FabSwingers.com forum: Age

By *r Analytic OP Man
32 weeks ago

Nuneaton

So Question time.

Is age a deal breaker to meet people?

Do you prefer older or younger?

And if so why?

For me I like to mix it up. I find I get different needs from different age's.

40+ they know what they want

30 to 40 more about boundary pushing

21 to 29 i like to teach

No one under 21 for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
32 weeks ago

I don’t prefer older or younger. Just depends on the vibe. On fab most people are older than me. Off of fab my experiences with women are usually with women closer to my age.

I wouldn’t be with anyone younger than 20. Probably 21 actually.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
32 weeks ago

Leeds

Do you have an upper age limit ?

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By *etal and KinkMan
32 weeks ago

Malice

There is definitely a lower age limit. Women of my age have skills.

No skills, no need.

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By *ealitybitesMan
32 weeks ago

Belfast

Yes it is a dealbreaker.

It's the first thing I look for on a profile and if they are below my lower age filter I don't even look at their pics.

I have daughters in their 30s so I won't meet or chat to anyone within 10 years of their ages.

It's not open for negotiation

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By (user no longer on site)
32 weeks ago

"Do you have an upper age limit ?"

His profile says 99!

It's the over 40...seems a broad generalisation.

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By *andynecklaceWoman
32 weeks ago

Someplace

I prefer older, not sure why but I always have.

I don't really go for people my own age or within similar age range but I'm more open to it now than I was before.

Wouldn't go for anyone younger that's just weird to me

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By (user no longer on site)
32 weeks ago

Always used to be about five years older, but as I have got older that has changed (also hopeless at guessing people's age when I meet them, so go on the personality and vibe)

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By *rFoxAndXenoCouple
32 weeks ago

Weymouth

We prefer slightly older most of the time, but have met similar to our age and younger

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By *icecouple561Couple
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32 weeks ago

East Sussex

Socially we're happy to mix with any age. If we're going to go further than that it's over 50

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By *ot to giggleWoman
32 weeks ago

Coventry

a lot depends on personality , connection and i often dont find that with much younger, so yea sort of stick to my age range but its not set in stone

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By *syoufindmeMan
32 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

Age to me does not matter as long as they are legal and consenting. Saying that I hooked up with a 24 year old and that felt a bit weird as I have 3 daughters ranging from 16 to 23. So for me no younger than 25.

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By *a LunaWoman
32 weeks ago

South Wales

I feel comfortable with men my age or older (much older!)

Younger men make me tense and nervous.

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By (user no longer on site)
32 weeks ago

As long as they’re born on a Tuesday and can guess my middle name, I’m good with letting them buy me a coffee.

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By * and R cple4Couple
32 weeks ago

swansea

We tend to stick to our age it's not set in stone tho but we won't meet under 30,s and I'm not attracted to older men..

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By *ickyKlungespeareMan
32 weeks ago

St Leonards

Hypothetically, 120 to 18 (ignoring FAB's 99 thing).

Realistically, 20s to 60s.

I avoid the bigoted, the ossified, and the dangerously (for them) gullible.

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By (user no longer on site)
32 weeks ago

I like to mix mine up but definitely wouldn’t go younger than 25

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By *orl1971Couple
32 weeks ago

Glasgow

We would generally go 35 and above up to maybe 65. Depends on the person. Some people can be in great shape and others not so much regardless of age.

We do generally think that couples, specifically the woman of the couple, below mid 40s might find us too old.

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By *JcuriousCouple
32 weeks ago

Derby

We prefer people older, always have done. Some (not all) people younger than us or similar age can't string a simple sentence together, like getting blood out of a stone.

Not even just in the swinging world either, normal life too in general.

Miss S x

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By *rBobbMan
32 weeks ago

Birmingham

Obviously I find myself outside a lot of people's age rang.

For me it's about the person and the connection you have with them. If you like each other and you are happy then it's a done deal in my eyes.

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
32 weeks ago

chichester

anyone 18+ if I find them sexy and its reciprecated ... usually though I find with men its mostly older men than me . women tend to vary couples usually are mid 30s to mid 50 ...

single women often range between 18-25 off other sites as I am friend with or in circles of alot of adult content types .. so tend to bounce around our own circles in that industry ... off fab I think the age of most women that meet me singly is probably 35-50

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
32 weeks ago

chichester

on fab even

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By *punk n gushCouple
32 weeks ago

deal

Personally prefer older than me but i seem to attract the younger ones

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By *partharmonyCouple
32 weeks ago

Ruislip

We're much more interested in attitude and maturity that age. It's just that maturity and age often correlate. We tend to be most attracted to mid-30s to mid 50s, so 15 years younger to about five years older.

