FabSwingers.com forum: Do you delete friends on here?

By (user no longer on site) OP
31 weeks ago

What reasons?

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By *os_GoddessofdawnWoman
31 weeks ago

In the clouds

I just don't add any.. Easier

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By *hatsWhatCoupleCouple
31 weeks ago

Northampton

We don’t like then anymore

Seriously though it depends how they were added.

In general we have met all of our friends. But sometime the horn gets the best of us. If we end up with friends and have no realistic prospect of meeting then we remove them and put on hotlist.

Essentially it’s controlling our images

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By (user no longer on site)
31 weeks ago

If we stop talking usually.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
31 weeks ago

"If we stop talking usually. "

Do they message you about it?

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By *rsMistyPeaksWoman
31 weeks ago

Essex

Yes.

If we don’t speak for weeks. I delete.

If I have a bad few days. I delete.

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By *mmaleiaWoman
31 weeks ago

Trowbridge

My friends list consists of people I’ve met & people I really want to meet

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By (user no longer on site)
31 weeks ago

Yes. Usually because I don't want them on my friends list any more.

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By *mmaleiaWoman
31 weeks ago

Trowbridge

I delete if I no longer want to meet them

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By *agatoXXXMan
31 weeks ago

Gone and completely forgotten.

Y'all have friends?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
31 weeks ago

"My friends list consists of people I’ve met & people I really want to meet "

Same.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
31 weeks ago

"Yes.

If we don’t speak for weeks. I delete.

If I have a bad few days. I delete.

Rah.

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By *elloWoman
31 weeks ago

alpha centauri

I only accept friend requests from people I've actually met and who I'm interested in meeting again. So unless we had a falling out and I wouldn't meet them again then they stay in the list

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By *luttyLaylaWoman
31 weeks ago

North West

Yeah.

I’m only friends with actual friends.

As time passes I delete if I don’t keep in touch with people.

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By *929Man
31 weeks ago

newcastle

No I dont see the harm in them being there, I only have 4, 2 of them added me a few years back then never said a word since haha

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By (user no longer on site)
31 weeks ago

"If we stop talking usually.

Do they message you about it?"

No ha people move on etc it's the nature of swinging.

I tend to just stick to the club now , it's easier for me and I can keep up with friends whilst there face to face instead of trying to arrange a time and place to meet. We come across each other as and when.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
31 weeks ago

I’ve never deleted friends before I’m just curious I guess. I guess I feel like people would take offence. Would I take offence? Idk. I also feel like if they’re upset at you not contacting them they’d delete why haven’t they contacted you?

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By *tsJustKateWoman
31 weeks ago

London

"What reasons? "

Only if no contact for a while, or they do or say something offensive (which has happened)

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By *ittle Miss TinkerbellWoman
31 weeks ago

your head

Same as I would on any other social media, if I stop talking to them.

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By (user no longer on site)
31 weeks ago

If, big IF, anyone makes it onto my friends list they’re there until 1. They delete me or 2. I leave fab

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By *assing Fancies xCouple
31 weeks ago

Sherwood Forest

We have about 7 friends and haven't deleted anyone yet in the 6 years we've been on here

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
31 weeks ago

Wherever

Umm.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
31 weeks ago

"Umm.

Inspired by you

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
31 weeks ago

A den in the Glen

Lack of communication without and realistic chances of meeting. A glimmer is enough.

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By *he turned me GreyCouple
31 weeks ago

Warwick and Coventry

When they don't pay for my site supporter mbership

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By (user no longer on site)
31 weeks ago

If they drop off once they get the friend access.

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
31 weeks ago

Wherever

"Umm.

Inspired by you"

I knew straight away

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
31 weeks ago

Reading

Only if they get blocked. Or on a rare occasion i do a clean up and haven't spoken to a certaon person for months.

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By *r PantyMan
31 weeks ago

Morpeth

Yes if they piss me off ! Same with Facebook - they aren't real friends so who gives a fuck ?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
31 weeks ago

East Sussex

Used to but now we just leave them there.

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By *carlet SeductionWoman
31 weeks ago

Maidstone

Because I've changed my mind. I'm fickle like that.

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By (user no longer on site)
31 weeks ago

Sometimes

If we haven’t chatted for a while and the interest is gone, there’s no need to have them on there anymore.

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By (user no longer on site)
31 weeks ago

i have and she's not letting me forget it

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By *ittlemissTinselTitsCouple
31 weeks ago

Southampton

I've been deleted

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By *itSurreyCoupleCouple
31 weeks ago

Reigate

If there is no chance of meeting we would probably delete. And be expected to as well

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By (user no longer on site)
31 weeks ago

Reasons would be not in close contact, no longer comfortable with sharing pics or the moment has passed. My friends list is pretty small

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By *r TriomanMan
31 weeks ago

Chippenham Malmesbury area

I'll delete a Fab Friend if they never communicate, ignore my messages and show no money interest in meeting me; these are normally people who sent me the friends request.

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By *carlet SeductionWoman
31 weeks ago

Maidstone

"I'll delete a Fab Friend if they never communicate, ignore my messages and show no money interest in meeting me; these are normally people who sent me the friends request."

Wow. How much do you charge??

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By *eroLondonMan
31 weeks ago

Mayfair

Yes, I do, without compunction.

But I'm also torn somewhat on my reasons to cull a few people. To be honest I don't really have that many - about 10 or so after four years on here.

If they're friends of 'worth' then we've already moved onto Telegram or WhatsApp.

I've never sent a friend request; they've always been incoming. And if they're adding me simply to increase their retinue but not to keep in touch then they will be dismissed after a few months.

