FabSwingers.com forum: and you wonder why!!!

By *ot to giggle OP Woman
31 weeks ago

Coventry

and you wonder why people dont respond to messages or meet !!

this morning blanket bombed with 'I would like to have sex with you, Please pick a day, in the daytime that suits you'

and thats not my best over the weekend apart from the pratt I had agreed to meet deciding to message at 1.30am about come commando and im going to lick your pussy out! - we were meeting for a social - dont do d*unk texting

oh and the delightful idiot who suggested that he would like to 'rape' me ......... yea reported.

my female fab friend heard from the top one as well this morning. And they wonder why they cant get a meet !!!!

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By *ittlemissTinselTitsCouple
31 weeks ago

Southampton

Fucking hell! That's awful... wtf is wrong with some people??

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
31 weeks ago

Herts/Beds/Lomdon

Better that they communicate this way than try to conceal how they really are. It makes it easier to spot the ones with zero interpersonal skills, or who see other people as a utility.

They can get in the bin.

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
31 weeks ago

Herts/Beds/Lomdon

And the one you reported needs a visit from the police.

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By (user no longer on site)
31 weeks ago

I wish this was shocking. I’m sorry you got these. That’s awful. Hopefully admin can report the R one to the police too.

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By (user no longer on site)
31 weeks ago

Hugs

That you been blanket bombed with smut

Sorry I can’t resist but I am going to blanket bomb you with charm

So how about you put your feet up on the couch and let me fetch you a blanket and put your favourite movie on as I do the house work beautiful

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By *ot to giggle OP Woman
31 weeks ago

Coventry

"Hugs

That you been blanket bombed with smut

Sorry I can’t resist but I am going to blanket bomb you with charm

So how about you put your feet up on the couch and let me fetch you a blanket and put your favourite movie on as I do the house work beautiful "

awwww my lovely thank you - i know there are some really lovely people on here - I do know quite a few.

Just felt a bit jaded over the weekend with the rubbish messages xx

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By *ot to giggle OP Woman
31 weeks ago

Coventry

and of course the messages from the guys that feel hard done by because of a no message! had a few of those this weekend as well!!

BUT and it is a positive BUT - there are some really lovely people here - just have to dig through the pond life to find the clear water!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
31 weeks ago

"Hugs

That you been blanket bombed with smut

Sorry I can’t resist but I am going to blanket bomb you with charm

So how about you put your feet up on the couch and let me fetch you a blanket and put your favourite movie on as I do the house work beautiful

awwww my lovely thank you - i know there are some really lovely people on here - I do know quite a few.

Just felt a bit jaded over the weekend with the rubbish messages xx"

Your welcome anytime and it’s quite all right I can relate and understand about the message so no need to explain or apologise xx

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By *carlet SeductionWoman
31 weeks ago

Maidstone

I don't read my messages. Actually that's a lie. I read the ones with attractive pics. I've not read an abusive message in months as I've found those that make an effort with their profile also send nice messages. Works for me.

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By *rBobbMan
31 weeks ago

Birmingham

I'm sorry you had to receive messages like that. Sending you a big hug and I hope that you have a better day today

xxxx

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By *rHotNottsMan
31 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham

You think they would at least use Calendry!

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By *tanley FunseekerMan
31 weeks ago

stanley

Sorry to hear this OP. Sending hugs, hope the week ahead is much better for you

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By *BWLOVER1965Man
31 weeks ago

My Own Little World

"and of course the messages from the guys that feel hard done by because of a no message! had a few of those this weekend as well!!

BUT and it is a positive BUT - there are some really lovely people here - just have to dig through the pond life to find the clear water!!!"

No truer word said dig and you will find the gold scrape the surface and you will get the dregs personally don’t message women on hear have chatted to some amazing people guys as well as women

Have glorious day all stay positive enjoy the sun while it lasts anyway x

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By *ellhungvweMan
31 weeks ago

Cheltenham

"You think they would at least use Calendry! "

That seems like a reasonable basic requirement

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By *TG3Man
31 weeks ago

Dorchester

"and of course the messages from the guys that feel hard done by because of a no message! had a few of those this weekend as well!!

