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"What's your libido like currently? What's it generally like? Does being on Fab (as in logged on to the site) increase or dampen it? Oh, it could have no effect I suppose so yeah, add that on." Gosh, is it meant to increase your libido? I come here for the cricket. | |||
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"What's your libido like currently? What's it generally like? Does being on Fab (as in logged on to the site) increase or dampen it? Oh, it could have no effect I suppose so yeah, add that on. Gosh, is it meant to increase your libido? I come here for the cricket." Ffs - craic! | |||
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"I think it goes up and down to be honest. When I've not had sex in a while, then it's pretty low as it's something I've become accustomed to. If I know I have plans or have had sex recently, I can't get enough! At the minute, I would say it's pretty low, but that's because other things are on my mind at the minute "Oh, and Fab doesn't really have an effect on it. I may get a bit of FOMO when I see the statuses and verifications rolling in on a Monday but it doesn't make me less or more horny. End of ramble | |||
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"My libido is virtually 0 currently... being logged on doesn't make a difference either way " This for me too. In fact sometimes reading the forums I’m pretty glad about that. | |||
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"Fairly high. But being on the forums reduces it. " Understandable. What about if some... hot older woman flirts with you on here? Not even a slight twitch? | |||
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"My libido is virtually 0 currently... being logged on doesn't make a difference either way This for me too. In fact sometimes reading the forums I’m pretty glad about that." Same lol... | |||
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"It’s always high as I have a high sex drive As for fab sometimes it increases it sometimes it drops it to the floor Depending on posts or photos But never complain as everyone is intitled to post and photos as they wish within the rules So it’s my fault for reading / looking in the first place "Also beautiful I see your asking questions and people answereing me included in this Sorry how rude off me and not asking how it is for you as such a careing kind host think it’s only fair that we respect the good will | |||
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"My libido is virtually 0 currently... being logged on doesn't make a difference either way " But you're an incorrigible flirt.  I hope things are better for you soon, K. | |||
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"My libido is virtually 0 currently... being logged on doesn't make a difference either way But you're an incorrigible flirt. I hope things are better for you soon, K."I suspect its because of these damn antibiotics that are making me feel less than lively.... but thank you lovely xx | |||
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"I think it goes up and down to be honest. When I've not had sex in a while, then it's pretty low as it's something I've become accustomed to. If I know I have plans or have had sex recently, I can't get enough! At the minute, I would say it's pretty low, but that's because other things are on my mind at the minute "Yes, the more you have it the more you want it kind of thing! I hope it's good other things on your mind rather than anything negative Joe. | |||
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"What's your libido like currently? What's it generally like? Does being on Fab (as in logged on to the site) increase or dampen it? Oh, it could have no effect I suppose so yeah, add that on." Currently it is very high I had some great sex last night but never got to finish as the lady had to go. The warm weather is making it super high too. Too many baddies about | |||
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"Fairly high. But being on the forums reduces it. Understandable. What about if some... hot older woman flirts with you on here? Not even a slight twitch?" If it happened maybe. But same if it was someone hot my own age  
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"What's your libido like currently? What's it generally like? Does being on Fab (as in logged on to the site) increase or dampen it? Oh, it could have no effect I suppose so yeah, add that on. Gosh, is it meant to increase your libido? I come here for the cricket. Ffs - craic!" Make your mind up Phooey. Can't be craic and cricket. | |||
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"It’s always high as I have a high sex drive As for fab sometimes it increases it sometimes it drops it to the floor Depending on posts or photos But never complain as everyone is intitled to post and photos as they wish within the rules So it’s my fault for reading / looking in the first place "Exactly! You don't have to click on that photo, you don't have to read certain threads. Sometimes I'll willingly descend in to the second circle of Hell, sorry, Swinger's Chat to towel dry any arousal. | |||
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Today is a bit 'meh' because of a persistent headache but we have a few days away and mojo has already packed her suitcase and is raring to go!