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By *dambi00Man
32 weeks ago

Coalville

I have a thing for older men, 50s and above so I use this site to meet men. Not really attracted to men under 50, or women over 50, so I’ve turned down quite a few MMF offers due to either the woman being older then my preference, or the guy being younger

I like women close to my age so I usually meet them on nights out or dating apps

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
32 weeks ago

Reading

Its more about the person than the age. I know men my age who could give men in their 20s a run for their money staminawise.

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By *he Flat CapsCouple
32 weeks ago

Pontypool

We have set age ranges on our profile, but in the blurb we have indicated that these are guidelines rather than definitive cut offs - it would very much depend on the individual/couple, and of course we don't ask ages in clubs before making a decision whether to take things further.

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By *rHotNottsMan
32 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham

I think I have it set to 25 to 40 but do sometimes meet older.

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By *isstinseltoesWoman
32 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

My low limit is 36 and upper 57.

I wouldn't meet anyone too young ie late twenties /early 30s. Not would I meet over 57 ish.

I tend to prefer those around my age, give or take a few years either way.

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By *ggdrasil66Man
32 weeks ago

Saltdean

I have no desire to be involved with anyone under 40. I’m a granddad hoping to grow old disgracefully. No upper age limit, doesn't seem like there is much point these days.

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By *amale1Man
32 weeks ago

london

"I have no desire to be involved with anyone under 40. I’m a granddad hoping to grow old disgracefully. No upper age limit, doesn't seem like there is much point these days."

Old women for me, just love them more mature

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By *ggdrasil66Man
32 weeks ago

Saltdean

"I have no desire to be involved with anyone under 40. I’m a granddad hoping to grow old disgracefully. No upper age limit, doesn't seem like there is much point these days.

Old women for me, just love them more mature "

Agreed!

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
32 weeks ago

Leeds

I've no desire to meet anyone older than my parents or anyone who could be my child.

That's my age range.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
32 weeks ago

Are we talking the age on their profile or their real age?

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By (user no longer on site)
32 weeks ago

"Are we talking the age on their profile or their real age? "

Ohh you cynic

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By *ony MannMan
32 weeks ago

Las Gaviotos, Fuerteventura

One woman had to change her age limits after we talked, which was after ....

I have no limits as far as age goes, but don't actively look for anyone older than me

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By *ullsfan77Man
32 weeks ago

Torquay

Don’t really like to go under 30 but will if we were to click-upper age -early 50s.

My wife on the other hand-older is her kink-she is 45-tends to go 15-25 years older.

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By (user no longer on site)
32 weeks ago

"I like to mix mine up but definitely wouldn’t go younger than 25 "

Meant to put 30 not 25

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
32 weeks ago

The Town by The Cross

I'd like someone young , rich , short sighted and incapable.....

At the older end.... rich, one foot in the grave, attached to a heart monitor , incapable and very generous ....... thanks.

Who delivers ?

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By *itplayssoloWoman
32 weeks ago

leeds

My preference tends to be 25-45 (so 10 years older, 10 years younger) but going by how men on fab lie about their age, I’m presuming I’ve been with men older than that who are looking good for their age!

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By *mokes n MirrorsCouple
32 weeks ago

Plymouth and Newcastle (sometimes)

We do have an upper age limit but it's not set in stone as the only real criteria when we're looking to meet is if we fancy them and they also fancy us.

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By *asycouple1971Couple
32 weeks ago

midlands

It is for us. Wife only likes much older

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By *rBobbMan
32 weeks ago

Birmingham

It is surprisingly refreshing to see that some people are not to strict when it comes to the upper age limit.

I guess it is always something that I have been conscious about.

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By (user no longer on site)
32 weeks ago

Yes it’s a dealbreaker

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By *agerMorganMan
32 weeks ago

Canvey Island

I prefer older, as I find I tend to get on with older people better than younger for some reason.

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By *orace99Man
32 weeks ago

York

I have always believed that ages is just a number once adulthood reached.

I am definitely more person orientated as someone can be a dick at any age.

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By *oding1Man
32 weeks ago

marlow

I'm pleased to find some people really like much older people...

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By *redwilma666Couple
32 weeks ago

Kilbirnie

"Yes it is a dealbreaker.

It's the first thing I look for on a profile and if they are below my lower age filter I don't even look at their pics.

I have daughters in their 30s so I won't meet or chat to anyone within 10 years of their ages.

It's not open for negotiation "

Totally agree, our eldest is 45 & youngest is 38

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