guy is not looking for fat gals. If he states on his profile he's looking for gym fit/petite/slim, I just move on. "
the UK Obesity rate is now currently at 60% so slim pickings, literally, pardon the pun.

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
31 weeks ago

Wirral.


"No I like to think I have More style and class than that,I adore the art of conversation.. most women don't

I think you'll find that I, and many women, love the "art of conversation". Me? I can chat for England.

Also, it ain't about money. Many women, myself included, support ourselves very well and don't need or want a man to provide for them.

I'm thinking you're looking for a very specific type of lady? If so, you may need to rethink your parameters as, has been said above, the women you're wanting are just not that into you.

No offence intended with this by the way, just maybe a reason why you've been single for 12 yrs.

no just a reasonably fit and healthy one really."

Well there's loads of gorgeous, slim(mer) women on here, and am sure on most dating sites. If you're not getting replies, it can really only be down to your approach and or looks.

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By *eecount1815 OP   Man
31 weeks ago

Tenbury Wells


" But what if he's not attracted to women above a size 12? Is that not okay or should he change his preferences to keep everyone else happy? I don't want to blow my back out.

OP having a preference on size is 100% your prerogative and no one should make you feel bad about that ….. however you’ve chosen to make an unnecessary and somewhat derogatory fat phobic comment above that again shows your personality is the issue not your preferences.

"
I just like healthy human sized ladies,us guy's are allowed preferences too.

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By *he turned me GreyCouple
31 weeks ago

Warwick and Coventry


"I've always struggled with Women, haven't been on date now for over 12 years, I was on Tinder for 5 years and No matches.. I'm beginning to think that All Women Care about is Money..I know I definitely need a Manual.

No manual needed you've got endurance....

Maybe it's not the women, what or who is thr common demoninator in all of this

Mr complex creatures aren't they."

Not particularly no.....maybe it's a simple case of there not attracted to you in looks, your personality and or your approach....

Mr

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By *ittlemissTinselTitsCouple
31 weeks ago

Southampton


" But what if he's not attracted to women above a size 12? Is that not okay or should he change his preferences to keep everyone else happy? I don't want to blow my back out.

OP having a preference on size is 100% your prerogative and no one should make you feel bad about that ….. however you’ve chosen to make an unnecessary and somewhat derogatory fat phobic comment above that again shows your personality is the issue not your preferences.

I just like healthy human sized ladies,us guy's are allowed preferences too."

I absolutely agree you're allowed preferences it's just how you state those preferences which will dictate how people will react to it...

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By (user no longer on site)
31 weeks ago


"Must just be British Women then,I reckon I'm going to have to Emigrate eventually. South East Asia possibly.

I need a Manual, more advice the merrier."

Literally this is exactly where I expected this to go

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By *eecount1815 OP   Man
31 weeks ago

Tenbury Wells


"Must just be British Women then,I reckon I'm going to have to Emigrate eventually. South East Asia possibly.

I need a Manual, more advice the merrier.

Literally this is exactly where I expected this to go "
me too

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By (user no longer on site)
31 weeks ago

So annoyed I missed this thread. Great drama.

Unsurprising. But some of my favourite films are the predictable ones

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By (user no longer on site)
31 weeks ago


"Must just be British Women then,I reckon I'm going to have to Emigrate eventually. South East Asia possibly.

I need a Manual, more advice the merrier.

Literally this is exactly where I expected this to go me too "

Oh I meant I knew you were going to suggest moving to South East Asia. I just had a feeling.

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By (user no longer on site)
31 weeks ago


" But what if he's not attracted to women above a size 12? Is that not okay or should he change his preferences to keep everyone else happy? I don't want to blow my back out.

OP having a preference on size is 100% your prerogative and no one should make you feel bad about that ….. however you’ve chosen to make an unnecessary and somewhat derogatory fat phobic comment above that again shows your personality is the issue not your preferences.

I just like healthy human sized ladies,us guy's are allowed preferences too."

Big shout out to all the non human sized ladies.

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By *eecount1815 OP   Man
31 weeks ago

Tenbury Wells


"Must just be British Women then,I reckon I'm going to have to Emigrate eventually. South East Asia possibly.

I need a Manual, more advice the merrier.

Literally this is exactly where I expected this to go me too

Oh I meant I knew you were going to suggest moving to South East Asia. I just had a feeling. "
Eventually,Damm right.

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By *ot to giggleWoman
31 weeks ago

Coventry

maybe OP you are one of the unfortunate that just happens to fit in your 80% of invisible men to the ladies that are size 8-12!

or maybe the ones that could possibly be interested in you work for the Inland Revenue and have decided that your tax returns are not all they seem and chose to pass you by.

Hopefully you can fund your move and find a wealth of tiny ladies that dont look at your western face and hope that your going to provide for them!

happy hunting.

P.S. do you know Harry Potter? he had an invisibility cloak too

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By *ittlemissTinselTitsCouple
31 weeks ago

Southampton


" But what if he's not attracted to women above a size 12? Is that not okay or should he change his preferences to keep everyone else happy? I don't want to blow my back out.

