FabSwingers.com forum: When you've had a crap day

By *inky_couple2020 OP Couple
35 weeks ago

North West

What do you recommend or do to cheer yourself up?

Today has been a waste of my breath and energy and would best to be erased from history.

Anyone got a TARDIS so I can go back and just sleep all day?!

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By *luebell888Woman
35 weeks ago

Glasgowish

Wine, loud music and a long walk with my dogs helps me.

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By *zeroMan
35 weeks ago

Glasgow

Sorry to hear OP.

I usually watch one of my favourite films or an episode of a TV series that I particularly like.

If that doesn't work plan B is to go to the gym and unleash my anger on the punchbag

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By *ohn.Wick.Man
35 weeks ago

The Continental

I lock myself in my craft room, stick a bit of music on, and do some model making/painting.

As for the TARDIS……can’t help there I’m afraid.

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By *inky_couple2020 OP Couple
35 weeks ago

North West

"Sorry to hear OP.

I usually watch one of my favourite films or an episode of a TV series that I particularly like.

If that doesn't work plan B is to go to the gym and unleash my anger on the punchbag

I'll hopefully be going to the gym after work tomorrow, but I need to get through that first

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By *esthetic21Man
35 weeks ago

Birmingham/Bristol

Smoke w e e d everyday

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago

Hot shower.

A few tears.

A fuck off glass of wine.

Snacks.

Mindless TV.

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By *inky_couple2020 OP Couple
35 weeks ago

North West

"Hot shower.

A few tears.

A fuck off glass of wine.

Snacks.

Mindless TV."

Yeah. Just holding off the tears bit cos I have to drive everyone home soon and need to be able to see.

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By *ivemealadybonerWoman
35 weeks ago

somewhere

I struggled today, first day home on my own (I'm thankful I had the cats there tbh) since our holiday, post holiday blues have set in, plus I also had a sad reality of how my life has changed over the last few months, so yeah, felt very tearful today. I'm also so unmotivated to do exercise too which doesn't help.

But I decided to get the hoover out, moved some bits around in the lounge, cooked my lunch and dinner so I wasn't dwelling and I feel a tad better.

Hope your day ends better OP, tomorrow is a new day x

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By *esthetic21Man
35 weeks ago

Birmingham/Bristol

Nah seriously though if I've had a shitty day I just tend to sit in silence with my thoughts. I always feel better after I've been to sleep

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By *angria_girlukWoman
35 weeks ago

LUTON

"What do you recommend or do to cheer yourself up?

Today has been a waste of my breath and energy and would best to be erased from history.

Anyone got a TARDIS so I can go back and just sleep all day?!

I had a similar day on Tuesday.

I blasted my car radio all the way to my Lovers house, let my self in, made myself a cocktail and waited for him to arrive. We ordered a delivery food and then went upstairs for a few orgasms. Felt much better!(we had planned a meet for that evening)

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By *amantha_JadeWoman
35 weeks ago

Newcastle

Sorry to hear you’ve had a crap day

A walk with my dog in the fresh air with my favourite music blasting in my headphones always helps to cheer me up. Then a hot shower, fresh pyjamas, light a few candles and a few episodes of a favourite tv programme

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago

Music gym

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By *inky_couple2020 OP Couple
35 weeks ago

North West

Sitting in the car outside dance practice is NOT the thing to cheer myself up

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By *anManCoolMan
35 weeks ago

Camborne

Exercise and then a soak in the bath and after that, read whatever book i have going

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By *ittlebirdWoman
35 weeks ago

The Big Smoke

You could always laugh lots at ranty threads on the forum

Or alternatively I’ll send boobie pics for a boobie hug OP. Sending hugs

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By *EAT..85Woman
35 weeks ago

Nottingham

Cuddles and someone to talk to.

Failing that, music and chocolate.

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago

I’m going to have alcohol and a bath. Maybe a cry. And not talk to anyone.

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By *BWLOVER1965Man
35 weeks ago

My Own Little World

"What do you recommend or do to cheer yourself up?

Today has been a waste of my breath and energy and would best to be erased from history.

Anyone got a TARDIS so I can go back and just sleep all day?!

Take away and early night

Works for me Friday tomorrow

New day weekend to come

Well cheers me up

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By *asycouple777Couple
35 weeks ago

bristol

Wine curry and comedy movie

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By *inky_couple2020 OP Couple
35 weeks ago

North West

I don't really drink alcohol and I defo won't be tonight.

My green tea is nearly all gone here in my thermal cup. Sad times.