Fab doesn't change where on the scale my libido is unless there's some pretty spicy flirting happening in my box 
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"It’s always high as I have a high sex drive As for fab sometimes it increases it sometimes it drops it to the floor Depending on posts or photos But never complain as everyone is intitled to post and photos as they wish within the rules So it’s my fault for reading / looking in the first place
Exactly! You don't have to click on that photo, you don't have to read certain threads. Sometimes I'll willingly descend in to the second circle of Hell, sorry,
Swinger's Chat to towel dry any arousal."Ahhh swinger chat I try and stay out off there sometimes I stray in and out not much more so this time that I have closed a door for good | |||
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"Mental libido is ALWAYS in overdrive, I'd class myself very much as hypersexual. Alas work patterns sometimes means the physical libido suffers, no matter how much the brain wants it, all the body wants to do is sleep" Oh interesting, I didn't know the exact definition of hypersexuality until about thirty seconds ago. Learnt something new! Does Fab affect it? | |||
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"What's your libido like currently? What's it generally like? Does being on Fab (as in logged on to the site) increase or dampen it? Oh, it could have no effect I suppose so yeah, add that on. Gosh, is it meant to increase your libido? I come here for the cricket. Ffs - craic! Make your mind up Phooey. Can't be craic and cricket." It's the bloody auto correct. It changes words after I have typed them. That really is just not cricket! | |||
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"In a constant state of high alert much like the trident program but mostly a waste of resources much like the trident program " Bravo. Posters like you give me hope for the fora. | |||
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"What's your libido like currently? What's it generally like? Does being on Fab (as in logged on to the site) increase or dampen it? Oh, it could have no effect I suppose so yeah, add that on. Currently it is very high I had some great sex last night but never got to finish as the lady had to go. The warm weather is making it super high too. Too many baddies about" Baddies. The weather is definitely doing something to most people (not Miss C and her minions) - had someone's great, great Uncle come to tell me about how beautiful my skin colour is. I just wanted to drink an iced caramel latte and sit and stare at my screen in peace. | |||
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"What's your libido like currently? What's it generally like? Does being on Fab (as in logged on to the site) increase or dampen it? Oh, it could have no effect I suppose so yeah, add that on." Mine's fairly low at the moment. It's not been great for a while...actually, it's more complicated than that. I still love looking at the beauty of a naked female body, and making out and going down on women right now still would be a great thrill. But I have little desire to actually fuck. Unusually I'm not even feeling the need to masturbate that often - when I was younger it was at least a twice-daily thing, sometimes more. Now I'm having to make myself do it in the hope that making myself come will help train my brain into wanting orgasm more often. Why? A combination of factors I suspect. Age might be part of it. The after-effects of lockdown and other stressors on my mental health likely. Relative lack of sex over the last few years (again, lockdown) leading to lower sexual confidence. I've started exercising more, partly in the hope of getting happy chemicals pumping around my body and brain. Does being on Fab impact this? Well, if I find some amazingly sexy videos that have been uploaded by hot Fabbers, or if a steamy chat develops with someones (not happened recently) then it can improve my libido for the time I'm engaging with them. I appreciate I've just talked myself out of getting any meets with anyone who reads the forum but you asked, so I'm being honest. | |||
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"Mental libido is ALWAYS in overdrive, I'd class myself very much as hypersexual. Alas work patterns sometimes means the physical libido suffers, no matter how much the brain wants it, all the body wants to do is sleep Oh interesting, I didn't know the exact definition of hypersexuality until about thirty seconds ago. Learnt something new! Does Fab affect it?" Best way to describe it, Ace/Asexual is zero sexual desire at all, hyper is I can be thinking about any situation, a simple "I've not seen this person in so long, I should message them" and within a half hour my ridiculously overactive imagination will engineer a scenario with that person, even friends I have no conscious desire to sleep with. On the physical side, I can be ready at a moments notice and repeatedly with people I do want to play with. I'm not even sure if hypersexual is the correct term but to me it's the best thing that fits As for fab affecting it, it can definitely stimulate the imagination when I find a profile I like, rarely dows it decrease the libido, my equivalent I guess would be zero increase from my baseline | |||
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"I keep overthinking mine away. I want to get back to where things were. But I don't know if that's possible. And every time I get that little spike of libido trying to raise its head, my gremlins tell me I'm just lying to myself because I think I'm a failure for lacking it lately. It's a bad time to be my cunt. Or throat. Or arse "Prey, this is really crap. You're a throat sister.  I really hope those goblins fuck off for you soon - you'll get back to where you were, I know you will. x | |||
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"I can be happily ignoring my libido, going about my foruming, and then one little compliment from an attractive woman and my head is turned. Maybe I have a praise kink or something. (It’s usually women who talk about having one of those though, isn’t it?) " I was going to write exactly this, shall we convince ourselves that this is the best way to be? | |||
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"I think it goes up and down to be honest. When I've not had sex in a while, then it's pretty low as it's something I've become accustomed to. If I know I have plans or have had sex recently, I can't get enough! At the minute, I would say it's pretty low, but that's because other things are on my mind at the minute
Yes, the more you have it the more you want it kind of thing! I hope it's good other things on your mind rather than anything negative Joe."It definitely is! Rome in 2 weeks so a lot of planning around that! Woooo! | |||
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"I think mines broken. Been logged on here definitely doesn't fix it. " Not even flirting with the owner of a pretty penis? You do have a libido sometimes - your threads, posts can have a definite "fuck me" motif to them. Admittedly the next day it's back to "fuck off". | |||
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"With me, the warmer the weather the hotter my libido burns
Today is a bit 'meh' because of a persistent headache but we have a few days away and mojo has already packed her suitcase and is raring to go!