OP having a preference on size is 100% your prerogative and no one should make you feel bad about that ….. however you’ve chosen to make an unnecessary and somewhat derogatory fat phobic comment above that again shows your personality is the issue not your preferences.

I just like healthy human sized ladies,us guy's are allowed preferences too.

Big shout out to all the non human sized ladies."

I'm elephant sized

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By *eecount1815 OP   Man
31 weeks ago

Tenbury Wells


" But what if he's not attracted to women above a size 12? Is that not okay or should he change his preferences to keep everyone else happy? I don't want to blow my back out.

OP having a preference on size is 100% your prerogative and no one should make you feel bad about that ….. however you’ve chosen to make an unnecessary and somewhat derogatory fat phobic comment above that again shows your personality is the issue not your preferences.

I just like healthy human sized ladies,us guy's are allowed preferences too.

Big shout out to all the non human sized ladies."
you're using woke made up word's, I'm here for some intelligent reasoning and healthy debate.

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By *he turned me GreyCouple
31 weeks ago

Warwick and Coventry


" But what if he's not attracted to women above a size 12? Is that not okay or should he change his preferences to keep everyone else happy? I don't want to blow my back out.

OP having a preference on size is 100% your prerogative and no one should make you feel bad about that ….. however you’ve chosen to make an unnecessary and somewhat derogatory fat phobic comment above that again shows your personality is the issue not your preferences.

I just like healthy human sized ladies,us guy's are allowed preferences too."

What is the cut off point for human sized???

Mr

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By *oozleMan
31 weeks ago

high wycombe

Maybe the issue isn’t with the lovely ladies, but your own attitude?

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By *rFoxAndXenoCouple
31 weeks ago

Weymouth


"Ignoring all his other points, this is why men don't share their preferences on body types. You're damned if you do."

There's nice ways to put it though isn't there? I'm assuming OP had something different on his profile previously that I didn't see based on other comments - I don't find very slim men attractive but I focus on what I DO find attractive in our profile - Xeno

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By *eecount1815 OP   Man
31 weeks ago

Tenbury Wells


"Maybe I'm generalizing

Only maybe?

I’d suggest you are massively generalising. "
maybe I'm just a precision Strike kind of Truth telling guy.

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By *eecount1815 OP   Man
31 weeks ago

Tenbury Wells


"Maybe I'm generalizing

Only maybe?

I’d suggest you are massively generalising. maybe I'm just a precision Strike kind of Truth telling guy."
in a Woke world.

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By *amdenfunMan
31 weeks ago

London


"Nope. A few may but the majority don't.

Money isn't of interest to most.

I have my thoughts as to what may be the issue but as you've not asked for advice I'll keep them to myself for now. "

He asked for a manual - doesn’t that suggest he wants advice? (As would I.)

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By *eecount1815 OP   Man
31 weeks ago

Tenbury Wells


"Nope. A few may but the majority don't.

Money isn't of interest to most.

I have my thoughts as to what may be the issue but as you've not asked for advice I'll keep them to myself for now.

He asked for a manual - doesn’t that suggest he wants advice? (As would I.)"
not bum fun. No I'm All good.

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By *ex HolesMan
31 weeks ago

Up North


"I’m looking for a British woman (or any other ethnicity) that has a bangable hole and nice big set of tits. Apply within

Well _ello ,

"

Are both your holes available?

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By *eecount1815 OP   Man
31 weeks ago

Tenbury Wells

This is has got slightly out of hand.

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By *amdenfunMan
31 weeks ago

London


"Nope. A few may but the majority don't.

Money isn't of interest to most.

I have my thoughts as to what may be the issue but as you've not asked for advice I'll keep them to myself for now.

He asked for a manual - doesn’t that suggest he wants advice? (As would I.) not bum fun. No I'm All good."

I don’t get that message at all. I was just sticking up for you.

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By *ittlemissTinselTitsCouple
31 weeks ago

Southampton


"This is has got slightly out of hand."

Welcome to the forums

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By *he turned me GreyCouple
31 weeks ago

Warwick and Coventry


"This is has got slightly out of hand."

If you start a controversial thread, then you have to expect some comeback on the things you say.....

Mr

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By *elloWoman
31 weeks ago

alpha centauri


"I’m looking for a British woman (or any other ethnicity) that has a bangable hole and nice big set of tits. Apply within

Well _ello ,

Are both your holes available? "

3 of them

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By *uriousscouserWoman
31 weeks ago

Wirral


"Ignoring all his other points, this is why men don't share their preferences on body types. You're damned if you do.

That's not really true, Willy. I've never offended when a guy is not looking for fat gals. If he states on his profile he's looking for gym fit/petite/slim, I just move on. the UK Obesity rate is now currently at 60% so slim pickings, literally, pardon the pun."

In the 2021 census there were more than 30m women and girls in the UK (I'm rounding down for easier maths).

Say only 10m are of a suitable age for you. 40% still gives you 4m women. Yet none of them respond to you?

