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By (user no longer on site) OP
39 weeks ago

Why do some couples find it so hard to communicate what they need.

What’s some ways of encouraging your partner to open up about what they want

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
39 weeks ago

Staffordshire

R o h y p n o l

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By *ellinever70Woman
39 weeks ago

Ayrshire

Are you sure it's not about what you want?

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By *naswingdressWoman
39 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

Help them feel safe and heard. Look after them, get them what they need.

Don't assume that what you want is what they want. Don't put pressure on them.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
39 weeks ago

"Are you sure it's not about what you want?"

I was asking the question in regards to both parts of a couple

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By (user no longer on site) OP
39 weeks ago

"Help them feel safe and heard. Look after them, get them what they need.

Don't assume that what you want is what they want. Don't put pressure on them."

Thank you for the advice

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By *ohn.Wick.Man
39 weeks ago

The Continental

Just talk.

You’re adults.

Be adults, and have a conversation.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
39 weeks ago

"Just talk.

You’re adults.

Be adults, and have a conversation. "

Very true but somethings are harder to talk about than others

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