Fab doesn't change where on the scale my libido is unless there's some pretty spicy flirting happening in my box
Cherry x "Not the meh Cherry, no! Yay to having a few days away though. Zero doubt about you making the most of it and your libido roaring in to life. Flirting definitely increases libido when it's wanted. Reciprocated. | |||
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"I can be happily ignoring my libido, going about my foruming, and then one little compliment from an attractive woman and my head is turned. Maybe I have a praise kink or something. (It’s usually women who talk about having one of those though, isn’t it?) " I didn't need to see your username to know this was you Rosie; that's a compliment, albeit an odd one. It is, I was talking about it the other day with a... person. It's kind of a shame that more men don't feel comfortable saying they have a praise kink. I like giving men compliments and seeing how they respond, those little half smiles, the warmth that lights up their face. Men can definitely have a praise kink and it's sexy when they do. | |||
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"I was going to write exactly this, shall we convince ourselves that this is the best way to be?" Positive mental attitude! I like it. I’m in. It works offline as well. I was giving someone a kiss goodbye the other day, until she said “Oh, you are a *really* good kisser!” And then it wasn’t goodbye at all and I kissed her again instead. And again. And again. My libido went from 0–60 just like flicking a switch. | |||
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"… that's a compliment, albeit an odd one." I think you did that on purpose, didn’t you? | |||
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"What's your libido like currently? What's it generally like? Does being on Fab (as in logged on to the site) increase or dampen it? Oh, it could have no effect I suppose so yeah, add that on." Apparently mine has just this minute decided to wake up ... ffs ...fml .. | |||
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"What's your libido like currently? What's it generally like? Does being on Fab (as in logged on to the site) increase or dampen it? Oh, it could have no effect I suppose so yeah, add that on. Apparently mine has just this minute decided to wake up ... ffs ...fml .." *checks for visits to my profile* | |||
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"What's your libido like currently? What's it generally like? Does being on Fab (as in logged on to the site) increase or dampen it? Oh, it could have no effect I suppose so yeah, add that on. Apparently mine has just this minute decided to wake up ... ffs ...fml .. *checks for visits to my profile* " | |||
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"It’s high. In fact very high. It’s not often low but the start of this year it was low for a while. Now I’m back to my usual can’t-get-enough-of-the-sex kind of libido. Fab doesn’t effect it either way "Well, in the words of the song - don't stop til you get enough | |||
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"It’s high. In fact very high. It’s not often low but the start of this year it was low for a while. Now I’m back to my usual can’t-get-enough-of-the-sex kind of libido. Fab doesn’t effect it either way
Well, in the words of the song - don't stop til you get enough"There’s never enough  | |||
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"It’s high. In fact very high. It’s not often low but the start of this year it was low for a while. Now I’m back to my usual can’t-get-enough-of-the-sex kind of libido. Fab doesn’t effect it either way
Well, in the words of the song - don't stop til you get enough
There’s never enough "Sounds like you need a series of lovers to take it in turns satisfying you. An onerous task but I'm sure you'll find a few people willing to make the sacrifice | |||
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"It’s high. In fact very high. It’s not often low but the start of this year it was low for a while. Now I’m back to my usual can’t-get-enough-of-the-sex kind of libido. Fab doesn’t effect it either way
Well, in the words of the song - don't stop til you get enough
There’s never enough
Sounds like you need a series of lovers to take it in turns satisfying you. An onerous task but I'm sure you'll find a few people willing to make the sacrifice "
and yet someone put a post earlier saying women don’t enjoy sex as much as men…
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"My libido is pretty high right now as I've been reading old diaries of when I had sex much more often than now. That makes me look at Fab, not the other way round." You wrote a diary. And not just any diary, but a sex diary? And you revisited the contents? Not sure what to think. | |||
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"It’s high. In fact very high. It’s not often low but the start of this year it was low for a while. Now I’m back to my usual can’t-get-enough-of-the-sex kind of libido. Fab doesn’t effect it either way
Well, in the words of the song - don't stop til you get enough