Why isn't there a better signal here?! I'm only having 3 Gs

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By *assing Fancies xCouple
35 weeks ago

Sherwood Forest

Bacon, bread and lots of it

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By *ittlebirdWoman
35 weeks ago

The Big Smoke

"I’m going to have alcohol and a bath. Maybe a cry. And not talk to anyone. "

Why?

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By *ell GwynnWoman
35 weeks ago

North Yorkshire

Right now I don't know. Let me get through this agitated fidgety phase and I'll get back to you.

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By *inky_couple2020 OP Couple
35 weeks ago

North West

"Bacon, bread and lots of it

Not on a cob, I hope?!

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By *r Cheeky cheekyMan
35 weeks ago

essex

"Cuddles and someone to talk to.

Failing that, music and chocolate. "
definitely the first then second a third a dam good orgazzzzummm

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago

Definitely alcohol, usually a strong Malbec or similar.

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By *rBobbMan
35 weeks ago

Birmingham

"You could always laugh lots at ranty threads on the forum

Or alternatively I’ll send boobie pics for a boobie hug OP. Sending hugs "

It's an offer you really can't refuse

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By *uckurcumMan
35 weeks ago

Bishop Auckland

Don't dwell on the day .... Kick it out of your mind...

Tomorrow is definitely a better day

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By *avexxMan
35 weeks ago

cheshire

i go for a nice walk with dog it certainly helps me switch off from a crap day,,

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago

Call my Granddaughter for a ten minute chat.

Always cheers me up after a crap day.

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By *inky_couple2020 OP Couple
35 weeks ago

North West

I'm giggling inwardly at the walking suggestions

I'm gonna skip that one.

Actually, scrap that, can't skip either

It's only me laughing, I know

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago

"I’m going to have alcohol and a bath. Maybe a cry. And not talk to anyone.

Why? "

Work mostly and also some real life shit. Yktv

Baths make everything better

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By *inky_couple2020 OP Couple
35 weeks ago

North West

"I’m going to have alcohol and a bath. Maybe a cry. And not talk to anyone.

Why?

Work mostly and also some real life shit. Yktv

Baths make everything better"

Is there room for 2 in the bath? It's days like today when I miss having one. We only have a shower in the new house

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago

"I’m going to have alcohol and a bath. Maybe a cry. And not talk to anyone.

Why?

Work mostly and also some real life shit. Yktv

Baths make everything better

Is there room for 2 in the bath? It's days like today when I miss having one. We only have a shower in the new house

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not two adults

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By *icolasHidalgoDeCorazonMan
35 weeks ago

St Leonards

Look at vids of cute puppies with overly long ears and paws that are too big for them.

If that's too cute and you need some Schadenfreude, watch a video of a jaguar messing up a cayman.

Eat crisps for either/both

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By *inky_couple2020 OP Couple
35 weeks ago

North West

"I’m going to have alcohol and a bath. Maybe a cry. And not talk to anyone.

Why?

Work mostly and also some real life shit. Yktv

Baths make everything better

Is there room for 2 in the bath? It's days like today when I miss having one. We only have a shower in the new house

not two adults

Dayum

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By *r Black 85Man
35 weeks ago

nottingham

Alcohol and music for me

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By *eliWoman
35 weeks ago

I'm not sure what I'd recommend...

If I'm feeling low, it depends on the low I'm feeling.

Sometimes it means listening to Hamilton and kitchen dancing. Other times it means podcasts from my emotional support animals and hugs. Baking helps, that methodical routine, the exactness of it helps clear my mind. Watching or listening to something cathartic. Sometimes sex. If I'm an angry sad, it's gym then violin and not really talking to anyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago

"Alcohol and music for me

Yep this.

Tomorrow and Saturday is planned.

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By *inky_couple2020 OP Couple
35 weeks ago

North West

Why is dance class overrunning?! I need the loo!

FFS

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By *ambertMan
35 weeks ago

Cheltenham

I have a large dump and imagine those whom have wronged me are trapped in the toilet bowl

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By *inky_couple2020 OP Couple
35 weeks ago

North West

Now I've totally run out of tea. It's getting tense in this car now, with myself

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By *assing Fancies xCouple
35 weeks ago

Sherwood Forest

Mr PF said he'll come wiggle his bum for you

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By *ad NannaWoman
35 weeks ago

East London

I eat chocolate, drink Lucozade, what's that word for remembering good times in your childhood?,that, and feel tearful.

This was my day, after I had a nap.

Felt ok when I got up.

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago

Gin and Bridgerton tonight to help me after a crap day

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
35 weeks ago

Southampton

"What do you recommend or do to cheer yourself up?

Today has been a waste of my breath and energy and would best to be erased from history.

Anyone got a TARDIS so I can go back and just sleep all day?!