BUT and it is a positive BUT - there are some really lovely people here - just have to dig through the pond life to find the clear water!!!"
Their are some lovely people here

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By *ACOLCouple
31 weeks ago

limerick

Honestly I sympathise with the single women here, it's so scary here if one isn't careful.

People are just too much sometimes.

Lina.

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By *eroLondonMan
31 weeks ago

Mayfair

It's awful and dreadful to read all those horrendous things, OP. I'm sorry to hear that.

Rest assured, here amongst the forå folk, you can find some modicum of sanctuary and light-hearted distractions.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
31 weeks ago

Reading

Seems some men think the women on this site are free sex workers ready to drop their knickers for anyone who asks. I agree it totally turns me off too

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By *isstinseltoesWoman
31 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

Wow, sorry you had the R one, that's absolutely vile. Hope you're ok and glad you reported..

The absolute idiots out themselves with these messages at least, so they can be blocked.

I use lots of filters, but the odd Moron still slips through.

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By *oozleMan
31 weeks ago

high wycombe

I think what’s needs overall is more respect for each other.

People need to think more about what they write and how that could be seen by the recipient.

Part of the fun of being here is to reach out to like minded people, form a connection and see what might come of it.

Block button engage!!

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By *odgerMooreMan
31 weeks ago

Nowhere

The messages the ladies get from a significant minority?? Of guys on here makes me want to puke. Im amazed any ladies stay here at times x

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By *he DM is always rightMan
31 weeks ago

Derby

Can I apologise on behalf of my gender. I just don't get people who think that type of behaviour is acceptable. Yes, we all know what type of site it is, but there aren't any excuses

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By *eroLondonMan
31 weeks ago

Mayfair

"Can I apologise on behalf of my gender..."

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No you may not. If it's one thing I find unpalatable and offensive on here is the unwitting men who think they can whiteknight and make apologies for the masses who have done nothing wrong. In doing so, on the fora, you are preaching to the converted, so to speak.

The perpetrator/s should be the one apologising.

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By *hrek101Man
31 weeks ago

Herts

"Can I apologise on behalf of my gender...

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The perpetrator/s should be the one apologising."

This..I don't need anyone to apologise on my behalf

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By *illy IdolMan
31 weeks ago

Midlands

I apologise on his behalf^

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By *ittlemissTinselTitsCouple
31 weeks ago

Southampton

Oh I've had someone tell me him and his mate would do what they wanted to me in front of my husband

... and another guy tell me he would have deliberately ripped a condom if he had shown up.to the meet ...

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By *agerMorganMan
31 weeks ago

Canvey Island

"Can I apologise on behalf of my gender...

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The perpetrator/s should be the one apologising."

Hear hear.

I don’t need anyone apologising on my behalf for actions I have not committed.

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By *istr3ssWoman
31 weeks ago

Stockton-on-Tees

"Seems some men think the women on this site are free sex workers ready to drop their knickers for anyone who asks. I agree it totally turns me off too"

Agree. The amount of messages I get basically demanding that I drop everything to meet them immediately is ridiculous

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By *ellhungvweMan
31 weeks ago

Cheltenham

"Can I apologise on behalf of my gender...

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The perpetrator/s should be the one apologising."

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By *iddlesticksMan
31 weeks ago

My nan’s spare room.

"Seems some men think the women on this site are free sex workers ready to drop their knickers for anyone who asks. I agree it totally turns me off too

Agree. The amount of messages I get basically demanding that I drop everything to meet them immediately is ridiculous "

Are you busy

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By (user no longer on site)
31 weeks ago

Wtf!! I do feel for the women on here... and I also think it makes it harder for the genuine/normal guys on here!!

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By *iddlesticksMan
31 weeks ago

My nan’s spare room.

"Oh I've had someone tell me him and his mate would do what they wanted to me in front of my husband

... and another guy tell me he would have deliberately ripped a condom if he had shown up.to the meet ... "

Ooh I could rip a condom.

Not quite the same as

I could crush a grape.

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By *iddlesticksMan
31 weeks ago

My nan’s spare room.

"Wtf!! I do feel for the women on here... and I also think it makes it harder for the genuine/normal guys on here!!"

