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By *rHotNotts OP Man
32 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Do you ever worry about safety ?

I probably take risks I shouldn’t especially in foreign countries. But I typically only meet when I think if it did go wierd or bad I could have the guy, but sometimes you simply don’t know who you are really meeting, I’ve entered a room before to find a woman & 4 close male friends when I was only expecting and had spoken to one guy.

One the other side I’ve been quite shocked how easily guys will just turn up and in some cases get naked and let me tie them to a chair before the woman has even arrived. I would NEVER do that.

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By *agerMorganMan
32 weeks ago

Canvey Island

I always insist on a social first in a public place before anything, that way I can gauge them & decide if I’m comfortable or not.

If they say no to a social, then they’re not for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
32 weeks ago

I have never met a couple, but Ive met guys before in private without meeting socially first.

I think I'm a pretty good judge of character and can spot the future star of Netflix a mile off. Being tied up by anyone is a huge no, do people not watch crime documentaries!?!

Men do tend to think with their downstairs brain more though and may get carried away. I know a guy that's done some pretty risky stuff but doesn't see the danger when sexual gratification is involved!

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By (user no longer on site)
32 weeks ago

"Do you ever worry about safety ?

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No. If I worried about my safety, I wouldn’t be meeting that person or couple.

Call me stupid call me whatever you want, but I have trusted everybody I’ve ever met.

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By *rHotNotts OP Man
32 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham

"I have never met a couple, but Ive met guys before in private without meeting socially first.

I think I'm a pretty good judge of character and can spot the future star of Netflix a mile off. Being tied up by anyone is a huge no, do people not watch crime documentaries!?!

It’s not just sex. The number of young men admitting to overtaking cars on a blind hills is shocking.

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By *esthetic21Man
32 weeks ago

Birmingham/Bristol

Safety is more important that getting off. Always think of of every possible situation

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By *esthetic21Man
32 weeks ago

Birmingham/Bristol

"I have never met a couple, but Ive met guys before in private without meeting socially first.

I think I'm a pretty good judge of character and can spot the future star of Netflix a mile off. Being tied up by anyone is a huge no, do people not watch crime documentaries!?!

It’s not just sex. The number of young men admitting to overtaking cars on a blind hills is shocking."
I've got a very high powered car and I haven't even driven it this year because I think about how dangerous it is especially on normal roads. I'm getting old lol

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By *ather WickmasMan
32 weeks ago

The Continental

I take zero risks when it comes to my activities here. Only this morning I received an offer at 3am from a single male profile. To join him and his woman at a holiday inn.

Young and horny me might have jumped on it, but I’m far more wary now. I either disturb an innocent persons sleep, or I walk into an ambush. Fk that!

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By (user no longer on site)
32 weeks ago

Social always the first step, although that’s normally to gauge chemistry as opposed to safety

Downstairs brain is never wrong

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By *riveinsaturdayXXXMan
32 weeks ago

Bristol

Last time I met a couple was pre-Covid. It was going beautifully. Then the guy shot his load, went off for a glass of water and got properly enraged seeing his GF riding me when he came back in the room, He pulled her off & threatened me. In the end, he left (the whole slamming door performance) and she & I dressed and I slunk out. Heart was racing - he was so angry, but it came out of nowhere. Up until he came, he was all smiles and enjoying the fun. I’ve been wary of meeting couples ever since, to be honest.

(Oh, I should add I made sure she felt safe hanging on for his return by herself. She was less flustered than me, & decided to go and see a friend rather than deal with him).

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
32 weeks ago

Herts/Beds/Lomdon

A friend got bashed through a popular hook up app. Sone then I’ve been a lot more wary.

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By *ornucopiaMan
32 weeks ago

Bexley

Thanks for the warning about the likelihood of being tied naked to a chair!

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By *esthetic21Man
32 weeks ago

Birmingham/Bristol

"Last time I met a couple was pre-Covid. It was going beautifully. Then the guy shot his load, went off for a glass of water and got properly enraged seeing his GF riding me when he came back in the room, He pulled her off & threatened me. In the end, he left (the whole slamming door performance) and she & I dressed and I slunk out. Heart was racing - he was so angry, but it came out of nowhere. Up until he came, he was all smiles and enjoying the fun. I’ve been wary of meeting couples ever since, to be honest.

(Oh, I should add I made sure she felt safe hanging on for his return by herself. She was less flustered than me, & decided to go and see a friend rather than deal with him). "
that sounds like an absolute nightmare

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By *riveinsaturdayXXXMan
32 weeks ago

Bristol

Yeah, I’ve never encountered such a 180 from someone. He was livid! Eek!!

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