I'm sorry you've had a rubbish day ... mine too has been pretty crap.. I'd usually have a glass or two of wine ( hubby even bought me a bottle tonight ) but I can't even have so much as a sip because of the antibiotics I'm on ! Gahhhh

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By *ad NannaWoman
35 weeks ago

East London

"I'm not sure what I'd recommend...

If I'm feeling low, it depends on the low I'm feeling.

I have different kinds of low days. Some are triggered by the time of year, the weather, my tiredness, my stomach, and people.

Each one triggers a different kind of sadness or low mood.

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By *ony MannMan
35 weeks ago

Las Gaviotos, Fuerteventura

I go on WhatsApp and chat to a friend, I only have bad days when I'm away

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By *ansoffateMan
35 weeks ago

Sagittarius A

Cuddles and a bit of playfulness.

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By *ad NannaWoman
35 weeks ago

East London

"I eat chocolate, drink Lucozade, what's that word for remembering good times in your childhood?,that, and feel tearful.

This was my day, after I had a nap.

Felt ok when I got up."

It's nostalgic depression, apparently. Feeling sad when remembering happy times in the past.

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By *eliWoman
35 weeks ago

"I'm not sure what I'd recommend...

If I'm feeling low, it depends on the low I'm feeling.

I have different kinds of low days. Some are triggered by the time of year, the weather, my tiredness, my stomach, and people.

Each one triggers a different kind of sadness or low mood."

Yes! That's exactly it. It can vary so much and different types of sadness require different ways of being/dealing with it.

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By *ad NannaWoman
35 weeks ago

East London

"Gin and Bridgerton tonight to help me after a crap day"

Is that season 3?

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By *oeSurreyMan
35 weeks ago

Woking

If I’ve had a bad day, and Megan won’t take it up the arse, I tend to snap at house staff.

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By *inky_couple2020 OP Couple
35 weeks ago

North West

"Mr PF said he'll come wiggle his bum for you

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By *inky_couple2020 OP Couple
35 weeks ago

North West

Finally home and had a wee and now awaiting food

If I could be bothered, I'd explain why it's been a shitter.

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By *ittle Miss TinkerbellWoman
35 weeks ago

your head

My go to today has been sugar in many forms. Have chocolate? Sending hugs

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By *andynecklaceWoman
35 weeks ago

Someplace

Vodka and chill with friends

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
35 weeks ago

Herts/Beds/Lomdon

I’m pretty stoic about stuff going wrong. I won’t make it worse by allowing myself to feel bad about it, that’s paying twice.

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago

I remember, like just now, I haven’t taken my tablets.

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
35 weeks ago

Herts/Beds/Lomdon

"I remember, like just now, I haven’t taken my tablets. "

Take your tablets sweetie

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By *ools and the brainCouple
35 weeks ago

couple, us we him her.

Nice hot bath,long soak then chill out with pussy cat's early night and sleep.

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago

"I remember, like just now, I haven’t taken my tablets.

Take your tablets sweetie "
yes boss

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago

Bed with a book.

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago

Sorry to hear you have had a shit day. I personally love nothing more than turning the tunes up and singing loud, dancing like a lunatic.

If got the right company a good cuddle helps too

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
35 weeks ago

Southampton

"I remember, like just now, I haven’t taken my tablets. "

But you remembered you'd forgotten them, so that's a bonus xx

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
35 weeks ago

little house on the praire

Extra medication and try and sleep

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By *tylebender03Man
35 weeks ago

Manchester

I end up on here lol

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
35 weeks ago

Herts/Beds/Lomdon

"I remember, like just now, I haven’t taken my tablets.

Take your tablets sweetie yes boss

Good boy

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By *otthehorneMan
35 weeks ago

doggersville

I find that sex is a great way to forget a shitty day! However, I normally get rejected and end up in an even worse mood!!

Cheeky wank here and there also helps!!

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By *inky_couple2020 OP Couple
35 weeks ago

North West

"I remember, like just now, I haven’t taken my tablets. "

Awwwww Pickle! Have you taken your drugs now? I take mine at bedtime

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By *r Cheeky cheekyMan
35 weeks ago

essex

Powerful Orgazzzum a shared one or two even better

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago

Take comfort in knowing no two days are the same and troubles whatever they maybe are but a temporary glitch. Onwards and upwards as they say...

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By *a LunaWoman
35 weeks ago

South Wales

I listen to upbeat music or watch a rom com. Dog cuddles. Walks in the park. Being with my kids (unless it’s them that have put me in the mood!).

Mostly the music though.

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By *r Cheeky cheekyMan
34 weeks ago

essex

A new powerful orgazzzum helps

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