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By *ussypuss OP   Woman
over a year ago

South Birmingham waiting for the bf to come back after crimbo

I've actually just found my dad again and saw him yesterday. He left us when I was only little and there wasn't much contact between us over the following 20 years, but I did manage to keep tabs on where he was until 19 years ago when he disappeared without trace.

I found an address with a matching name last week and wanted to know whether it really was my dad. It's only 10 miles from home but with the vile weather I've been straining at the leash to get over there and find out.

I'm not the sort of person who can write a letter and sit patiently waiting to see whether I get a response, so I bit the bullet, prepared myself for it to be the wrong house, maybe the right house but to get the door slammed in my face, but I turned up unannounced, knocked the door and as the door opened, there stood my dad, he looked at me, opened his arms and pulled me into the biggest hug I've had since I was a little girl of about 6.

We sat and talked for a few hours and I didn't want to come home, I don't ever want to lose him again, I'm just so relieved and happy to have him in my life again.

I know none of you really want to hear me rambling on about this but after 5 years of crap in my life, I felt it had to be time for something good to happen and now it finally has, I want to shout it from the rooftops.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As long as your happy and good luck for the future

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lovely news.. Tread carefully tho!

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By *ady4ladyWoman
over a year ago

liverpool

Thats a fantastic story, good luck to you .......

Wish I had had the same outcome.

Bet you feel like all the pieces of the jigsaw fit now

enjoy x

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By *obnessMan
over a year ago

york

Thats a lovely story. Good on you for having the guts to do it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow !.

That's cheered me up , it's nice to hear some good news for a change .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

that's great news, a lot of catching up to do. all the best xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nice one!! Lovely to hear that, it couldn't have gone better

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

What a lovely story.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Brilliant news, I bet you'll be making up shed loads of lost time

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

Far better than an easter egg! Glad it worked out well for you xx

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By *am123Man
over a year ago

essex chelmsford

awww thats sweet what a nice story x

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By *lutandhubbyCouple
over a year ago

west midlands

remember you only have one mom and dad, when they are gone they are gone forever!. me and my dad didnt talk for years after a silly arguement, wish he was here now, so i could tell him how much i loved him .

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By *andj65Couple
over a year ago

Glasgow

So happy to hear your news...

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814


"Lovely news.. Tread carefully tho!"

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

That is wonderful news. Hope it works out for youxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Now see this is the sorta news thats refreshing to read! Nice one.. Hope all goes well for the future with you both.

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By *kywatcherMan
over a year ago

Southwick


"I've actually just found my dad again and saw him yesterday. He left us when I was only little and there wasn't much contact between us over the following 20 years, but I did manage to keep tabs on where he was until 19 years ago when he disappeared without trace.

I found an address with a matching name last week and wanted to know whether it really was my dad. It's only 10 miles from home but with the vile weather I've been straining at the leash to get over there and find out.

I'm not the sort of person who can write a letter and sit patiently waiting to see whether I get a response, so I bit the bullet, prepared myself for it to be the wrong house, maybe the right house but to get the door slammed in my face, but I turned up unannounced, knocked the door and as the door opened, there stood my dad, he looked at me, opened his arms and pulled me into the biggest hug I've had since I was a little girl of about 6.

We sat and talked for a few hours and I didn't want to come home, I don't ever want to lose him again, I'm just so relieved and happy to have him in my life again.

I know none of you really want to hear me rambling on about this but after 5 years of crap in my life, I felt it had to be time for something good to happen and now it finally has, I want to shout it from the rooftops.

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That is such an inspirational story.

As a father who has lost touch with his son I would love this scenario to happen.

I hope that you treasure every moment together from now on in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What a lovely story and I am so glad it turned out well, may you have many more years with him xxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Indeed a lovely story and I wish you every happiness in your newly revived relationship with your father.

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