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By (user no longer on site)
31 weeks ago

I used to add people far too quickly, now I only have friends who are people I know I want the sex with. And I have to keep it under 10 or it freaks me out, I don't know why.

Unless we fall out or until I go unlos they'll stay a friend.

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By *eroLondonMan
31 weeks ago

Mayfair

I'm still waiting for her ^ friend request. I need a chuckle.. perhaps even a chortle, if not a guffaw.

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By (user no longer on site)
31 weeks ago

"I'm still waiting for her ^ friend request. I need a chuckle.. perhaps even a chortle, if not a guffaw."

Are you insinuating my friends pictures are laughable Nero?

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By *r TriomanMan
31 weeks ago

Chippenham Malmesbury area

"I'll delete a Fab Friend if they never communicate, ignore my messages and show no money interest in meeting me; these are normally people who sent me the friends request.

Wow. How much do you charge??"

Oops, I really should proofread before posting. But seeing as you s you asked Scarlett, I'm super cheap, a packet of Vegan Percy Pigs with secure you a few fun filled hours with me - I'll even share the sweets.

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By *ittlebirdWoman
31 weeks ago

The Big Smoke

Sometimes yep. Depends if they’ve been a cunt or not

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By *ang bang bangity bangCouple
31 weeks ago

Sunderland

Yeah sometimes. But then we both do the same in real life if we stop liking friends.

Great thing about friends is you get to chose them.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
31 weeks ago

little house on the praire

I've just looked, I've got 7 friends after 18 years.

I never look at my friends so wouldn't know if someone had deleted me or not

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By *urry BlokeMan
31 weeks ago

Stalybridge

I don't accept friends requests, let alone delete them

Those that matter on here can get me on WhatsApp

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By *inAndTonic21Couple
31 weeks ago

Merseyside

Friends are only deleted if contact is non existent and no point having it anymore

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By *carlet SeductionWoman
31 weeks ago

Maidstone

"I'll delete a Fab Friend if they never communicate, ignore my messages and show no money interest in meeting me; these are normally people who sent me the friends request.

Wow. How much do you charge??

Can't say fairer than that!! Love a percy pig!!

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By (user no longer on site)
31 weeks ago

Yes, when I see no point in having them around anymore. Not as in disposing of friends like I’d dispose of chewing gum after it’s lost its flavour. More so, I feel there’s no reason to allow access to my photos if we aren’t engaged in communication, actively meeting or making plans to meet.

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By *edeWoman
31 weeks ago

the abyss

Sometimes if there is no likelihood of us meeting and theres been no chat for a while - I like to keep things tidy

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By *imisugarWoman
31 weeks ago

Rugby

I delete from time to time.

Connection gone or human nature.

Sometimes I review who I want to see my friends only pictures.

If it's someone I'm unlikely to meet now, I'll also remove then.

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By *eroLondonMan
31 weeks ago

Mayfair

"I'm still waiting for her ^ friend request. I need a chuckle.. perhaps even a chortle, if not a guffaw.

Are you insinuating my friends pictures are laughable Nero? "

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There's only one way to find out, Råven. Nudge nudge, wink wink, 'double entendre' 'Carry On' style...

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By *ucka39Man
31 weeks ago

Newcastle

Have done in past

Reason because I could

Couldn't keep up with everyone

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
31 weeks ago

Central

No longer relevant etc

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By (user no longer on site)
31 weeks ago

Yes I do. Usually when I've said a polite no thanks to taking things further. Pretty fussy about who I add as a friend in the first place

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By *ilth N KinkCouple
31 weeks ago

Gloucester

Yes we delete. Especially if no longer chatting or unlikely to meet

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By *ansoffateMan
31 weeks ago

Sagittarius A

Body odour

Poor taste in Pizza toppings

Obsession with Ryan Gosling

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By *ookie46Woman
31 weeks ago

Deepest darkest Peru

I have done and do. Mostly if there’s been no contact for a while

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By *avexxMan
31 weeks ago

cheshire

yes i have done

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By *izzy.miss.lizzyCouple
31 weeks ago

Pembrokeshire

"What reasons? "

ghosting" no point having a long list of people on friends if they don't bother chatting at all

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By *ubFTMTV/TS
31 weeks ago

Swindon

Yes and non talkers mainly

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By *loss aka Miss JonesWoman
31 weeks ago

south coast IOW

Yes I add those ive met only these days and remove if we dont talk. Close fab friends i have on WhatsApp anyway.

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By *B69Woman
31 weeks ago

Wiltshire

Yes when there has been no communication after a while

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By *ohntall123Man
31 weeks ago

Biggleswade

I always feel bad lol so let them

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple
31 weeks ago

Neath valley.

If no communication after a good while. No point being on your friends list if they don't intend to chat

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By *amierebelMan
31 weeks ago

nae danger.

I've none left to delete

normally delete as there's been no communication their for a good while

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By *eliWoman
31 weeks ago

Yep. If I don't think it's going to work out for whatever reason or they're giving the bad kind of twunty vibes I'm quite quick to delete. It's very rare though, in the past four years I've only removed three profiles.

And that's with me having no more than fifteen on friends list at any given point.

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By *eah BabyCouple
31 weeks ago

Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria

We only have two or three people on friends we have not met, so everyone else we class as friends not just a fab friend which means no deleting.

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By (user no longer on site)
31 weeks ago

Yes. New friends usually get added with a view to meeting. After a while if that doesn't look as tho it will happen away they go

Mrs

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By *eyond PurityCouple
31 weeks ago

Lincolnshire

Our friends list are people we have met or know from chatting and potentially meeting.

We’ve cut down our friends list right down if people aren’t chatting or if there’s no reason to be friends now.

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By (user no longer on site)
31 weeks ago

If we don't speak or they start getting weird I delete

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