FabSwingers.com forum: Do people get bored of you?

By (user no longer on site) OP
31 weeks ago

Or do you get bored of them first?

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By *uriousscouserWoman
31 weeks ago

Wirral

I don't tend to get bored of people so I guess they must get bored first.

Don't know how that's possible when I'm as fantastic as I am, but there we are.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
31 weeks ago

North West

I really don't know, actually.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
31 weeks ago

East Sussex

I'm deadly boring, it's my superpower

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By *issBellaWoman
31 weeks ago

Wales

I don't get bored of people, I'm shameless

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
31 weeks ago

Leeds

I get bored of people. They become an annoyance if i spend to much time in their company.

The mr

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By *ittlebirdWoman
31 weeks ago

The Big Smoke

They normally ask me to switch off crazy mode before they get bored

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By *ong-leggedblondWoman
31 weeks ago

Next Door

I'm a boring person, so I would say people get bored of me.

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By *emorefridaCouple
31 weeks ago

La la land

I do get bored of some people, doesn't mean I don't like them though. I just have a mini break from them now and again.

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By *ivemealadybonerWoman
31 weeks ago

somewhere

My social battery runs out, I've only just learnt that's a thing, so now I'm just honest, probably a bit too honest, I was out with some friends recently and they were going from shop to shop (I'm more of "I know what I need and leave" kinda person) and I was probably be a bit rude when someone mentioned I looked bored, I said "I was bored four hours ago". Oddly enough I've not been invited out again lol.

Thing is, I'm not very "fun" so people probably do get bored of me very quickly, I'm also not great at two way conversations, I am trying to overcome it and ask more questions x

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By *ickyKlungespeareMan
31 weeks ago

St Leonards

Do people get bored of me?

Yes.

Do I get bored of people first?

Probably more often than they get bored of me, but it's close.

It's also more "irritated into wanting to be somewhere else" than bored though.

Boredom is a bit passive, irritation has a bit more activity associated with it.

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
31 weeks ago

Herts/Beds/Lomdon

No one had ever called me boring.

To ensure they don’t I like to hang around people who don’t speak English.

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By *viatrixWoman
31 weeks ago

Redhill

Nevaaaaaaah

But I get bored quite easily

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By *ell GwynnWoman
31 weeks ago

North Yorkshire

I only socialise once every 3 years to ensure nobody realises how utterly tedious I am.

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By *iddlesticksMan
31 weeks ago

My nan’s spare room.

I’m sure I quickly become quite tedious.

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By *OYFBWoman
31 weeks ago

Jersey (sometimes Notts)

Even I get bored of me!

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By (user no longer on site)
31 weeks ago

No.

The opposite.

I can appear quiet at first...

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By *emonbuttercreamWoman
31 weeks ago

Birmingham

I wouldn't really be friends with someone I found boring. I'm sure there are people who are bored of me but they wouldn't have a prominent place in my life anyway so it doesn't have any impact on how I feel.

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By *ravelling_WilburyMan
31 weeks ago

Beverley

Just do you and don't worry about them

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By *ansoffateMan
31 weeks ago

Sagittarius A

I have a natural fascination with people so it's rare that I get bored. Although occasionally it happens. I was having a really enjoyable conversation with someone last year and then she switched onto talking about her hamster for about month. I wondered if this was just a strategy to get rid of me, but no she just talked incessantly about her furry critter friend. I renamed her hamster-lady in my WhatsApp. No one from fab (disclaimer), those other sites are weird , stay on fab folk.

I'm sure some people get bored with me. I think more often it's that they lose patience though. I have a tendency to go AWOL and need time to myself. I need to be poked for attention sometimes and that's not everyone's MO.

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By *bi HaiveMan
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31 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

I don't think I get bored of people.

I have over the years maybe got bored of conversations at times, through nobody's fault, just that they've reached a point where it's for whatever reason ground to a halt or it's too much effort on my part to keep it going. So I call a halt to them, reduce contact and leave it a while before returning, to give both sides times to refresh.

I wouldn't engage long term with anyone I thought was boring but it's natural for conversations to have peaks and troughs. Nothing wrong with that.

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By (user no longer on site)
31 weeks ago

How can someone get bored off all this

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By *ell GwynnWoman
31 weeks ago

North Yorkshire

To answer the question seriously.....