Arguably it also makes it easier when you are obviously not a dick head.

If that makes sense.

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By *own PeriscopeMan
31 weeks ago

From the island

As a sex there is definitely I lot of credence to why women would feel they have better chances with a bear. We really don't sell ourselves well.

It's far to sadly predictable on here

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By *tephanjMan
31 weeks ago

Kettering

Oh dear some men are downright idiots, have they not worked out that you treat everyone with respect and just because they are on this site doesn't mean they will have sex with just anyone

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By (user no longer on site)
31 weeks ago

I had one who wants to bite my nose. weirdo.

This is why I like using filters.

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By *ot to giggle OP Woman
31 weeks ago

Coventry

Thank you for your lovely messages, and comments.

The contributors on the site understand, and thanks but you dont need to apologise for the idiots.

Its for those lurkers who read from the shadows, for those that complain at slow messages, no replies or lack of whatever!

We are living breathing people at the other side of the screen. Everyone does it to what suits them. Respect, thats all thats needed!!! And manners.

Thanks xx

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By *eyond PurityCouple
31 weeks ago

Lincolnshire

It’s amazing how some people act - this is why we chat and chat until we agree to meet for a social.

We chat about anything and everything - not just to see if there’s a sexual connection and if no red flags come up then we agree to meet for a social.

Some people amaze us with how they present themselves

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By *ittlemissTinselTitsCouple
31 weeks ago

Southampton

"Oh I've had someone tell me him and his mate would do what they wanted to me in front of my husband

... and another guy tell me he would have deliberately ripped a condom if he had shown up.to the meet ...

Ooh I could rip a condom.

Not quite the same as

I could crush a grape. "

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By (user no longer on site)
31 weeks ago

"I had one who wants to bite my nose. weirdo.

This is why I like using filters. "

Is there a nose bite filter?

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By *endalshaggersCouple
31 weeks ago

Kendal

That's absolutely disgusting, especially the R*** one. Good on you for reporting.

Unfortunately some people are just sick individuals.

That or the fact so many men see this site as a "free for all" to get their cock wet - then we have multiple posts in forums because they need "profile advice" or can't get a meet.

Obviously there are some decent gentlemen on here but the actions of a few spoil it for the majority.

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By *ea monkeyMan
31 weeks ago

Manchester (he/him)

I think that this weekend has been brought to us by the message; ‘Wear a hat in the sun and drink plenty of fluids’. There has been a lot of people around that have been drinking the lake water and not just on here

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By *empest2KMan
31 weeks ago

Derby

"Oh I've had someone tell me him and his mate would do what they wanted to me in front of my husband

... and another guy tell me he would have deliberately ripped a condom if he had shown up.to the meet ...

Ooh I could rip a condom.

Not quite the same as

I could crush a grape. "

OT, but I remember that ‘I could crush a grape’ catchphrase. I'm pretty sure it was Stu Francis (not the Canadian comedian), and I'm pretty sure I remember seeing him in Bournemouth being followed by the paparazzi as I walked in the opposite direction during the 1980s.

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By *ickyKlungespeareMan
31 weeks ago

St Leonards

That's terrible.

Also, you haven't replied to my request to poo on you whilst singing La Marseillaise yet.

I've assumed you have a lot of messages, and it's your oversight, but just a friendly reminder Giggles.

For which I expect you to be grateful, as is your place.

Me xxxx

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By *mf123Man
31 weeks ago

with one foot out the door

But thats the only way to be knee deep in an sea of vagina before the cock rot sets in damn it

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By *ig manXXXMan
31 weeks ago

northwich

Just makes it harder for everyone else we all get tared with the same brush which is not right

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By *tanley FunseekerMan
31 weeks ago

stanley

"Oh I've had someone tell me him and his mate would do what they wanted to me in front of my husband

... and another guy tell me he would have deliberately ripped a condom if he had shown up.to the meet ...

Ooh I could rip a condom.

Not quite the same as

I could crush a grape.

Crackerjack!!!

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By *ambertMan
31 weeks ago

Cheltenham

A day in the day time? I only meet on nighttime days

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