There’s never enough
Sounds like you need a series of lovers to take it in turns satisfying you. An onerous task but I'm sure you'll find a few people willing to make the sacrifice
and yet someone put a post earlier saying women don’t enjoy sex as much as men…
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"It’s high. In fact very high. It’s not often low but the start of this year it was low for a while. Now I’m back to my usual can’t-get-enough-of-the-sex kind of libido. Fab doesn’t effect it either way
Well, in the words of the song - don't stop til you get enough
There’s never enough
Sounds like you need a series of lovers to take it in turns satisfying you. An onerous task but I'm sure you'll find a few people willing to make the sacrifice
and yet someone put a post earlier saying women don’t enjoy sex as much as men…
#notallwomen
Well...maybe they're speaking from their own experience? "I’m sure they are | |||
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"Libido always through the roof the combination of artificially high testosterone levels and using cialis as a pre workout means arousal comes very easy haha Here has no effect on it though I read forums purely for entertainment " But Fab is more than the forums isn't it? Do you not ever find yourself talking to someone on here and feeling a brief glimpse of arousal? | |||
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"It’s high. In fact very high. It’s not often low but the start of this year it was low for a while. Now I’m back to my usual can’t-get-enough-of-the-sex kind of libido. Fab doesn’t effect it either way
Well, in the words of the song - don't stop til you get enough
There’s never enough
Sounds like you need a series of lovers to take it in turns satisfying you. An onerous task but I'm sure you'll find a few people willing to make the sacrifice
and yet someone put a post earlier saying women don’t enjoy sex as much as men…
#notallwomen
Well...maybe they're speaking from their own experience?
I’m sure they are "Women are told they should not enjoy sex, some believe it, the more the woman enjoys the more I do. Who knows what another is feeling | |||
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"Mine's fairly low at the moment. It's not been great for a while...actually, it's more complicated than that. I still love looking at the beauty of a naked female body, and making out and going down on women right now still would be a great thrill. But I have little desire to actually fuck. Unusually I'm not even feeling the need to masturbate that often - when I was younger it was at least a twice-daily thing, sometimes more. Now I'm having to make myself do it in the hope that making myself come will help train my brain into wanting orgasm more often. Why? A combination of factors I suspect. Age might be part of it. The after-effects of lockdown and other stressors on my mental health likely. Relative lack of sex over the last few years (again, lockdown) leading to lower sexual confidence. I've started exercising more, partly in the hope of getting happy chemicals pumping around my body and brain. Does being on Fab impact this? Well, if I find some amazingly sexy videos that have been uploaded by hot Fabbers, or if a steamy chat develops with someones (not happened recently) then it can improve my libido for the time I'm engaging with them. I appreciate I've just talked myself out of getting any meets with anyone who reads the forum but you asked, so I'm being honest. " Sorry to read about the stressors on your mental health and how it's affecting your libido. It sounds really quite a difficult time for you. I hope exercise helps you with endorphins and more confidence O-F, x | |||
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"Libido always through the roof the combination of artificially high testosterone levels and using cialis as a pre workout means arousal comes very easy haha Here has no effect on it though I read forums purely for entertainment But Fab is more than the forums isn't it? Do you not ever find yourself talking to someone on here and feeling a brief glimpse of arousal? " I only really use the forums nowadays it’s been a quite a while since I talked at any length with anyone on here | |||
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" Sorry to read about the stressors on your mental health and how it's affecting your libido. It sounds really quite a difficult time for you. I hope exercise helps you with endorphins and more confidence O-F, x" Thanks OP. All it's got me so far are aching legs! But I shall continue. | |||
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"What's your libido like currently? What's it generally like? Does being on Fab (as in logged on to the site) increase or dampen it? Oh, it could have no effect I suppose so yeah, add that on." Libido fair. Not top form. But I should be more selective with my penis anyway. I think it's nice to be in a place that isn't quite vanilla, which I enjoy. Don't get me wrong Meli, despite your advances ( ) it, I'm keeping it strictly professional
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