I wouldn't really know if people get bored of me because they don't often willingly volunteer such information, and I'm not great at reading people. Some will and some won't, just as I find some people's conversation uninteresting and other's wonderfully entertaining.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
31 weeks ago

Reading

This is like one of those are you good in bed questions that noone would tell you if you weren't. I do sometimes get bored of people either because there's not a good connection or if its run its course.

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By (user no longer on site)
31 weeks ago

A bit of both, probably, I don’t know.

I’m not sure if I get bored or if I just get fed up of socialising with them for a while, which probably gives off the impression that I’m not interested, meaning they get bored and move on.

I think I’m the problem.

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By *herry delightWoman
31 weeks ago

Ilfracombe

I get bored of them first, I get bored of people very quickly. X

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By *rBobbMan
31 weeks ago

Birmingham

I don't get bore with people so I guess they get bored with me

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By *ellhungvweMan
31 weeks ago

Cheltenham

When a woman is tired of me, she is tired of life; for there is in me all that life can afford.

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By *2000ManMan
31 weeks ago

Worthing

I like a challenge! I can get people to open up on various topics.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
31 weeks ago

"No one had ever called me boring.

To ensure they don’t I like to hang around people who don’t speak English. "

English is my 2nd langwitch

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By (user no longer on site) OP
31 weeks ago

"This is like one of those are you good in bed questions that noone would tell you if you weren't. I do sometimes get bored of people either because there's not a good connection or if it’s run its course."

I’m not good in bed and people get bored of me and lose interest quickly.

There. Lisan al Gaib.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
31 weeks ago

I don’t think you have to be boring for people to get bored of you. I don’t think they have to even find you boring. We sometimes get bored at a lack of connection, a lack of interest, an unlikelihood of meeting after trying a lot, they’re too busy and so communication is inconsistent, communication is one sided etc etc. all reasons I’ve got bored of people and I’m sure reasons people have got bored of me. Let’s be real, it’s not gonna be my personality that bores them is it

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By *rHotNottsMan
31 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham

I get bored very fast if I see them too often and we do the same things/routines. But I’ve kept it going with people here for many years too, it’s down to effort.

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By *agerMorganMan
31 weeks ago

Canvey Island

I’m generally a boring person, all work and no play.

But I do find that I get bored of people easily.

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By *hrek101Man
31 weeks ago

Herts

Yeah I think so, eventually. I can be quite challenging I guess and people get bored dealing with it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
31 weeks ago

"I get bored very fast if I see them too often and we do the same things/routines. But I’ve kept it going with people here for many years too, it’s down to effort. "

I think connection too. Sometimes you’re happier just doing nothing with people. Sometimes you get bored of just doing nothing with people.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
31 weeks ago

"Yeah I think so, eventually. I can be quite challenging I guess and people get bored dealing with it."

Relatable

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By *elboy1978Man
31 weeks ago

Fellgate

Yes people get bored of me then move onto someone else

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By *r Black 85Man
31 weeks ago

nottingham

"Or do you get bored of them first? "

I make sure people don't see me/hear from me enough for this to happen. I have been dubbed Mr Elusive on several occasions

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By *929Man
31 weeks ago

newcastle

I’m not sure I don’t go and see people or socialise much unless it’s some sort of occasion so I assume they don’t get the chance to get bored

I can get bored of people easy though my mother bores me to death if she stays longer than 20 minutes, I hate people in my house and find myself just hoping they leave soon if anyone visits.

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By *JcuriousCouple
31 weeks ago

Derby

I hope they don't get bored of me

Miss S x

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By *mf123Man
31 weeks ago

with one foot out the door

Bored now....

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
31 weeks ago

Reading

"Or do you get bored of them first?

I make sure people don't see me/hear from me enough for this to happen. I have been dubbed Mr Elusive on several occasions

See for me that would get old fast.

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
31 weeks ago

Wherever

I don’t think I’m boring but there’s always someone more available/attractive/willing/whatever and I can get bored with someone very easily if I spot I’m somehow becoming a second choice.

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By *laytonAMan
31 weeks ago

newport

Don't get bored of people, I don't enjoy being with/ talking to everyone as no interests, etc.

As for me, I'm pretty sure I'm in the dull to average range for most.

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By *ambertMan
31 weeks ago

Cheltenham

Nope, never get bored. And I'm weird enough to keep people interested

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By *idssissyTV/TS
31 weeks ago

Birmingham

On here probably they do as meets don't happen as quickly as they would like.

In real life possibly as have a limited range of topics that I can talk about.

And especially since I dropped out of the local kink scene have a lot less in common with people used to talk to

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