There is a common factor here OP.

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By *eecount1815 OP   Man
31 weeks ago

Tenbury Wells


"This is has got slightly out of hand.

If you start a controversial thread, then you have to expect some comeback on the things you say.....

Mr "
would you like a wet wipe?

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By (user no longer on site)
31 weeks ago

Positive feedback?..

You're obviously into fitness.

My suggestion would be do some sort of group fitness activity with others, where you're meeting lots of new people. Actually in the real world though.

(Forget online dating & websites like tinder etc.)

I don't see why you wouldn't do well and find what you're looking for.

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By *he turned me GreyCouple
31 weeks ago

Warwick and Coventry


"This is has got slightly out of hand.

If you start a controversial thread, then you have to expect some comeback on the things you say.....

Mr would you like a wet wipe?"

Only for wiping away your self-pity....

Mr

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By (user no longer on site)
31 weeks ago

Only 8 messages until the thread cut off hits.

Wonder if OP will make a part 2

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By *eecount1815 OP   Man
31 weeks ago

Tenbury Wells


"Positive feedback?..

You're obviously into fitness.

My suggestion would be do some sort of group fitness activity with others, where you're meeting lots of new people. Actually in the real world though.

(Forget online dating & websites like tinder etc.)

I don't see why you wouldn't do well and find what you're looking for."
. Finally, thank you Sir,I do enjoy my fitness very much so, It can be quite challenging meeting ladies at the gym as you could imagine. Thanks buddy.

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By *emorefridaCouple
31 weeks ago

La la land


"Only 8 messages until the thread cut off hits.

Wonder if OP will make a part 2 "

Surely not

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By *eecount1815 OP   Man
31 weeks ago

Tenbury Wells


"Only 8 messages until the thread cut off hits.

Wonder if OP will make a part 2 "
you can count on It.

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By *eecount1815 OP   Man
31 weeks ago

Tenbury Wells

Ahhh Ladies, here's an idea Gym meet any body??

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By *illy IdolMan
31 weeks ago

Midlands


"OP, I couldn't agree with you more. Finally someone with gumption, verve and lateral obliques to speak the unspeakable, lest they be shot down like a deflated Zeppelin.

These women - the illegitimate daughters of Eve - sprung forth from tainted wombs with all the greed and lust for money. They care less for men and even less for themselves if they're not cocooned within a silken purse filled with the currency of deceit. Ask them out on a date and they magically need to powder their dainty noses with MAC™ powder when the bill arrives. They're not content with Boots No.7 but want everything resembling a 007.

They walk the cheap cobbled streets on designer heels but want you to drive them around in expensive wheels. They have Champagne tastes but Shandy money.

If you manage to get one naked (in a Deluxe Room because they won't settle for less) check if they're sporting a long scar along their abdomen: she's probably sold one of her Kidneys for an Anya Hindmarch™.

Do what I do: I'm now chatting up women at the local job centre. They haven't seen a farthing since Luncheon Vouchers were abolished. Sometimes one has to go to Greggs to get the dregs."

. You could quill your way into my knickers that's for sure

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By (user no longer on site)
31 weeks ago


"Only 8 messages until the thread cut off hits.

Wonder if OP will make a part 2 you can count on It."

Before it cuts off. What do you bench?

I hit 100kg for 3 yesterday

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By *eecount1815 OP   Man
31 weeks ago

Tenbury Wells


"Only 8 messages until the thread cut off hits.

Wonder if OP will make a part 2 you can count on It.

Before it cuts off. What do you bench?

I hit 100kg for 3 yesterday"
110kg

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By *ittlemissTinselTitsCouple
31 weeks ago

Southampton


"Ahhh Ladies, here's an idea Gym meet any body??"

To be fair I could do with getting in shape.... even though round is a shape

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By *ot to giggleWoman
31 weeks ago

Coventry


"This is has got slightly out of hand."

only slightly! thought it was well tame

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
31 weeks ago

Wirral.


"Ignoring all his other points, this is why men don't share their preferences on body types. You're damned if you do.

That's not really true, Willy. I've never offended when a guy is not looking for fat gals. If he states on his profile he's looking for gym fit/petite/slim, I just move on. the UK Obesity rate is now currently at 60% so slim pickings, literally, pardon the pun."

I'm aware of the levels of obesity in the UK. I'm not that blinkered that I don't realise I'm fat.

And considering my size, I really don't find larger guys physically attractive. I lust after gym fit adonises!Many times they like me back.

Some love my body.

Some think I'm pretty.

Some think I'm great fun to be with.

Some think everything about me is fabulous.

But that doesn't mean I ONLY meet/date "movie star" type guys.

If you will ONLY consider slim women, your pool is rather small. And it may be that the perfect creature you're after has her own set of preferences. If you don't fit into them - let's say, a full head of hair - you're further limited.

A lovely, smiley face will always work with me, even if he is a bit chunky. The unicorns you're chasing just might not fancy you

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By *ex HolesMan
31 weeks ago

Up North

Good ‘Hypergamy‘ thread everyone

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